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Do U Think When It Comes Realtionships Age Really Matters, I Have Met Sumone Who Is 12 Years Older Then, I Am 28 And He Is 40. People Have Said That He Is To Old But I Dont Think It Matters How Old He Is, I Think The Feelings We Have For Each Other R More Important. If U Think He Is To Old 4 Me Plz Vote AGAINST
by Boggabrown Boggabrown
 27 Sep 2007 11:50  
Against
 It sounds like he's a toyboy.
 27 Sep 2007 17:21
by 3m1l13 3m1l13
 Age doesn't matter one bit. I think that just as the two love each other than the age is just a number. If you two love each other than go for it! :)
 17 Nov 2008 00:22
by Dragon143 Dragon143
 No age doesn't matter one little bit if you love him and he loves you who cares what other people think as long as you are happy then you have no reason to worry!
 02 Oct 2008 17:08
by Gymfreak Gymfreak
 Adults is cool but if he was 12 and you were 21/ something like that no.
 30 Aug 2008 03:44
by Redeagle Redeagle
 As long is between adults its alright. Some young people are looking for qualities they can find in their own age.
 31 Jul 2008 02:59
by Panson Panson
 If you feel comfortable, and you like him, and you don't feel the age is too different, then I beleive, keep going on with the relationship.

Good luck! :)
 09 Jul 2008 23:55
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 Def for it!! Go for it girl
 08 Jul 2008 03:39
by Whitt2008 Whitt2008
 As long as it is perfectly legal then I don't think their is an issue here. I don't think their should be an age on love. People may talk but just don't listen. Good luck to you!
 18 Jun 2008 16:19
by Zexion Zexion
 Well my dear I am voting for you but with caveats: It really depends on the person. If he is a young 40 (not in looks, but in actions) and you share interests, likes and dislikes, can talk about subjects without either of you getting bored, then it's probably okay. If you were 18 and he 30 though, I would say no. Age matters less as you age. For instance 28 and 48: Probably not so good, but 58 and 78: Might make it if 78 is in good health. 12 yrs is really nothing once you reach a certain point. If you don't have all those things in common that I mentioned before though, you better cool it.
 18 Jun 2008 07:41
by Okiegranny Okiegranny
 I agree. I don't think age really matters...just as long as you love each other is fine. If it's a good relationship...then i would say that his age has no effect on your time together.
 15 Jun 2008 19:59
by Lucy14nyu Lucy14nyu
 No age does not matter if you both are happy enough with each other, no matter what the world says coz its your life, but your better half should understand you in some situation coz that is the main thing but if you think there is no such problem then that's the best part, well my husband is 8 years older to me, and he always try to understand me in some ways, but one thing problems are the thing which you don't need to invite so be ready to fight against it... Best of luck to you both.. Live a happy life.
 22 May 2008 07:53
by Ryandaliah Ryandaliah
 AS long as there is love then age should not and will not matter.
 21 May 2008 02:06
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 It doesn't matter at all...1 year...2 years...No big deal how big of a difference...Trust everyone that is for...not against! They suck...Plus...its not like hes 100 and your 17....gosh.
 20 May 2008 20:52
by Ownedd Ownedd
 I suppose age doesn't matter. But there should be some type of ethical and common sense type of reason.

Personally, I don't think I'd be able to date someone younger than me, or someone too much older than me. I doubt I'd ever fall in love because I'll be reminded of the gap.

I feel uncomfortable when people older than me takes passes at me. I''ve been told I look from 16-19, but it just freaks me out when people in their late 20s early thirties try and make a pass. . .

I seriously think, "Don't you even question why I look so freakishly young?"

