Home Debates Cheating: Is This Ok. How Many Of Us Cheat?
Cheating: Is This Ok. How Many Of Us Cheat?
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Please Be Honest And Pick Agree If You Have Cheated And Disagree If You Have Not Cheated. I Am Doing A Little Bit Of Research And Trying To Get An Idea Of How Many People Do This And The Age And Sex Of These Groups More Likly To Cheat And Why. Please Be Honest In Your Answer And Identify Your Age, Sex, And Reason For Cheating. Thank You
by Aprilw Aprilw
 09 Nov 2007 21:57  
Against
 I have cheated before in relationships when I was a teen. While I was married I never thought of it. As long as someone is not in a legal commitment then what is the big deal.
 10 Nov 2007 08:22
by Mrcooper Mrcooper
 I think it all depends on the person your with... Of course if you truly love that person then it would be less likely that you would cheat. But since i am in my mid 20.... 26 yrs old. I have a girl friend. And been with her for 6 months. She means a lot to me but i know she is not going to be the one. I just haven't felt that emotion with her. The feeling that i will never be the same without her in my life. So if i do find that one special lady then i would definitely not cheat... But at the moment.... The game is on...lol
 10 Nov 2007 01:15
by Sageloki Sageloki
 Yes i have in the past. It lead nowhere and was a mistake.
 01 Aug 2008 21:36
by Alady08 Alady08
 Cheating is wrong but hey it happens sometimes!
 15 May 2008 17:48
by Lilmama1 Lilmama1
 I have cheated but for the good reason I'm in love with someone truly so i have cheated my parents by not telling them true.but i haven't also tell a lie that i Don't love someone
 06 Mar 2008 15:10
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 I am cheating now, and have been for the last 3 yrs, and my boyfriend at home has not found out yet.
 11 Jan 2008 07:44
by Ladyaj Ladyaj
 I have special bond with boyfriend of 5 years, he gives me freedom to explore as he knows i am "curious", fitness instructor at gym kept eyeing me and complimenting me so i had affair for 3 months until the novelty worn off, it was just a sexual fling and no harm done, i am sure my boyfriend does the same so no problem for us both.
 07 Jan 2008 23:41
by Easytiger Easytiger
 I have cheated in the past 38 female and for reasons I thought at the time were legit but looking back now I had no good reason. Just being dumb and not trying to fix what was wrong instead of running to someone else
 29 Dec 2007 06:46
by Bmarkl9 Bmarkl9
 I've cheated. I would do anything to say that i haven't but it wouldn't be true. I was 15 when I cheated on my boyfriend of 4 months.
The first two months he was the perfect boyfriend. But when the 3rd and 4th month came it was like I never knew where he was and he wouldn't return my calls or texts.
One of my other guy friends talked to alot and we got really close to each other. One thing lead to another and I started to see this other guy as more than a friend.
It all happed so fast. It was weird like I didn't really think about what I was doing.
Well when my bf of the time found out I tried to patch things up but it didn't work and our relationship just fell apart.
I regret it so so much because I didn't deserve him.
(It was teen cheating so sex wasn't involved just to make things clear.)
 05 Dec 2007 04:43
by Sportcrazy Sportcrazy
 Cheating is perfectly fine.
 01 Dec 2007 19:18
by Fergie26 Fergie26
 I actually just joined the lowered ranks of cheaters. I am that which I despise.
I am currently in an LDR (long distance relationship). We do say "i love you" and I mean it with every inch of my being. But, I have never seen him in person. (yes he does exist and he is who he claims to be) I cannot see him b/c he is in the Navy and isn't due for leave just yet. One drunken night lead to my demise. And NO, a drunken state is NOT and excuse for cheating. It is what it is, no excuses. I regret every second of what I did and will do anything to reclaim my status and dignity.
 14 Nov 2007 09:05
by Cronjap Cronjap
 I have cheated, when I was much younger, and I felt very bad about it, and wouldn't do it now.
 11 Nov 2007 23:01
by Salvor Salvor
 I have never cheated and would not ever cheat on my husband and e has never cheated on me. We are both in our 30's if that is any help.
 09 Nov 2007 23:35
by Danieller Danieller
 Cheating is cheating--and it's wrong. I don't cheat, but sometimes I do speed over the speed limit, and I guess that's a different kind of cheating. (Maybe I do cheat then, I don't know!--but NEVER in a relationship.)
 11 Nov 2007 03:59
by Amore01 Amore01
 I am against it but i do it
 10 Nov 2007 01:42
by Tiara1307 Tiara1307
 Any relationship is built around trust! If their is no trust then you have nothing! My word is my bond, but I'm still looking for a woman I can trust!
Logic101
 09 Nov 2007 22:56
by Logic101 Logic101
 I have never cheated but I have been cheated on. It doesn't feel to good when some one you love cheats on you. I think that if you are in a relationship with someone even if its for a short time you should still be committed to only them. If you want some one else then leave, don't stay with them and lead them on. Leave them and let them live their own life as for yourself!
 17 Nov 2008 00:19
by Dragon143 Dragon143
 I won't say I never, ever cheated, but I learned long ago, you either don't get anywhrere because it will catch up to you in one way or another, or you won't be able to live with yourself. Since then, I won't cheat in any way, shape or form, whatever the consequences.
 11 Nov 2007 04:11
by Robbier44 Robbier44
 Cheating is not ok. There are feelings involved. And crimes are commited.
