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Could You Love Someone If You Had Never Seen Them? (suppose You Were Blind For However Long It Takes To Truely Fall In Love, Could You Love A Person Without Their Looks?) For: Yes Against: No
by Cronjap Cronjap
 14 Nov 2007 09:47  
Against
 Yeah. Love is Way more then how hot the person is. Yeah that's important too.but its on how the treat u,do u have a lot in common or little? I really don't believe in love at first site. But sometimes i do. Idk haha
 14 Nov 2007 22:20
by Emilyy Emilyy
 I think so. I mean there are alot of blind folks in the world and I would think they too, can fall in love.
 14 Nov 2007 14:55
by Swirly3 Swirly3
 Yes. Its true.
The origin of this phrase is From Shakespeare's The Merchant Of Venice.
Here, catch this casket; it is worth the pains.
I am glad 'this night, you do not look on me,
For I am much ashamed of my exchange:
But love is blind and lovers cannot see
The pretty follies that themselves commit;
For if they could, Cupid himself would blush
To see me thus transformed to a boy.
 06 Aug 2008 21:54
by Charming Charming
 Yes,beauty does not last forever(unless you can afford plastic surgery out the ying yang)it fades we all get older and are beauty dwindles its best to love someone for there heart appearances change and are only a small fraction of what we are
 06 Aug 2008 03:49
by Woman1982 Woman1982
 Yeah love is always blind
 16 Jun 2008 10:03
by Lucyscar Lucyscar
 While there has to be some attraction to the lady you like mostly I have found that love is BLIND!!!! :) I am having fun with this one. Truly if a lady has a wonderful personality and does what she can to be pretty (careful, the lady isn't unkept in her appearance) then usually those types of ladies become very attractive for me. Well that is just my thought from one person to another.
 31 May 2008 23:30
by Jacob05 Jacob05
 Looks never mattered in the course of love, if you are attractive, if you are tan. No. Love is something much more than looks.
 29 May 2008 23:34
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 If your love is based on visual stimulation then what you love is a decaying shell.. It is the spirit inside of a person that is alive and beautiful. Internet chat rooms are a perfect example.. You talk to and get to know what is the truth of a person w/out any other knowledge of them. You like them or you don't based on their words and reactions to others.. If upon seeing them and learning they are not outwardly attractive and you cease to like/love them.. Than that speaks volumes about your own spirit....
 28 May 2008 20:38
by Anonymouse Anonymouse
 Cause i fell in love with a boy that lived 400miles away from me we had a relationship and it lasted 2 years.
I don't really go for looks its manly the personality but if hes fit 2 then ... Yeah I'm all for it :P
 14 May 2008 10:54
by X-jodii-x X-jodii-x
 True love is when it doesn't matter how they look!! So really love is blind i guess?
 14 May 2008 10:10
by Alimak Alimak
 Yes love is mostly blind.
And the worst kind of love that actually supports this blindness is "obsessive love". This can happen either cause of looks or faulty perception of someone else(e.g., on net chatting, blind date resulting from matching of interests of two people over a marriage sit etc)
all in all blind love or obsessive love can really be having devastating affects. I HOPE you AGREE TOO.
 13 May 2008 20:49
by Life Life
 Yes i know someone who is blind and they have a boyfriend who is also blind so yes. But even if you can see love is blind.
 29 Apr 2008 21:48
by Lilmama1 Lilmama1
 I think that in the early stage of infatuation, we want to see characteristics, in the person of interest, that we value, because we want to believe that we have made a right choice. We give the person more credit, perhaps than we would if we were not considering a long term relationship, or more.
 24 Mar 2008 22:06
by Pencil Pencil
 Yes i can say that looks only doesn't matter if you have a true feeling for the person we luv because in lovw there is one thing and it is only the feelings you have for the man you love .not how he looks?
Or what he has wear i mean by his personality or age.
 05 Mar 2008 14:58
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 Yes, love comes from the heart. Love is when you get to know someone and feel it in your heart, not your eyes.
