 You can experience anything at any
age. But parents won't always be
able to understand or validate your
feelings, just like you won't
always be able to understand
theirs.
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 17 Sep 2008 20:37
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 Yes may be you are in love because
may be he is very caring..because
age has nothing to do with love.
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 22 Sep 2008 15:57
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 Love comes in many different forms.
It can be experienced in many ways.
Parents are worried about which
way.
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 18 Sep 2008 00:12
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 Hmm... It could happen! You never
really know until you find that
special someone. Maybe you can meet
them at 13.
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 17 Sep 2008 09:20
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 I sort if with my cousin on this,
possible but not likely.
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 17 Sep 2008 02:40
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 I believe it is possible. I fell in
love at 13 and stayed with him for
7 years! It was not just an
infatuation. We were both open and
honest to each other, and we've
even been able to talk about some
deep intellectual topics at that
age.
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 17 Sep 2008 01:13
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 I define love as a neurochemical
process that determines whether or
not another being is a potential
mate. This means to experience love
one must reach sexual maturity
which is very possible for a human
at age 13.
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 17 Sep 2008 01:11
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 I think anyone can experience love.
They may not understand it fully
but can experience it.
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 16 Sep 2008 23:36
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 Well, it's possible, but a bit
unlikely. One really can't say what
love is, and no one can really tell
you. It's something that you
yourself feels and no one else.
Only you can decide what love is.
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 16 Sep 2008 23:04
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 You can LOVE a dog or a cat, and a
movie!
The kind of LOVE that you mean NO,
you don't have a clue yet!
Logic101
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 22 Sep 2008 21:03
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 I believe you can love him but
probably not in love. My fiance and
i have been together for 6 years
now, and I dated him when i was 13.
My parents told me i couldn't date
him because he was too old for me,
so we ended it. We met back up when
i was 15 and have been together
ever since. I know it wouldn't have
worked if we stayed together when i
was 13, mostly because you need
other experience to be able to know
what you do want and don't want.
And if you are on here asking then
you may not truly be confident that
you are.
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 18 Sep 2008 02:11
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This is why i don't date!!!!! I
am thirteen and seriously whats the
point of dating??? Please read my
profile and you will understand why
dating is not the thing to do
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 18 Sep 2008 00:07
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 13 year olds don't have the
maturity level to know what love
is. You have a crush. A strong one.
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 17 Sep 2008 19:07
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 You may be in love with your
boyfriend today, but more than
likely your love is just the good
feelings you have now. It takes T I
M E to know the difference in
love. Your stepfather has girl
friends? I take it he is not with
your mother any more. What is your
mother saying, and why is your
stepfather still so closely in your
life? You have so much to
experience, and at your age, your
strong belief that you are in love
scares me. Loving each other as it
is, will lead eventually to
carrying it further and you are not
ready for that, nor the
responsibilities it takes to
maintain life with one person. When
do you plan to put your living as a
child into action? This is the time
in your life to date not one, but
two or more guys. Without that
experience, and you choose to marry
this man, you may find yourself
being unfulfilled. There are of
course cases when people your age
has gotten married young and stayed
together and became a wholesome
family. This is not the norm.
You said your Stepfather is having
problems in his relationship, and I
am wondering why you know so much
about his social life? I do agree
with your stepfather, but please
speak with your mother about this.
It seems that your stepfathers
track record could use his
attention therefore validating the
advice he passes on to you. Surely
you can find someone with more
credible advice. Only when you age
will you understand and appreciate
advice that is not in line with
your young feelings. Wishing you
well
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 17 Sep 2008 18:59
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 No Because immaturity cannot deal
with relationships
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 17 Sep 2008 11:55
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 I don't think a 13 yr olds mind is
mature enough..crush yea...real
love I don't think so at that age.
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 17 Sep 2008 04:12
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 I don't believe that you are really
in love you are to young. At the
time when you enter your
adolescence years you are learning
to pull away from your "parent's
nest" so to speak and you are
learning to try new things and your
hormone's are raging wild.....I
think it's just a phase you are
going through give at least 4 more
months and then you two will be
broke up...trust me you will go
through about 50 or more "feelings
of love" before you really find
love...but hey who knows if you are
still together in 20 yrs I'll take
my hat off to you!!!
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 16 Sep 2008 23:48
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 Sorry, not in the sense that you
are thinking, at your age, it is
simply called infatuation. The only
love you know really is the love
you have for your parents, and
family. Your mind isn't developed
enough to know how deeply the real
adult emotions work. Sorry.
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 16 Sep 2008 23:00
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