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People Should Smack Their Boyfriends For Love Really Hard
For
Because Just In Case He Breaks Your Heart Or Other
by Hujjfujj Hujjfujj
 17 May 2008 18:41  
Against
 I am for it, because it will lead to really hard sex
 05 Jun 2008 19:42
by Prettyg91 Prettyg91
 It's fun for the rest of us to watch.
 03 Jun 2008 02:10
by Guest Guest
 You mean to say literally 'smack' your boyfriend with deliverance? Maybe you are going for the shock factor like longbeach said. Either way I think it's wrong for a man or woman to hit one another, without consent (some people like being hit for sexual purposes) I don't however think it's right to hit your partner, whatever their physical strength. I myself have drunkenly hit my boyfriend in a very heated moment, and I regret it, it was an uncharacteristic thing to do and he has forgiven me in knowledge that I know it was wrong. Physical violence isn't the answer: Use the power of words if you feel you need to have power over someone. But personally I think you need to find a relationship of equality, free of the paranoia of taking premature revenge for an action (him hurting you) that hasn't been committed yet.
 20 May 2008 12:59
by Ruthbug Ruthbug
 I'm with Sunny D. I was going to say just what she said.
 17 May 2008 21:26
by Saphira777 Saphira777
 Your question is hard to understand but if i understand right you shouldn't be smacking anyone ,would you like it
 17 May 2008 20:11
by Sunnyd Sunnyd
 No hitting allowed- you would not like it if he hit you "just in case you break up with him etc" he will break up with you for sure then.
 05 Sep 2008 17:48
by Blondiemom Blondiemom
 Then we should be able to smack our girlfriends incase they break our hearts.
 29 Jun 2008 13:56
by Mortician Mortician
 Ground them maybe, or send them to time out but NO!! Do not slap!
Treat others as you want to be treated...
 04 Jun 2008 01:28
by Motherbear Motherbear
 Hitting your boyfriend will just give him more reasons to dump you. If he is a bad guy he would hit you back or beat you to death. I would do the first sentence.
 02 Jun 2008 16:11
by Redeagle Redeagle
 Hitting people is violence.
 28 May 2008 23:45
by Peace Peace
 I don't think that would be love, but don't dish out what you do not want in return.
 27 May 2008 07:35
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 That just doesn;t make any sense at all... Why would you smack if he has not even done anything. I could see maybe if he wronged you somehow, but from what you said he has not done that yet.
 23 May 2008 03:41
by Gaseater78 Gaseater78
 If I smacked my man for any reason he would hit me back harder I think. Maybe you should go ahead and smack your boy friend and get back to us on how hard he hit you in return.
 19 May 2008 23:34
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 I am against anyone 'Smacking' anyone else, it is disrespectful and gives the Wrong message,
 19 May 2008 13:51
by Pencil Pencil
 You must be kidding or just going for the "shock factor" here. If you hit him, he should hit you back because you'd deserve it. No one is above or over anyone else and you should keep your hands to yourself because it is not your place to smack another person. Of course I'm sure you know that and are just going for effect.
 19 May 2008 05:19
by Longbeach Longbeach
 What???? Please clarify the meaning of this "debate".

As of my understanding at this point of your debate topic- NO-- no one should smack another for not holding the same worldview as themselves or for their weaknesses. We are here to learn from one another, and to hold the place for one another, as much as we can. "Smack" someone? No. Their fault that they don't have the same level understanding as you believe you do? That they make a mistake? That they are on their own journey of learning just like you are? Are you faultless and would you like to be smacked for your place in life or your mistakes?

No. Get over the ego, which is the part that gets hurt...

Teach instead... By example, at the very least.
 18 May 2008 05:45
by Amore01 Amore01
 Doesn't seem very rational. Are you saying smack him for preventional measures. You just might get your hair and something else broken if you think smacking him is the answer. Smack hit of smack as in smacking lips?
 17 May 2008 22:47
by Alva Alva
 That is absolutely ludicrous!! Domestic violence is violence period. If your boyfriend decided to press charges for you hitting him, he can, and you would be in juvie or in jail because of it.
Not only that, but you would then have a record hanging over your head. In the future, every time there might be an incident involving violence, the police aren't going to look at the other person first as the aggressor, they are going to look at you first as the aggressor, and the odds are that you would be the one to go to jail and not the other person.
Even if the other person is indeed the aggressor, you would have to have absolute proof that they were the one at fault.
I don't think you want to go to jail! Don't hit ANYONE EVER!!!!!
 17 May 2008 21:31
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