Do what god wants you to do!!

 I don't know man. I had an affair with a married woman and yes she got pregnant. So I'm the bad guy right. Not so fast. Her husband cheated on her for years, would not even let her have a job and told her divorce was not an option. He raped her and emotionally abused her for years. We started out as friend then lovers and she was planning on leaving when she found out she was pregnant. Yes we should of waited but there are always two sides to a story. I'm not saying you did anything wrong but a little self reflection might help you figure out what went wrong and once you know the reason maybe you two can patch it up. Good luck.

 Do you still love her? Can you accept the child as your own? Will she do it again? These are questions you have to ask. If you love her, accept the child and she wont do it again so long as you can forgive her the I would say stick by your marrage. Also why did she go with someone else? You have to sort the reason for that as well.

 You shouldn't kick her out, even if it was from a different man.I know what she did was wrong, but what is kicking her out on the street going to do??

 If you still love her, I would strongly consider trying to work it out. I was in a similar situation, married for 6 years to my wonderful wife and having 2 children back to back right after we had gotten married. She was still carrying on a sexual relationship with her ex-boyfriend after we married, and both children were fathered by him. It was quite a shock when she confessed b,c everything I had was essentially undermined by it. It took a LOT of counseling to get past it, but now we are very happy again, and I;m not the biological father but I AM their true father because I am all they know and their biological father has never wanted to be involved with them. Don't throw away something that may have been great in the past and can be great again now

 This woman does not deserved to be kicked out into the streets, How come when a man cheats-Its OK and we women are suppose to forgive, A woman cheats and oops she gets pregnant, If we are woman enough to come out and tell the man that we love that we messed up .How come we can't be forgiven? Put the shoe on the other foot and stop listening to all these judgemental fools.They probably cheated before they wrote their responses .they just never told their spouse the truth.

 I hope you will read everyone of these answers. These people and given you some very good advice on both sides of the dilemma. Forgive and Love this woman if you can but be very careful. Keep your guard up and be aware of all her actions.

 Trust is a valuable things when it comes to marraige...we can never live fully with anyone when there is something lacking specially TRUST.. You can support her if you want but loving or treating her as a wife would depend on you.. Good luck man

 I'm very truly and thankful for all of your support, opinion and prayers. The reason why I needed some advice is because I'm a young father at the age of 30 and this is something that is really hard for me to deal with. I figured that if I asked this question, there might be a young father somewhere out there who is in the same situation as me. And that he can give me some advice about this.

 For me as a practising catholic the answer is clear. No matter if she left me and moved in with another man she will always be my wife until one of us dies. The kids ,including the one on the way, are innocents in all of this. Its easy for husbands who cheat on their wives for they dont get pregnant, and your wife is not any greater a sinner because she is pregnant. For better for worse means what it says. If you truly love her you will work to forgive her and hope and pray that she realises how wrong she is. When wives cheat the husbands must examine carefully why this breakdown has occurred. As my mum would once have said, it takes two to tango. It is every mans nightmare to have to deal with something like this ,so i dont want you to think that your feelings are ignored in all of this. All you can really do is to keep on loving her and the children and let her have time to reflect on her own behaviour. Marriage counselling can help, but its not for everyone. I hope things can be worked out not just for you but for the whole family.

 Let her stay

 Don't dump her!!! She is not going to be able to support herself and it will be hell for her and the new baby. What I think though is that..if she loves that other man then should she go! But if she loves u and regrets what she did then let her stay and make sure she's not going to let it happen again. Why would u want to ruin your children's heartS?