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If Someone Likes U But U Like Someone Else, Should U Go Out With The One That Likes U?
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I Have That Problem Now Because I Like This Guy But My Friend Likes Me .
by Ramzydb823 Ramzydb823
 28 Oct 2007 01:46  
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 Until you are in a committed relationship you should keep your options open. Date lots of guys! The hottest when you get to know them are often vain and selfish. Sometimes the friend who you don't get all tingely about will be the one who really wins your heart by just being such a great guy.
 05 Jul 2008 06:28
by Guest Guest
 Only if you feel that there is potential for a more meaningful relationship, even if it turns out to be just a good friendship.
 27 Apr 2008 20:51
by Pencil Pencil
 Spread the love!, go out with both of them.... And decide which one is better....
 24 Apr 2008 23:30
by Kmo Kmo
 Your dilemma seems to be more of a soul searching question. If you have been finding it difficult to find someone compatible to you, then maybe you need to try someone different who you are not used to accepting. You may find you have more in common if you just give other people a chance. In the same breath, always be true to yourself - no matter what, even if vanity is your biggest flaw in finding a mate, ultimately in the end, you are the one who has to be happy.
 09 Jan 2008 17:36
by Methodinc Methodinc
 I am with skyadamani.
 08 Jan 2008 08:38
by Ajinkya Ajinkya
 First you need to clarify yourself of one thing.
The person u r liking is also you r not.

If not, it is always better to go for the one who like you
 29 Oct 2007 10:05
by Skyadamani Skyadamani
 If the person that you like, likes you too, the you should go out with him and not with the person that likes you.
 11 Oct 2008 11:36
by Charming Charming
 Do not go out with someone you do not like even if he likes you. That is leading him on and is cruel. You do not want to hurt his feelings and you would not want someone to do that to you.
 28 Jul 2008 21:05
by Blondiemom Blondiemom
 Not if you don't like him.
 07 Jun 2008 21:16
by Guest Guest
 No no no
its a horrible thing to do. Its mean on the guy your doing it to and you wont enjoy the relationship either.
 17 May 2008 20:35
by Fallforyou Fallforyou
 No ... You'll end up treating them poorly because they aren't what you want through no fault of their own. Show some character and only be with what you truly want.
 10 May 2008 15:23
by Anewman Anewman
 If you don't feel the same for the person who likes you it will not work out seeing that you don't have deep feeling for them you may end up using them not on purpose but for the simple fact they are trying to impress you due to the fact that they would do anything for you in the end you will or could end up hurting them and then you will hurt also for trying something you were completely against in the beginning. Unless you think it might work out i wouldn't try it just be real good friends
 01 Apr 2008 01:07
by Angie1977 Angie1977
 No i don't think you should go with the one one who likes you because the person whom you love is best suited for you and first choice should be last.
Nice topic ..........
 05 Mar 2008 16:40
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 No you shouldn't cause if you like the other person more than you shouldn't just sell yourself shorttttttttttttt
 01 Mar 2008 23:07
by Arielgun13 Arielgun13
 No, you should not. To be in a relationship I think both male and female should like each other.
 15 Jan 2008 00:46
by Loveya Loveya
 Basically, should you settle? No, of course not. Move on, too many fish in the sea.
 27 Nov 2007 03:59
by Bampam Bampam
 No. If you don't like someone, and like someone else, then it'd just be mean to be with them... Be honest, if you don't like them, tell them so.

And while you're at it, tell the person you DO like, how you feel.

Life's too short to spend all your time wishing, wanting and wondering.
 12 Nov 2007 00:11
by Salvor Salvor
 No my dear. Twould be a heartbreakin experience for your friend to learn at some point that you were insincere in your affections. Best to offer your heart in friendship to your dear friend.
 28 Oct 2007 10:38
by Therefore Therefore
 If one is a loser he cud go out with the one who likes him otherwise if tat person is confident enuf he could pursue his or heart and go for the person he she likes
 28 Oct 2007 07:20
by Jayagowri Jayagowri
 No...
You would be playing him.
It's not fair to that person
unless you say you don't like him... And he's alright with it
 28 Oct 2007 04:39
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