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Should A Woman Who May Have A List Of Sexual Partners And Experience In Her Past Be Accepted, By A Man Who She Has Fallen In Love With If She Has Generally Changed Or Does She Not Deserve To Be In Love Due To Her Reckless Past.
by Lovedup12 Lovedup12
 30 Jan 2008 15:01  
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 No just because you have had a bad past does not mean you cant work thought it and have a bright future. Just leave the past in the past don't tell all your secrets and just move forward.
 01 May 2008 21:01
by Lilmama1 Lilmama1
 You can always learn from your past to brighten your future.
 13 Feb 2008 14:57
by Bloodsport Bloodsport
 You should learn from your mistakes and be a better person for it. Don't hurt anymore people.
 07 Feb 2008 13:14
by J_mon J_mon
 The past is the past the future hum..........
 06 Sep 2008 21:17
by Redeagle Redeagle
 Of course not. Many of us had a bad past and they loved and were loved in future. Past is past. Whether it's bad or good.
 10 Aug 2008 16:53
by Charming Charming
 I have quite a past. And a very great present. We all deserve another chance. Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness
 02 Aug 2008 00:35
by Alady08 Alady08
 I've a horrible past. Full of drugs, crime, and promiscuity. I've changed all that though. I have an amazing girl who is always by my side. I've been sober for two years, and I've been with her for two years. It seems to me I've found love just at the right time.
 30 Jun 2008 01:45
by Mortician Mortician
 Everyone deserves the chance to be in love and be happy. Love is powerful and in itself can change peoples lives.
 05 Jun 2008 13:42
by Anonymouse Anonymouse
 Learn to grow from mistakes and past mistreatment. Start over in life. Realize that happiness is a matter of choice and resolve to make better choices.
 04 Jun 2008 21:01
by Pencil Pencil
 Build a bridge and get over it. Life is to short. Forget the past. Start thinking now and your future
 11 May 2008 05:20
by Turtless Turtless
 The important thing is the kind of life she is living now. If she has truly thought better of past promiscuous behaviour, then it should make no difference to their relationship if they love each other and her spouse trusts her.

Even in the Old Testament, the prophet Hosea was commanded by God to reconcile with his wife, who had deserted him to become a temple prostitute! Needless to say, the reconciliation depended on her changing her way of life and being faithful to Hosea from then on, which it appears she did.
 28 Mar 2008 03:57
by Felicity_x Felicity_x
 I think mistakes are committed by all of us but some agree or some disagree if we take a moral from it tht we will not do it again so we can hv love and a true does not depend upon this fact i think so only the sex relations is the pillar of luv no what if v don't hv understandings.It all depend how you tk it so tk it the best you can and in luv always see the nature is he or she have any understnading not all this.
 06 Mar 2008 14:25
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 What i really don't understand when it comes to male vs female sex partners if why there's a double standard for girl. A guy and sleep with as many girls as he wants and he's considered answer because of it but if a girl does she's considered a whore. If two people get pregnant outside of marriage the girls a whore but the guys is max an idiot for not wearing a condom. If a guy can find love after being a bit of a hoe himself than why shouldn't a girl be able to as well. Everyone deserves to find love no matter how many people they've had sex with. The point of the past is to grow from it and to help you find out who you really are and who you never want to be not to punish you until you die.
 01 Mar 2008 13:31
by Pbfan4 Pbfan4
 NO WAY all people have bad past some don't admit to it but its true everyone does I do and well I have a pretty good life a good husband and well a beautiful little girl and another baby on the way I am happy!!!
 01 Feb 2008 04:03
by Anna_05 Anna_05
 Well, she should have been more aware of what she was doing and led a better life. I don't got to bars and party places or where I know this all starts. There is no reason for a lady to jump in the sack with every guy that comes along. So, before a relation ship can start, and I know a lot will disagree with me, but its a fact, her and him need to be open and discuss this at the beginning. Nothing will hurt a relationship more than finding this out from someone else later in the relationship and them someone getting hurt and ruining the whole thing.
 30 Jan 2008 18:04
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 I think that people can be happy if they can learn from their pasts instead of "holding on" to it.
Everyone makes mistakes... And I don't believe they should be permanently "labeled" if they have grown from that experience.
 30 Jan 2008 17:29
by Celticsgrl Celticsgrl
 Every one deserves a second chance as people make poor decisions when they are young and then become wiser as they get older. Would a man get the same consideration, as many men have multiple sexual partners but are generally are not looked down upon
 30 Jan 2008 16:43
by Agustgirl Agustgirl
 Past is past. Everyone makes mistakes, but we learn from past. And remember no past no current you!
 30 Jan 2008 15:50
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