 I know its wrong and a shallow
statement at most,but ive notice
from my own encounters when finaces
arent an issue things seem to be
fine.then when there a finacial
down fall or crisis the tension
builds and theres more arguments
,resentment,uncontrol worrying,and
depression.the world has made it
this way for you cannot survive
with out a structured income.even
when you love your partner greatly
struggling to get by can dampen
your feelings significantly sad but
true. |
 12 Sep 2008 21:42
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I'm not married but in a long term
relationship and I know just
judging from my own parents
marriage and a few friends who are
married i think this is a sad fact.
Its not done directly but it is
very difficult to keep a
relationship happy when you are
struggling for money. Plus when you
are in love/married you just want
to be able to feel secure, and that
includes the finances. |
04 Oct 2008 19:27
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In today's world anything is
possible it's true...my dear frnd. |
20 Sep 2008 21:39
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I would have to say A happy
marriage is based on love but I
have also come to the conclusion
that if there is no money it makes
things tough and more stressful so
to be totally happy anyway in life
and be stress free is to have money
at least from my point of view |
12 Sep 2008 20:11
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The sharing of values, in all
areas, is of prime importance to
the success of any marriage but on
the other hand money also plays a
vital role in the happy file. |
12 Sep 2008 17:26
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I wouldn't say ALL of it depends on
Money. The sharing of values, in
all areas, is of prime importance
to the success of any marriage. |
12 Sep 2008 16:59
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For me no need to read the article
loll. Because mine was a disaster,
just because of money and ego loll |
12 Sep 2008 15:51
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 Money can't buy everything.
Emotions and love only comes from
within... |
08 Nov 2008 20:56
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No the basis of a happy marriage
is about love and trust |
20 Sep 2008 00:57
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Marriage is about communication! If
you do not communicate and trust
each other than money becomes the
issue. Hiding spending or financial
problems from one's spouse can have
catastrophic results. So it is not
actually the money issue it is the
lack of communication and the
irresponsibility surrounding it! |
13 Sep 2008 17:13
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No.. A happy marriage should be all
about LOVE! That's at least what i
think! |
13 Sep 2008 10:29
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Can't agree with this at all.
We've had times when money was hard
to come by, and we put our heads
together and worked things out
together. We base our marriage on
love and commitment to each other,
and to finding solutions together,
not on how much money we have or
don't have. |
13 Sep 2008 07:03
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Before my husband died last year,
we were extremely happy and deeply
in love. He was a baptist
minister- so money was never
abundant. There were times i
worried how we'd make it. But God
was always gracious and we always
had what we needed & even a few
wants, I was even blessed with the
ability to be a stay at home mom.
Money is nice, but it is not
everything. Love , trust and
commitment is what sustains a
marriage. I miss him, and would
give all the money in the world
just to see him and have him back
here with me again. |
13 Sep 2008 02:38
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I could do without money I have
before. It isn't about money for me
it is the person and if my man were
to go broke I would be happy to
sink with him and do my best to
pull my own weight. |
13 Sep 2008 02:32
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A happy marriage is not about
money, It's about Trust And Love If
someone gets married just because
of money, that is not love at all ,
its lust!!!!!!!!!! |
13 Sep 2008 00:22
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Money should not matter as long as
you are with the person that you
love. |
12 Sep 2008 21:04
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In my opinion, no. The basis of a
happy marriage is love and trust.
If it's right and it's all about
money, then what about the poor
people? |
12 Sep 2008 19:01
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A good marriage is all about love
and trust. While money helps, you
have to have love and trust and
that is most important. |
12 Sep 2008 18:46
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