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Two People Should Get To Know Each Other Before Getting Married..I Have Been With This Guy For 3 Years And Honestly I Really Don't Know Anything About Him. I Love Him And He Loves Me But We Really Don't Know Anything About Each Other!
by Aidenmommy Aidenmommy
 08 Jul 2008 19:59  
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 I'm just weighing in here to get the points. I mean, what kind of question is this anyway ? I guess my comment would be "NO DUH - YA THINK?"
 05 Sep 2008 10:19
by Debossman Debossman
 I think you should know each other first!!
 08 Jul 2008 23:45
by Sarahf1 Sarahf1
 Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh] Duhhhhhhhhhh Duhhhhhhhhhh Duhhhhhhhhhhhh havnt youy watched sleeping with an enemy?
 30 Jul 2008 21:24
by Sunchippy Sunchippy
 Then it probably wouldn't be a good idea to get married, would it? I'm curious to know what you've been doing all this time if you haven't learned anything about each other.
 09 Jul 2008 02:04
by Robbier44 Robbier44
 That would be the best way. If you married some one you don't really know than it could turn out different than what you thought is would be and believe me when I say that it is cheaper and easier to get married than it is to get divorced. How could you marry some one when you don't truly know what type of person they are? Know how deep the lake is before you leap into it!
 17 Nov 2008 00:08
by Dragon143 Dragon143
 It would be nice to know someone that you're about to say you love, and will spend forever with.
 07 Nov 2008 17:27
by 1-ring 1-ring
 Yeah, i think two people should know each other before they get married. You might luv the person but you don't really know the person. PEOPLE NEED TO HAVE COMMON SENSE AND USE THEIR HEADS. What about sex, you need to know if that person can please you, if his private is too small or big or if he has a vagina.
 05 Nov 2008 16:09
by Anique Anique
 They should know each other before they get married because if not then it may lead up to misunderstandings and divorce.
 25 Oct 2008 04:38
by Kyut4ril Kyut4ril
 Of course they should who wouldn't do it?
 16 Oct 2008 10:58
by Axel43 Axel43
 Of course! That's all I have to say!
 10 Oct 2008 01:06
by Purple814 Purple814
 This is definitely a no brainer. Of course they should know each other very well. Pre arranged marriages just do not work
 09 Oct 2008 22:38
by Bifmeister Bifmeister
 For certain you must know each other, but honestly you will learn new things the rest of your life about your partner...at least that is what I have been told.
 03 Oct 2008 22:47
by Jacob05 Jacob05
 Defiantly- i would die i i had to have an arranged marriage and anyway it doesn't make sense if two people don't know each other and get married, really why would two people want to do that to each-other?
 02 Oct 2008 23:37
by Aberlee Aberlee
 They should know eachother well enough to know if it is love
 02 Oct 2008 12:17
by Gymfreak Gymfreak
 Yeah to live together long life you should understand each other
 24 Sep 2008 09:45
by Yasirbaqar Yasirbaqar
 Yes i think so, two people should know each other before getting married as its not a easy way they has to spend whole life together and for better understanding they should know each other.
 21 Sep 2008 12:53
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 Entering marriage is a serious life commitment and should not be entered into lightly. One should therefore know and accept their partner before they get married. Most importantly marriage should be based on love and trust.
 21 Sep 2008 03:45
by Kiwigirl89 Kiwigirl89
 Obviously, if you don't know each other, then how do you know if you guys are compatible?
 17 Sep 2008 19:18
by Arauzxa Arauzxa
 Its best you know each other before commitment to avoid such issues which may arise like lacking trust form one another and even faith.
 16 Sep 2008 15:41
by Kadafi Kadafi
 Well duh
 15 Sep 2008 04:54
by Batmanfan Batmanfan
 I agree! You cant marry some one you don't love! It is just wrong!!!
 09 Sep 2008 22:55
by Fluffball Fluffball
 You should definitely know the person your dating, and learn more about them. And same goes for the guy, he should know the girl. People are stupid, who get married right away, not knowing anything about one another. Duh huh!! It's common sense people get that through your heads.
 06 Sep 2008 04:10
by Lek Lek
 Hello what ever happened to falling in love and getting to know eachother before you marry?
 04 Sep 2008 03:43
by Reeree08 Reeree08
 Of course they should know each other. Because if don't know the person you got married to how do you know he wasn't a murder.
 29 Aug 2008 20:36
by Ratata Ratata
 You should always know a person before you marry. You should be confident in your relationship, and have respect for each other.... And faithfulness is a must! I have been with the same man for almost two years now. We live together and truly love each other. We have never argued, but we do get mad at each other. I know what makes him tick and he knows what makes me tick and when we are mad we leave each other alone and relax and then come back and talk about it rationally. We have several pets we call them our kids. We talk about everything even the silly stuff. I love his family and my family thinks the world of him. I honestly think this is a match made in Heaven. We plan to get married some day. My grand parents married straight out of school and they had a faithful loving relationship. My grandmother took care of my grandfather especially after they found out he had lung cancer. The cancer eventually spread to his lymph nodes and he had several strokes making him unable to do normal things. He was bead ridden for 5 years before he died and my grandmother was at his side every step of the way, she is my hero.