 10 Nov 2007 02:41
by Biggredd Biggredd
 All of my life i have held firm in the belief that the worst thing that you can do to a partner or that a partner can do to you ,is to be unfaithful. I think i could forgive most things but not that. I used to wonder how i would react if i came home and found my wife in bed with another man. Most of my friends said they would do this and that to him, her or both. My answer was that i would do nothing. I would be so hurt that i would simply pack a bag ,leave, and refuse to have any contact or conversation with her ever. In fact i wouldnt even blame him, for i am not married to him and he is under no obligation to me. I am married almost 25 years now and we are content with eachothers company. But, i would be totally unable to betray my vows. Corny aint it :) age 50
 10 Nov 2007 01:08
by Padraig Padraig
 It's definitely not ok.. It's really unfair! And i speak with experience.. I was a kid that time, so don't think that I'm gonna cheat now too. Now, i won't cause i know where it might lead!
 10 Sep 2008 12:10
by Friendly Friendly
 No you should never cheat, it just puts you in the status of stuck up and selfish even if you aren't
 18 Aug 2008 18:01
by Big_girl-7 Big_girl-7
 Cheating is wrong. But some of us can't help cheating. You know what I mean?
 12 Aug 2008 01:29
by Pointweb Pointweb
 Cheating is wrong,it is better to be open and honest than to hurt someone in such a callous selfish act of betrail,if a person cant decide who they want to be with than maybe there better off by themselves or better off not forming monagamous relationships if they cant stick to these standards,they don't deserve anyone
 06 Aug 2008 02:55
by Woman1982 Woman1982
 Cheating is saying you don't care if you kill the person you're with by catching a disease from the person you're cheating with. HPV can kill a woman by cervical cancer, herpes can kill a baby if it's born the regular way by health complications. NEITHER can be prevented with a condom. For real, if you do cheat do you ask for a HIV test first? No, you go with the moment and forget the consequences. Then you bring your mistake home to the person you love in addition to lies, you are endangering their life. That's adding insult to injury, you should go to jail for attempted manslaughter or something... Cheating is for pathetic cowards who are afraid to face the world alone or maybe homosexual and trying to deny it. For those of you who say it's bad but hey, it happens... Maybe u get cheated on and get sick, really sick... Then you'll change your mind about how bad cheating really is.
 25 Jul 2008 19:01
by Halo82 Halo82
 No and Never Cheat in relationship. It is so hurting for the other loyal partner.
 23 Jul 2008 12:31
by Life Life
 I haven't cheated, that's cruel, I won't cheat. There is only one person you should ever marry, so why would I???
 09 Jul 2008 22:53
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 Cheating is wrong. Everyone does mistakes. But still it's wrong. I've never cheated and 'll never.
 07 Jul 2008 14:40
by Charming Charming
 Cheating is wrong no matter the case. If you don't want to be faithful then simply end the relationship and do what you want. No reason to hurt the other person.
 01 Jul 2008 23:51
by Ezmunae Ezmunae
 NO CHEATING! All you do by doing that is to ruin a relationship, hurt a lot of people, and end up getting hurt yourself. Not going to cheat, and wouldn't if I wanted to, I am a faithful woman to my husband, and I love him with all my heart, why would I marry him otherwise, just to hurt him, I don't think so.
 14 Jun 2008 01:04
by Tiggersmom Tiggersmom
 CHEATING? Okay? Wtf? You guys on crack. Cheating proves that the one you love doesn't love you its stupid!
 15 May 2008 19:49
by Colours321 Colours321
 Cheating is wrong! I don't cheat.
 21 Apr 2008 22:01
by Ladygem_9 Ladygem_9
 I think it is much better if the couple is involved in something like swinging or some such. At least with those, nobody is deceiving their spouse or sneaking around. But I have very serious issues as cheating, in which it is happening behind the back of the person you should be able to trust explicitly, and vice versa. Any marriage in which THAT goes on is doomed.
 16 Apr 2008 09:50
by Billzbub Billzbub
 I do not cheat, don't need to, I live in U.S.A. We are not forced to be together. I did not cheat in school, and I don't cheat on games, cheaters never win and you know the rest. I have an insanely jealous boyfriend who accuses me of it, and it infuriates me.
 30 Mar 2008 18:12
by Pencil Pencil
 Cheating is wrong and can really mess up a good relationship and your life.
 02 Feb 2008 19:13
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 NO cheating is wrong and even if they do it to you you shouldn't even do back at them just leave them if someone cheats on you then you are to good for them but if you cheat on them then they are to good for you and well you shouldn't be with that person the first time you cheat and even if you think about cheating its wrong.
 01 Feb 2008 04:04
by Anna_05 Anna_05
 Cheating never think about it even if you just try pulling others leg by doing so you are hurting the persons heart badly and gonna leave behind a rough patch.
 18 Jan 2008 08:13
by Kingo Kingo
 Cheating is way wrong, don't even think about it.
 14 Jan 2008 23:47
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 No never have ! When i made my vows i made them 2 god not man.
 04 Jan 2008 04:50
by Angelawill Angelawill
 No, cheating is wrong. You should teat others the way you want to be treated. In marriage cheating is a sin. I am 25 and I have never cheated and will not. A relationship is based on trust and cheating would break that trust.
 03 Dec 2007 07:30
by Jawyatt Jawyatt
 I don't bother to get involved if I'm not in it for the long haul. Why burn time, why burn feelings, negative energy?
 28 Nov 2007 23:44
by Moechelle Moechelle
 Love should be true and fair. Once you start loving a person you should be for him/her only, and till the time you don't find your real love you should keep your soul any body sacred for him/her.

Cheating....... Never possible.
 16 Nov 2007 12:36
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