 03 Mar 2008 23:43
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 I think true love has absolutely nothing to do with outward features but instead, what is inside.
 29 Feb 2008 00:27
by Paulajo Paulajo
 Although there is a limit to how much one is able to compromise on the physical appearance, the inner beauty is what attarcts love.This is what truly counts. In the presence of such, love becomes blind.

There is however another kind of blind love which is called infatuation. Beware of that. That is not true love, but it can truly blind you.
 20 Feb 2008 07:41
by Rev_eb Rev_eb
 Love can be blind and beauty is only skin deep, you could love someone without seeing them how do you think blind people fall in love. However in some relationships you do need to have a physical attraction but if there personality shines through then you could be attracted to them and think they are gorgeous even if you would not normally find them attracted
 06 Feb 2008 17:03
by Lovedup12 Lovedup12
 I'm For it. Sometimes u would not expect that the one you don't want to be with will be the one you will love for your Lifetime.. ^^ but i think its gonna be forevermore ^^ hehehe
 23 Jan 2008 07:05
by Die4m3 Die4m3
 It is entirely possible to love someone even if you are not attracted to him or her. True, it makes things a little more difficult, but a relationship can work based on love and not looks.
 23 Jan 2008 03:19
by Elle-n-eva Elle-n-eva
 People fall in love without seeing also!
 04 Jan 2008 11:26
by Smilelaugh Smilelaugh
 Sometimes you fall in love with out even knowing it
 28 Dec 2007 04:38
by Ramzydb823 Ramzydb823
 Yeah sometimes love is blind.You never know that your girlfriend/boyfriend is with someone else.
LOVE IS BLIND
 09 Dec 2007 16:37
by Atiya Atiya
 I think you may have misunderstood the phrase that love is blind. It has nothing to do with physically looking at your mate. It has to do with the actions of your mate and how you don't see the negative things in the person because you are to busy looking at all the positives. Love is truly blind and sometimes, it can (sorry) blindside you when the negatives come out to bite you.
 08 Dec 2007 06:49
by Fdjones Fdjones
 Yeah! True love is really blind, if it is not then it's not love but something else ( might be attraction )
 15 Nov 2007 12:13
by Aishawa Aishawa
 Sure - true love is about things deeper than outward physical attraction. I believe love is present when someone regards the other's needs, desires, dreams and life on part with one's own. That can't happen with only superficial knowing--that takes a deeper understanding of a person's humanity and heart.

Attraction isn't blind, and lust is DEFINITELY not blind, but love is, and considers the person, not the shell of it.
 14 Nov 2007 21:52
by Amore01 Amore01
 I think that eye contact is more important in bringing a couple together initially, but the falling in love part for me comes later . I have heard of love at first sight, but what i believe is that they find themselves sexually attracted at first and if they find out later that they are compatible in other ways then they fall in love. This for them would be love at first sight. So if the sight part is absent but they have been brought together in other ways, then what happens after isn't down to appearances but to compatibility in likes and dislikes.
 14 Nov 2007 21:04
by Padraig Padraig
 Of course you should love the person for who they are and how they treat you not what they look like.
 14 Nov 2007 21:03
by Aprilw Aprilw
 It would probably result in a better match if we all ignored a person's looks and went for the real person inside.
 14 Nov 2007 16:53
by Harka Harka
 To be perfectly honest i believe that ugly people have more insecurities which they take out on everyone around them. The closer you are to these people the more negative influence they have on your own confidence. So stick to pretty people. Check my site www.thechuckybeeshow.com
 19 Nov 2007 15:52
by Thechuck Thechuck
 No Love can see very well and Love has chosen for you the perfect one just wait on love.1John 4:8
 20 May 2008 19:08
by Clouds Clouds
 Only if you cover its eyes with your broken heart.
 06 May 2008 17:54
by Luverboy Luverboy
 How could you see your partner then?
 11 Feb 2008 13:52
by Bloodsport Bloodsport
 Love is not blind. People just cease to notice.
 15 Jan 2008 09:27
by Mafe Mafe
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