 For Marriage! Why buy the cow when
you can get the cow for free! Women
need to have a little more pride
these days and take pride in what
they offer in a relationship...it
has value. The price should be a
lifetime commitment. Yes, ladies,
you are that good. You have that
much VALUE! Gentlemen, you too have
that much value. Square those
shoulders and take pride in taking
on responsibility. It is after all
the only measure of MANHOOD!
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 05 Sep 2007 03:32
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 Marriage!
It's great for the kids. Later on,
the kids will reward you for being
a great role model and offering
them a secure home life by letting
you rock your grandkids! With an
intact, committed relationship, a
person could possibly live to see
just what impact one life makes on
future generations.
And somewhere I read that married
people actually live longer.
Marriage!
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 05 Sep 2007 05:51
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 Marriage is a sacred and inviolable
social institution.
This holy union protects both the
man and woman and the children they
beget. Good values can be instilled
in the tender minds of the children
when they can see good morale
examples.
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 25 Dec 2007 08:06
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 Hi,
I believe that one should
definitely get married. As it gives
you a life partner, with whom you
can share each happiness and grief
of your life.
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 21 Nov 2007 06:26
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 Marriage all the way ! If you just
live with them then they are more
likly to leave.marriage is they way
to go.
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 27 Sep 2007 20:34
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 Marriage! People who have lived
together, often for years, say that
something really changes when you
say those vows in front of your
family and friends. It really
strenghtens the bond between the
couple.
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 05 Sep 2007 06:49
by  Guest
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 Yes, marriage is right! Otherwise
it would be sinning and
jeopardizing your eternal soul.
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 04 Sep 2007 19:53
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 Getting married is better because
it gives you both legal rights.
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 02 Sep 2007 18:09
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 Get married its the best of all
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 16 Jun 2008 09:34
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 Living in for too long is a drag.
You lose the right to date, and
have all the trappings of marriage
without a commitment to grow a
family. So I would advocate
sleeping over or getting married,
but not living in.
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 07 Jun 2008 21:43
by  Guest
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 I don't know every woman. I believe
dreams of a beautiful wedding at
least one time in her lifetime. I
have, my problem with it i guess is
if it doesn't work out it hurts
more than just two people it hurts
both families and if there are any
children involved. Financially and
as well as any other way. Divorces
cost. I think living in would be
okay. But only on certain terms. I
am living with my boyfriend right
now, but I hope to be married
someday.
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 28 May 2008 23:03
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 Marriage is best but i am not
against living together. Sometimes
i think it can be a good thing.
Living with someone for awhile will
help you get to know that person
really well and the you will know
if you want to marry that person
and spend your life together. I
think that's another reason for so
many end in divorce today if more
people lived together they may see
that is not the one for them a
whole lot faster than just jumping
in to marriage then finding oomg
what have i done.
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 13 May 2008 13:22
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 I think you should be married if
you are going to live together
although, sometimes it works out
good to live together for a while.
Just to see what you will be
getting, and if you truly want it
for the rest of your life!
Lol!!!!!!!!!!
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 02 May 2008 18:04
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 If you love someone enough to live
with them then why not get married?
It makes no sense to me. Your love
must be very weak if you have
doubts as to marriage.
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 01 May 2008 19:26
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 Marriage all the way...though it is
not easy...in fact nothing in life
is easy. The benefits outweigh the
challenges
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 16 Apr 2008 19:50
by  Guest
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 If you are truly committed,
marriage. If not, living with
someone is your best bet.
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 16 Feb 2008 03:22
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 Marrige makes people stable in
their life. It gives them a chance
to make a family, to have children,
to stay with their beloved once ,
to share lives, to become a
parent....etc
and for those who says that marrige
is bad for children when their
parents divorce. Well, it's true
but also when a couple who's not
married breakup, children are hurt
to have a single parent, so we
can't say to people
( don't marry or don't have
children) coz it just depend on how
they live their life & how they
communicate with each other.
Couples who wants to marry should
think wisely about their coming
life & look forward for a bright
life, not to think that they will
be in the prison of marrige.
((:look at the bright side of
marrige, coz it's stays long & is
so shiny:))
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 07 Nov 2007 22:43
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 I've been married for 13 years now
and am torn on this issue. Recently
my sister said something about
getting married and I advised her
against it. I got married at a very
young age and had my first child by
the time I was 21. I did what I had
to do and finished school...went
back for more school and finished
that. But this is not always the
case. Marriage is a struggle and a
complete commitment. It has been a
rocky path to say the least but I
am completely in love with my
husband and couldn't imagine not
being his wife. I would advise
living with the person before you
get married because that's when you
really get to know someone.
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 30 Oct 2007 21:52
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 Yes! Marriage. Thats the right
thing to do It is for better or
worst It is not always a 50/50
thing sometimes you have to give
100% but life goes on and if you
are truely in love and give your
best it will work!!
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 17 Sep 2007 06:49
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 If a person decides to marry ,it
should not be done just because its
the done thing. So for me it's a
lifetime committment to my wife and
the family that generates from it.