D:
 30 Apr 2008 23:29
by Fxxkrkio Fxxkrkio
 I'm 29 she is 22 .. I've never been happier... Only 7 years but still to me ... Age is not an issue.
 29 Apr 2008 20:21
by Kmo Kmo
 At your ages, I do not think age matters much. If you are mature enough, you cn overcome minor differences in perspective.
 22 Mar 2008 17:36
by Pencil Pencil
 At 48 i am not old nor young my wife is 8 yrs older then me.
My parents had 19 yrs difference between them in his favor he was older but they lived together since 1946 ok every couple has ups and downs but even so called good matches like only 1 or 2 yrs difference can have good sparks flying in heated arguments,and in most of those couples it is more what the family and relations say and want to see then that they would be a good match i found out the hard way in relationships that a pretty face isn't everything there is a saying in Holland that i will try to translate to the best of my knowledge it goes like:
From a nice plate you never eat alone.
Meaning that if you find a nice faced girl you always have to be on guard for other guy's stealing your girl.
And beauty is only skindeep,i rather have a bit less outside beauty and a much deeper feeling from the inside, cause that is what keeps any relationship afloat.
Not the Pamela anderson types where you have to watch out with that all the guys don't trip over their own tongue hanging out of their mouth.
If you feel good with him no matter what anyone says it is and always will be your choice what you want to do with your life,you feel secure with him follow your heart
 20 Mar 2008 14:54
by Dutchman Dutchman
 My wife is 12yrs younger than me and we have been together almost 20yrs and have a 5yr old son, so it can work. When I first met her it raised a few eyebrows as she was only 16 - we took it slow, no pressure from either of us, we moved in together when she was 19. We eventually got married in 1999, the key is love and trust, plus the fact that in my head I am still 25. A friend of hers once said she was lucky as she had married her 1st love, so the magic will never go.
 14 Mar 2008 12:20
by Rostdu Rostdu
 Yaa i can say you that age doesn't matter in relationship if you can do sacrifices because the person whose age is more than you 12 yrs will think so broad so just be prepare urself that you will get mature with his age.Becoz the life turns the way you handle it so handle it the best you can and you will positively don't feel that he is too old than you.
 05 Mar 2008 14:50
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 I don't thing age matters much. Just make sure that everything else that makes a marriage successful is there.
 19 Feb 2008 23:48
by Rev_eb Rev_eb
 At ages 28 and 40, I would hope you would both have enough life experience to judge for yourselves. However, if you look at someone who is 18 and someone who is 30, the life experience in between those ages is generally vastly different and could make a significant difference in how the two relate.

All the best to the 2 of you.
 30 Nov 2007 05:40
by Amore01 Amore01
 To each his/her own. I had a relationship with a much older women than me, because i was in praise if older women to start off with and started at an early age. But the last older women that i was with showed me life in a different aspect.meaning everything in general. She was young at heart and we were compatible.
 30 Nov 2007 05:04
by Roger46 Roger46
 As per me age doesnot matter if you both loves each other truely and wants to continue a life long relationship.But be sure that the person is a soft one and not rigid minded.
 03 Nov 2007 12:59
by Aishawa Aishawa
 IN YOUR CASE I think it's fine. I think SOME couples with large age differences get together to satisfy some need they have, i.e. Mother complex. When an older man weds a woman who is a lot younger it can cause problems when he is at the age he no longer wants to go out or if he requires medical care. "He" was "the older man" and desireable at one age but being older he could be having medical problems whereas the younger woman would be fit and raring to go. I don't think an 80 year old is very compatible with a 40 year old for example.
 12 Oct 2007 21:43
by Faydra Faydra
 Honey age is only a number your heart wants what your heart wants. Your heart dont have numbers so no age is not a factor if you are in love.
 04 Oct 2007 21:54
by Grace33 Grace33
 At my age, age doesn't matter. My B/F is 13 years older than I. If I was in my mid to lower twenties, then yes 13 years would have been huge.
Way way way back in the day when my grandparents were at the dating age age never mattered. My G/f was 20 years older than my G/m!!! Back then you were considered an old spinster if you weren't married by the age of twenty. Hmmm As the world turns.....
 27 Sep 2007 23:20
by Chatter Chatter
 Although age does not really matter it does depend on the age of the youger person.I would object to my 14 daughter going out with a 24 year old, but I would not object to my 24 year old going out with a 34 year old
 27 Sep 2007 17:28
by Lozroz Lozroz
 Age doesn't matter a lot when you both are in deep love, if u feel comfortable and get along very well with each other in your daily life, i think 12 years is not a big deal to you.
 27 Sep 2007 17:12
by Blt_junta Blt_junta
 Hi, i think age does not matter at all, especially 12 years difference is nothing as long as you guys get along with each other. But if you doubt this i think you are not comfortable with his age, then it matters.
 27 Sep 2007 17:06
by Lovelyme Lovelyme
 You're only as old as you feel...so, NO, age shouldn't be a factor in determining a relationship. I know some 65 year olds who are more active and young at heart than some of my 30 year old friends.
 27 Sep 2007 15:49
by Melissa3 Melissa3
 My dear friend, it depends on what type of relationship u r looking for. Age is not really a factor for a good relationship
 27 Sep 2007 13:42
by Skyadamani Skyadamani
 Age doesn't matter. I'm 34 n my bf is 21. We've been on for 2 years now.
 21 Nov 2007 12:54
by Yenoh Yenoh
 NO, AGE DEFINITELY DOESN'T MATTER. That's the essence of REAL love--it just overcomes EVERYTHING that comes along the way. No amount of problem could ever break any relationship if the two people involved REGARDLESS of their age, have an honest companionship.

