 As long as they are both okay and
talk it over and understand each
other limits and needs.
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 24 Jul 2008 20:06
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 Be open for anything.it strengthens
the relationship.
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 06 May 2008 18:05
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 It really depends on the
relationship. I know some couples
that are actually into this type of
behaviour along with swinging and
each are bisexual. I also know
other couples that are firmly
against it.
I would have to say that it would
end a relationship if me or my mate
would have ideas along these lines.
But I would say that yes, for those
that are okay with it, it is
totally acceptable. Just as same
sex marriages are okay.
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 06 Feb 2008 16:04
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 NO!!! I don't get that. I always
thought the point of marriage is
that you love someone so much that
you can't even imagine being
without them or with another
person. If that's true than having
sex with multiple people defeats
the purpose of getting married.
Sex should be an intimate act of
love shared between two people who
love each other more than anything
else and by bringing another
person into that act just doesn't
seem right. Then again maybe i'm
just naive and have the real
meaning of sex mixed with a fantasy
view because of all the nicholas
sparks books i read. I hope not
but not a lot of people view it the
same way i do.
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 07 Feb 2008 02:46
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 Why be married if this is what you
do?
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 06 Feb 2008 19:09
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 NO! That is SO wrong! First of all,
that would mean that you are not
happy being with that one person
that you made your vows to, you
have to have other people also.
Second, when you get married you
are dedicated to that one special
person. Personally, I would not be
able to watch my husband do
anything with another woman, it
would break my heart. It is wrong
and it should not happen.
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 12 Sep 2008 21:09
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 NO!!!! You took vows and committed
yourself to one person the day you
got married not 2 or 3 or 4
people...
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 07 Sep 2008 02:47
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 No way if I really love and care
for my wife she would be the only
one I would have sex with. If I did
not I would of never married her.
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 06 Sep 2008 20:21
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 Although it may excite things or
make things a little hot for the
bored bedroom,it leads to much into
an emotional disaster and creates a
window for sneaking around and
having emotional affairs as well as
full blown out affairs with the
excuse of your partner thinking its
ok because you had a threesome
before?,i think its not so wise
unless the couple is completely ok
with each other and has a strong
trust and respect for one
another.Let us face it there's no
such thing as dipping in the cookie
jar only once,if you find to enjoy
something you tend to want to do it
again and what if your spouse
doesn't want to do it again then
there's a whole other door of
issues that can be opened
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 03 Aug 2008 03:18
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 Too much emotion, too much to deal
with. I love completely and
wouldn't share -it would be totally
diff if i didn't love him but then
what would be the point of getting
married ??
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 26 Jul 2008 21:07
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 People who engage in sex with
multiple people at the same time
are afraid of deep intimacy. They
are afraid of commitment. I ended
a relationship with someone because
that is the only thing he wanted.
He really didn't want me for me he
just wanted someone who would allow
him to be polygamous.
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 17 Jun 2008 23:49
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 Are you crazy!?! Just messing. No,
that is why you got married between
one man and one woman.
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 31 May 2008 23:40
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 I don't think i could ever trust my
spouse or myself again afterwards,
because one if not both of us will
think that's ok to do without the
other eventually, which in turn
will lead to divorce.
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 23 May 2008 21:06
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 Rarely is a single couple having
sex with each other. Without
condoms you are having more than a
foursome, double and triple that.
And condoms are not fool proof.
Those in the foursomes may have had
foursomes with hundredssomes. This
is not only a safety issue but a
morality one. Even if all agree it
is immoral. If these people who are
into this have children, double
shame on them.
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 21 May 2008 21:25
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 Not in my marriage.
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 14 Apr 2008 12:38
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 Marriage is between two people. If
you want to have sex with several
people stay single and become a
porn star. Keep up the insurance
though, you will need it someday.
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 21 Mar 2008 18:03
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 No, No, NO!! Like Cabrunet said,
marriage is for 2 people and not 3
or 4.
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 20 Mar 2008 18:39
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 While it might work for certain
couples, as we know, but Not me.
This is a vow to be truthful, love
and Respect each other, and No this
is Not for us..
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 10 Mar 2008 15:34
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 NO, it ruins a marriage and will be
something that you can't reverse.
Not to mention, its also wrong. If
you want to hop around like that,
stay single.
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 08 Feb 2008 06:16
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 No way it would ruin a marriage or
a relationship i think it is
unacceptable and i think if anyone
in a marriage is looking for this
then they are not in the right
relationship
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 06 Feb 2008 16:54
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 We as a nation need to look back at
the morals and principles on which
our nation was formed. In God we
Trust is not an old fashioned idea.
We as a nation are turning our
backs on God who is the backbone of
what our country stands. Such
relationships are sinful according
to God's law, In the Old
Testament, God allowed men to have
multiple wives, but when Christ
died, he did away with the old law
and brought in the new law, the New
Testament. God forbids fornication
and adultery. What else can you
call sexual relations with those
that are not your husband or
wife?
If our nation does not return to
our God for guidance, obey His laws
and return to Biblical practices,
then God may turn his back on our
nation as He did in history.
This is not meant to preach to you
or anyone, but love for our
fellowman, will lead one to share
and warn.
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 06 Feb 2008 16:41
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 Noway! It ruins a marriage
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 06 Feb 2008 15:36
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