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Is It True That Love Relies On Money?
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I Have A Friend Who Got Married Last Year. They Both Have To Work Hard And Have Less Hours To Spend Together After Married. Gradually Their Love Becomes Cold.My Friend Told That If One Doesn't Have Money,then There Is No Love .
by Amylin Amylin
 29 Sep 2007 01:50  
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 Every one wants money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 02 Apr 2008 16:32
by Jbt13 Jbt13
 If you are in relationship(in love) & you are unable to meet basic necessities of your wife/girl friend then your relationship would get tensed, empty/unsatisfied stomach lets speak more.
And also,with inflation rate growing at speed of sound, yes i agree with debate topic.
RELATIONSHIPS, ALL OF THEM PRECIOUS, MATTERS BUT MONEY IS NECESSARY TO MAKE THEM KEEP GOING SMOOTHLY.I AGREE TOO THAT BEING RICH ISN'T KEY TO HAPPPINESS YOU NEED TO BE GOOD PERSON TOO.
 24 Jun 2008 09:21
by Life Life
 Maybe...if you pay for marriage....
 08 May 2008 13:39
by Luverboy Luverboy
 Poor+Poor=Happy
Poor+Rich=Happy
Rich+Rich=Happy

It really depends on the two people.
 17 Apr 2008 18:35
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 Lack of money in a marriage can put additional stress on the relationship. Yet, if she believes that with no money, there is no love- she is just shallow. She needs to be humbled. Yes, life is easier with money. However, without the hard times, you don't appreciate the good times. It molds who you are. Marriage is something that must be worked at. Your friend is selfish.
 07 Feb 2008 18:16
by Jawyatt Jawyatt
 No, love doesn't rely on money. I fell in love in its absence. Even with the pressures of being poor, many people sustain great love for each other. I didn't love my parents less because we were poor, either. We don't love our creator less when we are poor, though we may struggle. Devotion and a "right heart" are the only necessities for sustaining love.

I am curious what your reaction was when your friend said this? What does your experience tell you?
 30 Sep 2007 08:16
by Amore01 Amore01
 I am a simple person money and possessions are only temporary happiness.
 13 Oct 2008 11:27
by Ryanna Ryanna
 Of course not.
 23 Jul 2008 20:22
by Angeleyess Angeleyess
 I have been poverty stricken and in love. I don't think that money is a reason for or against love.
 16 Jun 2008 23:46
by Pencil Pencil
 Money does not buy love. Love does not bring you money. Money is just as important in a relationship is as communication is. But love is not dependent on money.... I once heard someone say... "money helps until love comes along"...so sad!
 07 Jun 2008 06:18
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 No love is not money but it helps because a lot of relationship do end because of money issues
 01 May 2008 19:58
by Lilmama1 Lilmama1
 NO i don't think so that love relies on money but it's true that if we have sufficient money we can have better life.
 06 Mar 2008 15:03
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 No way that is very cinical, love makes the world go round not money i love my man with or without money we have been well of and skint and wew still love each other, we have argued more when were skint but that's cos were both stressed not because we loved each other any less
 07 Feb 2008 17:25
by Lovedup12 Lovedup12
 Absolutely not. There is nothing like true love. Money cannot compare to love. Money makes things easier at times, but often is the subject of many arguments in relationships too.
 05 Feb 2008 23:07
by Paulajo Paulajo
 No way true love is apart everything and its heaven and money is just a essential thing and no one can buy love with the money we have :-)

True love is devine.
 18 Jan 2008 08:06
by Kingo Kingo
 No, my wife loves me and I know for sure its not for money, I don't have any.
 14 Jan 2008 23:45
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 Love does not revolve around money if anything Money ruins love look in Hollywood and all the divorce and they have money
 30 Dec 2007 03:02
by Bmarkl9 Bmarkl9
 No never. Love relies only the care ive towards ur partner.
 27 Dec 2007 14:18
by Jeeva_gv Jeeva_gv
 Well then, i don't think that was really love.... Love does not rely on money... They should be happy with each other if they truly love each other
 03 Dec 2007 05:12
by Megamaster Megamaster
 Love certainly does not rely on money. My husband and I are both in the Army and we have a 7-month-old baby girl. Between the two things we rarely see each other. It doesn't weaken our bond but makes it stronger because we truly value the time we get to spend together.
 10 Oct 2007 23:25
by Hikarichan Hikarichan
 If it was the case, there would'nt have existed a true love. Money may be a part of our lives but, love cannot be bought / brought through money
 03 Oct 2007 07:02
by Skyadamani Skyadamani
 No, if love relies on money, that's actually not true love for the right person but a love for money. Money is just one factor that can influence love quality, but not the only and most important one. If you love someone, love what he is, no matter he has much money or not. Coz you can make more money by your hands together and try to live well in the future.
 02 Oct 2007 14:32
by Blt_junta Blt_junta
 I was scared to think of marrige.I have no experience for that,but I think it is good to have suitable money before you get married, so that you won't be in financial problems.
 30 Sep 2007 18:29
by Amylin Amylin
 In today's world money is a necessity, since bartering is out-money has nothing to do with love-Real love Doe's not depend on money.
 30 Sep 2007 03:55
by Whhandyman Whhandyman
 How cynical. It's such a shame that your friend feels that way. Don't get me wrong... It's nice to be able to afford things without having to worry about money all the time. "Living on love" is a myth. I guess married life hasn't turned out to be what your friend expected. Maybe the couple got married for the wrong reasons. Maybe they married too soon. Finances is a common thing that married couples argue about.

Sometimes we have to do without in the present so that we might prosper in the future. I know that my parents had to struggle. I was born 11 months after they got married. Now they had three to worry about. When my sister came along nine years later, she was able to have things I never did. Yes, it was difficult, but they didn't give up. My folks traveled all over the world, and retirement has been very comfortable. Your friend needs to sit down with his wife and figure things out. Maybe they made a mistake, or maybe they need to make plans to work the problem out,
 30 Sep 2007 03:37
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