 It sounds like he's a toyboy.
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 27 Sep 2007 17:21
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 Age doesn't matter one bit. I
think that just as the two love
each other than the age is just a
number. If you two love each other
than go for it! :)
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 17 Nov 2008 00:22
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 No age doesn't matter one little
bit if you love him and he loves
you who cares what other people
think as long as you are happy then
you have no reason to worry!
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 02 Oct 2008 17:08
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 Adults is cool but if he was 12 and
you were 21/ something like that
no.
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 30 Aug 2008 03:44
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 As long is between adults its
alright. Some young people are
looking for qualities they can find
in their own age.
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 31 Jul 2008 02:59
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 If you feel comfortable, and you
like him, and you don't feel the
age is too different, then I
beleive, keep going on with the
relationship.
Good luck! :)
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 09 Jul 2008 23:55
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 Def for it!! Go for it girl
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 08 Jul 2008 03:39
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 As long as it is perfectly legal
then I don't think their is an
issue here. I don't think their
should be an age on love. People
may talk but just don't listen.
Good luck to you!
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 18 Jun 2008 16:19
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 Well my dear I am voting for you
but with caveats: It really depends
on the person. If he is a young 40
(not in looks, but in actions) and
you share interests, likes and
dislikes, can talk about subjects
without either of you getting
bored, then it's probably okay. If
you were 18 and he 30 though, I
would say no. Age matters less as
you age. For instance 28 and 48:
Probably not so good, but 58 and
78: Might make it if 78 is in good
health. 12 yrs is really nothing
once you reach a certain point. If
you don't have all those things in
common that I mentioned before
though, you better cool it.
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 18 Jun 2008 07:41
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 I agree. I don't think age really
matters...just as long as you love
each other is fine. If it's a good
relationship...then i would say
that his age has no effect on your
time together.
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 15 Jun 2008 19:59
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 No age does not matter if you both
are happy enough with each other,
no matter what the world says coz
its your life, but your better half
should understand you in some
situation coz that is the main
thing but if you think there is no
such problem then that's the best
part, well my husband is 8 years
older to me, and he always try to
understand me in some ways, but one
thing problems are the thing which
you don't need to invite so be
ready to fight against it... Best
of luck to you both.. Live a happy
life.
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 22 May 2008 07:53
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 AS long as there is love then age
should not and will not matter.
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 21 May 2008 02:06
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 It doesn't matter at all...1
year...2 years...No big deal how
big of a difference...Trust
everyone that is for...not against!
They suck...Plus...its not like hes
100 and your 17....gosh.
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 20 May 2008 20:52
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 I suppose age doesn't matter. But
there should be some type of
ethical and common sense type of
reason.
Personally, I don't think I'd be
able to date someone younger than
me, or someone too much older than
me. I doubt I'd ever fall in love
because I'll be reminded of the
gap.
I feel uncomfortable when people
older than me takes passes at me.
I''ve been told I look from 16-19,
but it just freaks me out when
people in their late 20s early
thirties try and make a pass. .
.
I seriously think, "Don't you even
question why I look so freakishly
young?"
D:
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 30 Apr 2008 23:29
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 I'm 29 she is 22 .. I've never been
happier... Only 7 years but still
to me ... Age is not an issue.
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 29 Apr 2008 20:21
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 At your ages, I do not think age
matters much. If you are mature
enough, you cn overcome minor
differences in perspective.
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 22 Mar 2008 17:36
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 At 48 i am not old nor young my
wife is 8 yrs older then me.
My parents had 19 yrs difference
between them in his favor he was
older but they lived together since
1946 ok every couple has ups and
downs but even so called good
matches like only 1 or 2 yrs
difference can have good sparks
flying in heated arguments,and in
most of those couples it is more
what the family and relations say
and want to see then that they
would be a good match i found out
the hard way in relationships that
a pretty face isn't everything
there is a saying in Holland that i
will try to translate to the best
of my knowledge it goes like:
From a nice plate you never eat
alone.
