 I say yes, because I'M in 6th grade
and it is very innocent all we do
is hug,hold hand and occasionally
kiss.we know not to go farther so
stop worrying!if you've been a good
parent it will show in our future
actions when we choose our very
special time.our actions are a
reflection of you teaching us.and
also sex ed also gives you more of
a chance to know and trust enough
to know that we would not do sex!
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 20 Feb 2008 02:20
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 It's ok for someone in 6th grade to
date as long as there's limitations
on certain things... Like no going
to the others house without
parental supervision and things of
that sort.
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 08 Sep 2008 05:39
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 I think that they are just jokey
relationships, and nothing really
happens, but I think when they say
they are "dating" some don't even
kiss, and are too shy for holding
hands, or even a hug!
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 08 Aug 2008 14:48
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 Responsible sixth graders will be
able to focus on their studies and
dating someone at the same time.
The consequences for not doing good
in school is to break up with your
boy/girl friend.
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 20 Apr 2008 03:40
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 I'm in 7th grade and i laugh at 6th
graders who are timid and wont hug.
I'm 6 feet tall and i laugh at the
smaller kids who haven't gone
through puberty. There's a group of
kids the same size in the seventh
grade and they go out with each
other and the don't do anything.
Their excited just getting a small
kiss. Don't worry parents your kid
is not thinking about sex when
their sixth graders cause they
haven't hit puberty.
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 22 Mar 2008 21:17
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 I'm for it, im mature and I'm not
in to sex or that crap. I don't
know what parents think. I have a
friend that is a girl and my
grandma thinks i have a crush on
her. 5th 4th and 3rd graders are
just posers and immature kids that
think that they are mature. I don't
have a girlfriend and that is
because there are like barely any
headbanger girls in my school. It
is all rap and yo boys now days,
that's what I'm against.
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 03 Nov 2008 06:31
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 I'm for it, immature and I'm not in
to sex. I don't know what parents
think. I have a friend that is a
girl and my grandma thinks i have a
crush on her. 5th 4th and 3rd
graders are just posers and
immature kids that think that they
are mature. I don't have a
girlfriend and that is because
there are like barely any
headbanger girls in my school. It
is all rap and yo boys now days,
that's what is against.
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 03 Nov 2008 06:27
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 Well here I am 50/50
I mean sure 6th grade is young (I
notice most people post for IM FOR
IT are in 6th grade like me)
but,... I'm slightly at a loss for
words.
Parents, if you know you we're good
to you children stop worrying,
we're not all that stupid. Plus
even my idiot friends aren't dumb
enough to risk losing a good bit of
their life, just because of one
screw up.
But then their are the people who
should go through a goddamn
application process before even
being allowed to have a child.
In the end I believe I'm for it. I
have a "girlfriend" in a sense I
suppose. I'm not timid or afraid to
hug or kiss her however, In my head
it's not right, at the time.
Waiting makes it all the sweeter.
:D
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 02 Oct 2008 07:44
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 Ok so I'm in seventh grade and i
have been dating this girl for 4
months. We have kissed a couple of
times and her best friend is
totally against us. She cares more
about me than her friend so she
doesn't care what she says. What do
i do?
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 07 Sep 2008 01:50
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 I say YES because I'm also in 6th
grade. One of my best friends had a
girlfriend for about 1yr but then
they broke up for some unknown
reason. Even I like a girl and now
that it's summer break we email
each other / text / call each other
just to talk. It's not bad and it's
better to learn now then to learn
when you're older and mess up. Sure
relationships may not last long but
this is you gain EXPERIENCE. It's
better to cry now if you break up
because it's easy to break up when
you are younger. If you date when
you are younger when you get older
you've been through break ups and
can man through them. Plus when
you're older to may find someone
you love and then screw up because
you pushed too far to fast or not
fast enough? Or do it know learn
from you're mistakes and fix them
and win when you grow up.
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 18 Jun 2008 23:08
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 So maybe we don't actually go on
'dates', we just go to the movies,
hang out, hold hands, and sometime
lightly kiss.
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 07 Jun 2008 03:38
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 I say yes, not only because I'm in
6th grade but because at this point
in my life I feel as though if we
must know about puberty, and will
go through it at some point then we
should know about relationships.
That's part of life as well. I'm
not dating anyone, but I'm not
against it. 'cause remember when
you were little and your parents
bought you that little toy oven, it
was a baby step to get you ready
for the real oven. It's sorta like
that with us 6th graders. We're
like miniature adults. We're teens.
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 07 May 2008 23:54
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 Yes my kid is younger and has a boy
friend
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 24 Feb 2008 04:29
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 I am in 6th and it is no problem as
long as u know when to stop thing
bout them and focus on school and
life but if u cant do that then u
should stop until u r old enough to
handle it
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 20 Feb 2008 04:37
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 Yes I think this is wrong. They
should focus on learning in 6th
grade. They have their whole lives
ahead of them. You know?
