 I'm just weighing in here to get
the points. I mean, what kind of
question is this anyway ? I guess
my comment would be "NO DUH - YA
THINK?"
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 05 Sep 2008 10:19
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 I think you should know each other
first!!
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 08 Jul 2008 23:45
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 Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]
Duhhhhhhhhhh Duhhhhhhhhhh
Duhhhhhhhhhhhh havnt youy watched
sleeping with an enemy?
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 30 Jul 2008 21:24
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 Then it probably wouldn't be a good
idea to get married, would it? I'm
curious to know what you've been
doing all this time if you haven't
learned anything about each other.
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 09 Jul 2008 02:04
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 That would be the best way. If you
married some one you don't really
know than it could turn out
different than what you thought is
would be and believe me when I say
that it is cheaper and easier to
get married than it is to get
divorced. How could you marry some
one when you don't truly know what
type of person they are? Know how
deep the lake is before you leap
into it!
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 17 Nov 2008 00:08
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 It would be nice to know someone
that you're about to say you love,
and will spend forever with.
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 07 Nov 2008 17:27
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 Yeah, i think two people should
know each other before they get
married. You might luv the person
but you don't really know the
person. PEOPLE NEED TO HAVE COMMON
SENSE AND USE THEIR HEADS. What
about sex, you need to know if that
person can please you, if his
private is too small or big or if
he has a vagina.
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 05 Nov 2008 16:09
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 They should know each other before
they get married because if not
then it may lead up to
misunderstandings and divorce.
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 25 Oct 2008 04:38
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 Of course they should who wouldn't
do it?
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 16 Oct 2008 10:58
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 Of course! That's all I have to
say!
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 10 Oct 2008 01:06
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 This is definitely a no brainer. Of
course they should know each other
very well. Pre arranged marriages
just do not work
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 09 Oct 2008 22:38
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 For certain you must know each
other, but honestly you will learn
new things the rest of your life
about your partner...at least that
is what I have been told.
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 03 Oct 2008 22:47
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 Defiantly- i would die i i had to
have an arranged marriage and
anyway it doesn't make sense if two
people don't know each other and
get married, really why would two
people want to do that to
each-other?
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 02 Oct 2008 23:37
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 They should know eachother well
enough to know if it is love
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 02 Oct 2008 12:17
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 Yeah to live together long life you
should understand each other
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 24 Sep 2008 09:45
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 Yes i think so, two people should
know each other before getting
married as its not a easy way they
has to spend whole life together
and for better understanding they
should know each other.
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 21 Sep 2008 12:53
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 Entering marriage is a serious life
commitment and should not be
entered into lightly. One should
therefore know and accept their
partner before they get married.
Most importantly marriage should be
based on love and trust.
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 21 Sep 2008 03:45
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 Obviously, if you don't know each
other, then how do you know if you
guys are compatible?
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 17 Sep 2008 19:18
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 Its best you know each other before
commitment to avoid such issues
which may arise like lacking trust
form one another and even faith.
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 16 Sep 2008 15:41
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 Well duh
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 15 Sep 2008 04:54
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 I agree! You cant marry some one
you don't love! It is just wrong!!!
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 09 Sep 2008 22:55
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 You should definitely know the
person your dating, and learn more
about them. And same goes for the
guy, he should know the girl.
People are stupid, who get married
right away, not knowing anything
about one another. Duh huh!! It's
common sense people get that
through your heads.
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 06 Sep 2008 04:10
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 Hello what ever happened to falling
in love and getting to know
eachother before you marry?
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 04 Sep 2008 03:43
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 Of course they should know each
other. Because if don't know the
person you got married to how do
you know he wasn't a murder.
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 29 Aug 2008 20:36
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 You should always know a person
before you marry. You should be
confident in your relationship, and
have respect for each other.... And
faithfulness is a must! I have been
with the same man for almost two
years now. We live together and
truly love each other. We have
never argued, but we do get mad at
each other. I know what makes him
tick and he knows what makes me
tick and when we are mad we leave
each other alone and relax and then
come back and talk about it
rationally. We have several pets we
call them our kids. We talk about
everything even the silly stuff. I
love his family and my family
thinks the world of him. I honestly
think this is a match made in
Heaven. We plan to get married some
day. My grand parents married
straight out of school and they had
a faithful loving relationship. My
grandmother took care of my
grandfather especially after they
found out he had lung cancer. The
cancer eventually spread to his
lymph nodes and he had several
strokes making him unable to do
normal things. He was bead ridden
for 5 years before he died and my
grandmother was at his side every
step of the way, she is my hero.
