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One Who Do Mistakes Should Be Given A Second Chance
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It's Human To Make Mistakes, So Second Chance Should Be Given
by Skyadamani Skyadamani
 11 Mar 2008 12:08  
Against
 With out a doubt we all deserve second chances. People make mistakes whether they intended to or not is needless to say not part of the equation. Thank God for second chances or where would I, less then perfect person, be today.
 31 May 2008 22:22
by Jacob05 Jacob05
 I think it depends on the mistake. In most cases i think a second chase should be given but in extreme cases its a one shot you blow it type of deal. Like if my bf every cheated on me (not accidental kiss, although that wouldn't be easy to forgive but actual sex) then no way would i forgive him, especially if i was sleeping with him too. Stealing personal possession can't be forgiven. But most minor things can be which is what occurs more often.
 16 Mar 2008 13:07
by Pbfan4 Pbfan4
 A second chance. But not any third chance!
 10 Sep 2008 12:13
by Friendly Friendly
 Yes, people who make mistakes should be able to have another chance. If God can forgive and forget all the wrong things we did in life why can't we do the same.
 26 Aug 2008 21:18
by Love234 Love234
 Yes he deserves a second chance. But it depends on the mistake too
 16 Aug 2008 09:49
by Newcomer Newcomer
 Yes!!we humans are not perfect/so mistakes are OK
 29 Jul 2008 19:31
by Panson Panson
 Definitely, everyone makes mistakes, and usually everyone learns from their mistakes, but once they have learned their lesson, they want to show the world they have learned. I believe everyone deserves a second chance.
 03 Jul 2008 23:01
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 Yes i agree with u.I make tons of mistakes and my friends give me a second chance so that i can not do it again.And im really happy with that.We do often tend to get angry when some one makes a mistake but as mistake is a mistake every one should get a second chance of course there are some exceptions!
 18 Jun 2008 13:59
by Amandat Amandat
 Yes i believe people should get second chances but this is depending on the severity, also you can only have one second chance.
 25 May 2008 18:31
by Gaseater78 Gaseater78
 Yes i do agree with you everybody deserves a second chance. Everybody does mistakes
 21 May 2008 05:49
by Wounded Wounded
 Except for criminals and hardcore terrorists everybody should be given another chance
 14 May 2008 06:13
by Adorer Adorer
 Yes! Of course everyone deserves second & even more chances in some cases but yes when mistake is done on will than second chance depends on the devilish nature of that wrong deed.
 12 May 2008 23:24
by Life Life
 Anyone against this is stupid. It's only human to make mistakes and everyone should be given at least a second chance. EVERYONE has made at least one mistake in their life.
 29 Apr 2008 02:28
by Animegrl Animegrl
 Getting a second try is ok.because you get to spend more time with someone you
love.
 06 Apr 2008 23:29
by Alyssa2021 Alyssa2021
 Most definitely everyone deserves a second chance.
 25 Mar 2008 16:13
by Crazym Crazym
 Yes i do agree with you everybody makes a mistake. Another chance should be given
 24 Mar 2008 07:57
by Sada Sada
 Yes someone who makes mistakes does deserve a second chance because no one is perfect at all
 20 Mar 2008 00:51
by Xo_nell_xo Xo_nell_xo
 Yes i do agree, with you, but it depends upon the intensity of the previous mistake too.
 19 Mar 2008 06:34
by Admirer Admirer
 Yes, people should be given the opportunity to correct a mistake, and to learn to do things differently.

Some people are readily able to fully comprehend the repercussions and consequences of a mistake without actually making it --and at some level, without needing to actually experience the consequences to understand them fully. But others will have less understanding of the impact of their actions on outcomes, and need to actually make mistakes to learn from them. For these people, it is often true that the only way they learn how to do something without error is to see the error of their ways and its consequences, and then be afforded the opportunity to experience how it is to do it differently, without the mistake. For these people, "doing it right/without error" can only happen in retrospect.

A second chance to repeat the circumstance and make an alternative choice works if a person is mentally competent, has the will, the 'tools' and the opportunity. ...(Obviously this is not always the case for those who are mentally ill, mentally incompetent, or intentionally harmful --which is NOT an accident, but surely is a mistake.) It also needs to be taken into account how egregious the mistake was, and whether allowing this person to try again violates any personal values/guidelines.
 13 Mar 2008 13:37
by Amore01 Amore01
 You should be given a second chance but not all things can work out that way. We would not be human if we did not make mistakes.
 12 Mar 2008 19:25
by Boxerboo Boxerboo
 Everyone makes mistakes - it is one way that we learn about all manner of things. The important thing is that the person learns, so they can avoid making that mistake again. To make the same mistake twice or more points towards stupidity or intentional acts (ie it was not an actual mistake).
 12 Mar 2008 13:54
by Harka Harka
 If we want a second chance when we make a mistake, we should also be willing to offer it.

