 With out a doubt we all deserve
second chances. People make
mistakes whether they intended to
or not is needless to say not part
of the equation. Thank God for
second chances or where would I,
less then perfect person, be today.
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 31 May 2008 22:22
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 I think it depends on the mistake.
In most cases i think a second
chase should be given but in
extreme cases its a one shot you
blow it type of deal. Like if my
bf every cheated on me (not
accidental kiss, although that
wouldn't be easy to forgive but
actual sex) then no way would i
forgive him, especially if i was
sleeping with him too. Stealing
personal possession can't be
forgiven. But most minor things
can be which is what occurs more
often.
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 16 Mar 2008 13:07
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 A second chance. But not any third
chance!
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 10 Sep 2008 12:13
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 Yes, people who make mistakes
should be able to have another
chance. If God can forgive and
forget all the wrong things we did
in life why can't we do the same.
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 26 Aug 2008 21:18
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 Yes he deserves a second chance.
But it depends on the mistake too
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 16 Aug 2008 09:49
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 Yes!!we humans are not perfect/so
mistakes are OK
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 29 Jul 2008 19:31
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 Definitely, everyone makes
mistakes, and usually everyone
learns from their mistakes, but
once they have learned their
lesson, they want to show the world
they have learned. I believe
everyone deserves a second chance.
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 03 Jul 2008 23:01
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 Yes i agree with u.I make tons of
mistakes and my friends give me a
second chance so that i can not do
it again.And im really happy with
that.We do often tend to get angry
when some one makes a mistake but
as mistake is a mistake every one
should get a second chance of
course there are some exceptions!
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 18 Jun 2008 13:59
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 Yes i believe people should get
second chances but this is
depending on the severity, also you
can only have one second chance.
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 25 May 2008 18:31
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 Yes i do agree with you everybody
deserves a second chance. Everybody
does mistakes
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 21 May 2008 05:49
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 Except for criminals and hardcore
terrorists everybody should be
given another chance
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 14 May 2008 06:13
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 Yes! Of course everyone deserves
second & even more chances in some
cases but yes when mistake is done
on will than second chance depends
on the devilish nature of that
wrong deed.
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 12 May 2008 23:24
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 Anyone against this is stupid. It's
only human to make mistakes and
everyone should be given at least a
second chance. EVERYONE has made at
least one mistake in their life.
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 29 Apr 2008 02:28
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 Getting a second try is ok.because
you get to spend more time with
someone you
love.
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 06 Apr 2008 23:29
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 Most definitely everyone deserves a
second chance.
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 25 Mar 2008 16:13
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 Yes i do agree with you everybody
makes a mistake. Another chance
should be given
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 24 Mar 2008 07:57
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 Yes someone who makes mistakes does
deserve a second chance because no
one is perfect at all
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 20 Mar 2008 00:51
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 Yes i do agree, with you, but it
depends upon the intensity of the
previous mistake too.
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 19 Mar 2008 06:34
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 Yes, people should be given the
opportunity to correct a mistake,
and to learn to do things
differently.
Some people are readily able to
fully comprehend the repercussions
and consequences of a mistake
without actually making it --and at
some level, without needing to
actually experience the
consequences to understand them
fully. But others will have less
understanding of the impact of
their actions on outcomes, and need
to actually make mistakes to learn
from them. For these people, it is
often true that the only way they
learn how to do something without
error is to see the error of their
ways and its consequences, and then
be afforded the opportunity to
experience how it is to do it
differently, without the mistake.
For these people, "doing it
right/without error" can only
happen in retrospect.
A second chance to repeat the
circumstance and make an
alternative choice works if a
person is mentally competent, has
the will, the 'tools' and the
opportunity. ...(Obviously this is
not always the case for those who
are mentally ill, mentally
incompetent, or intentionally
harmful --which is NOT an accident,
but surely is a mistake.) It also
needs to be taken into account how
egregious the mistake was, and
whether allowing this person to try
again violates any personal
values/guidelines.
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 13 Mar 2008 13:37
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 You should be given a second chance
but not all things can work out
that way. We would not be human if
we did not make mistakes.
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 12 Mar 2008 19:25
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 Everyone makes mistakes - it is one
way that we learn about all manner
of things. The important thing is
that the person learns, so they can
avoid making that mistake again.
To make the same mistake twice or
more points towards stupidity or
intentional acts (ie it was not an
actual mistake).
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 12 Mar 2008 13:54
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 If we want a second chance when we
make a mistake, we should also be
willing to offer it.