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 29 Aug 2008 03:05
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 Been there... Doing that...
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 27 Aug 2008 11:11
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 O b v i o u s l y
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 21 Aug 2008 06:02
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 I made the mistake of getting
married to someone I "thought" I
knew... Let's just say we are no
longer together. We have a two year
old son and everyday I have to deal
with my ex, I see how much I fell
in love with a stranger...
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 17 Aug 2008 18:18
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 Of coarse
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 16 Aug 2008 07:01
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 Duhhhhh you can't just know their
name and get married
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 08 Aug 2008 05:39
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 A couple should know each other
before marrying. Marriage is such
a serious union, ordained by God
and not to be taken lightly. And a
couple should never go into a
marriage with the thought that they
can divorce if it does not work
out. That just starts a marriage
out on the wrong path. Of course
you won't know everything at the
beginning, but as time goes by you
will learn (and hopefully- love)
each other more.
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 05 Aug 2008 01:35
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 Yes getting to know the person more
first is the best thing to do. Yes
a lot of things you'll find out
while you married but that's part
of marriage growth.
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 30 Jul 2008 03:14
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 If you don't know anything about
him how do you know you really love
him?
You have to really know a
person...including all his
words...before the idea of marriage
should even come to mind.
If you've been with someone for 3
years and you don't know him, then
I think there's things he might not
feel comfortable revealing. I
wonder what that could be? What
have you been doing in 3 years to
feel that your in love?
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 30 Jul 2008 01:05
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 Definitely. Couples should know
each other before they get married
because if they don't know each
other, when they get married, they
might have to get divorced and then
they would regret not knowing each
other .
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 28 Jul 2008 01:27
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 Listen you should know a bunch
about someone before getting
married or else it might not
workout
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 26 Jul 2008 05:39
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 I'm ONLY going against this because
I don't believe you can fully know
anybody 100%. If we did, we
probably wouldn't get married; like
someone else said. I met my hubby
online, we dated for 3 months, he
moved in with me and a year later
we married. It's been 12 yrs now
and we're still learning things
about each other. This is my
point....you're always learning
something about each other.
Marriage is hard work and is the
responsibility of both partners to
work at it and keep the fire(s)
going. I think when you date your
partner you should get to know
everything YOU WANT to know, enough
to satisfy you and make up your
mind about marrying them, but like
I said, I don't believe anyone can
100% know each other before
marriage. Impossible....
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 09 Jul 2008 16:36
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 I think people should live together
first !! You never really know
someone their habits etc till
you've lived with them
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 10 Nov 2008 23:41
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 Don't know what side to put this on
but really to be honest with you
..U can get to a point where u
THINK you know someone but after
you marry they COMPLETELY change to
a person you wouldn't think they
are...Liveing partner is good
unless your christian then it's not
right
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 03 Oct 2008 17:14
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 Logically yes. Consider that there
customs in our world where the
spouses to be are chosen by
parents. I think they should know
each other, but even that will
change because your life has
changed. Dating the one you thought
you knew can do a full turn once
you sign the papers. Anyone wishing
to marry sooner than they should,
should do a background check.
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 19 Sep 2008 08:20
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 Knowing before marriage will not
give any idea about each other.
Because no one can understand each
other in short span of time(1 year
or less than that). If any 1 dating
more than this it is really
nonsense....for understanding sake
if they date more a year or 2....
This proves it's a stupid opinion.
It's better to marry someone you
know or better you love someone and
even you can marry some unknown and
then try try to know each day
....and make he/her happy.
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 10 Sep 2008 22:15
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 You can never really know someone
you only know what they want you to
know. My husband and I did't know
each other all that good, but we
did know we loved each other and we
got married very shortly after we
meet and have been together3 and a
half years now and things are going
great for us. But we are still
getting to know each other .
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 21 Aug 2008 20:52
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 Not necessary because when you meet
some one and date him/her you only
meeting their representative.
After marriage you start to know
your partner but not completely
still. Some people marry after
months of dating and they do good,
some people date for a long time
and they don't last.
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 24 Jul 2008 19:54
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 I totally agree with mscupid! Your
relationship wouldn't grow if you
two know each other very well.
You'll always look forward to know
the person beside you when you wake
up in the morning =)
But of course, you shouldn't get
married with a stranger. Marry
someone you know, but you are
willing to know better each and
every day =)
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 11 Jul 2008 13:06
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