 Love marriage is good.Because u to
really know each other well. You
really understand each other. Here
again depends on the two. Because
there has been lots of love
marriage and lots of divorce as
well.
It really depends of the Two..
Arranged marriage does not sound
good. |
 23 Oct 2008 17:27
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I doubt about arranged marriage.
Most people marry because the
feelings of love draw them together
in an almost irresistable fashion!
To love and be loved within the
security of marriage is probably
one of the greatest pleasures in
life. And so, i am for love
marriage!!!! |
19 Sep 2007 12:49
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Arranged marriages in my opinion,
is the dumbest idea ever. Marriage
is the final ties in the bond of
love, so if one gets married by
arrangement rather than by loving
someone, then they are going
against the meaning of a marriage |
13 Sep 2008 17:47
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Love is Life |
11 Sep 2008 13:23
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I could never make my child marry
someone they don't love or even
like! I can't imagine that being
done to me either. You should
always marry for love, and that
should be it. |
02 Sep 2008 07:23
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I strongly oppose arrange marriage
because here you don't marry for
yourself you marry for your caste,
society and keeping others happy
and showing pretended happiness
that you love your partner.The fact
that love marriages break more than
arrange marriages is because of the
same society and the fact that
arrange marriages last is because
of fear of society and family. How
long relation lasts does not matter
but how long you remain happy does
matter when it comes to life. |
09 Aug 2008 08:22
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I think arranged marriages are
awful. It would be so easy to fall
in love with someone else, and I
would be dying for a divorce. |
08 Aug 2008 21:30
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Yes better to marry with love. We
all make mistakes and may marry the
wrong person but at least is our
mistake not the parents. The point
of legal marriage after18 is to
give you the choice to decide by
yourself. Its your life you are
the one who has to put up with it. |
03 Aug 2008 20:59
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I'm for love marriage.Think about
it the divorce rate is about 60
percent as it is, if your
statistics is that much of a gloom
you might as well be happy at first
and chose who you want to elope
with. |
03 Aug 2008 01:41
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Love arrangedis like forcing love
upon someone and well that doesn't
work out so well happiness is love
so arranging love will make an
artificial happiness |
21 Jul 2008 02:22
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I'm for love marriage, cuz i cant
marry a guy that i dun like! :S |
08 Jul 2008 14:55
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Let God do what he has to the
parents she not arrange for any
marriages and if those who stand
for arranged marriages new Christ
not new about Christ for their one
self they'd know that the shouldn't
interfere with what God has for
them. |
20 May 2008 17:59
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I am for love marriage coz When
marriage is arranged, even if after
some time you get used to your
husband and wife, the relationship
is still an artificial one. Those
who arrange the marriage most of
the times think that love will come
soon after the marriage, but this
is wrong. You will always feel
trapped and soon after the marriage
you would like to find a real love,
and your arranged partner will be
jealous and all your life will be a
mess. |
15 May 2008 08:13
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I'm all for it.'cause you have to
find that right somebody
then you know the meaning of love
and the good thing about it is the
kissing part!! |
23 Mar 2008 21:30
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A love relationship is the way to
go, not one that someone else picks
for you. If you don't enter into
marriage with love, I think the
relationship will not have a good
chance of lasting. |
16 Mar 2008 02:57
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I totally agree how can you live,
raise children and have sex with
someone you don't like. Nobody
should be forced to do anything. |
25 Nov 2007 18:55
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People should not be a areged for
marriage. Love should come from
your heart its not something that
people should force you to do it
you have to wait for the right one. |
23 Nov 2007 21:50
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I am totally against arranged
marriages. Other people can not
just arrange your life for you, nor
can they arrange who you fall in
love and want to spend the rest of
your life with. I feel sorry for
anyone who has to go through this,
especially the women, as it seems
they usually get the short end of
the stick here. Marriage is
suppose to be about love and
commitment from each others heart,
not a contract written by your
parents! If my parents tried that,
I would have run away!! |
16 Nov 2007 15:02
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I am against arranged marriage. I
think everyone should have the
right to pick the person they want
to spend the rest of eternity with.
Arranged marriage often have to do
with money problems, a human being
is not something you can control
and stop their emotions, we are not
supposed to make our parents
wealthy, we are supposed to be
looking for our "happily ever
after." |
23 Sep 2007 04:48
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I can see advantages in arranged
marriages which i see more as
business partnerships whereby the
business is creating a strong
family unit. But i think that a
marriage offers more growth in the
relationship. Its always preferable
to have a say in planing your own
life. If it goes wrong you have
only yourself to blame in choosing
the wrong partner. I cant imagine
what it would be like to be raised
in a family were my grannyand
granda were instrumental in the
genetic selection of my birth. |
10 Sep 2007 01:32
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I'm all for love marraiges. What's
the point in being married to
someone you don't love? That's
rediculous. Marriage is suppose to
be the union of two people who love
each other and what to spend the
rest of their lives together
because they can't bare the the
thought of spending a single day
without each other or the thought
of waking up next to someone else
instead of you. Arranged marriages
can't give you that. If its not
love than its not really a
marriage. |
31 Aug 2007 16:48
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 See parents know whats good for
you, when you were 1yr old mum dad
know well for what reason you cry,
whether its for hungry or sleep...
So even they know such small things
y cant they decide your life
partner?? Of course they ll give
their best. When they give you
money,food, education and your
life... Why cant you let these
marriage to your parents??? Whats
your repay to your parents who
spend their half of their lives for
u??? Think of it..... There is
nothing bigger than satisfying
parents expectations.... Think
about it |
29 Apr 2008 10:17
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1. When they are fall in love
money, religion, beauty, education,
are not matters... But in arrange
marriage his/her parents must want
above all things ….
2. Arrange marriage is like a
business …
3. Caste system gives birth to
arrange marriages, as the upper
caste families don’t want their
children to marry outside their
community and caste.
4. One of the great diplomatic
Politian “periyar” said that
love marriage is best solution of
erase the community.
5. Arrange marriages are
extravagant . So I don’t like
celebrate lavishly.. |
18 Oct 2007 13:50
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I have read that the success rate
of each is about equal. How
committed one is to making marriage
work is a big factor. |
18 Mar 2008 18:56
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Irrespective of love or arranged, a
successful marriage depends upon
the mutual understanding, we have
seen many love & arranged marriage
successful and failures also.
So the debate is purely a
perception |
23 Feb 2008 09:49
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Arrange is the best we would not
find a better person than our
parents would find!
Its true think |
04 Jan 2008 11:22
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I am for arranged marriages.Anyways
ur parents not going to ask you to
get mrried to a person blindlyThey
kno what is good for you,cos its ur
parents have been looking after you
for so many years and they know
what u like and what not.
One advantage of arranged marriage
is when your married life turns
better you could go to ur parents
.
But if urs were a love marriage and
if doesnt go well u cant turn to ur
parents as ul really feel
guilty.When your parents got u a
vehicle , credit card u accept
happily then y not this |
18 Oct 2007 16:41
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Umm… I would definitely op for a
love marriage. The reason for this
opinion of mine is that when two
people love each other and they
develop mutual understanding
between each other, they find it
highly easy to understand and
comprehend one another’s
dilemmas, quandaries and
principles. Soul mates lead a much
happier life as compared to the
ones who have been dragged into a
marriage forcibly! |
13 Sep 2007 17:04
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