This may be a bad analogy but, someone once asked me how much I love my betrothed. I told them I would die for her. They responded, '' yes, but will you LIVE for her?" So please LIVE for him. Better yet, live for yourself and in time the pain will pass and you may end up with him again.

 When my brother tried it he was technically dead. He had no pulse when i found him luckily i found him in time and did CPR and got air in his lungs. (he hung himself) He is alive today thank the lord but all i know is that he regretted even trying it because of all the problems he made than the problems he solved. DONT DO IT ITS NOT GOING TO HELP ANYTHING!

 One question:would you try it?

 I think it would show that the potentially suicidal person is unbalanced. If a show of repentance is desired, demonstrate rehabilitation, getting on with living as seems "proper". There's a middle ground between being a Pain and being a Polyanna. A responsible, caring person who isn't dating other people or partying may prompt the boyfriend to reconsider eventually. For temporary solace, if you food habits allow it, consider massive quantities of chocolate & physical exercise to get through the withdrawal symptoms from loss of romantic love.

 Suicide to say your sorry you need help seek some in many religions it's wrong to kill yourself .sacrificing your life so thers may live is noble.,, but to die to say your sorry is not noble or even a worthy cause life is precious if they cant except the words that I'm sorry then you don't need them it not right to ask someone to die for an apology .i would give up my life for my child and family to save them but never for an apology

 No! Think of all the good things you could do. Don't kill yourself at an early age. You have so much to look forward to! Don't!

 Killing yourself is not the answer. To show someone that you're sorry, write them a apology note if you can't talk to them face to face.

 No do not do it ! Nobody is worth your life nobody! I know how you feel sometimes but in a different way I lost my brother over a year now he died of heart problems and my parents are heart broken as i am too. They seem to have forgotten that they have another child my birthday is coming up and no body seems to care my relationship is falling apart He is abusive and yells at me all the time and puts me down. I think that suicide would just solve all my problems and have thought about it many times just Taking a bottle of pills going to sleep and never wake up again .But then i think of my parents and what they have been thru with the loss of my brother and that's what stops me . I know life is hard but we need to try to be strong and hang in there for the ones who love us! So be strong and don't do it. And i will try to be strong also! Things will get better for you i hope!

 You should never do something foolish like that its not worth it, it wont make anything better it'll make him feel really terrible too and what about your parents you wouldn't put them through that would you

 Do not do this!recently someone dear in my family took their life.we were left with emotional turmoil of not understanding why?from experience from being on the other side mourning and seeing love ones dear to me going Thurthis emotional disaster of pain.i have learned there's a better outlet than suicide.i too have thought that, this was the only way to solve my problems and in a way i feel i have had my eyes awaken to the outcomes of what life to the other person would be like.doing this will not show this person that you are truly sorry this will only hurt this person even more,and others around you and will not solve your problem it will only make things worse.please i know your pain please seek help realize that hurting yourself will not get results ,hurting yourself will just create emotional pain for your love ones,suicide can also be a domino effect leading to other attempts from others.think of the people who love you,they are there i promise,don't hurt them,talk to someone and seek guidance your life is valuable every ones is,your significant other will realize your pain if you talk to them.hurting yourself will not change the fact that you hurt him, it will only hurt him even more!

 Oh please do not do this, take it from someone who lost a husband- not by suicide, but he died regardless, for the family left behind it is hell on earth, and very very devastating- please do not do it

 Without a doubt taking your life is not worth this man or anything else. We can be hard on people in life without realizing the state of mind we are putting people in. Hope this helps you...whatever you do talk to your doctor and local friends about help in this area.

 A lot of people who commit suicide do it because they are trying to make someone feel guilty about something. Suicide devastates and destroys families and friends. Death is not an idea that should be played with??!?!? I lost someone in my immediate family who was only 12 and quite frankly i find this whole thing slightly insulting..

 Please talk to someone you trust. There is no justification for suicide, and no-one will understand, they will think you are silly and vain.

 Putting others through that kind of emotional turmoil is not a "loving" gesture. They will be left to feel bad, while you took the easy way out.
You cannot change what you did, so he will either forgive you, or not. Either way you will have learned from the mistake!

 You think by committing suicide, you will be showing how much you love your boyfriend? You want to punish yourself because of what you have done? Maybe what you did wasn't right, but we can all be forgiven for even worse mistakes than that. First of you have to forgive yourself. If you commit suicide, think of everyone it will affect; your parents, your teachers, your friends, any brothers or sisters, your grandparents, etc. Etc...they all love you. Talk to someone you trust about what you did; like a teacher or counselor or a caring family member. Then tell you boyfriend, again, how sorry you are. He has been hurt so it will take some time for him to forgive you...he needs time alone to process everything. Don't give up on yourself...you have many people here at blurtit who care about your welfare.