Meaning that if you find a nice
faced girl you always have to be on
guard for other guy's stealing your
girl.
And beauty is only skindeep,i
rather have a bit less outside
beauty and a much deeper feeling
from the inside, cause that is what
keeps any relationship afloat.
Not the Pamela anderson types where
you have to watch out with that all
the guys don't trip over their own
tongue hanging out of their
mouth.
If you feel good with him no matter
what anyone says it is and always
will be your choice what you want
to do with your life,you feel
secure with him follow your heart
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 20 Mar 2008 14:54
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 My wife is 12yrs younger than me
and we have been together almost
20yrs and have a 5yr old son, so it
can work. When I first met her it
raised a few eyebrows as she was
only 16 - we took it slow, no
pressure from either of us, we
moved in together when she was 19.
We eventually got married in 1999,
the key is love and trust, plus the
fact that in my head I am still 25.
A friend of hers once said she was
lucky as she had married her 1st
love, so the magic will never go.
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 14 Mar 2008 12:20
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 Yaa i can say you that age doesn't
matter in relationship if you can
do sacrifices because the person
whose age is more than you 12 yrs
will think so broad so just be
prepare urself that you will get
mature with his age.Becoz the life
turns the way you handle it so
handle it the best you can and you
will positively don't feel that he
is too old than you.
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 05 Mar 2008 14:50
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 I don't thing age matters much.
Just make sure that everything else
that makes a marriage successful is
there.
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 19 Feb 2008 23:48
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 At ages 28 and 40, I would hope you
would both have enough life
experience to judge for yourselves.
However, if you look at someone
who is 18 and someone who is 30,
the life experience in between
those ages is generally vastly
different and could make a
significant difference in how the
two relate.
All the best to the 2 of you.
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 30 Nov 2007 05:40
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 To each his/her own. I had a
relationship with a much older
women than me, because i was in
praise if older women to start off
with and started at an early age.
But the last older women that i was
with showed me life in a different
aspect.meaning everything in
general. She was young at heart and
we were compatible.
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 30 Nov 2007 05:04
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 As per me age doesnot matter if you
both loves each other truely and
wants to continue a life long
relationship.But be sure that the
person is a soft one and not rigid
minded.
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 03 Nov 2007 12:59
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 IN YOUR CASE I think it's fine. I
think SOME couples with large age
differences get together to satisfy
some need they have, i.e. Mother
complex. When an older man weds a
woman who is a lot younger it can
cause problems when he is at the
age he no longer wants to go out or
if he requires medical care. "He"
was "the older man" and desireable
at one age but being older he could
be having medical problems whereas
the younger woman would be fit and
raring to go. I don't think an 80
year old is very compatible with a
40 year old for example.
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 12 Oct 2007 21:43
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 Honey age is only a number your
heart wants what your heart wants.
Your heart dont have numbers so no
age is not a factor if you are in
love.
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 04 Oct 2007 21:54
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 At my age, age doesn't matter. My
B/F is 13 years older than I. If I
was in my mid to lower twenties,
then yes 13 years would have been
huge.
Way way way back in the day when my
grandparents were at the dating age
age never mattered. My G/f was 20
years older than my G/m!!! Back
then you were considered an old
spinster if you weren't married by
the age of twenty. Hmmm As the
world turns.....
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 27 Sep 2007 23:20
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 Although age does not really matter
it does depend on the age of the
youger person.I would object to my
14 daughter going out with a 24
year old, but I would not object to
my 24 year old going out with a 34
year old
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 27 Sep 2007 17:28
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 Age doesn't matter a lot when you
both are in deep love, if u feel
comfortable and get along very well
with each other in your daily life,
i think 12 years is not a big deal
to you.
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 27 Sep 2007 17:12
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 Hi, i think age does not matter at
all, especially 12 years difference
is nothing as long as you guys get
along with each other. But if you
doubt this i think you are not
comfortable with his age, then it
matters.