 29 Aug 2008 03:05
by Ryanna Ryanna
 Been there... Doing that...
 27 Aug 2008 11:11
by Kymm1969 Kymm1969
 O b v i o u s l y
 21 Aug 2008 06:02
by Aleska7587 Aleska7587
 I made the mistake of getting married to someone I "thought" I knew... Let's just say we are no longer together. We have a two year old son and everyday I have to deal with my ex, I see how much I fell in love with a stranger...
 17 Aug 2008 18:18
by Elysemama Elysemama
 Of coarse
 16 Aug 2008 07:01
by Spyro Spyro
 Duhhhhh you can't just know their name and get married
 08 Aug 2008 05:39
by Cutechik28 Cutechik28
 A couple should know each other before marrying. Marriage is such a serious union, ordained by God and not to be taken lightly. And a couple should never go into a marriage with the thought that they can divorce if it does not work out. That just starts a marriage out on the wrong path. Of course you won't know everything at the beginning, but as time goes by you will learn (and hopefully- love) each other more.
 05 Aug 2008 01:35
by Blondiemom Blondiemom
 Yes getting to know the person more first is the best thing to do. Yes a lot of things you'll find out while you married but that's part of marriage growth.
 30 Jul 2008 03:14
by Redeagle Redeagle
 If you don't know anything about him how do you know you really love him?
You have to really know a person...including all his words...before the idea of marriage should even come to mind.
If you've been with someone for 3 years and you don't know him, then I think there's things he might not feel comfortable revealing. I wonder what that could be? What have you been doing in 3 years to feel that your in love?
 30 Jul 2008 01:05
by Hershysue Hershysue
 Definitely. Couples should know each other before they get married because if they don't know each other, when they get married, they might have to get divorced and then they would regret not knowing each other .
 28 Jul 2008 01:27
by Athlete97 Athlete97
 Listen you should know a bunch about someone before getting married or else it might not workout
 26 Jul 2008 05:39
by 1-zoey-1 1-zoey-1
 I'm ONLY going against this because I don't believe you can fully know anybody 100%. If we did, we probably wouldn't get married; like someone else said. I met my hubby online, we dated for 3 months, he moved in with me and a year later we married. It's been 12 yrs now and we're still learning things about each other. This is my point....you're always learning something about each other. Marriage is hard work and is the responsibility of both partners to work at it and keep the fire(s) going. I think when you date your partner you should get to know everything YOU WANT to know, enough to satisfy you and make up your mind about marrying them, but like I said, I don't believe anyone can 100% know each other before marriage. Impossible....
 09 Jul 2008 16:36
by Mscupid Mscupid
 I think people should live together first !! You never really know someone their habits etc till you've lived with them
 10 Nov 2008 23:41
by Beamerman Beamerman
 Don't know what side to put this on but really to be honest with you ..U can get to a point where u THINK you know someone but after you marry they COMPLETELY change to a person you wouldn't think they are...Liveing partner is good unless your christian then it's not right
 03 Oct 2008 17:14
by Badkitty Badkitty
 Logically yes. Consider that there customs in our world where the spouses to be are chosen by parents. I think they should know each other, but even that will change because your life has changed. Dating the one you thought you knew can do a full turn once you sign the papers. Anyone wishing to marry sooner than they should, should do a background check.
 19 Sep 2008 08:20
by Gsharon710 Gsharon710
 Knowing before marriage will not give any idea about each other. Because no one can understand each other in short span of time(1 year or less than that). If any 1 dating more than this it is really nonsense....for understanding sake if they date more a year or 2.... This proves it's a stupid opinion. It's better to marry someone you know or better you love someone and even you can marry some unknown and then try try to know each day ....and make he/her happy.
 10 Sep 2008 22:15
by Goshtrider Goshtrider
 You can never really know someone you only know what they want you to know. My husband and I did't know each other all that good, but we did know we loved each other and we got married very shortly after we meet and have been together3 and a half years now and things are going great for us. But we are still getting to know each other .
 21 Aug 2008 20:52
by Turbojet Turbojet
 Not necessary because when you meet some one and date him/her you only meeting their representative. After marriage you start to know your partner but not completely still. Some people marry after months of dating and they do good, some people date for a long time and they don't last.
 24 Jul 2008 19:54
by Panson Panson
 I totally agree with mscupid! Your relationship wouldn't grow if you two know each other very well. You'll always look forward to know the person beside you when you wake up in the morning =)

But of course, you shouldn't get married with a stranger. Marry someone you know, but you are willing to know better each and every day =)
 11 Jul 2008 13:06
by Dude123 Dude123
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