 Lead me not into temptation.. For I
can find it myself.
My mother always said.. Avoid the
situation altogether and you wont
have to worry about resisting
temptation later... IF you are
married and want to stay that way..
You would be a fool to open the
door to cheating.. PERSONAL
ACCOUNTABILITY.. People get on
these sites.. And then blame the
sites or other people for ruining
their marriage or life.. |
 13 Jun 2008 16:59
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I can only say that I would be very
hurt if my husband did this,
however far he intended to take it,
or whatever his motives. My
forgiveness would involve a LOT of
grovelling on his part I suspect. |
05 Oct 2007 10:24
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ONE TIME AND ONE TIME ONLY, after
that kick him out, everyone makes
mistakes. |
30 Jan 2008 19:26
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Well, men & women once they cheat
eathier by dating or through
Conference room can count as cheat.
Another thing if man would like to
cheat the online dating can be
phase 1 to a new relationship. But
you have to keep in mind if the
women is engaged to a person who
like to go to online dating
websites just to laugh on those who
are looking for true love i think
he should be liable for what harm
he brought to those people.
Either the person was serious or
not he shouldm't go for those
website even if he was joking. Let
us hear this excues: Honey im
looking for my friends he seems too
lonely- do you feel bad for him. |
05 Oct 2007 14:49
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 Although very impersonal the
internet has become a pearadox in
the way we meet people! I think the
term CHEATING is subjective and is
different for everyone! Does the
person intend on a physical
relationship down the line etc. I
still find it wrong however to go
behind a spouses back and share
secrets and fantasies with another.
But how you take it is up to you! |
05 Oct 2007 00:38
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It depends rea;;y on wether or not
he was going online to try to hook
up with someone for real, or if he
saw it as a joke. Either way, if he
was trying to forge a sexual
relationship even on line, it is a
betrayal of trust. If he thought it
was a big joke then it is a risky
way to have a laugh. Only he
really knows the motive.
Forgiveness should be merited. See
if he agrees never to go into a
site like that again. |
04 Oct 2007 22:59
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It is still cheating. It can be
forgiven but why even do it at all? |
28 Jul 2008 21:13
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No it is not right.....some may say
oh it's just on the
computer.....but the curious mind
will wander and eventually they
will want to meet......THEN WHAT?
SO THUMBS DOWN.....I am not married
but I would not want my spouse to
do it. BUT the extension of your
question is it forgivable??
YES...ONCE !!........but not over
and over again |
19 Jul 2008 03:17
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That's terrible! |
20 Jun 2008 20:56
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Cheating on someone when you are
married is wrong beyond words.
Asking for forgiveness and never
doing it again is powerful. |
02 Jun 2008 15:20
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I am not saying you shouldn't
forgive. We all mistakes, but I am
not for anybody cheating in any
form or way. |
31 May 2008 07:19
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That's called cheating, an
unforgivable offense. If I did it,
my wife would have every right to
cut off my nut sack. If she did it,
I'd have every right to hang her
and her date off my balcony.
Unforgivable, yep. |
30 May 2008 19:55
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No if you are married you should
not be looking for someone online
to date that would be cheating. Now
if you just chat i really do not
see a problem with that. |
03 May 2008 22:16
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Cheating is wrong no matter what
type it is |
01 May 2008 18:57
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No, cheating is cheating & i bet if
he had a chance to hook up with one
of his on line flings, he would. |
07 Apr 2008 16:06
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You want to get to know the person
and not just meet them off the
internet some of the people might
be pervs |
02 Apr 2008 16:06
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It's definitely wrong. Despite the
fact that it's all virtual reality,
if he's sharing some kind of online
fantasy behind your back it's just
as bad as dating another woman. The
bottom line is he's got someone
else on his mind other than you,
whether it's physical or virtual,
and it could evolve into something
more than that. For most people,
the IDEA someone wanting to cheat
on their partner is worse than the
physical aspect. |
17 Mar 2008 23:07
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Never ever. |
13 Feb 2008 15:00
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Any form of dating when married is
wrong. |
02 Feb 2008 19:14
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Very wrong. Did you not promise to
HONOR your wife in your marriage
vows? Being available to online
dating sites is definitely NOT
honoring her in any way! |
20 Jan 2008 10:08
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I am a victim of a husband who was
playing pogo games and having
sexual chats on line with the girls
in the game rooms. I caught him
red handed. It is the worst
betrayal and hurt in the world.
Even if it is virtual or not it is
still cheating and betraying and
lying in his heart and in his mind.
I don't know if I can ever get
past this or heal the pain that I
feel. My heart has been ripped
straight out of my soul. We go to
our first couples counseling
session next week for his
addiction. |
16 Nov 2007 13:32
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Think about! Dont be selfish,, |
21 Oct 2007 08:56
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Im against as this is just an
insult to there partner |
10 Oct 2007 16:41
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I think it depends on how far he
takes the dating online..a little
harmless online flirting is nothing
to worry about to me, but if he
planned on actually calling or
meeting someone, I'd send him
packing! |
09 Oct 2007 19:18
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Someone has issues |
05 Oct 2007 19:04
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I dont think anybody should be
doing online dating when they are
married it might be harmless but
what happens when they wanna meet |
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