 Couples should not stay together if
they are not happy with each other |
 08 Jan 2008 10:30
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I think they should try to resolve
issues that make them unhappy.
However, if it is irreconcilable,
it is kinder to separate and give
each other a chance to begin
another life. |
10 Aug 2008 09:20
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If Neither one of you can be happy
then why waste each others time,
Now if it is just a fluke for the
week and something upset the couple
and they can get over stay
together, But if this is long
running, cut your losses and let
them go. |
23 May 2008 17:08
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Dependent on the situation I think
that unsolvable problems, perpetual
unhappiness and irreconcilable
differences within a relationship
require a break-up...If neither
party are happy, and they have
tried already to fix things, then
they shouldn't stay together. Too
many people put up with unhappy
relationships, being too cowardly
and insecure to say 'Things aren't
right, I must move on, keep living,
keep learning'. We all need to keep
walking our paths, not dragging our
feet along them tied down and
dragging the burden of an
unfulfilled relationship. |
20 May 2008 01:05
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If you are not happy and can not
work out your problems then it is
best to part ways why always make
yourself unhappy life is to short. |
03 May 2008 23:22
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I agree with that, but couples
argue in different ways, and still
stay with each other, I think that
if you each have given 100% and it
still is not working, move on and
be Happy. |
25 Apr 2008 18:46
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I agree! Because what's the point
of staying together if both of you
are unhappy.. |
25 Apr 2008 08:07
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They totally should break up, move
on and truly find some one they
care about! You shouldn't waste
time, you have someone out there no
matter who you are, we were created
that way! |
17 Apr 2008 19:18
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When neither person is happy -- get
away...run, dont walk -- this is
the point when things go from bad
to worse. You both play the "I
will hurt you, before you can hurt
me" games. And from experience --
no matter how I tried... I lost. |
09 Mar 2008 11:52
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Break up,if hse/he can't wake up. |
11 Feb 2008 13:51
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I think unhappy couples that stay
together solve nothing rather than
creating more problems.It can lead
to battering and
cheating as one one tries to
find Love outside. Sometimes the
end result of unhappy couples is
suicide which is very bad so, I
think unhappy couples should
divorce before its late. |
14 Jan 2008 10:04
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They should not be together. I
mean, your just wasting your time
with this person if you're not
happy. What's the point? |
08 Jan 2008 23:27
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Unless there are other factors in
this marriage, they should not be
together. Sometimes, things
happen, people's true selves come
out. |
08 Jan 2008 22:36
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Marriage is an inviolable social
institution and is the very
foundation for a family. There's
also the "till death do us part"
vow before God and society.
However, if such union is beyond
reconciliation the State has has
provided laws to sever that sacred
union so as not to produce havoc in
the future and detrimental effects
on the off-springs in particular
and to the whole society in
general.
Thus, in such case marriage may be
dissolved specially when love has
totally died in the hearts of the
couple. |
08 Jan 2008 11:58
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 This is dependant on if children
are involved and the nature of the
dislike. You both made a choice to
have and raise the children so you
should be bigger than the
relationship and tough it out for
the kids. Get a divorce ofter the
kids are raised.
If things are physical in the
dislike or there are other things
that are making the environment a
bad place to raise the kids, then
do what is right for the kids.
No kids involved, then do what you
feel is right for yourself as you
only live once. |
08 Jan 2008 17:26
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If the couple has had children than
they need to stay together. Studies
have shown that children have a 70%
greater chance at becoming
successful in life if both of the
parents are together, even if they
both hate each other. If the couple
has not had children than they
should break up and move on. |
30 Jan 2008 18:56
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I'm against it.
If the couple don't like each other
then how could they get married. |
08 Jan 2008 13:40
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I realize this is an older thread
but I think people should define
upfront from jump what they expect
of the other person (so as to kind
of) lay down the rules/groundwork
and that way the other person will
know upfront what their partner
wishes them to do/not to do. In
this way, pain and unhappiness can
be avoided (as long as they stay
within the limits of what their
partner does/does not want them to
do. Then, if these things have been
betrayed(where one shows they don't
care about the expectations/rules)
within the relationship, then
in that case I would say yes-end
it. |
30 Jun 2008 23:16
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I think it is all about the
situation and the people
involved,espicially if there are
kids. Now if you have tried all you
can to make it work and still come
up unhappy, then that's when it's
time to end it cause, that's how so
many relationships end up with
affairs and betrayl! If you want to
be with someone else leave the
first person before you do that so
no one will be hurt in the process
of it all!!!!!!!!!!!! |
02 May 2008 16:58
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I think it has to do with how they
get along overall, all couple 's
fight. |
14 Apr 2008 12:40
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It is my belief that we have a
choice over happiness. If your not
happy and your needs are not being
met (whatever the reasons) you
should be big enough to allow your
partner to seek happiness. |
08 Jan 2008 17:08
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