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 20 Feb 2008 03:48
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 I think that it is okay for 6th
graders to 'date'. I understand
that this is not like what an older
person views as dating but as with
everything, a person needs to
learn. Love and relationships are
no exception. If you never date or
have a relationship, you will never
learn. And why not learn when it is
somewhat innocent and easier to
recover when/if the relationship
fails. As I have seen from my kids,
this dating begins in the 6th grade
by a few and then 7th grade it is
about 3/4s of the class and
everyone has had some sort of
relationship by the end of 8th
grade.
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 20 Feb 2008 03:28
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 I won't say it's right or wrong.
It's inappropriate. Exactly what
kind of date would sixth graders
have? I don't think they have the
maturity to make certain decisions
or to know the consequences of
their actions. There are many
teenagers who are not ready to take
on school work and dating.
I am curious to know why it is so
important for eleven and twelve
year olds to grow up so fast?
Shouldn't they be allowed a
childhood before they assume adult
responsibilities and concerns?
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 20 Feb 2008 02:58
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 6th grade is way too young to be
dating unless they have been held
back 6 or 8 years and are like 16
or 17. 6th graders are children and
need to be playing with dolls and
toy trucks.
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 05 Jun 2008 20:09
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 You may be friends with kids your
age who are of opposite sex, but
"dating" is something you do
when you want to know someone you
want to marry. I think you
have a lot of things to think about
before you get to that stage, like
going to high school and then to
college and making a living. I
really think that dating at this
age is too early. You are
still kids. Dating is for grown
ups. You should at least
wait until you are 18 before you
get into that. Take your time and
enjoy your childhood. At the same
time, use this stage in your life
to get ready for life, and take
your school really seriously. This
time is for such things. When you
are done with school, you may date,
too.
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 20 Feb 2008 03:18
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 I'm really not totally against it
and I'm a guy in 7th grade. I would
say I'm mentally a lot more mature
than most people my age and I think
that even in 7th grade its dumb to
"date" someone or "go out." In 6th
grade its completely impractical to
be saying that you are "going out"
with someone. What are you going to
do, ride your bikes to the park?
You couldn't even go to the movies
without a parent taking you there.
So really its fine to hang out with
your boyfriend or girlfriend but I
think the title of "dating" or
"going out" with someone in 6th or
7th or even 8th is completely
impractical. Anyways most 6th
graders only go as far as giving
the person a 1 or sometimes 2 armed
hug!
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 03 Nov 2008 23:26
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 A 6th grader is so young. There is
plenty of time for them to live
before they start thinking about
getting married. They could easily
break up in that time. Dating is
designed to lead to marriage, not
heartache.
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 03 Sep 2008 16:08
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 Look, I'm in sixth grade and yes I
have a girlfriend. First of all,
we're not doing anything
inappropriate or such. We go ice
skating or to the park or each
other's houses or to dinner. We
don't go into each other's rooms
with the lights off or anything so
what's wrong. And no, I do think
about her in school, but that
doesn't make me get worse grades.
She's in all of my classes except
for Math. When she gets 90s in my
worst subject, I make sure I don't
do that badly so that at least I
can say I got a B when she got and
A- and not that I just passed and
almost failed. Just get it; there's
nothing wrong.
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 25 May 2008 14:26
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 I think serious dating should not
be allowed at 11, 12, 13, actually
I believe that one with one dating
ought to be delayed until 16.
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 25 Apr 2008 13:10
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 Well no because you dont want
problems...but it depends on the
degree of dating.....some is just
innocent.....but they should focus
on school and being a kid! Not so
fast speedy!!
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 24 Feb 2008 06:18
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 Wrong? Not morally, but from a
practical standpoint, it's probably
not wise. It has been my
experience that most sixth graders
(age 11-12) have not achieved the
emotional maturity that dating
calls for. Developmentally, a
young adolescent may be drawn to
discovering what the opposite sex
is all about around this time, but
because physiologically the brain
is still developing at this age
(in the areas of judgment,
emotional cognition, and reasoning,
for example), it's not the ideal
time to do a number of things
unsupervised that draw heavily/rely
on these abilities, including
dating.
PS: Check out this related debate:
Http://www.blurtit.com/forandagain
st/In_What_Age_Group_Should_People_
Start_Dating
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 20 Feb 2008 14:16
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 Of course its wrong.The student of
6th graders should concentrate in
his/her studies rather than dating
someone.
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 20 Feb 2008 13:55
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 What could 6th-graders properly do?
They could go to a movie matinee
or roller skating or visit a museum
or shop for books or magazines. If
it would be OK for two buddies of
the same gender to do together, it
should usually be OK for any two
6th-graders, each paying his or her
own way. If it's an appointment,
it's a "date".
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 20 Feb 2008 09:31
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