 I have cheated before in
relationships when I was a teen.
While I was married I never thought
of it. As long as someone is not in
a legal commitment then what is the
big deal.
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 10 Nov 2007 08:22
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 I think it all depends on the
person your with... Of course if
you truly love that person then it
would be less likely that you would
cheat. But since i am in my mid
20.... 26 yrs old. I have a girl
friend. And been with her for 6
months. She means a lot to me but i
know she is not going to be the
one. I just haven't felt that
emotion with her. The feeling that
i will never be the same without
her in my life. So if i do find
that one special lady then i would
definitely not cheat... But at the
moment.... The game is on...lol
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 10 Nov 2007 01:15
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 Yes i have in the past. It lead
nowhere and was a mistake.
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 01 Aug 2008 21:36
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 Cheating is wrong but hey it
happens sometimes!
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 15 May 2008 17:48
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 I have cheated but for the good
reason I'm in love with someone
truly so i have cheated my parents
by not telling them true.but i
haven't also tell a lie that i
Don't love someone
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 06 Mar 2008 15:10
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 I am cheating now, and have been
for the last 3 yrs, and my
boyfriend at home has not found out
yet.
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 11 Jan 2008 07:44
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 I have special bond with boyfriend
of 5 years, he gives me freedom to
explore as he knows i am "curious",
fitness instructor at gym kept
eyeing me and complimenting me so i
had affair for 3 months until the
novelty worn off, it was just a
sexual fling and no harm done, i am
sure my boyfriend does the same so
no problem for us both.
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 07 Jan 2008 23:41
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 I have cheated in the past 38
female and for reasons I thought
at the time were legit but looking
back now I had no good reason. Just
being dumb and not trying to fix
what was wrong instead of running
to someone else
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 29 Dec 2007 06:46
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 I've cheated. I would do anything
to say that i haven't but it
wouldn't be true. I was 15 when I
cheated on my boyfriend of 4
months.
The first two months he was the
perfect boyfriend. But when the 3rd
and 4th month came it was like I
never knew where he was and he
wouldn't return my calls or texts.
One of my other guy friends talked
to alot and we got really close to
each other. One thing lead to
another and I started to see this
other guy as more than a friend.
It all happed so fast. It was weird
like I didn't really think about
what I was doing.
Well when my bf of the time found
out I tried to patch things up but
it didn't work and our relationship
just fell apart.
I regret it so so much because I
didn't deserve him.
(It was teen cheating so sex wasn't
involved just to make things
clear.)
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 05 Dec 2007 04:43
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 Cheating is perfectly fine.
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 01 Dec 2007 19:18
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 I actually just joined the lowered
ranks of cheaters. I am that which
I despise.
I am currently in an LDR (long
distance relationship). We do say
"i love you" and I mean it with
every inch of my being. But, I have
never seen him in person. (yes he
does exist and he is who he claims
to be) I cannot see him b/c he is
in the Navy and isn't due for leave
just yet. One drunken night lead to
my demise. And NO, a drunken state
is NOT and excuse for cheating. It
is what it is, no excuses. I regret
every second of what I did and will
do anything to reclaim my status
and dignity.
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 14 Nov 2007 09:05
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 I have cheated, when I was much
younger, and I felt very bad about
it, and wouldn't do it now.
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 11 Nov 2007 23:01
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 I have never cheated and would not
ever cheat on my husband and e has
never cheated on me. We are both in
our 30's if that is any help.
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 09 Nov 2007 23:35
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 Cheating is cheating--and it's
wrong. I don't cheat, but sometimes
I do speed over the speed limit,
and I guess that's a different kind
of cheating. (Maybe I do cheat
then, I don't know!--but NEVER in a
relationship.)
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 11 Nov 2007 03:59
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 I am against it but i do it
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 10 Nov 2007 01:42
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 Any relationship is built around
trust! If their is no trust then
you have nothing! My word is my
bond, but I'm still looking for a
woman I can trust!
Logic101
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 09 Nov 2007 22:56
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 I have never cheated but I have
been cheated on. It doesn't feel
to good when some one you love
cheats on you. I think that if you
are in a relationship with someone
even if its for a short time you
should still be committed to only
them. If you want some one else
then leave, don't stay with them
and lead them on. Leave them and
let them live their own life as for
yourself!
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 17 Nov 2008 00:19
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 I won't say I never, ever cheated,
but I learned long ago, you either
don't get anywhrere because it will
catch up to you in one way or
another, or you won't be able to
live with yourself. Since then, I
won't cheat in any way, shape or
form, whatever the consequences.
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 11 Nov 2007 04:11
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 Cheating is not ok. There are
feelings involved. And crimes are
commited.