However, I make a very strong
distinction between "mistake" and
"character flaw". Every time I
offered a second chance to someone
whose actions came out of a flawed
character, I made a big "mistake".
I did offer myself a second chance,
and corrected my mistake :)
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 12 Mar 2008 07:32
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 At least one chance
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 12 Mar 2008 06:11
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 As one who speaks from experience,
I believe it's important to be
given another chance. What would
be the point of learning from one's
mistakes without the opportunity to
apply what was learned?
I failed at my first experience as
a manager where I worked.
Fortunately, there were people who
had faith in my abilities, and I
was afforded another opportunity.
I never looked back. I won't say I
never made another mistake, but
second chances allow us to fix
mistakes.
How many discoveries and inventions
have been the result of mistakes
and the freedom to study or rectify
those errors?
Of course we have to consider the
scope of the mistake and the intent
behind it, but an honest mistake or
one that is the result of a lack of
experience deserve a second chance.
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 12 Mar 2008 01:53
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 Yes, most people deserve a 2nd
chance; however, they also have to
be accountable for their actions.
If someone commits a crime and they
are sentenced to prison and they
serve the specified time and get
out, they deserve another chance.
But some people never learn from
their mistakes either because they
don't want to, they may be mentally
challenged, or they may just be BAD
people who won't change no matter
how long of a time they spend in
prison. Those are the ones who, I
believe, do not deserve a 2nd
chance.
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 12 Mar 2008 01:11
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 I suppose that would depend upon
the mistake itself. I find that
people are usually pretty easy on
each other when it comes to
mistakes, as long as the one who
made the mistake takes
responsibility for their actions,
and is a decent human being.
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 12 Mar 2008 01:01
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 Im a believer in second, third and
forth chances, to error is human.
And we all are .
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 11 Mar 2008 23:47
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 If it truly was a "mistake"and they
feel badly about it, then yes.
Chances are that they have learned
something from their mistake or bad
decision. It is human to err. We
all have at some point in our lives
and we usually want a chance to
make things right. I know I do.
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 11 Mar 2008 23:25
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 You're right, humans should be
given a second chance...and like
Frankenstein (whatever its spelled)
said , I cant recall exactly but it
means that he would try 99 times,
the conclusion is wrong, and the
100th time, he's right...
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 11 Mar 2008 19:58
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 The should be held responsible for
the first mistake, but should be
able to make up for the wrongs that
they have done.
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 11 Mar 2008 19:25
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 Yes, they should be give a second
chance . But with cautiousness and
planning. For you do not know if
the person intentionally made the
mistake or not.
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 11 Mar 2008 18:37
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 In most cases yes, but it does
depend on what the mistake is and
its affect on other people. Has
the person involved had special
training in order to avoid the
mistake, in which case it is
negligence. If we are talking
about relationships, it depends on
what happened, if the person making
the mistake had plenty of
opportunity to avoid it, but still
went ahead and did it them maybe
not. For instance; If you broke up
with someone because of pressure
from outside the relationship and
realised it was a mistake and want
to get back together, then
providing nothing else happened it
could be worked out. If we are
talking about someone having an
affair, this is not a mistake as
there is too much scope for
avoidance, they must have thought
about their actions before it
happened.
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 11 Mar 2008 17:04
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 People should be given a second
chance they might get it right the
second time
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 11 Mar 2008 14:20
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 Hell no.
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 11 Mar 2008 17:01
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 No never. Giving second chance
make the person to do another
mistake.. Each and every one should
be answerable for his wrong....
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 11 Mar 2008 12:44
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 Not everybody deserves a second
chance. Hardcore criminals and
terrorist should not be given
second chance
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 08 Oct 2008 07:26
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 No, you should not, there are
criminals who committed horrendous
crimes, they do not deserve second
chance
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 18 Jul 2008 13:50
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 People should be given a second
chance, i agree. But sometimes
there r mistakes that cant be given
a second chance
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 17 Jul 2008 19:13
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 Some mistakes are to harmful and
serious for the person to be given
a second chance. If someone
happened to call my friend by
"mistake", I wouldn't want them to
be given a second chance, they need
to be punished not awarded for
things like that!
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 03 Jul 2008 23:26
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 The question is to vague, on that
premise I must say no. Does a Child
molester/murderer get a second
chance ? With your child maybe.
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 30 Mar 2008 17:14
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 It depends on the mistake.
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 21 Mar 2008 07:46
by  Guest
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 It all depends on what the mistake
was and if it was caused form
neglect on the guilty party's side.
Most mistakes can be forgiven but
some are serious and have to be
looked at different.
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 11 Mar 2008 22:51
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