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Do U Think It Is Possible For A Long Distance Relationship To Work-out, Even While Dating? Distance In About 4-5 Hours.
by Joy4ever Joy4ever
 11 Oct 2007 00:29  
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 Nothing stop Love if your love is true and honest ^^,
 23 Jan 2008 07:58
by Die4m3 Die4m3
 Yes of course long distance relationships can work out if there is proper understanding between two.
Such relationships can be as successful as the "non-distant" ones depending upon the like-mindedness & intensity of love/likeness b/w two partners.
 16 May 2008 22:25
by Life Life
 Been in a long distance intercontinental relationship with what is now my wife of 6 yrs.
Her being in the states and me in Europe when she came home she got online with me(which gave me a lot of sleepless nights) as it was midnight there against her 6PM here so she was the only one getting a decent night sleep and when she came over she stuck around for a year before we returned to the states as a couple so i can full heatedly say it does work but it also has to do with commitment to the relationship
 20 Mar 2008 15:29
by Dutchman Dutchman
 There is nothing like a 3D relationship, but I believe long distance is possible and can be quiet enjoyable with the right person. You do need to be able to visit each other, too. There are things you can only know about a person by watching and observing(manners, habits, etc.).
 14 Feb 2008 18:02
by Rev_eb Rev_eb
 I had a long distance relationship, TN to CA. It was wonderful, we were fortunate to see each other roughly every other month. We bought family plan phones and talked every day. We talked on line in chat rooms and in IM. We have been married going on 2 years. It is wonderful and was definitely worth the wait. You never know who you may find if you don't give love a true chance... You can't put barriers like distance up, you have to have open arms, and open mind, and an open heart.
 07 Feb 2008 05:42
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 4-5 hours is nothing. That could be easily worked out. In this day and age even my 20+hour relationship can still work out.
It's more about the relationship and personality and not all physical. If you really care for the person, you can put up with any situation. And if they care for you as well then you can both work through anything, no matter the distance.
 14 Nov 2007 09:09
by Cronjap Cronjap
 I have to say it will work if u just want to make it work.. At times it mayb frustrating but then again when u get to see each other after a really long time it will be all worth it :) depends on both of u and how often do u communicate. A partner doesnt neccessarily always hv to b physically available.. To me its more important if i know he is just there for me at anytime and not neccessarily physically
 10 Nov 2007 16:40
by Tasha_80_t Tasha_80_t
 Yes, I know it can work I'm living proof my husband and i were together for 12 yrs before we married and we lived 4 hrs apart and at one point we lived 8hrs apart , on the weekends i would go to his house and the next week end he would come to my house it worked out because we were both so busy at out jobs during the week and it gave us something to look forward to now we are together with a 5yr old son and it has taught us about the value of each other and our differences .
 08 Nov 2007 14:41
by Newbuds Newbuds
 This is a toughy. Most people think that long distance relationships never work, but in truth, they only work if you want them to work. If you put in the extra effort needed, then there is no reason that you cant have a long distance relationship.
 24 Oct 2007 23:23
by Kieva Kieva
 If its just the matter of living some HOURS away from a person then its totally unimportant.If you support the relationship and are willing to make a few sacrifices go right ahead..."where theres a will theres a way!"
 22 Oct 2007 11:42
by Who_i_am Who_i_am
 You will be very tired if you two are in a long distance relationship. You may not be with each other in time when one of you is in trouble. Sometime it frustrates. But I'm for it, coz the distance is not a very very big deal if you are in deeply love..Anyway, both of you should try to find some good ways to solve the problems...
 18 Oct 2007 17:40
by Blt_junta Blt_junta
 It may work out, but it won't be very enjoyable.
 14 Oct 2007 17:34
by Coolest225 Coolest225
 From long ago i have seen they do not work people may hold onto each other in the moment but eventually and generally one falls weak and is swept of there feet by someone who is physically there.I think it can only work with constant reassurance constant contact ,which for some can be emotionally draining
 03 Aug 2008 03:40
by Woman1982 Woman1982
 I think it breaks more relationships than it makes.
 08 Jun 2008 15:05
by Pencil Pencil
 I would never be in long distance relationship .Because i love to be with man and pick up the phone or send e-mail doesn't works for me.
 15 Apr 2008 18:42
by Queen73 Queen73
 Takes up too many of my minutes on a pay phone.
 11 Feb 2008 13:52
by Bloodsport Bloodsport
 It can lead to a lot of temptations. Humans as we are, sooner or later, we succumb to tests... Eventually break-ups!
 28 Dec 2007 04:13
by Amazona58 Amazona58
 Through experience and also what I've seen is not recommended. Unless if you are already committed to Marriage it's okay...
 19 Dec 2007 19:30
by Myshadow Myshadow
 Long distance relationships don't go well because there is no direct communication- which is the main thing in a relation ship.
But if it is going to a good thing, like a marrige . Or if they are going to meet soon- in some months, then it's fine...
The will miss each other but will meet again.
 13 Oct 2007 09:39
by Funnyfun Funnyfun
 Because you never see them.
 11 Oct 2007 01:32
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