Home Debates Threesomes Or Foursomes Is Acceptabe In Marrige.
Threesomes Or Foursomes Is Acceptabe In Marrige.
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Well.i Think U No...
by Bloodsport Bloodsport
 06 Feb 2008 15:20  
Against
 As long as they are both okay and talk it over and understand each other limits and needs.
 24 Jul 2008 20:06
by Panson Panson
 Be open for anything.it strengthens the relationship.
 06 May 2008 18:05
by Luverboy Luverboy
 It really depends on the relationship. I know some couples that are actually into this type of behaviour along with swinging and each are bisexual. I also know other couples that are firmly against it.

I would have to say that it would end a relationship if me or my mate would have ideas along these lines. But I would say that yes, for those that are okay with it, it is totally acceptable. Just as same sex marriages are okay.
 06 Feb 2008 16:04
by Fdjones Fdjones
 NO!!! I don't get that. I always thought the point of marriage is that you love someone so much that you can't even imagine being without them or with another person. If that's true than having sex with multiple people defeats the purpose of getting married. Sex should be an intimate act of love shared between two people who love each other more than anything else and by bringing another person into that act just doesn't seem right. Then again maybe i'm just naive and have the real meaning of sex mixed with a fantasy view because of all the nicholas sparks books i read. I hope not but not a lot of people view it the same way i do.
 07 Feb 2008 02:46
by Pbfan4 Pbfan4
 Why be married if this is what you do?
 06 Feb 2008 19:09
by Jimijaw Jimijaw
 NO! That is SO wrong! First of all, that would mean that you are not happy being with that one person that you made your vows to, you have to have other people also. Second, when you get married you are dedicated to that one special person. Personally, I would not be able to watch my husband do anything with another woman, it would break my heart. It is wrong and it should not happen.
 12 Sep 2008 21:09
by Alj53 Alj53
 NO!!!! You took vows and committed yourself to one person the day you got married not 2 or 3 or 4 people...
 07 Sep 2008 02:47
by Kymm1969 Kymm1969
 No way if I really love and care for my wife she would be the only one I would have sex with. If I did not I would of never married her.
 06 Sep 2008 20:21
by Redeagle Redeagle
 Although it may excite things or make things a little hot for the bored bedroom,it leads to much into an emotional disaster and creates a window for sneaking around and having emotional affairs as well as full blown out affairs with the excuse of your partner thinking its ok because you had a threesome before?,i think its not so wise unless the couple is completely ok with each other and has a strong trust and respect for one another.Let us face it there's no such thing as dipping in the cookie jar only once,if you find to enjoy something you tend to want to do it again and what if your spouse doesn't want to do it again then there's a whole other door of issues that can be opened
 03 Aug 2008 03:18
by Woman1982 Woman1982
 Too much emotion, too much to deal with. I love completely and wouldn't share -it would be totally diff if i didn't love him but then what would be the point of getting married ??
 26 Jul 2008 21:07
by Alady08 Alady08
 People who engage in sex with multiple people at the same time are afraid of deep intimacy. They are afraid of commitment. I ended a relationship with someone because that is the only thing he wanted. He really didn't want me for me he just wanted someone who would allow him to be polygamous.
 17 Jun 2008 23:49
by Javajulies Javajulies
 Are you crazy!?! Just messing. No, that is why you got married between one man and one woman.
 31 May 2008 23:40
by Jacob05 Jacob05
 I don't think i could ever trust my spouse or myself again afterwards, because one if not both of us will think that's ok to do without the other eventually, which in turn will lead to divorce.
 23 May 2008 21:06
by Gaseater78 Gaseater78
 Rarely is a single couple having sex with each other. Without condoms you are having more than a foursome, double and triple that. And condoms are not fool proof. Those in the foursomes may have had foursomes with hundredssomes. This is not only a safety issue but a morality one. Even if all agree it is immoral. If these people who are into this have children, double shame on them.
 21 May 2008 21:25
by Gsharon710 Gsharon710
 Not in my marriage.
 14 Apr 2008 12:38
by Pencil Pencil
 Marriage is between two people. If you want to have sex with several people stay single and become a porn star. Keep up the insurance though, you will need it someday.
 21 Mar 2008 18:03
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 No, No, NO!! Like Cabrunet said, marriage is for 2 people and not 3 or 4.
 20 Mar 2008 18:39
by Hockey4eva Hockey4eva
 While it might work for certain couples, as we know, but Not me. This is a vow to be truthful, love and Respect each other, and No this is Not for us..
 10 Mar 2008 15:34
by Walteria Walteria
 NO, it ruins a marriage and will be something that you can't reverse. Not to mention, its also wrong. If you want to hop around like that, stay single.
 08 Feb 2008 06:16
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 No way it would ruin a marriage or a relationship i think it is unacceptable and i think if anyone in a marriage is looking for this then they are not in the right relationship
 06 Feb 2008 16:54
by Lovedup12 Lovedup12
 We as a nation need to look back at the morals and principles on which our nation was formed. In God we Trust is not an old fashioned idea. We as a nation are turning our backs on God who is the backbone of what our country stands. Such relationships are sinful according to God's law, In the Old Testament, God allowed men to have multiple wives, but when Christ died, he did away with the old law and brought in the new law, the New Testament. God forbids fornication and adultery. What else can you call sexual relations with those that are not your husband or wife?

If our nation does not return to our God for guidance, obey His laws and return to Biblical practices, then God may turn his back on our nation as He did in history.
This is not meant to preach to you or anyone, but love for our fellowman, will lead one to share and warn.
 06 Feb 2008 16:41
by Smilemaker Smilemaker
 Noway! It ruins a marriage
 06 Feb 2008 15:36
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