 It is cowardly and heartless- do it
face to face, not over the phone
(like a former fiance did to me) or
in a note or e mail. Be a man and
do it gently and in person.
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 05 Sep 2008 17:44
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 It shows no class and no respect as
a human to not give a person the
dignity of breaking up with them by
a note. Absolutely needs to be in
person. Relationship are an attempt
at an adult behavior should be
treated as such fully.
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 02 Jul 2008 00:49
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 It is stupid!!!
People who do that are heartless or
just arent strong enough to deal
with that!!
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 01 Jul 2008 18:34
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 HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. If you break
up with someone via text/email/note
you are RETARDED. Even asking
someone out via text/email/note you
are still RETARDED. This just shows
that you are too afraid to talk to
or see that person face to face. I
mean if you ask someone out or
break up with someone via face to
face or calling them it's ok. But
if you do it text/note/email you're
stupid.
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 22 Jun 2008 17:58
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 I must agree. I think it is
childish to break up with a note.
Everyone should face their problems
head on instead of hiding behind a
piece of paper.
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 18 Jun 2008 16:03
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 Yeah I agree with you there. I
would be so mad if I were to ever
experience that. Thank goodness
that has never happened to me. I
think it is cowardly, and
heartless.
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 17 Jun 2008 01:04
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 Breaking up with a note is
cowardly, but it also gives you the
opportunity to express what you
feel without being interrupted or
if you feel the other person might
not respond amicably.
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 11 Jun 2008 02:12
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 Breaking up with a note is
cowardace. He or she should break
up personally with the person it
shows respect.
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 10 Jun 2008 18:32
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 Its a fact that its stupid. If you
are going to break up with someone,
be man or woman enough to tell the
other party face to face and give a
reason why.
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 08 Jun 2008 18:31
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 Aren't you tired of her/him,so go
for it,be specific.Face to face
(100%)
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 27 May 2008 11:32
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 Yes it is really very stupid.
Breaking up is something that
should be handled face to face.
Reasons for breaking up should be
first discussed cool mindedly &
then it should be decided whether
those disputes causing split up can
be resolved or not. If those
disputes can't be resolved then
breaking up might be an idea.
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 13 May 2008 19:46
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 Yes it is stupid to break up with
someone in a note text message
even to me over the phone i think
you should do it in person.
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 13 May 2008 19:13
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 Yeah;its called cowardice.
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 06 May 2008 18:06
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 Breaking up with any thing other
than in person is dumb, you are
cutting off a relationship, you
should totally tell them in person!
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 06 May 2008 17:55
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 If you're not able to break up with
the person you were in a
relationship face to face; you're
not ready for one. Relationships
take maturity.
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 05 Apr 2008 09:16
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 It is, but it takes a lot of the
pressure off of the one who's doing
the breaking up. It's hard to face
someone and see the effects of your
words.
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 01 Apr 2008 03:11
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 Breaking up with a note is
pathetic!! So is asking someone out
with a note. That just means that
he/she doesn't have courage or
dignity to go up to that person and
tell them themselves!
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 23 Mar 2008 01:05
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 Yea its really stupid to break up
w/ someone with a note. I mean be
realizitic.What if girls do it to
guys i wonder if they care?
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 21 Mar 2008 18:58
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 Yea if someone is to scared to
break up w/ their bf/gf over a note
or anything not in person is
obviously to scared to talk to them
in the first place so why were you
going out in the first place
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 19 Mar 2008 21:22
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 Although I would agree, I have to
say it would also depend on the
situation and people involved. If
the other person is possessive and
manipulative then doing it by
letter/email/text or phone is a
defensive measure by the person
sending it. This way they do not
have to be faced with all that may
entail with threats, being sent on
guilt trips and any nastiness the
other person would normally invoke.
Imagine the person you are breaking
up with is subject to violent
temper tantrums and you could get
seriously hurt (physically)- would
you not consider NOT doing it in
person but by message?
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 19 Mar 2008 12:29
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 Yes they are stupid because it is
so impersonal it makes them feel
worse about themselves and they
are too chicken to do it to their
face.
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 19 Mar 2008 03:24
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 Yeah that pretty pathetic if you do
that, People who do that aren't
man/woman enough to deal with there
decisions
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 19 Mar 2008 03:11
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 It's not stupid, but smartly
efficient.
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 20 Mar 2008 14:36
by  Guest
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 I don't think it really matters how
you break up with the person, just
what you say and how kindly you say
it. If someone can't face the fear
of there gf/bf that is their choice
and freedom to not have to. Then
you can do it by note, text,
e-mail, etc...
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 27 Jul 2008 02:20
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 I don't think it's a stupid way.
There are many people that cannot
face their boyfriends or
girlfriends face to face. Not all
people are the same. So a note or
an e-mail is a good option for
them.
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 07 Jul 2008 15:15
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 I don't believe there has to be a
big dramatic scene between 2 people
that will ultimately cause one or
the other to make an unwise
decision based on emotional guilt.
I like to have my say and leave,
if leaving is really what I intend
to do. If I am willing to make
another go at it, then sure, face
to face, is what I want.
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 08 May 2008 19:49
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 Some people don't actually know how
to say it face to face. The only
way they can express themselves is
to write it down. I'm not saying
it's a good thing to write to
somoneinstead of saying it to them,
but whenever I try to say something
to my friend, words never come out
right, and I end up writing a note.
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 29 Apr 2008 03:24
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 I don't think it is stupid in all
cases. Sometimes people try being
creative by asking people out with
a letter. As for breaking up, it
can be a very hard thing to do.
Writing out specific
reasons/feelings and then sending
it or even handing it to them face
to face and then talking afterwards
can be useful. I'm the type of
person to rehearse things over and
over yet when it's time to meet
face to face blank out. Writing
things out works so much better for
me
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 25 Mar 2008 21:49
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 For me its not being STUPID... I
had experienced it and it is much
easier to break up... I made letter
not just a "note"!!! I gave my
reasons why i had to do that, why
did our relationship does not work
at all etc... It's not being
stupid! Through it i could say
every details why i had to leave
him...
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 19 Mar 2008 03:03
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 If two people are truthfully at a
stage to agree to be in a
relationship together, then they
should be mature enough to consider
how a note about wanting to break
up, might be disrespectful to the
person they respected enough to be
with in the first place.
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 19 Mar 2008 02:01
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