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Dating For 6th Graders Is Wrong.
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Should 6th Graders Be Allowed To Dat?
by Mavericks9 Mavericks9
 20 Feb 2008 02:17  
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 I say yes, because I'M in 6th grade and it is very innocent all we do is hug,hold hand and occasionally kiss.we know not to go farther so stop worrying!if you've been a good parent it will show in our future actions when we choose our very special time.our actions are a reflection of you teaching us.and also sex ed also gives you more of a chance to know and trust enough to know that we would not do sex!
 20 Feb 2008 02:20
by Mavericks9 Mavericks9
 It's ok for someone in 6th grade to date as long as there's limitations on certain things... Like no going to the others house without parental supervision and things of that sort.
 08 Sep 2008 05:39
by Kymm1969 Kymm1969
 I think that they are just jokey relationships, and nothing really happens, but I think when they say they are "dating" some don't even kiss, and are too shy for holding hands, or even a hug!
 08 Aug 2008 14:48
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 Responsible sixth graders will be able to focus on their studies and dating someone at the same time. The consequences for not doing good in school is to break up with your boy/girl friend.
 20 Apr 2008 03:40
by Txhick Txhick
 I'm in 7th grade and i laugh at 6th graders who are timid and wont hug. I'm 6 feet tall and i laugh at the smaller kids who haven't gone through puberty. There's a group of kids the same size in the seventh grade and they go out with each other and the don't do anything. Their excited just getting a small kiss. Don't worry parents your kid is not thinking about sex when their sixth graders cause they haven't hit puberty.
 22 Mar 2008 21:17
by Anthonyo94 Anthonyo94
 I'm for it, im mature and I'm not in to sex or that crap. I don't know what parents think. I have a friend that is a girl and my grandma thinks i have a crush on her. 5th 4th and 3rd graders are just posers and immature kids that think that they are mature. I don't have a girlfriend and that is because there are like barely any headbanger girls in my school. It is all rap and yo boys now days, that's what I'm against.
 03 Nov 2008 06:31
by Ratiokira Ratiokira
 I'm for it, immature and I'm not in to sex. I don't know what parents think. I have a friend that is a girl and my grandma thinks i have a crush on her. 5th 4th and 3rd graders are just posers and immature kids that think that they are mature. I don't have a girlfriend and that is because there are like barely any headbanger girls in my school. It is all rap and yo boys now days, that's what is against.
 03 Nov 2008 06:27
by Ratiokira Ratiokira
 Well here I am 50/50
I mean sure 6th grade is young (I notice most people post for IM FOR IT are in 6th grade like me) but,... I'm slightly at a loss for words.

Parents, if you know you we're good to you children stop worrying, we're not all that stupid. Plus even my idiot friends aren't dumb enough to risk losing a good bit of their life, just because of one screw up.

But then their are the people who should go through a goddamn application process before even being allowed to have a child.


In the end I believe I'm for it. I have a "girlfriend" in a sense I suppose. I'm not timid or afraid to hug or kiss her however, In my head it's not right, at the time. Waiting makes it all the sweeter. :D
 02 Oct 2008 07:44
by Jackpwns2 Jackpwns2
 Ok so I'm in seventh grade and i have been dating this girl for 4 months. We have kissed a couple of times and her best friend is totally against us. She cares more about me than her friend so she doesn't care what she says. What do i do?
 07 Sep 2008 01:50
by Mandokid Mandokid
 I say YES because I'm also in 6th grade. One of my best friends had a girlfriend for about 1yr but then they broke up for some unknown reason. Even I like a girl and now that it's summer break we email each other / text / call each other just to talk. It's not bad and it's better to learn now then to learn when you're older and mess up. Sure relationships may not last long but this is you gain EXPERIENCE. It's better to cry now if you break up because it's easy to break up when you are younger. If you date when you are younger when you get older you've been through break ups and can man through them. Plus when you're older to may find someone you love and then screw up because you pushed too far to fast or not fast enough? Or do it know learn from you're mistakes and fix them and win when you grow up.
 18 Jun 2008 23:08
by Drauren Drauren
 So maybe we don't actually go on 'dates', we just go to the movies, hang out, hold hands, and sometime lightly kiss.
 07 Jun 2008 03:38
by Lunammoon Lunammoon
 I say yes, not only because I'm in 6th grade but because at this point in my life I feel as though if we must know about puberty, and will go through it at some point then we should know about relationships. That's part of life as well. I'm not dating anyone, but I'm not against it. 'cause remember when you were little and your parents bought you that little toy oven, it was a baby step to get you ready for the real oven. It's sorta like that with us 6th graders. We're like miniature adults. We're teens.
 07 May 2008 23:54
by Blurtcat Blurtcat
 Yes my kid is younger and has a boy friend
 24 Feb 2008 04:29
by Mac151247 Mac151247
 I am in 6th and it is no problem as long as u know when to stop thing bout them and focus on school and life but if u cant do that then u should stop until u r old enough to handle it
 20 Feb 2008 04:37
by Sexy_baby Sexy_baby
 Yes I think this is wrong. They should focus on learning in 6th grade. They have their whole lives ahead of them. You know?
 20 Feb 2008 03:48
by Saphira777 Saphira777
 I think that it is okay for 6th graders to 'date'. I understand that this is not like what an older person views as dating but as with everything, a person needs to learn. Love and relationships are no exception. If you never date or have a relationship, you will never learn. And why not learn when it is somewhat innocent and easier to recover when/if the relationship fails. As I have seen from my kids, this dating begins in the 6th grade by a few and then 7th grade it is about 3/4s of the class and everyone has had some sort of relationship by the end of 8th grade.
 20 Feb 2008 03:28
by Fdjones Fdjones
 I won't say it's right or wrong. It's inappropriate. Exactly what kind of date would sixth graders have? I don't think they have the maturity to make certain decisions or to know the consequences of their actions. There are many teenagers who are not ready to take on school work and dating.

