 Yes, everyone deserves a second
chance just go in to it with your
eyes open. |
 01 Feb 2008 05:18
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I could but not like I did before. |
31 Aug 2008 19:04
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A trust once broken is not easily
repaired. I believe that it can be
done, but the rare individual ever
learns to trust again. Some guys
get cheated on once in their life
and are unwilling to trust even
someone new in their life. |
20 Jun 2008 15:27
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I did cheat on my boyfriend but I
confessed to him because I couldn't
live with the guilty feeling...and
he left me! I never wanted to do
it...I have always wanted him from
heart and wanted to marry him! But
a pit was cleverly dug for me..and
I fell into it! I couldn't get out
of it although I badly wanted
to...because I was given the
feeling that if I go away, I will
be the responsible for someone's
death! But all was a drama...and
nothing more! To save someone's
life, I lost my love...my life! I
badly want my boyfriend back
without whom my life has come to a
halt! So shouldn't I get a second
chance to prove my feelings to him?
Have I become good for nothing?! I
am also a human being...people may
play with my emotions as well. If I
had been an angel..I wouldn't have
asked for a second chance..because
this day wouldn't have come in the
first place! But I am a human
being...and being so..I may make
mistakes. And I believe one's true
repentance should be given
value...and not ignored! |
09 Mar 2008 14:33
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Sure, you can trust him. If you
can trust you parents after you
learned ALL about Santa Claus, you
can trust you X again. You just
*know* that you can't trust him
about sexual matters as sure as you
know parents don't always tell the
truth. |
07 Feb 2008 06:09
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 How could you trust them not to do
it again, when them knowing it
would hurt you and that they loved
you wasn't enough to stop them in
the first place? Once they know
that you are able to get past it,
what more reason do they have now
than before? Truth is, they have
less. |
21 Jul 2008 16:52
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No way! If a guy cheats on you
once, he is going to get back in
the relationship, and take
advantage of your love, and he
might think, that if you were okay
with it the first time, then you
would be fine with it the second
time, when in fact, you wouldn't be
okay with it.
I hope that made sense! |
09 Jul 2008 22:10
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Heck no! |
20 Jun 2008 19:00
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I always believe on "Once a
cheater, Always a cheater".
If, we go with cheaters, even after
their betrayal, then this 'll make
them more encouraged to cheat us
again.
I never forgived such people & 'll
never forgive any such in future
doesn't matters how much, not
forgiving, hurts me. |
13 Jun 2008 12:43
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It has been proven time and time
again to me once someone cheats
lies or anything they think that if
you come back to them they can walk
all over you. I don't know about
everyone else but i wont allow
that. |
22 May 2008 23:07
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You know the saying once a cheater
always a cheater and i hate to say
it but i have found that to be
true. But if you love your ex and
want to give them another try go
for it but just don't put your
whole heart in it thinking this
person will never do it again you
may just get it broken again. |
29 Apr 2008 22:32
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Maybe i could forgive the person
but ;not forget what they did ,or
could i ever trust them not to do
it again. All trust would be
gone!!!!!!!!!!! |
08 Apr 2008 20:34
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No, there's a second time |
02 Feb 2008 11:32
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No,i don't think u can trust
him.Also keep in mind if he slept
with this other person you don't
know who else either of them have
been with,you are putting your
health at risk. |
01 Feb 2008 23:45
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Cheat ONCE and shame on you!
Cheat twice SHAME ON ME!
You'll never get the second
chance!! |
01 Feb 2008 18:29
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Maybe a second chance is Jusifiable
but no..... Trust is something you
must take care of. Not something to
mess around with. But just watch
them and see how their acting. |
01 Feb 2008 16:52
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That is just stupid..if i were u i
wouldn't go back to him...u know
old sayings, "same person, same
heart".... |
01 Feb 2008 15:44
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Just move on! When he gets bored he
will just cheat on you again but
this time he will be more careful
and try not to get caught! |
01 Feb 2008 14:47
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This is kind of hard
because i know someone close to me
that's cheated on pple several
times
and that thought makes you want to
hate that person,,
but then i had to realize that
they were only human and humans
make mistakes.. So my opinion falls
on the border line |
01 Feb 2008 13:50
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No,because we can't believe him or
she any more |
01 Feb 2008 13:27
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I am mixed in my feelings on this.
On the one hand, everyone (ALL OF
US) are not without making
mistakes. However, the trust level
will never be the same so....I
think it's really your call. Hope
that helps somehow. |
01 Feb 2008 09:32
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I do not believe that you will ever
be able to trust this person again.
I have thought many times how O
would handle such a situation and
realize that there would be no way
to rebuild the trust that was once
there and though I would want
things to be the same, there is no
way they could be. |
01 Feb 2008 05:17
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You can forgive the person and rid
yourself of the anger, however I
agree a trust violation is
something few can really get past |
01 Feb 2008 04:57
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It's very difficult to trust the
person again. |
01 Feb 2008 04:22
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No. The thought of the indiscretion
or cheating will forever change
your view. The memory cannot be
erased and instead will nurture the
mistrust and deceit that someone
has been subjected to by the other.
To violate the trust someone places
in you is the greatest of all
transgressions. While you can
forgive the person you can never
trust the person again as there is
no innocence after the attainment
of the knowledge. |
01 Feb 2008 03:56
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