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Older Mom Have More Patience And Are Less Selfish.Agree Or Not
by Nish Nish
 26 Jan 2008 07:36  
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 Hey,
actually this is true! But some of the young moms are God too, right?
 29 Jul 2008 20:26
by Charming Charming
 I believe so. Youth is all about me. Partying getting what I want, immaturity is rampant. I did not have my only son until I was 32, and I am so glad. Being a Mom is a bigger thrill when we are old enough to put junior first.
 29 Apr 2008 22:15
by Pencil Pencil
 Yes i think when a woman is older they are ready to be a mom and know how to be a better mom. When you are still a child you can be a good mom but i think you still want to be a child and go out and leave it to the grandparents . That's why so many children are raised by gp because theses young children who get pregnant do not really know what they are getting in to they think its cute and fun and put the child off on someone else.NOT EVERYONE but most of the young parents still want to go to clubs get drunk and party with their friends.
 23 Apr 2008 06:27
by Lilmama1 Lilmama1
 An older woman is ready to settle down and been threw the pains of growing. I would rather learn from a mom with wisdom and understanding than from a mother who is learning with me.
 27 Mar 2008 16:31
by Doowop Doowop
 More experience.
 14 Feb 2008 21:20
by Bloodsport Bloodsport
 Moms who want to be moms can be better mothers than those who don't want to be. Older women are more aware of choices and may be more likely to welcome the children into their lives. Younger mothers often aren't really ready, it's sink-or-swim if they've not cared for younger children.
 08 Feb 2008 11:48
by Hibrida Hibrida
 Nope...
I disagree.
I'm a 16 year old that is 39 weeks pregnant.
I feel that age has nothing to do with the fact that they are a better mother or not....
Its the want to and the know how that makes a person a good mother.
 08 Apr 2008 00:18
by Kaminski Kaminski
 Personally, I do not feel a mother's age makes or breaks their mothering skills. I rather feel that maturity level, the desire to be a mother and dedication to their children means much more than a number.
 12 Feb 2008 01:56
by Paulajo Paulajo
 No moms are good too
 09 Nov 2008 19:33
by Ohfamily Ohfamily
 It depends on the person not the age / i have seen old moms that are on drugs and neglect their children / so is she a better mom ??
 03 Sep 2008 16:54
by Panson Panson
 It is not as easy to bond with them and tell them the truth about stuff
 24 Jul 2008 02:05
by Speedogurl Speedogurl
 I think maturity is very important when it comes to being a good mother. I was an older mom having my son at 38. BUT, these women having babies through these fertility clinics when they are 60 to 65 yrs old is just CRAZY! There's a reason why God doesn't let women conceive at that age naturally, and these women are just being selfish. I only hope they live long enough to raise their children. Can you imagine being 85 and having a 20 yr old. Worse yet, can you imagine being 20 and having an 85 yr old mother.
 19 Jul 2008 13:26
by Cookiejars Cookiejars
 Young moms are good also.
 07 May 2008 18:05
by Luverboy Luverboy
 I think, if I were to have a child at a younger age (between 20 & 30), then I'd make a good mother. I'm already showing mother skills and I have enough patience for children. I guess this is the product of having a younger mother as a sister D:
 29 Apr 2008 23:35
by Fxxkrkio Fxxkrkio
 I disagree, I am a young mother and spend my free time with my daughter, I take her to work with me and although i try not to spoil her too much, I spend most of my extra money on her. I have more patience than my parents had with me, I am certain of that. I think it all depends on the person, not the age. Younger people tend to be more open minded I think, and I am glad that I will still remember when I was young by the time my little girl is turning thirteen. My Mother was 34 when she had me and she lacked a lot of understanding when it came to the teenage years, whereas my best friends Mother who had her daughter at 19 was far more understanding and relative with us, my Mom was continually going to her for advice.
 28 Apr 2008 20:16
by Mamacass Mamacass
 I agree and disagree. Older moms are more mature but they can't play properly with their children
 12 Apr 2008 13:14
by Homeygirl Homeygirl
 By what age do you mean older? Any mom can be a good mom, it just depends on how hard they try, I think.
 20 Mar 2008 18:49
by Hockey4eva Hockey4eva
 I think there are pros and there are cons. I know a lot of older women who are mothers, but their patience is no longer there. I think a mother , young or old, is a mother...who's better or greater? Who's to say. We shouldn't generalize when it comes to MOTHERS.
 16 Feb 2008 02:10
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 I think any mom is good and can be as good nd older or younger if they just try.
 07 Feb 2008 05:49
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 Not necessarily...I am a young mom, and yes, I admit that I need to be more patient with my 10 month old, but, in my defense, I am pregnant and very moody. I have consciously made the effort lately to become more patient. I know of more than one older mother who is pretty impatient with her children, constantly telling them to "hurry up" and "what are you doing now?" As far as selfishness, I must give myself kudos in that category, as I almost always put my child before myself...
 30 Jan 2008 05:41
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