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When You Love Someone & That Someone Loves You Too But He's With Someone Else. What Are You Going To Do? Hold On Or Give Up?
by Esphyka Esphyka
 02 Sep 2007 09:06  
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 If they truly love you too then hold on.If you are not sure and still love the person then do not be selfish and let go.
 20 Oct 2008 18:42
by Bifmeister Bifmeister
 I would hold up. DON'T JUST GIVE UP! Wtf! Even if hell never come back to whatever...there's a possibility..always! He will see your efforts and it will sink in him.
If you love him, and he loves you. GO AND CONFEsS ONCE more.
Make sure your speech is clearly dignified and true to your heart. I really think you should HOLD UP. But don't forget about other important things in life, you don't want to waste your time
 09 Aug 2008 06:27
by Lilithiris Lilithiris
 Follow your heart
 20 Jun 2008 21:58
by Kaysnd7 Kaysnd7
 If you both like each other and your heart tells you to hang on then hang on and don't give up hope. Yes, love seems complicated and there are hardships you have to go through to get to the end, but when you get there and look back and see what you and that special someone have been through it makes it all worth it. Just have faith, for without that you will feel miserable and always think, "What if I had stuck with him?" Give it a shot. Good luck and hope you decide soon.
 12 Sep 2007 01:49
by Teshwan01 Teshwan01
 I know that I've always believed in never giving up, but in this situation, I would. If you really meant that much to him/her, then they would have chosen to be with right away. Apparently this person is using you for a 'back-up'. He/she obviously is more in love with this other person than you. So why waste your time when there are plenty of 'other fish in the sea'? You might find someone even better and more special to you.
 11 Sep 2007 23:30
by Giggles102 Giggles102
 When you hold on to something,eventually it hurts when you think about it,and know you can't have it. You should give up earlier,before it gets to deep,and it hurts so badly to hold on and give up.
 03 Sep 2007 18:42
by Writer201 Writer201
 Give up!!! Matters of the heart are complicated. In this case giving up doesn't make you a loser. Learning to move on and be strong is hard but is the right thing to do. Understanding that he is not the only guy that you could ever love will change your way of seeing things. Everyone's fairytale doesn't have an happy ending!!!
 02 Sep 2007 13:57
by Rezana_g Rezana_g
 It's going to be painful but give up. Or you can take him from her.
 06 Sep 2008 17:54
by Redeagle Redeagle
 You'd better give up.
 08 Aug 2008 04:56
by Colis11 Colis11
 If he truly loves you he wouldn't be with her now. So you got to give up.
But if you are sure that he loves you then you mustn't give up.
 01 Aug 2008 18:10
by Charming Charming
 Give up and move on. Mr or Mrs Right is around the corner... Take what you learned from that relationship, hold on to the memories and wish him/her well. No use loving someone if it's not reciprocal...and if he/she is with someoe else... They don't love you THAT much.
 08 Jun 2008 20:47
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 Did this person already have someone when you two fell in love? If he already had someone when your feelings started to grow for him, you should have taken a few steps back. If you fell in love before he got someone, it is obvious how strong his love was for you. Life is short. Move on. You never know what's in store for your happiness with another person who is not in a relationship but is looking.
 21 May 2008 21:00
by Gsharon710 Gsharon710
 Don't hold on any more if you were meant to be then you would be together he is with someone else do apparently he doesn't want to be with you...Don't waist your time on him there is plenty of other fish in the sea...
 30 Apr 2008 23:42
by Cpalm08 Cpalm08
 Never Look back, that Is what i have found to be the way it is best.
 11 Apr 2008 03:33
by Pencil Pencil
 Giving up is more liberating.
 08 Apr 2008 12:16
by Guest Guest
 I think you should give up because as if he is also with someone it means there is something which makes him to hold the hand of someone.but if you truly luv someone you will not jealous you will gv up because love is what we can do for our loved ones that is sacrifice is a true luv.
 04 Mar 2008 16:21
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 You should probably cut your losses and get moving. He might care for you but not enough to actually be with you. It just sounds like he is using you. You deserve someone better.
 29 Jan 2008 16:30
by Juliamarie Juliamarie
 He don't love you or he would be with you, give it up.
 16 Jan 2008 03:11
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 GIVE UP! If they are willing to leave someone to be with you, they will leave you to be with someone else.
 10 Jan 2008 06:58
by Jawyatt Jawyatt
 Let him go living in a dream world men don't leave their wives they only stray for a while and tell you what you want to hear to get what they want
 29 Dec 2007 07:02
by Bmarkl9 Bmarkl9
 Let him go and Let him know that he has place in your heart. If it is love then he will return, if it isn't then he was never yours to begin with. Express how you feel and be honest, but you must know he has a decision to make one that affects you, him, and the other person. You must have tough skin, and a even tougher heart. Overall, you gotta let him chose and if he loves you just a much as you love him in return, then you will have your man and your happiness.
 18 Nov 2007 19:29
by Deeboi19 Deeboi19
 Give up, If his love is true he will never leave you and come back.
 15 Nov 2007 11:33
by Aishawa Aishawa
 If he feels the same way about you then he would break up with his current girlfriend to be with you.
 08 Nov 2007 23:06
by Devinsbabe Devinsbabe
 Give up and he just might let go of what he is holding onto. Don't count on that though.
 03 Nov 2007 05:19
by Alva Alva
 When he s nt willing to give up the other person s relationship for my sake t means he cares less for me.y shud i go after a person who doesn care for me so il better give up
 28 Oct 2007 07:24
by Jayagowri Jayagowri
 Give up....
If he's with someone else and tells you he loves you. What will you do when he is with you and tells you he loves you...and another women comes around. Not good...let that go
 24 Oct 2007 05:01
by Mammachris Mammachris
 Look, life is too short to wait for someone else that says they care for you but are involved with someone else. There are two problems with waiting and moving forward with such a person. 1: If he does leave this person whom he was in a commited relationship with, what will keep him from doing the same to you if some one else he "cares" about comes along. 2: How many other wonderful and available are you shoving to the side for someone that is willing to work with you on the side?
If he ends the relationship for you, I would suggest you ask him to wait for you for a while to be sure he is commited as he seems. The problem is no matter what, you are both hurting this third person, and that is flat out not fair.
 09 Oct 2007 22:18
by Fontlow Fontlow
 GIve Up.. Most likely that person wants to hold on to both of you so that there is a choice at the end!! You don't wanna be the second best .. Either the person will be with you or not simple as that!!! Dont be anyone`s second choice, always be the first , you're better than that!!
 12 Sep 2007 21:40
by Secer_ Secer_
 Give up..
If he wanted to be with you, he'd be with you and not the other. Don't let him use you, just move on to another who will be with you only.
 08 Sep 2007 13:19
by Chatter Chatter
 Give up and move on. Don't waste time thinking what's not gonna happen. At first place it was not meant to be, whats the use of holding on?
 02 Sep 2007 17:05
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