However, I make a very strong distinction between "mistake" and "character flaw". Every time I offered a second chance to someone whose actions came out of a flawed character, I made a big "mistake". I did offer myself a second chance, and corrected my mistake :)
 12 Mar 2008 07:32
by Rev_eb Rev_eb
 At least one chance
 12 Mar 2008 06:11
by Roger718 Roger718
 As one who speaks from experience, I believe it's important to be given another chance. What would be the point of learning from one's mistakes without the opportunity to apply what was learned?

I failed at my first experience as a manager where I worked. Fortunately, there were people who had faith in my abilities, and I was afforded another opportunity. I never looked back. I won't say I never made another mistake, but second chances allow us to fix mistakes.

How many discoveries and inventions have been the result of mistakes and the freedom to study or rectify those errors?

Of course we have to consider the scope of the mistake and the intent behind it, but an honest mistake or one that is the result of a lack of experience deserve a second chance.
 12 Mar 2008 01:53
by Robbier44 Robbier44
 Yes, most people deserve a 2nd chance; however, they also have to be accountable for their actions. If someone commits a crime and they are sentenced to prison and they serve the specified time and get out, they deserve another chance. But some people never learn from their mistakes either because they don't want to, they may be mentally challenged, or they may just be BAD people who won't change no matter how long of a time they spend in prison. Those are the ones who, I believe, do not deserve a 2nd chance.
 12 Mar 2008 01:11
by Desertkid Desertkid
 I suppose that would depend upon the mistake itself. I find that people are usually pretty easy on each other when it comes to mistakes, as long as the one who made the mistake takes responsibility for their actions, and is a decent human being.
 12 Mar 2008 01:01
by Grayrain Grayrain
 Im a believer in second, third and forth chances, to error is human. And we all are .
 11 Mar 2008 23:47
by Wolfshar25 Wolfshar25
 If it truly was a "mistake"and they feel badly about it, then yes. Chances are that they have learned something from their mistake or bad decision. It is human to err. We all have at some point in our lives and we usually want a chance to make things right. I know I do.
 11 Mar 2008 23:25
by Tamarind Tamarind
 You're right, humans should be given a second chance...and like Frankenstein (whatever its spelled) said , I cant recall exactly but it means that he would try 99 times, the conclusion is wrong, and the 100th time, he's right...
 11 Mar 2008 19:58
by Elsian Elsian
 The should be held responsible for the first mistake, but should be able to make up for the wrongs that they have done.
 11 Mar 2008 19:25
by Diaflor Diaflor
 Yes, they should be give a second chance . But with cautiousness and planning. For you do not know if the person intentionally made the mistake or not.
 11 Mar 2008 18:37
by Nomad1 Nomad1
 In most cases yes, but it does depend on what the mistake is and its affect on other people. Has the person involved had special training in order to avoid the mistake, in which case it is negligence. If we are talking about relationships, it depends on what happened, if the person making the mistake had plenty of opportunity to avoid it, but still went ahead and did it them maybe not. For instance; If you broke up with someone because of pressure from outside the relationship and realised it was a mistake and want to get back together, then providing nothing else happened it could be worked out. If we are talking about someone having an affair, this is not a mistake as there is too much scope for avoidance, they must have thought about their actions before it happened.
 11 Mar 2008 17:04
by Rostdu Rostdu
 People should be given a second chance they might get it right the second time
 11 Mar 2008 14:20
by Stace12 Stace12
 Hell no.
 11 Mar 2008 17:01
by Kyleman21 Kyleman21
 No never. Giving second chance make the person to do another mistake.. Each and every one should be answerable for his wrong....
 11 Mar 2008 12:44
by Manoips Manoips
 Not everybody deserves a second chance. Hardcore criminals and terrorist should not be given second chance
 08 Oct 2008 07:26
by Arnb Arnb
 No, you should not, there are criminals who committed horrendous crimes, they do not deserve second chance
 18 Jul 2008 13:50
by Skydalimit Skydalimit
 People should be given a second chance, i agree. But sometimes there r mistakes that cant be given a second chance
 17 Jul 2008 19:13
by Charming Charming
 Some mistakes are to harmful and serious for the person to be given a second chance. If someone happened to call my friend by "mistake", I wouldn't want them to be given a second chance, they need to be punished not awarded for things like that!
 03 Jul 2008 23:26
by Hellopeopl Hellopeopl
 The question is to vague, on that premise I must say no. Does a Child molester/murderer get a second chance ? With your child maybe.
 30 Mar 2008 17:14
by Pencil Pencil
 It depends on the mistake.
 21 Mar 2008 07:46
by Guest Guest
 It all depends on what the mistake was and if it was caused form neglect on the guilty party's side. Most mistakes can be forgiven but some are serious and have to be looked at different.
 11 Mar 2008 22:51
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