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 10 Nov 2007 02:41
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 All of my life i have held firm in
the belief that the worst thing
that you can do to a partner or
that a partner can do to you ,is to
be unfaithful. I think i could
forgive most things but not that. I
used to wonder how i would react if
i came home and found my wife in
bed with another man. Most of my
friends said they would do this and
that to him, her or both. My answer
was that i would do nothing. I
would be so hurt that i would
simply pack a bag ,leave, and
refuse to have any contact or
conversation with her ever. In
fact i wouldnt even blame him, for
i am not married to him and he is
under no obligation to me. I am
married almost 25 years now and we
are content with eachothers
company. But, i would be totally
unable to betray my vows. Corny
aint it :) age 50
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 10 Nov 2007 01:08
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 It's definitely not ok.. It's
really unfair! And i speak with
experience.. I was a kid that time,
so don't think that I'm gonna cheat
now too. Now, i won't cause i know
where it might lead!
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 10 Sep 2008 12:10
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 No you should never cheat, it just
puts you in the status of stuck up
and selfish even if you aren't
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 18 Aug 2008 18:01
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 Cheating is wrong. But some of us
can't help cheating. You know what
I mean?
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 12 Aug 2008 01:29
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 Cheating is wrong,it is better to
be open and honest than to hurt
someone in such a callous selfish
act of betrail,if a person cant
decide who they want to be with
than maybe there better off by
themselves or better off not
forming monagamous relationships if
they cant stick to these
standards,they don't deserve anyone
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 06 Aug 2008 02:55
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 Cheating is saying you don't care
if you kill the person you're with
by catching a disease from the
person you're cheating with. HPV
can kill a woman by cervical
cancer, herpes can kill a baby if
it's born the regular way by health
complications. NEITHER can be
prevented with a condom. For real,
if you do cheat do you ask for a
HIV test first? No, you go with the
moment and forget the consequences.
Then you bring your mistake home to
the person you love in addition to
lies, you are endangering their
life. That's adding insult to
injury, you should go to jail for
attempted manslaughter or
something... Cheating is for
pathetic cowards who are afraid to
face the world alone or maybe
homosexual and trying to deny it.
For those of you who say it's bad
but hey, it happens... Maybe u get
cheated on and get sick, really
sick... Then you'll change your
mind about how bad cheating really
is.
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 25 Jul 2008 19:01
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 No and Never Cheat in relationship.
It is so hurting for the other
loyal partner.
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 23 Jul 2008 12:31
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 I haven't cheated, that's cruel, I
won't cheat. There is only one
person you should ever marry, so
why would I???
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 09 Jul 2008 22:53
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 Cheating is wrong. Everyone does
mistakes. But still it's wrong.
I've never cheated and 'll never.
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 07 Jul 2008 14:40
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 Cheating is wrong no matter the
case. If you don't want to be
faithful then simply end the
relationship and do what you want.
No reason to hurt the other person.
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 01 Jul 2008 23:51
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 NO CHEATING! All you do by doing
that is to ruin a relationship,
hurt a lot of people, and end up
getting hurt yourself. Not going to
cheat, and wouldn't if I wanted to,
I am a faithful woman to my
husband, and I love him with all my
heart, why would I marry him
otherwise, just to hurt him, I
don't think so.
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 14 Jun 2008 01:04
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 CHEATING? Okay? Wtf? You guys on
crack. Cheating proves that the one
you love doesn't love you its
stupid!
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 15 May 2008 19:49
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 Cheating is wrong! I don't cheat.
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 21 Apr 2008 22:01
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 I think it is much better if the
couple is involved in something
like swinging or some such. At
least with those, nobody is
deceiving their spouse or sneaking
around. But I have very serious
issues as cheating, in which it is
happening behind the back of the
person you should be able to trust
explicitly, and vice versa. Any
marriage in which THAT goes on is
doomed.
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 16 Apr 2008 09:50
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 I do not cheat, don't need to, I
live in U.S.A. We are not forced to
be together. I did not cheat in
school, and I don't cheat on games,
cheaters never win and you know the
rest. I have an insanely jealous
boyfriend who accuses me of it, and
it infuriates me.
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 30 Mar 2008 18:12
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 Cheating is wrong and can really
mess up a good relationship and
your life.
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 02 Feb 2008 19:13
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 NO cheating is wrong and even if
they do it to you you shouldn't
even do back at them just leave
them if someone cheats on you then
you are to good for them but if you
cheat on them then they are to good
for you and well you shouldn't be
with that person the first time you
cheat and even if you think about
cheating its wrong.
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 01 Feb 2008 04:04
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 Cheating never think about it even
if you just try pulling others leg
by doing so you are hurting the
persons heart badly and gonna leave
behind a rough patch.
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 18 Jan 2008 08:13
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 Cheating is way wrong, don't even
think about it.
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 14 Jan 2008 23:47
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 No never have ! When i made my vows
i made them 2 god not man.
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 04 Jan 2008 04:50
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 No, cheating is wrong. You should
teat others the way you want to be
treated. In marriage cheating is a
sin. I am 25 and I have never
cheated and will not. A
relationship is based on trust and
cheating would break that trust.
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 03 Dec 2007 07:30
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 I don't bother to get involved if
I'm not in it for the long haul.
Why burn time, why burn feelings,
negative energy?
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 28 Nov 2007 23:44
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 Love should be true and fair. Once
you start loving a person you
should be for him/her only, and
till the time you don't find your
real love you should keep your soul
any body sacred for him/her.
Cheating....... Never possible.
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 16 Nov 2007 12:36
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