 Divorce is wrong period. It has
tremendous affects on the
children's lives, and makes the
parents at war for their
affection.-Trey
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 05 Dec 2007 00:10
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 God hates divorce.
He does not hate the people that go
through it but with that, I would
say that divorce is wrong. In the
vows of marriage,m it is said
"through good and bad, sickness and
health etc".
My ex left me and I am beginning to
see why. I was traveling for work
and home on the weekends. I found
myself becoming very depressed. Had
she resisted the divorce and tried
to help, maybe I would have found
ways to get help. NO, it's not her
fault nor do I blame her for
divorcing me but looking at the big
picture, if more people would look
through the bad and try to help,
the US would be a much better
place.
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 28 Nov 2007 20:13
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 Right.. It's not a debate it's a
question.. But my answer is No. I
am against divorce.. Divorce, for
me is not the best solution for a
relationship.
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 24 Jan 2008 02:45
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 People should take marriage more
seriously and try to work things
out. Especially when children are
involved. A couple should stay
together., however some
relationships are toxic and
emotionally damaging to one or both
of the partners and in that case
they should indeed divorce.
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 03 Sep 2008 05:13
by  Guest
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 "til death do us part!"
divorce is wrong
unless continuing to take part in
an abusive
marrage may lead to death
you have chosen to be with a person
for the rest of your life if things
aren't working out that kinda puts
the blame on you
so divorce is very wrong!!!!!!!
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 08 Jul 2008 07:53
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 Divorce is good for those couples
where both aren't interested in
each other.
But when one of the partners is
interested in keeping up then it
should be tried best to keep that
relationship, After all "We should
prefer those who love us, instead
of those whom we love". This theory
always works.
But, when divorce is unavailable
then God help the "In-Love" partner
to survive in future.
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 27 Jun 2008 10:42
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 I think that divorce is wrong
because their kids might think that
it's their (the kids') fault and
blame themselves. Plus, their
grades might suffer and they will
be sad.
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 26 Apr 2008 17:08
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 Yes think of the children they have
one weekend with mom and the next
with their dad
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 17 Apr 2008 22:15
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 As i went trough a divorce myself
back in Holland i am for it my ex
divorced me in 97 after leaving me
with a 2yr old son after the
divorce we had joined custody over
him he stayed living with me as i
stayed put in one house and my ex
kept moving about and she filed for
full custody in 2000 so i said i
can do with you can and filed as
well so after all was investigated
we had to reappear in court in Feb
2001 i came she never showed nor
did her lawyer so the judge had to
hold it off for an other month in
march she never showed either so
the judge had to rule and as
expected did in my favor so i was
granted full custody i knew that by
the end of march and all my ex
could do to hold that back was
appeal but the judge gave her one
month to do so she never filed so i
had full custody which she can
never appeal again as she let it
roll its course.
The only sour note i had out of the
whole thing is she was already
pregnant before we even were
divorced which made it easier for
me to get over the whole thing, i
met my present wife online she came
over to Holland lived a yr with me
and my son we got married in 2001
and i never could get a better
understanding wife then her. I can
understand that people would like
that people stay together no matter
what but as another saying goes in
Holland roughly translated "the jug
goes so long in the water till it
breaks"meaning you can only take so
much till you snap and divorce is a
safer way of ending a bad
relationship then murder because
that would be the next option
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 10 Apr 2008 05:30
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 While I don't think divorce is
always the answer, certainly it is
if you are in an abusive
relationship, fight constantly,
grown apart etc.
Kids know when things at home are
not right. My mom and dad
separated when I was two years old.
My mother told me that she knew
that if she weren't happy, I
wouldn't be either.
It's logical.
Kids should never be used as
bargaining chips or put in the
position of "choosing"a side.
Many couples are happier and kinder
to each other when not married. It
isn't a black and white question or
answer, nor should it be.
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 26 Mar 2008 06:09
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 Divorce is sign that something is
wrong. Maybe not morally wrong, but
we should do everything possible to
ensure happy and healthy marriages.
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 21 Mar 2008 08:59
by  Guest
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 People take it as an advantage
because they think there is someone
could be replaced why don't people
who do the same divorce do it with
their Parents or siblings because
they cant do it. Blood is thicker
than water.
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 17 Jan 2008 15:37
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 Well as sad as it may be, there are
times when divorce is inevitable
and justified. I'm actually
completing a divorce I didn't want,
but my wife adamantly demanded.
There was no infidelity on either
of our sides and the divorce
happened due to her selfishness and
continual resistance of God's son,
Jesus Christ. When we are not under
Christ, then we are of the devil
and his desire to destroy my
marriage is resulting in a divorce
against my will. "Father, forgive
them for they know not what they
do."
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 16 Dec 2007 21:34
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 Not only is divorce against what
the bible says, but it also ruins a
childs life. And if you aren't in
love when you guys get married then
you shouldn't do it. Although I do
think that if one or the other is
beating the other spouse then
that's fine.
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 02 Dec 2007 14:36
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 I am divorced and re-married and so
is my Ex. My husband was divorced.
