 I'm not sure whether there's a pure
relationship between the opposite
sex friends. But I really don't
think it's good for best friends to
become lovers. In case you break
up, You won't be friends any more.
Friendship is different from love,
best friends are better to be
friends only. |
 28 Aug 2008 11:43
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Both are entirely different, both
can't be linked, friendship is a
bonding to people with same
attitude , whereas love is opposite |
07 Nov 2008 10:04
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Yes i agree with you, you can't
compare both because both are
entirely different |
15 Sep 2008 07:02
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I 100 % agree with you, how can a
lover be a friend i can't
understand |
11 Sep 2008 17:36
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You need to define between real
love and friendship. Some people in
the name of friendship create love,
that is not fair.
Because there is a lot of
difference between the 2 |
08 Sep 2008 15:21
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You should make your lover your
best friend but you can't make your
best friend your lover and maintain
a friendship. |
07 Sep 2008 02:39
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True Friendship means purity. I
don't mean to say love is not pure.
But no comparison between the 2 |
04 Sep 2008 06:28
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I have understood what you are
saying. I just don't understand how
people take friends as lovers.
A lover can be as a friend, but a
friend can't be a lover |
02 Sep 2008 06:39
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Sometimes when we are trying to
find out if we are compatible in a
relationship we have a sort of
friendship first to get to know
each other and then we move to
another level of love. Peace |
28 Aug 2008 20:47
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I think friends are not good to
make lovers out of as it could ruin
a great friendship, but I got
married and now have a new best
friend.... |
28 Aug 2008 16:35
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Friendship is not related to love. |
28 Aug 2008 13:25
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 Love does not need any reason or
logic. Friends can be lovers and
vice versa although sometimes you
may feel weried. |
28 Aug 2008 11:36
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Friendship and Love are
interrelated because you can't love
some stranger without knowing about
him/her. You need to get acquainted
& love |
12 Oct 2008 08:38
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My man and I have this bond we are
more than best friends he is the
one I want to spend the rest of my
life with. He was my best friend
before he was my boyfriend and I
couldn't have found a better match. |
01 Sep 2008 11:37
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I think that your lover should be
first and foremost a friend. Also,
love and friendship go hand in
hand. If you love someone, you're
their friend, and if someone is
your friend, you love them. Even if
you don't have sexual attraction to
all your friends you do "love
them".
Your sexual lover is technically
nothing but a friend. You talk to
them, hang out with them, care
about them, love them, want the
best for them, and look out for
them. The only difference between a
lover and an ordinary best friend
is that you have sex. Everything
you do with a best friend you do
with a lover. That sort of makes
your lover your best friend. You
can't keep friendship out of love. |
01 Sep 2008 04:41
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I'm against this because my husband
IS my best friend. I think that the
bases of any long lasting
relationship is friendship. When
you get older, your kids grow up
and out, the companionship of a
best friend to grow old with is so
important. |
30 Aug 2008 01:18
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I think that friendship should be a
factor in the romantic
relationship. It is a good place to
begin. |
29 Aug 2008 17:59
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If you are just going to have some
fling, then, no, friendship would
not be an issue. But in order to
actually love another person, I
believe you have to become friends
FIRST. How can you love someone
without being a friend first? As
you get to know a person, you first
of all decide whether you want them
for a friend. As the friendship
grows, you may grow to love that
person either with a sister/brother
love, as a lover relationship or as
an agape love. A sincere
friendship generaly leads to one of
these types of love. |
28 Aug 2008 20:16
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It depends. Sometimes friendship is
best left out of love affairs. Once
affairs morph into relationships,
however, friendship is generally
unavoidable. |
28 Aug 2008 19:21
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My lover is the best friend I've
ever had. He's more of a friend
than my best girlfriend could ever
be!! Even when we were separated
(we are back together now) we
remained best friends...Lovers
don't have much of a relationship
unless they are friends. How can
you love someone whom you cannot be
friends with? |
28 Aug 2008 18:34
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