 Suicide is NOT the way to show your boyfriend that you love him! You made a mistake, and you want to fix it. Suicide will not fix anything. Think about how much pain you will cause the man that you love. He will feel responsible, and will be angry and upset with you. People consider others who commit suicide to be cowards. They are not seen as people whom are feeling remorse for what they did. Your family, your friends, and your boyfriend will all be punished by your actions, if you commit suicide. They will all be forced to feel like it was their faults, and forced to wonder how they could have stopped it. DO NOT DO THIS! You have so much more to live for. If you live, then you do have a chance to make things right with him. If you die, only pain follows. Please talk to a counselor, and friends or family. You need to work this out. SUICIDE DOES NOT SOLVE ANYTHING.

 Suicide is not the answer to show your regret. Only cowards commit suicide. You can talk to your friend, & tell him sorry about what happened.

 This is NOT the way to handle your anger and frustration. There are so many things to live for in this world, and making one stupid mistake should NOT make you want to take your own life. If i were you, I would get serious help RIGHT AWAY and I would try to straighten this out. Talk to your parents or some other friends so you have more support. Finally, the only way your boyfriend will forgive you is if you talk to him. He may not want to talk to you at first, but eventually he will want to discuss what you've done. I am going to repeat myself, but please DO NOT ruin your life over some guy! If you really feel this way, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE get some help. I cannot stress this enough.

 Hello lost26. We talked a little bit about this before, and as i said before, its gonna take time for this pain to dissipate. You dont know what the future holds for you. It may not be today, but your boyfriend could call you at any time to talk. Like amore01 suggested, send him an e-mail and let him know how you feel and that you made a mistake. Tell him you will do anything to make it right with him. This pain your feeling is not only for a reason, but its important. Pain is something that tells us that what we are doing, or did is wrong, and is a reminder to not make the same mistake twice. Suicide is not the answer. Talk to your friends, your parents, your friends on blurtit, but dont take your own life. Its not the answer.

 Suicide is the worst way to show regret for something you did!!. It's like telling someone, "I did it because of you.". People have been known to commit suicide to make others feel guilty. In this case it could make the guy feel guilty and hate you for doing it, so I would reconsider your thoughts.

Truly repenting implies a willingness to change. Taking one's own life is not change. How would you ever know if you're forgiven if you commit suicide? What good would come of it if you were gone? Suicide isn't going to bring him back, is it?

If you're considering suicide, it's obvious that you're not thinking clearly. Just stop, and take a step back. You made a mistake, I assume you've made it clear that you're sorry, but he doesn't accept that.

One of the important parts of a relationship is the willingness to forgive. If he can't find it within him to forgive you for an idescretion that you are sincerely sorry for, why do you want him so back badly, and why do you think you can't live without him?

I may seem unfeeling about it, but just the contrary. I don't want to think that you might do something so final for all the wrong reasons. Loss can be very painful, but it can be survived. We may even learn a lesson from it.

Please don't do anything foolish. Just think, somebody would have to deal with losing you.

 I am at a loss to understand how removing oneself from the planet makes up/recompenses for a misdeed of any kind or can make a difference. If one kills themselves, and the offended one only forgives and provides for your apologetic gesture on that basis, then what kind of love did that person have for you in the first place so worth dying for?

The person who loves you will extend their compassion to you in your mistake, and hope for your happiness, even if it is they who cannot provide it.

Your sweetheart does not want this kind of gesture if he loves you. And if he loves you, and you love him, you will not take your connection away from one another by removing yourself from the planet. This would be yet another thing you would need to seek his forgiveness for, not an absolution of the previous mistake.

The best way to show someone you have remorse is 1) to admit your wrong to them 2) to acknowledge their hurt, and 3) to ask how you can make it right. That is the sincerest way to demonstrate your understanding of trespass against them, and in the end, this is all we can hope for as human beings: That we accept we are imperfect and that we seek always to be improving.

Love yourself enough to know this, and that you are not alone in being imperfect or having made a mistake that brought you sorrow. Life will get better for you as you learn to love yourself as much as you do this man.

 I'm a psychology Major, and suicide is an act of TOTAL STUPIDITY and SELFISHNESS!
It also shows that the STUPID person will be remembered as CRAZY for they believe people will PITY them for doing this STUPID act, after they are gone!
And that is the total opposite of the truth!
They will FOREVER KNOWN as STUPID!

(Per) PhD DR. Charles Durant
The world famous Dr. Will Durant's Grandson!!!

 NO! Of course not. Committing suicide is a very , very stupid way to show someone that you are extremely sorry. You should ask him if you could talk to him for 5 minutes to explain yourself