He's not the same person you married and obviously, he has had a change of heart about who and what he is. Ultimately, its a matter of whether you feel comfortable staying with someone who you don't feel connected with. Let's put teh facts on the table - he's cheated on you, hes depressed and anxious, and you do not trust him. Can you possibly live the rest of your life like this? Unfortunately, i cannot decide this for you. This is somehting that needs a long time of thinking, and possibly with some help. If you feel that you cannot decide this on your own, going to a phychiatrist could help.

 Did you ever hear the song, Hit The Road Jack? Well the writing is on the wall! He loses!

 For both of you to be truly happy its best for you to go your separate ways

 If he is not happy with whom he trully is the marriage will never work

 What are you waiting?!

 No one should have to be in a marriage where the other is cheating. It is simply not worth it, if they are cheating, that means that they do not care about you, and why should you care about someone that does not care for you? Find someone that loves you and is faithful.

 If you are that unhappy and he's cheated on you a lot then why would you want to stay in that loveless relationship? Go find someone to love you. You deserve better.

 Dupe him unless you want to be married to a he she. But even though you still love you should give him up. Go find a real man.

 Been there, done that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LET HIM GO!!!!!!!!!!!!! RUN< DON"T WALK.. NO ONE KNOWS UNLESS THEY HAVE BEEN THERE THEMSELVES>>> It took me 3 years to finally jump off my ex husbands roller coaster of deciding if he wanted to be a man or woman...our son was 8 months old when I found out about my ex...long story..he is now a transvestite living in California....kills my son, now 23, to have never had a father. Our wounds are still healing. Believe in yourself, this is not your fault...there is a reason he is choosing a different lifestyle, and why he is confused. Trust me, my ex was the exact same way!!!! He knew about his problem (so did his parent's) before we got married...and no one told me!

 Laws of nature say God first,self next and all else were you would have it,so we are at the second spot you,make yourself happy and set him free love him enough to let him go free. PEACE

 What are you waiting for. Never mind him if you are not happy LEAVE.

 Time to go, darlin!

 If you really LOVE him LET HIM GO.....Let him know you are getting out because you LOVE him and he is MISERABLE.... And consequently it leads to you being as miserable as he. .....LET HIM FIND HIMSELF ....Let him know you will always LOVE him but it just can not be romantic.....and then MOVE ON......PRAY ABOUT IT....and you will find peace with your decision.

 I hear enough sorrow and pain in your voice, to convince me that you need to go!

 Is there really a choice here? If he becomes a she you would have to become a lesbian - if you are not inclined to be a lesbian than you would have to remain celibate with someone who cheats on you creating a homelife of tension, anxiety, bitterness and loneliness. Also you might be tempted to have the love of a man and cheat yourself.. Causing you to commit adultery. I have no stats or scientific proofs but In personal experience I knew a person who had a sex change and was no happier with himself as a she then he was as a he.

 If you fee like you need to move on then please do that . Don't live your life in a box free yourself from all the unnecessary heartache

 I think his love is getting more based on gender than feelings, so u should without any hesitation leave. Wish u best luck & zillions+ prayers.

 So he wants to delete his schmeckel and call himself a herself? Ditch him, and don't ever give him the satisfaction of calling him a her!

 Hey, just leave him. I hope you are not planning to be lesbian. Yes, it is OK for your husband to be a woman, because there are a lot of men in the world that want a sex change, so he's not the only guy. But, the best thing is to leave!!!

 It sounds like you should have already left and started a new life on your own.

 What a nightmare for you!
You do not say how long you have been married.

Is your husband a true transsexual? I.e. Someone who feels he is really a woman trapped in a male body. Did he marry you to try and prove his maleness, found it has not worked and now wishes to be single again? When you say he is cheating, is this with other men? Are you afraid if you discuss his feelings too deeply, he will say he does not want to be with you any more? Has he already said such hurtful things? If so did he mean them?

Please remember that it is he, not you, who has broken the marriage vows and, if you decide to go, you are only recognising what he has already done and the lifestyle he chooses for himself.

Regardless of whether he decides to have a sex-change operation or not, you could not be expected to endure the agony of continuing to live with him if the price of that is you having to put up with him carrying on with other people, men or women, while rejecting you.

Only you can know if this is your situation or not. But if he is determined to reject you in favour of other sexual partners, I do not see how anyone could advise you to stay with him.

Bless you! I hope and pray you will find peace and certainty that you have made the right decision, whatever that turns out to be.

 I think you should get out of that relationship cause there's someone for every one and as you can see he not the one for you so you should let go and pray to god to become happy with someone that will love you the same way you would love them,good luck and don't worry cause if you ask for god hand you will be helped and you will become just fine.

 I think you should leave so that you can both be happy, i know its hard but it will be worthwhile in the end and perhaps you are better suited as friends.

 I say go. If his decision is made, you really don't have much choice, huh?

 If neither of you are happy, then you should probably go. I am sure that just the mere thought of this hurts but it is probably for the best. You need someone that is not only content and happy with you, but with themselves as well. Not to mention you deserve someone that has more respect for you than that.

 Wouldn't that make you a lesbian? Maybe you should probably go... I mean... You would share makeup... Bras... Dresses... Wouldn't that be weird?

 You should have already left, I don't think this relationship has a future.

 I think you should leave him because you just cant be happy with someone who is something else but wants to be like you next thing you know shall be wearing your clothes
and makeup so let him go their always someone out their that can be better than him so don't give up.

 U should go ! He is not the man u feel in love with. U love the man u wish he was . I know its hard to deal with but u have to think what do u want out of life.

 Leave him, if you cant be happy you will never make him happy.

 Omg how did you marry someone you can't open up to??

 Honey u need to get out as soon as possible u cant not change him into not wanting to be a female and 9 times out of 10 hes is probably sleeping with other men don't sell ur self short i am quite sure u love him but u have to decide whats best and healthy for u

 GO NOW. And get yourself checked for STDs and HIV etc. Its obvious he doesn't respect the commitment, do you really want to gamble if he's bringing you anything home like AIDS. There are more fish in the sea. Like my dad always says Life is to short to dance with ugly women.

 You need to take care of you. You aren't in love with him now, you were in love with the man you first met. I think that it's VERY important that you still stand by him in support of his decision.

 Go and don't look back. Try to remain civil. What's in it for you. You look out for you and what makes you happy and he is not going to be able to do this. Find you some happiness elsewhere.