I believe a marriage should be
sacred and do it only once, but
people are people and they screw up
and make mistakes, some of them
unchangeable. So NO, divorce IS NOT
WRONG, but it shouldn't be "the
easy way out". Only used as a last
resort
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 27 Nov 2007 22:42
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 Why stay in something that make u
unhappy
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 26 Nov 2007 13:49
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 A marriage should not be entered
into lightly. It is a work in
progress and in that context there
has to be some give and take, by
both partners, in order for it to
last. Life will throw some pretty
big boulders in your pathway, not
all of them will be easy to work
around, but if two people are
committed to the marriage and are
willing to sacrifice for the good
of the relationship it will be well
worth all the effort.
Once a child is inserted into the
equation the whole context of the
partnership changes. Choices should
always have the best interest of
the child as the first priority in
any decision that is to be made.
The family unit is the main
building block of society. It is
within this environment that our
children, the next generation, get
their first lessons on social
interaction with others.
What is the message that we send to
them with a divorce? It is
something that sould only be done
as a last resort if there are
children involved.
I am not advocating that anyone
shoud stay in an abusive
relationship.
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 26 Nov 2007 13:42
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 If you are just asking is it right
or wrong? Then its quiet obvious
that, its a very wrong thing.
We all should avoid such an
unhealthy practice unless and until
we don't have any other option.
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 26 Nov 2007 05:38
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 If they CAN"T be together then they
shouldn't have to...
It would just cause more problems
if they had to stay married
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 26 Nov 2007 01:40
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 I think it is right if they do not
have a way of resolving their
differences.
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 26 Nov 2007 01:32
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 Divorce is wrong because when you
share love you mess it up and hate
each other. And marriage is a very
powerful thing.
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 26 Nov 2007 00:47
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 You just asked a question. The way
you put it isn't a debate. So,
I'll just say no.
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 25 Nov 2007 22:28
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 Divorce is wrong if the only reason
to do it is because of arguments,
money, or religious views.I was
raised that divorce is wrong. That
is why it took me so long to get
married. But after two years we
were divorced. The divorce was
wrong for us because of our
reasons. I know the bible says that
if you have a spouse that commits
adultery, that would be grounds for
divorce. But at the same time I
don't believe God would want
someone to live in danger and fear
for their lives or that of their
children. Even if you get divorced,
it can be forgiven. Though it may
cause some trust issues in the
future, you must be careful with
your heart. Thank you.
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 20 Oct 2008 23:23
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 Divorce isn't wrong but it should
be used as a last resort. Unless
there's any abuse involved then it
is best to leave the situation.
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 09 Sep 2008 00:31
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 No. Divorce isn't wrong all the
time. Sometimes divorce is right.
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 10 Aug 2008 15:31
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 There are just some people who
should not be married. And let's
face it, marriage is more often a
civil union than a religious one.
If more people married in a church
and participated in a church, they
may find themselves staying closer
and staying married. But what do I
know, I've been divorced--more than
once too.
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 27 Jul 2008 06:16
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 Yes it is a failure of sorts, but
so is marrying the wrong person.
If their is abuse in the
relationship, should one stay and
allow themselves to be killed? I
think divorce is sometimes the only
choice.
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 20 Jun 2008 14:41
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 Divorce is not an answer to a
problem. It is the end. Divorces
are too easy to obtain these days.
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 16 Feb 2008 04:00
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 Divorce itself is just the legal
process of ending a marriage.
Surely no one can argue that it is
always wrong. If an abusive spouse
wants to stay married but an abused
spouse wants to end it should the
victim suffer more abuse by being
criticized for it?
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 15 Feb 2008 21:10
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 I think divorce is the only way to
settle some relationships. It may
be wrong in some peoples eyes, but
until you get in a situation where
a marriage isn't working then it is
hard to understand.
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 14 Feb 2008 20:58
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 Without bringing religion into the
picture divorce is not wrong. When
2 people dont get along anymore,
they shouldn't have to be forced to
be together. You went into your
marriage all happy and I'm sure you
never thought about divorce when
you got married. But sometimes
people change and things change.
There are many reason why a
relationship doesn't work. As long
as you didnt marry each other like
its child's play then divorce is
inevitable at times.
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 12 Feb 2008 20:11
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 Divorce is wrong in gods eyes but
hey lets face it it isn't in mine
my husband was a cheat he abused he
turned out to be a bum who quit
working 1 year after we were
married after 8 years I could deal
with it anymore so yeah I am for
divorce just didn't know which side
to put it on
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 29 Dec 2007 07:17
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 In the bible it states that one is
not to divorce unless their spouse
cheats on them. However, I do not
believe that God wants you to stay
in an abusive or controlling
relationship. So, from my beliefs
you need to be sure before you make
a promise or vow to God that you
will remain with this person.
Divorcing because of finances, or
trouble getting along is wrong. All
marriages have their share of
difficulties, and learning how to
communicate is a learning process.
Marriage should not be taken
lightly and unless as stated above,
divorce is a sin.
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 01 Dec 2007 07:56
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 No! People make mistakes. Why
suffer a lifetime if people are NOT
happy! Now a Nasty divorce is
WRONG! People need to grow up and
act civilized! I did!
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 30 Nov 2007 01:21
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 I don't think divorce is worng.
There may be thousand of causes for
divorce. It is better to leave than
stay with mental pressure. But
divorce should be on the basis of
mutual agreement.
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 26 Nov 2007 08:03
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