I am curious to know why it is so important for eleven and twelve year olds to grow up so fast? Shouldn't they be allowed a childhood before they assume adult responsibilities and concerns?
 20 Feb 2008 02:58
by Robbier44 Robbier44
 6th grade is way too young to be dating unless they have been held back 6 or 8 years and are like 16 or 17. 6th graders are children and need to be playing with dolls and toy trucks.
 05 Jun 2008 20:09
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 You may be friends with kids your age who are of opposite sex, but "dating" is something you do when you want to know someone you want to marry. I think you have a lot of things to think about before you get to that stage, like going to high school and then to college and making a living. I really think that dating at this age is too early. You are still kids. Dating is for grown ups. You should at least wait until you are 18 before you get into that. Take your time and enjoy your childhood. At the same time, use this stage in your life to get ready for life, and take your school really seriously. This time is for such things. When you are done with school, you may date, too.
 20 Feb 2008 03:18
by Rev_eb Rev_eb
 I'm really not totally against it and I'm a guy in 7th grade. I would say I'm mentally a lot more mature than most people my age and I think that even in 7th grade its dumb to "date" someone or "go out." In 6th grade its completely impractical to be saying that you are "going out" with someone. What are you going to do, ride your bikes to the park? You couldn't even go to the movies without a parent taking you there. So really its fine to hang out with your boyfriend or girlfriend but I think the title of "dating" or "going out" with someone in 6th or 7th or even 8th is completely impractical. Anyways most 6th graders only go as far as giving the person a 1 or sometimes 2 armed hug!
 03 Nov 2008 23:26
by Logan1234 Logan1234
 A 6th grader is so young. There is plenty of time for them to live before they start thinking about getting married. They could easily break up in that time. Dating is designed to lead to marriage, not heartache.
 03 Sep 2008 16:08
by Hera Hera
 Look, I'm in sixth grade and yes I have a girlfriend. First of all, we're not doing anything inappropriate or such. We go ice skating or to the park or each other's houses or to dinner. We don't go into each other's rooms with the lights off or anything so what's wrong. And no, I do think about her in school, but that doesn't make me get worse grades. She's in all of my classes except for Math. When she gets 90s in my worst subject, I make sure I don't do that badly so that at least I can say I got a B when she got and A- and not that I just passed and almost failed. Just get it; there's nothing wrong.
 25 May 2008 14:26
by Bobhiggins Bobhiggins
 I think serious dating should not be allowed at 11, 12, 13, actually I believe that one with one dating ought to be delayed until 16.
 25 Apr 2008 13:10
by Pencil Pencil
 Well no because you dont want problems...but it depends on the degree of dating.....some is just innocent.....but they should focus on school and being a kid! Not so fast speedy!!
 24 Feb 2008 06:18
by Ramzydb823 Ramzydb823
 Wrong? Not morally, but from a practical standpoint, it's probably not wise. It has been my experience that most sixth graders (age 11-12) have not achieved the emotional maturity that dating calls for. Developmentally, a young adolescent may be drawn to discovering what the opposite sex is all about around this time, but because physiologically the brain is still developing at this age (in the areas of judgment, emotional cognition, and reasoning, for example), it's not the ideal time to do a number of things unsupervised that draw heavily/rely on these abilities, including dating.

PS: Check out this related debate: Http://www.blurtit.com/forandagain st/In_What_Age_Group_Should_People_ Start_Dating
 20 Feb 2008 14:16
by Amore01 Amore01
 Of course its wrong.The student of 6th graders should concentrate in his/her studies rather than dating someone.
 20 Feb 2008 13:55
by Atiya Atiya
 What could 6th-graders properly do? They could go to a movie matinee or roller skating or visit a museum or shop for books or magazines. If it would be OK for two buddies of the same gender to do together, it should usually be OK for any two 6th-graders, each paying his or her own way. If it's an appointment, it's a "date".
 20 Feb 2008 09:31
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