I beleive it is right as rain. Although I do not beleive in just indiscriminately going from one partner to another.

When you find someone you really feel you love and wish to be with for ever and ever - great then before you get married - you need to explore each other and your individual wants and needs.

If you do not get along in the sack - it can literally ruin your relationship.

So ya try it out - but only when you have found someone you beleive is going to be the one and only.

If it does not work out - you are better off knowing sooner than later. 'Cause once you do marry - I really think you need to stay married.

 It is a ok get it when you can try it before you buy it

 Why marry a dude and find out later he is lousy in bed??? Maybe that's why the divorce rate is so high!!

 Don't do it.it's really really wrong....

 In the bible (old testament) Abraham was NOT married to his wife before they had sex. When it was discovered that his wife could not conceive, he had sex with a surrogate to help conceive there first child. If Abraham can do it, then the rest of us can.

 The unholy (unwholly) mind is obsessed with sexual satisfaction. This is the only reason why so many people feel sexual satisfaction before marriage is so important when truthfully the bible definition of love is all that matters. If there is a sexual problem in a marriage it should be able to be fixed.. But only if the real love is strong enough.

 NO. If a child I knew asked me if It was wrong, I would say it is. I also say swearing is wrong, but I would still do it. Just another example of cognitive dissonance.

 I do not have a problem so much with sex outside of marriage but what I tell everyone is that you shouldn't have sex with someone that you wouldn't want to raise a child with. You never know what might happen even when you practice so-called safe sex.

 Of course not /is one of many reason we get marry

 Sex before marriage isn't wrong.
If you really love that person and want to give them something, you don't need papers and vows to be able to do it.

However sex isn't something that should be given to everyone and experienced with just anyone.

 Well the bible says it is but how can you marry someone with out having sex with them .you might not enjoy it or they could really suck in bed then you have a big problem so i would test it first lol that's just me ;-)

 No because you need to know the person for all they are before you say I do. You need to know each other on every thing . You have to remember everyone that stand before the altar and God aren't perfect. I never understood the need for the bride to wear white, I had a friend that was pregnant and she wore white, and the marriage only last maybe a year. They were having problem before hand but the mother wanted them to get married since she was pregnant. You need to know who you are marrying.

 Its wrong, and ruins a good relationship if the future sometimes.

 Alright, enough already. When change comes, "it hits you right between the eyes." I used to think anything goes as long as there was no sexual affair during a marriage. Now I know much better thanks to God. Any sexual thoughts, fantasies, lusts or activities with anyone outside of both a committed husband and wife in the marriage covenant is wrong and results in sin. God designed only the heterosexual kind of sex to be used strictly in the marriage bed-not the living together, monogamous relationship, one-night stand or homosexual bed. If someone doesn't like these rules then take it up with God. The sexual bond is only for and during marriage-PERIOD.

 What's wrong with sex? It is the most natural thing we can do. It allows us to connect with people. I'm not saying go out and screw every man/woman on the block, it's just not that big of a deal. The three total partners that I have had sex with, were very involved loving relationships with me which each lasted for many years (I'm still with the third). I was smart and didn't rush into marriage with the first two. Now THAT would have been wrong, since I'd have missed out on a lot of experiences and my current love. You need the opportunity to explore and to live (while also being safe obviously). Many people hook up as a result of a physical attraction, and then the other stuff comes later. It's not lust, it's human nature. If the attraction just isn't there, then no matter how much you work at a relationship... It will go nowhere. Sex is not wrong or dirty. It is beautiful and emotional and a very important thing for a person's emotional stability. My lover and I are safe. After we make love, we feel good and happy. There is a bond there that ties us... We don't need marriage for that. Marriage is not a requirement for support and love. Perhaps the only reason for sex being perceived as dirty and wrong is a result of the Judeo-Christian/Muslim worldviews alone. What a twisted way to see such a beautiful act?