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 27 Sep 2007 17:06
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 You're only as old as you
feel...so, NO, age shouldn't be a
factor in determining a
relationship. I know some 65 year
olds who are more active and young
at heart than some of my 30 year
old friends.
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 27 Sep 2007 15:49
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 My dear friend, it depends on what
type of relationship u r looking
for. Age is not really a factor for
a good relationship
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 27 Sep 2007 13:42
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 Age doesn't matter. I'm 34 n my bf
is 21. We've been on for 2 years
now.
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 21 Nov 2007 12:54
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 NO, AGE DEFINITELY DOESN'T MATTER.
That's the essence of REAL love--it
just overcomes EVERYTHING that
comes along the way. No amount of
problem could ever break any
relationship if the two people
involved REGARDLESS of their age,
have an honest companionship.
Nevertheless, I suppose we also
have to consider the level of
maturity and open-mindedness of
each person, because the lack of
those two important factors is a
surefire way to start the breakage
of any relationship.
Another thing,there are things to
consider when you want to be in a
relationship with a person who is
"far too old" or "far too young"
etc. However, all these matters of
consideration all depends on ONLY
the two people involved. It all
comes down to one thing--if their
really IN LOVE then NOTHING should
ever be a reason enough to keep
them apart.
Problems occur every now and then,
they're a natural spice to our
boring lives. It's just up to us
how we're going to handle it. SO, I
REPEAT, AGE DOESN'T MATTER.
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 05 Nov 2008 07:44
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 I totally agree with all other
comments on this subject. It
Does'nt matter. I am 25 yrs older
then my current B-friend he is
wonderful for me, and I could not
have asked for a more patient,
kind, and soul loving man, in the
man that chose me, For Me, and
excepted me for who I am. ^j^
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 02 Oct 2007 19:01
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 No, age can not matter, love is
have no age limited.
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 17 Jul 2008 10:54
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 19 years older than my wife. She
likes it. I like it. Age doesn't
matter for us.
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 09 May 2008 19:31
by  Guest
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 I have always been in relationships
with older men and it seems to
work for me age is just a number
and if you have fun and have things
in common than i do not think it is
an issue. I think older men baby
you more and are more into how you
feel and know how to treat a woman
better maybe because they have more
experience i don't know but i like
older men.
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 30 Apr 2008 04:34
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 Age doesnt matter at all it is only
a number. Love is the key to make
any relationship work and as long
as there is love in your
relationship then nothing else
matters.
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 27 Feb 2008 15:59
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 I don't think he's too old for you,
but, if you're worried about what
other people think, then I think
you're too immature for him. In my
opinion, feeling and actions are
more important than calendars.
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 10 Feb 2008 10:17
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 Age doesn't matters unless n
until..its just a matter of Affair
and Attraction...but if u want to
move further in your
relationship...its not possible..n
not that good too..
And that can create a lot of
problems in your day to day
life..like age and ego problem...n
Attitude problem...
These are nothing but...Human
nature..
So..I m against it..
Age really matters a lot.
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 14 Jan 2008 19:21
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 My husband is 11 years my senior
and it makes no difference at all.
We have so much fun together, so
much in common, etc.
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 14 Jan 2008 05:46
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 It doesn't matter as long as u care
respect and understand one
another.. Its just a number! And u
shouldn't care wat ppl say ppl talk
all the time its yr life.. If u
really love him and think he is fit
for u then u shouldn't rely on
people opinion. Its yr future at
the end of the day
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 23 Nov 2007 20:18
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 In true love, it isn't the age that
matters it's your feelings and your
souls.
If age really feels like a
problematic factor it probably
isn't going to work and I wouldn't
say it was true love.
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 14 Nov 2007 04:27
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 I am in the same situation. My
boyfriend is 12 years older than me
and I am 20. NO, age does not
matter.
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 01 Nov 2007 20:52
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 Age doesn't matter in certain
cirmcustances,for an example i like
to date people thats older than me,
because guys mature slower than
ladies,but i only date boys
1yror2yrs older than me,but the
child molesting stuff does
matter.....
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 14 Oct 2007 07:12
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