 I am for it, because it will lead
to really hard sex
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 05 Jun 2008 19:42
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 It's fun for the rest of us to
watch.
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 03 Jun 2008 02:10
by  Guest
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 You mean to say literally 'smack'
your boyfriend with deliverance?
Maybe you are going for the shock
factor like longbeach said. Either
way I think it's wrong for a man or
woman to hit one another, without
consent (some people like being hit
for sexual purposes) I don't
however think it's right to hit
your partner, whatever their
physical strength. I myself have
drunkenly hit my boyfriend in a
very heated moment, and I regret
it, it was an uncharacteristic
thing to do and he has forgiven me
in knowledge that I know it was
wrong. Physical violence isn't the
answer: Use the power of words if
you feel you need to have power
over someone. But personally I
think you need to find a
relationship of equality, free of
the paranoia of taking premature
revenge for an action (him hurting
you) that hasn't been committed
yet.
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 20 May 2008 12:59
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 I'm with Sunny D. I was going to
say just what she said.
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 17 May 2008 21:26
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 Your question is hard to understand
but if i understand right you
shouldn't be smacking anyone ,would
you like it
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 17 May 2008 20:11
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 No hitting allowed- you would not
like it if he hit you "just in case
you break up with him etc" he
will break up with you for sure
then.
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 05 Sep 2008 17:48
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 Then we should be able to smack our
girlfriends incase they break our
hearts.
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 29 Jun 2008 13:56
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 Ground them maybe, or send them to
time out but NO!! Do not slap!
Treat others as you want to be
treated...
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 04 Jun 2008 01:28
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 Hitting your boyfriend will just
give him more reasons to dump you.
If he is a bad guy he would hit you
back or beat you to death. I would
do the first sentence.
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 02 Jun 2008 16:11
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 Hitting people is violence.
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 28 May 2008 23:45
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 I don't think that would be love,
but don't dish out what you do not
want in return.
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 27 May 2008 07:35
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 That just doesn;t make any sense at
all... Why would you smack if he
has not even done anything. I could
see maybe if he wronged you
somehow, but from what you said he
has not done that yet.
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 23 May 2008 03:41
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 If I smacked my man for any reason
he would hit me back harder I
think. Maybe you should go ahead
and smack your boy friend and get
back to us on how hard he hit you
in return.
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 19 May 2008 23:34
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 I am against anyone 'Smacking'
anyone else, it is disrespectful
and gives the Wrong message,
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 19 May 2008 13:51
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 You must be kidding or just going
for the "shock factor" here. If
you hit him, he should hit you back
because you'd deserve it. No one
is above or over anyone else and
you should keep your hands to
yourself because it is not your
place to smack another person. Of
course I'm sure you know that and
are just going for effect.
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 19 May 2008 05:19
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 What???? Please clarify the
meaning of this "debate".
As of my understanding at this
point of your debate topic- NO-- no
one should smack another for not
holding the same worldview as
themselves or for their weaknesses.
We are here to learn from one
another, and to hold the place for
one another, as much as we can.
"Smack" someone? No. Their fault
that they don't have the same level
understanding as you believe you
do? That they make a mistake? That
they are on their own journey of
learning just like you are? Are
you faultless and would you like to
be smacked for your place in life
or your mistakes?
No. Get over the ego, which is the
part that gets hurt...
Teach instead... By example, at
the very least.
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 18 May 2008 05:45
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 Doesn't seem very rational. Are
you saying smack him for
preventional measures. You just
might get your hair and something
else broken if you think smacking
him is the answer. Smack hit of
smack as in smacking lips?
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 17 May 2008 22:47
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 That is absolutely ludicrous!!
Domestic violence is violence
period. If your boyfriend decided
to press charges for you hitting
him, he can, and you would be in
juvie or in jail because of it.
Not only that, but you would then
have a record hanging over your
head. In the future, every time
there might be an incident
involving violence, the police
aren't going to look at the other
person first as the aggressor, they
are going to look at you first as
the aggressor, and the odds are
that you would be the one to go to
jail and not the other person.
Even if the other person is indeed
the aggressor, you would have to
have absolute proof that they were
the one at fault.
I don't think you want to go to
jail! Don't hit ANYONE EVER!!!!!
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 17 May 2008 21:31
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