 There are a lot of comments about two people not being compatible sexually, what does this mean that a mans penis may be too small, big etc. Why is everything based on someones anatomy were all just human beings and we all need to be loved unconditionally by someone, you should never try someone out before you decide to love them that makes humans lower than dogs

 What happens when the marriage goes wrong because you are not compassionately compatible? There is nothing wrong with testing the waters. There may be something terribly wrong in this department and I would certainly want to find out before I made a commitment, as for other issues as well.

 No i don't think it's wrong at all.....

 With respect to those who do not believe in God the creator. It is wrong not because I say it. God said not to fornicate. It is a sin.
However, our present day society has become more and more distant from God that some belive in God but has forgotten or choose to forget what God has said.

 It is fine i have discussed it thoroughly with my 8 wives and plus satan will kill you all

 I think that two people need to know whether or not they are compatible in ALL ways prior to making that commitment (marriage). Take me and my boyfriend; we have amazing conversations. We agree on all the things that matter. The physical aspect of our relationship is wonderful, but it is only one part of it. Though I do feel that sex is an important part of any relationship, it is not the only part. I also feel that sex is something to be shared between two people who gen care about each other.

 Come on how many people do you know wait till marriage honestly?.i mean there teaching sex education in our schools,educating our teenagers about safe sex matters.its time for people to realize that times have changed and that people need to know Simone on a mental and physical level before deciding to spend eternity with someone.

 Sex before marriage is ok i think. The physical attraction two must have to continue a relationship also includes their sexual compatibility. Although it should be tossed around as meaningless it should be valued and treasured to mean something and stay that way in the relationship to continue towards and including marriage.

 Relationships are not only based on emotional attraction - physical attraction is also SUPER important! If you waiting till marriage to explore the physical attraction of your partner, and find out the sex sucks... Hello...DIVORCE! Really? Who wants to spend the rest of their life with a suck lay?

 SEX before marriage is ok.
If couples are going for that pleasure before marriage then why stop them. It adds to more experience-ha ha ha

 Although relationship should be both sexually & emotionally satisfying but emotions count more.
How can you let someone out of hands just coz of sex & with passage of time sexual desires may loosen up but desires of emotional love stays till death.

 The bible says its wrong to have sex until your happily married. I think its your choice. Anyway, honestly how many people save it for marriage?? Not many. Again its every individuals choice. Don't judge someone because they want to save sex, or they don't until there married.

 I don't care who you are... If you get married without sex and the sex is horrid... You will know it from rip, and even as you "fix" doesn't mean either of you have a clue how cause your both "virgins" and you or the partner may not be willing to try and give up.. And your left with someone you adore who couldn't satisfy anything... How depressing would that be? Screw that ... It's good to know the person 100% Physically before commitment
ps. Walteris you are not the brightest crayon in the box... Mind said Sex was temporary and fixable disagreeing with Roselot whereas Lovely agreed with him saying sex is important.. So how do you agree with them both? And don't ask a man how much it cost

 No. Sex should not be the arbiter of a marriage. I could never understand how pre-arranged marriages ever make it. You need to know the person in body and spirit prior to making a lifelong commitment.

 I think in order to know that you are sexually compatible you have to do it before you get married. If not you may end up being stuck with someone you don't want to have sex with forever.

 No i don't think sex before marriage is wrong if our relationships are true so it doesn't matter.

 I wasn't real sure on which way to go for this one but i thought about it and not everyone may believe in a marriage, not everyone may want to be married. So what will they do deprive themselves of an intimate relationship with the one they are in love with.

 Sex before marriage is not so problem as we think. If we can control everything's so no problem, go ahead......but if it is beyond control then it brings danger. How many people can control ? .....this is the fact!

 Another gross cop out!!!
Why should I give myself emotionally to someone unless they are committed to me i.e. Marriage

 I don't think its wrong a relationship is built on trust, communication, understanding and sex. You need to be attracted to there minds and appearance and you also need to be sexually compatible. Experimenting is a way of life and if you dont experiment i think you are more likely to go astray in a marriage.