Home Debates A 13 Years Old Can Experience "Love".
A 13 Years Old Can Experience "Love".
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Me And My Step Dad Argue Often About This. I'm 13 And I Truly Believe I Love My Boyfriend. We Have Been Together 5 Months Today And We're Still Going Well! My Step Dad Says That I Don't Understand Love. But He Has Had Some Mess Ups Recently With His Girl Friends. Please Help!
by Fluffball Fluffball
 16 Sep 2008 21:52  
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 You can experience anything at any age. But parents won't always be able to understand or validate your feelings, just like you won't always be able to understand theirs.
 17 Sep 2008 20:37
by Ajw Ajw
 Yes may be you are in love because may be he is very caring..because age has nothing to do with love.
 22 Sep 2008 15:57
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 Love comes in many different forms. It can be experienced in many ways. Parents are worried about which way.
 18 Sep 2008 00:12
by Hisdimple Hisdimple
 Hmm... It could happen! You never really know until you find that special someone. Maybe you can meet them at 13.
 17 Sep 2008 09:20
by Purple814 Purple814
 I sort if with my cousin on this, possible but not likely.
 17 Sep 2008 02:40
by Redeagle Redeagle
 I believe it is possible. I fell in love at 13 and stayed with him for 7 years! It was not just an infatuation. We were both open and honest to each other, and we've even been able to talk about some deep intellectual topics at that age.
 17 Sep 2008 01:13
by Dimonwolf Dimonwolf
 I define love as a neurochemical process that determines whether or not another being is a potential mate. This means to experience love one must reach sexual maturity which is very possible for a human at age 13.
 17 Sep 2008 01:11
by Zroach Zroach
 I think anyone can experience love. They may not understand it fully but can experience it.
 16 Sep 2008 23:36
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 Well, it's possible, but a bit unlikely. One really can't say what love is, and no one can really tell you. It's something that you yourself feels and no one else. Only you can decide what love is.
 16 Sep 2008 23:04
by Draaxen Draaxen
 You can LOVE a dog or a cat, and a movie!
The kind of LOVE that you mean NO, you don't have a clue yet!

Logic101
 22 Sep 2008 21:03
by Logic101 Logic101
 I believe you can love him but probably not in love. My fiance and i have been together for 6 years now, and I dated him when i was 13. My parents told me i couldn't date him because he was too old for me, so we ended it. We met back up when i was 15 and have been together ever since. I know it wouldn't have worked if we stayed together when i was 13, mostly because you need other experience to be able to know what you do want and don't want. And if you are on here asking then you may not truly be confident that you are.
 18 Sep 2008 02:11
by Name818 Name818
 This is why i don't date!!!!! I am thirteen and seriously whats the point of dating??? Please read my profile and you will understand why dating is not the thing to do
 18 Sep 2008 00:07
by Jesus_luva Jesus_luva
 13 year olds don't have the maturity level to know what love is. You have a crush. A strong one.
 17 Sep 2008 19:07
by Arauzxa Arauzxa
 You may be in love with your boyfriend today, but more than likely your love is just the good feelings you have now. It takes T I M E to know the difference in love. Your stepfather has girl friends? I take it he is not with your mother any more. What is your mother saying, and why is your stepfather still so closely in your life? You have so much to experience, and at your age, your strong belief that you are in love scares me. Loving each other as it is, will lead eventually to carrying it further and you are not ready for that, nor the responsibilities it takes to maintain life with one person. When do you plan to put your living as a child into action? This is the time in your life to date not one, but two or more guys. Without that experience, and you choose to marry this man, you may find yourself being unfulfilled. There are of course cases when people your age has gotten married young and stayed together and became a wholesome family. This is not the norm.
You said your Stepfather is having problems in his relationship, and I am wondering why you know so much about his social life? I do agree with your stepfather, but please speak with your mother about this. It seems that your stepfathers track record could use his attention therefore validating the advice he passes on to you. Surely you can find someone with more credible advice. Only when you age will you understand and appreciate advice that is not in line with your young feelings. Wishing you well
 17 Sep 2008 18:59
by Gsharon710 Gsharon710
 No Because immaturity cannot deal with relationships
 17 Sep 2008 11:55
by Farwa Farwa
 I don't think a 13 yr olds mind is mature enough..crush yea...real love I don't think so at that age.
 17 Sep 2008 04:12
by Reeree08 Reeree08
 I don't believe that you are really in love you are to young. At the time when you enter your adolescence years you are learning to pull away from your "parent's nest" so to speak and you are learning to try new things and your hormone's are raging wild.....I think it's just a phase you are going through give at least 4 more months and then you two will be broke up...trust me you will go through about 50 or more "feelings of love" before you really find love...but hey who knows if you are still together in 20 yrs I'll take my hat off to you!!!
 16 Sep 2008 23:48
by Crickett7 Crickett7
 Sorry, not in the sense that you are thinking, at your age, it is simply called infatuation. The only love you know really is the love you have for your parents, and family. Your mind isn't developed enough to know how deeply the real adult emotions work. Sorry.
 16 Sep 2008 23:00
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