People Should Like You For Who You Are.
For
People Base The Person They Like On Looks And I Think Thats Unfair.
by  Ramzydb823
 03 Oct 2007 21:08  
Against
 Yes i hate when people judge on books
 12 Aug 2008 01:06
by  Speedogurl
 You'll never find true love on looks alone...
 06 Sep 2008 22:58
by  KYMM1969
 True if the person is being who they really are instead of being someone else.
 30 Aug 2008 01:40
by  Redeagle
 Yes. You are right. And if they didn't, it's their problem.
 26 Aug 2008 14:26
by  Charming
 That is what is wrong with today's society, people judge you by your appearance, rather then your personality, your character, your beliefs. Even employers are biased today, and very discriminatory.
 16 Jul 2008 19:43
by  Damm3
 People should like you for what's inside, not out
 10 Jul 2008 02:16
by  Chin6
 Ya someone on Blurtit only told me that your true friend will accept you in any way....say whatever you are.Actually I believe that we should maintain a kind of personality that's liked by all and even you do a mistake it will be a style to others.ME myself have this personality in all my friends.
 20 Jun 2008 14:37
by  Shefali_s
 It makes people look better for liking someone for who they are. I can't stand fake people, and I want some to be real with me all the time. So I agree.
 01 May 2008 01:16
by  Fxxkrkio
 Yes if someone really likes you they will like you for who you are no matter what.
 01 May 2008 00:35
by  Lilmama1
 How right you are! My philosophy is if someone doesn't like me because of what I look like, he or she is the loser. They're missing out on knowing a terrific person. That's one really good thing about Blurtit. You can get to know people, and they get to know you without knowing or caring what others look like.

To judge people by their looks is shallow. What counts is on the inside. Looks won't tell anybody if you are funny, compassionate, intelligent, etc. Fortunately there are those who don't care about the looks of others. They would rather get to know someone's character. That's what I look for in people.
 04 Oct 2007 17:43
by  Robbier44
 I agree, to like one for what one is not is kind of going at it, backwards.
 14 Apr 2008 11:39
by  Pencil
 Thank goodness we all have different ideas of what is attractive! I think it is really important to believe you are attractive. That confidence alone gets you more points on the "beauty scale". People will generally treat you as good or bad as you let them! I have really grown very attracted to people once I have gotten to know them when they did not spark me from the git go! If you are in the market, have an open mind!
 11 Mar 2008 23:45
by  Lam3002
 Outside beauty is only skin deep and it fades away with time. Inner beauty is what counts and makes a difference. I like inner beauty, and I would not trade it for anything.
 20 Feb 2008 06:05
by  Rev_eb
 Yes, 100%, there should be no other reason.
 02 Feb 2008 19:15
by  Cabrunet
 I believe for who you are and not what you are.
 16 Jan 2008 01:01
by  Bwtsrl
 I agree with you and I don't base anything on looks if they are good looking they know it and that makes them think they can get by with whatever they want because you would do anything to keep them yeah right
 29 Dec 2007 07:10
by  Bmarkl9
 Pretty may help you get in the door, but once in, you got to stand on your own two feet. Pretty only goes a little way. After you have known someone a long time and care for them, you don't notice their looks anymore, only if they might look tired or exceptionally nice for a special occasion. If one is blessed with external beauty, don't flaunt it, treat others right and there lies your true beauty.
 15 Dec 2007 02:41
by  Tiredfedup
 Why is there so much separation and divorce then if we all agree that everyone should be accepted for who they are? Granted, over time, everyone changes but that is why we take a vow when we marry.

So many people try to change who we are thinking it will work. What they do not realize is they only have control of themselves and they may think they have control of others, the other person would answer differently. You can lead a horse to water but just try to make it drink.
 05 Dec 2007 21:16
by  Fdjones
 Just like an old saying, don't judge a book from its cover but judge it from the content.

Or for those who mostly do the groceries, a big red apple doesn't always taste sweet. You'd not like such apple even though big and red (but rotten inside)
 03 Dec 2007 23:22
by  Roxfe
 Some of my most favorite friends got supper on the stove and say get you a plate ,just as soon as you walk in the door and they're ugly as homemade sin but the sweetness of their character keeps me coming back not necessarily their cooking if they make me laugh why do I need to pay money for comedy say if you happen to pass out in their yard one night at a party and they come outside to throw a blanket across you ,well that's just good people!
 03 Dec 2007 19:30
by  Imstr8
 Of course people should like you for who you are!!
 24 Nov 2007 21:03
by  Coolest225
 Definitely the most Hottest man will probably be the one with the most attitude
 14 Nov 2007 21:20
by  Aprilw
 Anyone watch Beauty and the Geek? Lol.
Personally, personality makes up looks. They may be the "best" looking person in the room, but if they have a horrid personality their looks whither away. Same goes oppositely, a great personality is SO much more attractive than any physical attraction.
 14 Nov 2007 09:12
by  CroNjap
 To judge people on their looks is very shallow.I personally think everyone should try and not judge, period.I really try hard not to judge anyone..
 21 Oct 2007 05:10
by  Ali52586
 Yeah It is definitely unfair ,the attitude matters a lot rather than the looks .External beauty gets faded away as years pass by and all that remains forever is the internal beauty.Many get deceived by external looks .They realize it later when it is too late.
 16 Oct 2007 06:27
by  Jayagowri
 My husband isn't the best looking man in the world, he isn't anywhere near brad pitt or george clooney, but that is unrealistic to think everyone will have a man like them. My husbands personality is what makes him so sexy and irresistable to me! I don't even notice other men when we are out because my husbands personality demands my attention! On the other side, my husband tells me I am way more sexy than any of the other women around. I personally think I have all kinds on faults to my body, but he doesn't see those things. He loves me the way I am!
 10 Oct 2007 23:55
by  Hikarichan
 Couldn't agree more. I am who I am, if someone loves me , he should love the one who i am, not for anything else.
 09 Oct 2007 15:12
by  Blt_junta
 Yes, i totally agree. You can't judge a person by his acts. It may be according to the situation he is in. Actual mentality comes when the person is cool
 09 Oct 2007 13:48
by  Skyadamani
 I totally agree, i mean there is no point in acting like someone else if the other person sooner or later would fid out who you really are...did anyone get me?
 06 Oct 2007 23:47
by  Jojo22
 Yeah i totally agree everyone in my school judges me on the clothes i wear (mainly black) but nobody has bothered to actually get ot know me except my 2 best friends...the people who judge by appearance ar LOSERS!
 04 Oct 2007 19:14
by  The-Bullet
 I prefer to like me for what I am. Nothing is constant in this world. Time might come that I become a NOBODY. It can also follow that I was only liked for who I am, but what if I'm no one anymore? However, if you are liked for WHAT YOU ARE,no matter what happens you are assured there are still people who will like for what you are.
 25 Dec 2007 08:16
by  Amazona58
 Unless you're in politics, when it's better for people to like you for what you are not.
 21 Mar 2008 09:18
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