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My Friend Is Ignoring Me, Should I At Least Say Hi?
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My Friend Is Always Ignoring Me. Her Name Is Diana And She Sits Next To Me On The Bus One Day. But The Next Day Sits With Someone Else. Is This Normal? She Can Have More Then One Friend Right? But I Think Im To Boring. Because Today She Was Going To Sit With Me Until This Girl Said Sit With Me Diana. Sometimes She Passes Me Without Saying Hi. Should I Sit Next To Her Sometimes When Their Is An Empty Seat Next To Her Or Let Her Sit With Her Other Friends? Should I At Least Say Hi?
by Lilly1921 Lilly1921
 13 Sep 2007 01:30  
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 Well, if you want to impress your friend, just talk to her briefly and let her hang out with her friends. She may not think she is ignoring you. Just sit by her and start to hang out with her while she's with her friends and see what she thinks about it. Good Luck.
 13 Sep 2007 02:06
by Teshwan01 Teshwan01
 I agree with those that say make the first move and try talking to your friend. If that doesn't work then perhaps it's best to move on.
 14 Oct 2008 19:20
by Awbtvoss Awbtvoss
 Of course go for it man.well be normal but don't go too close to her.and get along with every one.
 13 Sep 2007 15:50
by Amandat Amandat
 I'm for it!
 13 Sep 2007 08:08
by Thej Thej
 Be the better person smile,and say how you doing
 05 Sep 2008 18:42
by Reeree08 Reeree08
 Okay first ask her about it, if she ignores you then you just lost a friend.
 04 Sep 2008 18:53
by Redeagle Redeagle
 Yes and ask her why she have been ignoring you. Ask if you have done something to offend her or if she has just been busy, Tell her you miss talking to her.
 03 Sep 2008 05:20
by Guest Guest
 Don't make her a friend of yours because she seems to be not a good one.
An advice from me to you: Be better than her and just say hi..
 29 Jul 2008 17:42
by Charming Charming
 Sure, speak to her and if she does not reply ask her if she is mad or if you did something to hurt her feelings. If one of you don't make the first move then things will not get better.
 19 Jun 2008 00:02
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 Yea totally talk to her i mean if you are good friends i like this guy (he is my best friend too) and he has a girl friend and he is now ignoring me.
 30 May 2008 00:40
by Victoria77 Victoria77
 Of course. You should say hi & be more social with her & try to that hip-hop guy whom girls usually prefers ( or the kind of guy whom diana prefers-after all you care for her).
Wish you best luck with loads'n'loads of prayers for you.
 12 May 2008 23:20
by Life Life
 Absolutely, always take the high road. If someone else does not have simple manners, show off yours.
 30 Mar 2008 17:16
by Pencil Pencil
 I tend to agree with firemanct
 28 Mar 2008 02:51
by Sohogirl Sohogirl
 Best thing to do is pull her to a side one day and talk to her one day or ask her to hang out one day and maybe your friendship will develop from their but having more then one friend is fine
 07 Feb 2008 02:39
by Pink27 Pink27
 Yea if u want to be tier friend again
 27 Jan 2008 04:12
by Lil_mz_fia Lil_mz_fia
 No need to say hi, when she is ignoring or avoiding you, no need to think about her
 29 Dec 2007 10:03
by Skyadamani Skyadamani
 "Yeah thanks for the idea but i have a question. First of all she doesnt like people talking to her when she is with her other friends thats her problem and she doesnt like it when i say hi if she IS with her OTHER friends when she is alone its fine."


well then she is no friend. Wait til she talks to you. If she doesent, then loose her. Your a better person.
 25 Sep 2007 15:18
by Firemanct Firemanct
 Definately for it.
 17 Sep 2007 20:12
by Melissa3 Melissa3
 Maybe if you ignore her too shell realize how much she needs you in her life and apologize
 14 Sep 2008 21:51
by Batmanfan Batmanfan
 I don't think she is a true friend. She seems to sit next to you and talk with you only when it fits her. Friendship is a two way street: Both give and receive.

Here is something I once read: "A friend is one who knows you as you are, understands where you've been, accepts who you've become, and still, gently, invites you to grow"(Anonymous Author).

The question is:
1. Is this a two way friendship?
2. Does she fit the description of the above quote?

If not, she is not your friend, and she does not deserve your attention. Ignore her.
 19 Feb 2008 07:37
by Rev_eb Rev_eb
 Say hello, be the bigger person, but be careful ... I don't think she's a true friend..she's out to make as many friends (acquaintances) as she can.
 07 Feb 2008 05:47
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 If in this lifetime you can count more than 5 good friends, you will have lived a life of treasured life, probably rich, powerful, and someway famous. If you have more than 3 you probably are pretty popular amongst your peers, and if you have only 1, you probably chose your friends very carefully. But to be honest, most people you will meet in your life are just "associates". They only are interested in you for what they can get at that time. Be careful of who you call a "friend". Friends are paths to the treasures of life, don't chase people who waste your time and don't want to be around you. The moments of your life are too precious to be stressed that way.
 09 Jan 2008 17:59
by Methodinc Methodinc
 Well saying hello is very different than being a friend.

Sure, say hello but think about if it would really be a good idea to be her friend. If she treats you this way why does she derserve the gift of friendship.

Friendship shouldn't be taken lightly. Like I said, it's a gift worth more than most things.

She may be someone you know by name and face but rethink calling her your friend
 14 Nov 2007 05:14
by Megamaster Megamaster
 Nothing wrong in saying hello.But I wonder if she s considering you as a friend the way you do . I advise u not to bother about her anymore . Let her be the way she is and never mind even if she does'nt reciprocate .Watch out for someone who cares for you and really deserves to be called as a friend.
 15 Oct 2007 07:25
by Jayagowri Jayagowri
 There shouldn't be any problem saying hello, but I would reconsider my frienship with her. She's more of an acquaintance than a friend.
 23 Sep 2007 11:00
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