I agree, it shouldn't hurt, or have jealousy in it, but love is so fragile, that sometimes it doesn't take anything other than say a man looking at a woman the wrong way, and all the trust is gone instantly. It has to be respected, and always worked on, because it doesn't just fall into place without the work.

 Love is kind and not jealous :)

 Nothing can make a relationship worse than by not trusting the other person. Jealousy is not trusting the other person.
Violence has no part in love either. If someone wants to beat on their spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend they should get out of that relationship immediately.

 Yes i do agree with you, love is neither jealous nor violent, it is a different experience we have in our life, which can't be defined

 Love is special and nothing can ruin it any faster than jealousy or violance.

 It says so in the Bible, and that is the definition, I go by.

 While I WILL agree that true love does not include(insane jealousy) or violence, I DO think SOME jealousy can be involved in love. When one has some jealousy, I think it shows passion (for you don't want your partner with anyone else) so it's normal to a certain extent-I say. Just my opinion. But TRUST is the major key and if two people don't trust each other(or if only ONE person trusts) there can be no relationship. When one person is aware the other in a relationship doesn't trust them(especially when they know they aren't doing anything wrong), they have nothing to live up to. This is not good and yes-it hurts.

 I think love is respect in the first and trust in the second if we love , respect and trust each other so we will not find a problem

 I agree. You can be in love with someone and still speak to others without fear of jealousy or violence from your mate.