Nevertheless, I suppose we also have to consider the level of maturity and open-mindedness of each person, because the lack of those two important factors is a surefire way to start the breakage of any relationship.

Another thing,there are things to consider when you want to be in a relationship with a person who is "far too old" or "far too young" etc. However, all these matters of consideration all depends on ONLY the two people involved. It all comes down to one thing--if their really IN LOVE then NOTHING should ever be a reason enough to keep them apart.

Problems occur every now and then, they're a natural spice to our boring lives. It's just up to us how we're going to handle it. SO, I REPEAT, AGE DOESN'T MATTER.
 05 Nov 2008 07:44
by Antigone86 Antigone86
 I totally agree with all other comments on this subject. It Does'nt matter. I am 25 yrs older then my current B-friend he is wonderful for me, and I could not have asked for a more patient, kind, and soul loving man, in the man that chose me, For Me, and excepted me for who I am. ^j^
 02 Oct 2007 19:01
by Byeovic Byeovic
 No, age can not matter, love is have no age limited.
 17 Jul 2008 10:54
by Ganeshneha Ganeshneha
 19 years older than my wife. She likes it. I like it. Age doesn't matter for us.
 09 May 2008 19:31
by Guest Guest
 I have always been in relationships with older men and it seems to work for me age is just a number and if you have fun and have things in common than i do not think it is an issue. I think older men baby you more and are more into how you feel and know how to treat a woman better maybe because they have more experience i don't know but i like older men.
 30 Apr 2008 04:34
by Lilmama1 Lilmama1
 Age doesnt matter at all it is only a number. Love is the key to make any relationship work and as long as there is love in your relationship then nothing else matters.
 27 Feb 2008 15:59
by Clarina_1 Clarina_1
 I don't think he's too old for you, but, if you're worried about what other people think, then I think you're too immature for him. In my opinion, feeling and actions are more important than calendars.
 10 Feb 2008 10:17
by Hibrida Hibrida
 Age doesn't matters unless n until..its just a matter of Affair and Attraction...but if u want to move further in your relationship...its not possible..n not that good too..
And that can create a lot of problems in your day to day life..like age and ego problem...n Attitude problem...
These are nothing but...Human nature..
So..I m against it..
Age really matters a lot.
 14 Jan 2008 19:21
by Sizzy_suds Sizzy_suds
 My husband is 11 years my senior and it makes no difference at all. We have so much fun together, so much in common, etc.
 14 Jan 2008 05:46
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 It doesn't matter as long as u care respect and understand one another.. Its just a number! And u shouldn't care wat ppl say ppl talk all the time its yr life.. If u really love him and think he is fit for u then u shouldn't rely on people opinion. Its yr future at the end of the day
 23 Nov 2007 20:18
by Tasha_80_t Tasha_80_t
 In true love, it isn't the age that matters it's your feelings and your souls.

If age really feels like a problematic factor it probably isn't going to work and I wouldn't say it was true love.
 14 Nov 2007 04:27
by Megamaster Megamaster
 I am in the same situation. My boyfriend is 12 years older than me and I am 20. NO, age does not matter.
 01 Nov 2007 20:52
by Angel1988 Angel1988
 Age doesn't matter in certain cirmcustances,for an example i like to date people thats older than me, because guys mature slower than ladies,but i only date boys 1yror2yrs older than me,but the child molesting stuff does matter.....
 14 Oct 2007 07:12
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