If nothing is going correct, better to part ways.

 I think that if all the couple does is argue and basically hate each other than it is better for them to separate. My mom and dad got a divorce before i was in pre-K and got back together when i was in third or fourth. Now all they do is fight and argue and my mom's always crying and my dad's always mad and it's not a fun place to live. My siblings and i are messed up because of it. All we do is fight and argue because that what we heard while growing up. We all agree that the best time in our lives were when they were separated. It's just better that way.

 I can't see the point why a couple should stay together is the relationship is not good, they should get divorce asap! Life is short, why we need unessary suffering?!

 If you can't find anything to help make it work out then yes you should part.

 My husband of 10 yrs was messed up to me and I left him. I tried and tried to make it work out and it just got worse

 Well it depends on the situation/ but if is only problems and more problems all the time yes separate/you do not want to resort to physical violence and hurt each other in a way that one of you would have to go to jail//its better a peaceful separation and who knows maybe later you might consider each other to give it a second chance

 Im for it cos if the couple are nothing a like, they should be seperate and live on with their lives and find someone that they love sooo much and see if they are alike.
From Jamie Spears
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 It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,
dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner,
it is being the right partner.

 We each are responsible for our own happiness. If a husband and wife can no longer connect on an emotional level, its time to part ways.

 If nothing is going your way, it's better to part ways

 Yes the husband and wife should part there ways because if in the relationship we don't have understanding so what's the benefit of being together.the life cannot run properly if they dont have mutual understanding,.

 You need to sort out things with your wife, if it is not still working then it is better to part ways

 I see no point in remaining in a relationship if both people don't get along.

 If you can't fix your problems, end it. I think its best for everyone involved. No reason being unhappy for the rest of your life. The God I serve would want me to be happy and move on. He would rather us have a chance of finding love with someone else, than live with someone we don't and be miserable. He understands that humans make mistakes and does not punish folks for them.

 I think that all problems should be talked about and worked out but if all else fails it is better to part ways than to hate each other later

 A successful marriage takes work. The current trend in the US is to give up without trying, but, if after all is said and done, the couple can't reconicle, it's time to part ways.

Marriage may be a sacred covenant, but it's not meant to be a punishment. 'Til death... Sure, but a miserable marriage can speed up that death. To tell a couple to hang in there is like telling a clinically depressed person to just shake it off. It won't work! And there isn't ALWAYS a way to work it out.

Staying together because of the children is just a heavy-handed way to make the couple feel guilt. Children don't benefit from growing up in a loveless, hostile atmosphere. I remeber the fights between my parents more than anything else. I started spending my summers away from home. I went to college away from home, and I couldn't wait until I could move out.

My parents did stay married for 57 years, but I received little affection from them. I didn't care when they moved out of state, and since my mother died four years ago, I don't speak to my father. Staying for the sake of the kids is baloney.

Everybody deserves some happiness in life. Marriage shouldn't be hostile. If it just can't work, you have to let go.

 Part it. There is nothing like having your sanity, peace of mind and keeping your self-esteem. You don't have to take it. Vows don't stipulate being humuliated. If there is no way things can be worked out through counseling of some sort or just between the two of you without other family members budding in, then do what you feel will make you a better person.

 In a long term relationship that has become negitive, it will most likely get worse before it gets better. Timely apart help you to reevaluate what you need and desire from each other.

 If it ain't workin' part ways, My parents did and it was the best thing they could have done for me my sister and my brother! Divorce stinks, but so does living in a situation thats sucks to!

 When you make a lifetime committment it should be for life. If a marriage is breaking down you dont abandon ship. You work to get through it. If you need a break from eachother then take one, but keep to your vows. Many broken marriages result in displaced children and bitterness. So when entering marriage you should be sure.

 Yes , why stay in a relationship where there is constant fighting.

 Yes seperate why stay with someone you can`t stand.

 Yes, sorry i would bail out , this fighting does not get any where and when i am upset or mad , I give the silent treatment.

 I think they should sepearte if they dont love each other.

 Yes,it does more damage on all who are involved. It's not good for the children seeing two people fight for stupid reasons. And it's not good for you hiding yourself because you don't want to hurt someones feelings and its tearing you apart inside

 I think it is not healthy to stay with someone you are not happy with because wife and husband deserve to be happy.

But I can see how it is hard for a married couple with children to be likely to stay together if not to give theire marridge a shot then for the children.

Sometimes if you stay with someone you arent happy with if you give it enough time then you can resolve issues.

And sometimes they will part with out giving it a try.

It's a very hard decision to make depending on all circumstances.

 Yes, part ways its never good for anyone to stay in a relationship that they are not happy in .life is short as it is and you should live it to the fullest and of course being happy!

 Yes. You should try marriage counseling. If that dont work split ways. Why stay with someone you are not compatiable with.