As a catholic married to a
protestant it did raise a few
questions. What if my wife divorced
me and remarried. How would this
affect me. For me it's simple. I
will always remain her husband.
This does not mean that if i had
sex i would be excommunicated. Only
if i chose to have a lasting
relationship with another woman in
the role of my wife. Or have
children or marry in a registry
office. So while my wife lives i
will always be her husband and
father to my kids. So for me
marriage must not be taken lightly.
If you regard marriage as no more
than a tradition then you should
think about not proceeding.
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 12 Sep 2007 02:30
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 Marriage!! When two people get
married , they then become one in
the eyes of God. It's morally
right. I'm old fashioned I guess!
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 06 Sep 2007 19:28
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 I would say Marriage, but thats
just me, I know alot of people
including my daughter at the age of
23 yrs old , I know she was very
scared but she had decided to move
in with her High school sweetheart,
Not much you can say but I was sure
hopeing she was not going to make a
big mistake, but she did and she
did make a big decision they lived
together for 1 yr, then they
planned their wedding and now at
age 28 she completed college as he
also did and now they have ( also
we are blessed with 2 wonderful
grandaughters. They have been with
each other now for 12 yrs, thats
couting from highschool. So they
did beat the odds. Also maybe it is
what parents have instilled in
their kids. My husband and I have
been married for 32 yrs and we were
also were high school sweathearts.
But it does take alot of work to
make a marriage last.
I also got tips from my parents,
never go to bed mad at each
other
( sometimes that one is hard but I
we still do that) dont leave when
you you get into arguments, yes
thats also hard, but once you step
foot out youre door it just will
make it easy to do again. So to
each is own, but I would not say
its a sin.
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 05 Sep 2007 00:17
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 Always, marriage
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 04 Sep 2007 22:18
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 Def. Marriage(if you are truly in
love) It gives you rights, and it
gets you to closer together.
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 03 Sep 2007 18:43
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 Marriage all the way. I feel that
a marriage is a commitment to stay
with one another through thick and
thin. It's much easier to give
everything up when you are not
married. Suppose a fight broke
out in the home. A marriage
between the two people would keep
them from running away from each
other and would help them try to
work it out. A girlfriend,
boyfriend relationship would
probably give up more easily.
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 02 Sep 2007 16:34
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 Different strokes for different
folks! Look how many NASTY divorces
take place in society today. These
are definately NOT good for
children! Sometimes two people
living together before marriage is
best because it allows you to know
who your going to be spending the
rest of your life with (if all goes
according to plan!) and what there
lifestyle is! But marriage is not
necessarily for everyone! I see
many unmarried families who have
happy successful lives with out the
need of a piece of paper! I have
seen many a marriage end in
cheating and just because of a
marriage bond does not keep them
together nor is it always the best
thing for the family! People can
make a strong commitment without
marriage. As long as children have
2 loving adults to care for and
love them that should be all that
matters!
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 08 Sep 2007 15:52
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 Marriage is a constant struggle,
but can have many rewards. I've
been married, am now living with my
spouse on a part time basis, so I
can go when things get nasty. I
don't regret my marriage and have
many wonderful tales to relate.
However, no matter how it turns
out, I will never marry again. I
lived with my mate prior to my
husband for 9 years and the day to
day relations were better than they
were in my marriage. I want my
marriage to work out, but if it
doesn't, there won't be another
one.
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 16 May 2008 23:57
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 If you have no religious reasons or
personal desires to be married than
it is a pointless act and a waste
of money. Why not plan a vacation
together or buy a house with your
partner, that is as more a
commitment than a piece of paper.
You can decide between the two of
you what the boundaries of your
relationship is, what is acceptable
and what is not, but you should
never feel like you are forced to
be stuck with that one person
forever. It should be a decision
that you want to be there, and you
have to work together to make a
life together.
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 23 Apr 2008 21:49
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 If you don't have sincere religious
beliefs to support marriage, it may
be saner to not. Even if you're
just roommates with benefits it's
also sane to draw up a mutual civil
contract with the individual copies
in safe places, recognizing
individual rights relative to
various assets and intent relative
to any possible progeny.
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 07 Feb 2008 10:20
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 Marriage is oh so overrated. I've
been married, divorced now, and
back with her with absolutely no
plans to remarry. Like I commented
earlier, a piece of paper and/or a
ring do not magically make the
perfect couple. Far from it.
We've got a loving, kind, and
respectful home now as well.
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 27 Dec 2007 01:25
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 Sometimes people stay in marriages
fpr all of the wrong reasons, and
all end up suffering, spouses, as
well as the children. Marriage has
become an inconvenience. I don't
even bother going to weddings
anymore. The divorce rates are so
high its unreal. If I knew what I
had to go through in my marriage
was going to take place, after all
I did to keep it together, I would
have done totally different. Too
many regrets, but that is just my
opinion.
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 02 Nov 2007 05:48
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