When I go to the store to buy chicken I always want meat on the bone! And I like my women the same way, NO SKINNIES and must have more than the minimal daily requirements of vitamin "A"!

 It sounds as if your friend has some sort of obsession with her body image or poor self esteem. You would be the best judge of whether she needs to take off weight since we can 't see her. If she feels she has nothing to offer aside from her body in order to attract others, liposuction isn't going to be any easy solution.

Magazines and models give us an unrealistic idea of what we should look like, and very few can achieve such "perfection". What will happen if your friend doesn't feel "sexy" after the procedure? It's possible she may never be satisfied with her body.

These images have lead to eating disorders. Women can become so obsessed with their weight that it starts to control their thoughts and their lives.

Another thing to consider is that liposuction is surgery, and there are risks to any surgical procedure. Any doctor with his patients' welfare in mind should refuse to do the procedure if it isn't necessary for a person's health..

 I have seen the aftermath of liposuction, and they are horrific. I know, that in most cases the lumpiness and stuff goes away... But I cannot believe a woman would put herself thru such self-mutilation for some skewed sense of beauty.

Tell her to get a joke book and develop her sense of humor instead. I find funny, intelligent women to be sexiest of all.

 Besides the fact that liposuction can be dangerous, as in all "surgeries" I think it is not necessary in order to be "sexy' .I honestly think sexiness in in our attitude and behavior, and as a Christian woman I do not think it is necessary to dress sexy. Let's keep a little to the imagination. When my husband was alive, he thought I was incredibly sexy, even after 2 pregnancies, 4 surgeries and quite a bit of weight gain. I lost a lot of weight after he died and I wish he could see me now. But I rest assured that he loved me and found me sexy just the way I was.

 Sexy is in the eyes of the beholder. No need to mess with what mother nature doles out.

 No I don’t agree with this statement. One could make himself sexier by dressing good. My opinion is that God made everyone beautiful there is no need to change your physics for looking sexier. One should well dress himself/herself, do some exercise and should take care of the diet. That is the best way of keeping oneself prettier.

 They could suck her guts out but if she looks like a dog then she will never be sexy. You don't have to be skinny to be sexy.

 No that's not the key to being sexy. Its all about how you feel about yourself that makes you sexy and you need to look good but a man can tell if you feel sexy are if you are insecure

 Such ignorance,for pete's sake!Lips or bottoms,why do we have such a blurred image in our mirror of life!Everybody is beautiful.God made us that way.why change it?

 I know plenty of women who are 'Reubinesque' having quite a bit of fluff, and they are sexy ladies.

 Sexy is what how you carry yourself, the way you might dress and make sure you always think that way.

 There are a lot of big, beautiful women out there who are way more sexy than me with my slim figure. Be proud of what you've got or in the wonderful words of the Producers "If you've got it, flaunt it." ;)

 No don't listen to anybody who says your not sexy just tell your self that your sexy ok

 No way being sexy is not about getting surgery. Embrace your body, love your body, there is nothing more sexy than that

 Maybe she should just leave the burgers and fries alone for a while. It's less dangerous and saves money, too. Ask her to ask her Plastic Surgeon about how the fat comes back. For example, if she has lipo on her tummy, if she doesn't change eating patterns and gains weight, her arms may store the fat, or her chin, or her back. The fat comes back and stores itself in other weird places.

 Nope
a woman is sexy because of who she is. Having a woman who weighs nothing, and has no class is way worse than a heavy set woman who is confident about who she is.

 I think being sexy is eating right,exerciseing regularlly and make what you wear look right.Do your hair and not leave it NAPPY!!I'm am a black African American women that is very happy with myself and I'm not that skinny body that you see in the magazines.I have some meat on my bones and I love every curve just the way there placed.YOU DONT HAVE TO BE A STICK TO BE SEXY!!

 Liposuction is for the lazy. Unless you really cant loose the weight and it is really bumming you out.

 Liposuction is a cop out, in my opinion. If your friend changes her lifestyle - excersize and eat right - then she will feel waaaaay more sexy then she would from liposuction. She will repect herself more if she does it with hard work and determination instead.

 Why get liposuction. It is a quick solution to a problem that will most likely come back. It is more effective to eat healthy and change your lifestyle. If you just get the fat sucked out, what is to say that you won't keep eating the way you do? Besides, if you just get all the fat sucked out like that, you are more likely to have an excess of skin and a saggy belly. Who wants to look at that? Do it the natural way and work out. Or just love yourself the way you are. Not everyone loves the skinny model type. There is someone in the world for everyone.

 One of the most successful sales gimmicks used by playboy magazine(so i am told), is the readers wives section. Apparently , after looking at page after page of lusty babes, men started to get bored. Its the (if youve seen one youve seen them all syndrome). So suddenly women of all shapes and sizes and agegroups are capturing a whole new market. Now while i dont approve of these magazines, it demonstrates perfectly what most people already know. Its not the liposuction or the breast lifts that make you sexy, but knowing how to use what you have. I think the singer pink is very sexy and raunchy, but she is hardly model material.

 I don't think that lipisuction is neccessary for a woman to feel sexy. One being tha liposuction can cause major infection but also because its not a cure, just a band-aid. Right now she might now like her body because she likes she's fat but after she's done she might begin picking other parts of her body that she sees as imperfect. Your friend may just be extremely self-
conconsious. If not and she has really just been trying to lose wieight and is unable to than its okay but i wouldn't go there.

 I think if a women feels good about herself then she doesn't need any plastic surgery or lipo. Women who do that are extremely insecure about themselves

 No need for it u can be sexy with some effort and work out

 Society brings us physical images of people who are not average or realistic even, but whose images have been formed by fantastical ideals, primarily adolescent, unrealistic ones. True for both women and men.

The reality is that not all can achieve it,and we would be wise to question it.

But to your point, I suppose we would need to get into the head of your friend to determine 'what is "sexy"? ' Liposuction is "needed" in the mind of those who are unfit or obese and/or who have adopted cultural unrealistic expectations. For the rest, lipsocustion is one more step on the way to try to be what we feel we aren't, though physically it may not be needed for either "beauty" (subjective) or fitness.

Sexy, like beautiful, is in the eyes of the beholder. Thankfully, our creator has made us many who appreciate all forms and shape of the human body.

Your friend would do well to understand what makes a person sexy beyond body image, and evaluate from that position, rather from the sometimes unrealistic of society. None of us here can say to your friend if she "needs" it, for her own perception of her beauty and sexiness resides soley within her.

Personally, I think it is indicated in rare cases only, but I don't occupy the mind, heart, body or life of your friend, either...