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Love At First Sight Isn't Possible.
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In My Opinion, "Love At First Sight" Isn't Real. Yeah, Maybe You Think It's Love. But, It's Deffinitley Not TRUE Love. If, Somehow, {[you Think..]} It Is ; You're Just Being Shallow. -Because You SEE The Person --without Even Talking To Them Or Getting To Know Anything About Them. & I Feel Its Impossible To Fall Inlove With Someone BASED On Looks Alone. [{Which IS The Only Thing You Have On The Person, Right? Physical Appearances.}] They Were Amazingly Attractive. Without Sharing A Sentence Even, You Conclude Your Inlove? It Was Just, Magically, Love At First Sight? Impossible.
by Breh Breh
 13 Jan 2008 17:37  
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 Yeah you can fall in love with someone at the very first sight of them I did and we have been together for 5yrs and a 2yr old and one on the way.
 01 Feb 2008 03:47
by Anna_05 Anna_05
 True love takes time to grow. Lust at first sight is what some people mistake for love. Love is a relationship that is nurtured and takes time to develop. That's my opinion. :)
 13 Jan 2008 23:19
by Paulajo Paulajo
 Love at first sight I feel is a lot of times confused with lust and infatuation. Love grows within a relationship. Kinda like a child to his/her mother.
 04 Sep 2008 19:50
by Redeagle Redeagle
 Lust at first site is very possible . Love absolutely not!
 01 Sep 2008 03:39
by Bifmeister Bifmeister
 Its not possible. At first is only physical attraction(lust). When you actually interact with the individual and love his/her perfections and imperfections you truly in love.
 24 Jul 2008 20:16
by Panson Panson
 Why not ? I believe its possible! :)
 08 Jul 2008 16:23
by Charming Charming
 To love someone you should first know the person well at least to some point where the real love starts to grow
 16 Jun 2008 08:12
by Lucyscar Lucyscar
 It's LUST at first sight PERIOD!! LOVE takes times and getting to know one another and nurturing that growth. You can LOVE the way a person LOOKS or ACTS or how you THINK THEY ARE that's all. But until you get to know that person it's all in YOUR head and your PERCEPTION. A lot of people are in love with LOVE. Face it everyone wants to be loved and love someone. Everyone wants to have those warm butterfly feelings. All that is, is fear if that person your lusting after is going to accept or reject you.
 13 Jun 2008 05:46
by Lilywright Lilywright
 Yes I agree. Maybe you think it's true love but you just misinterpreted what true love really is.
 10 Jun 2008 21:57
by Zexion Zexion
 Yeah it is.....as a chick can take your breath away.....
 06 May 2008 18:08
by Luverboy Luverboy
 It is possible cause i experienced it. If you don't believe in it read my answer in lovelyme's group called (love consultancy) and you will see what i mean. It's the question about how and when did you meet?
 02 May 2008 17:43
by Joyous1 Joyous1
 Although rare, I believe that it is possible to fall in love with someone at first sight.
 25 Apr 2008 14:12
by Pencil Pencil
 I believe in Love at first site, I am one of those people. Yes it does have grow into a friendship, trust,and really know that both of you our meant to be. Mine turned out that Yes it was Love.
 12 Mar 2008 17:05
by Walteria Walteria
 Its true love at first sight is not the true love.True love needs time to grow.It does not happen by seeing at each other. You should have understanding between each other.
 07 Mar 2008 17:59
by Atiya Atiya
 Oh, but there is such a thing. Maybe you could call it chemistry at first sight.
 03 Mar 2008 08:25
by Isabel123 Isabel123
 Of course there is such a thing as love at first sight. It's the butterflies you feel when they smile at you for the first time and the giggle you get when they turn and look at you not through you but at you and your eyes meet, and lock and you see the person inside the kindness in their eyes. Its magical. That's how i met my husband. Love at first site.
 27 Feb 2008 06:56
by Corkyj21 Corkyj21
 I think it's more possible for guys than girls. Guys tend to be very attracted to what see can see (visual). When they see a gorgeous girl they hope that girl is everything their imagination is saying she is. Anyway, i do think its possible, not because love happened just like that, but because someone obviously just wanted to make it work between them so bad just by looking at that person
 05 Feb 2008 23:28
by Ladylena Ladylena
 Yes it si, I found my love like this and now we are married and are living very happy 3 years later.
 02 Feb 2008 19:17
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 "love at first sight"is only a saying but not a reality. This is not possible at all. Even this happens its just an attraction but not true love. For love to happen a person needs to understand each other. Now a days there's no guarantee for relationship which happens even after knowing from many years n what guarantee will be there for love at first sight????? Its all illusion that's all!
 19 Jan 2008 06:23
by Neha_niku Neha_niku
 I almost let all the no answers talk me into changing my opinion but I can't do that.

Love at first site is very possible. Something attracts you to this other person and you feel it is love. Then you spend more time proving that it was love that attracted you to this person. Not just looks or money or anything else.

I would agree that it does not happen as often as people give it credit for but I can't deny that it does not exist at all.
 14 Jan 2008 17:14
by Fdjones Fdjones
 Hi, I am an optimist; I believe all things are possible if you believe. You may say it is impossible to fall in love at first sight, but I think it is possible. I have spoke to people, who said they loved their mates from the time they met them. However, in most cases it is an infatuation, not true love. Take Care!
 13 Jan 2008 18:27
by Healthlady Healthlady
 I met a girl was engaged 3 weeks later got married 18 months later and was married 7 years with ups and downs she new i was her guy first time we stared into each others eyes and i felt the same way and yeah were divorced now but people change guess we did too
 28 Oct 2008 19:04
by Beamerman Beamerman
 I think that love at first sight is possible.Although sometimes you may feel confused but that does not it mean that it is not possible.It is possible and it happen to everyone of us here....So i am against the idea that love at first sight is not possible. =)
 27 Sep 2008 14:22
by Mindy_16 Mindy_16
 It definitely is. It happened to me -it did not work out in the long run, but from the first moment i saw him..
 31 Aug 2008 03:55
by Alady08 Alady08
 It is possible
 06 Aug 2008 15:45
by Speedogurl Speedogurl
 You only see them, but not really who they are, you don't even know them, what their personality is like. AND haven't you ever heard "Don't judge a book by it's cover"?
 17 Apr 2008 16:58
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 Love at first sight isn't LOVE. You can't really and truly love someone until you know everything about them; and still can't be away from them. I think that this saying is very shallow -- how can you love someone by a first impression? Sorry, that's just my opinion.
 05 Apr 2008 09:27
by Xoxoxoxo Xoxoxoxo
 It's mere infatuation and mixed up with lust if you wanna conclude and decide about it give it some time.
 18 Jan 2008 08:20
by Kingo Kingo
 I think that luv at 1st sight is just an infatuation,its only when you get to know the person that you can love him/her.
 14 Jan 2008 15:50
by Tamu_rok Tamu_rok
 It doesn't happen , loving a person at first is not liking a thing.
 14 Jan 2008 10:46
by Skyadamani Skyadamani
 No b/c because it really is not love at 1st sight if you are able to fall in love more than 1 time
 14 Jan 2008 00:40
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