Yes i hate when people judge on books

 How right you are! My philosophy is if someone doesn't like me because of what I look like, he or she is the loser. They're missing out on knowing a terrific person. That's one really good thing about Blurtit. You can get to know people, and they get to know you without knowing or caring what others look like.

To judge people by their looks is shallow. What counts is on the inside. Looks won't tell anybody if you are funny, compassionate, intelligent, etc. Fortunately there are those who don't care about the looks of others. They would rather get to know someone's character. That's what I look for in people.

 You'll never find true love on looks alone...

 True if the person is being who they really are instead of being someone else.

 Yes. You are right. And if they didn't, it's their problem.

 That is what is wrong with today's society, people judge you by your appearance, rather then your personality, your character, your beliefs. Even employers are biased today, and very discriminatory.

 People should like you for what's inside, not out

 Ya someone on Blurtit only told me that your true friend will accept you in any way....say whatever you are.Actually I believe that we should maintain a kind of personality that's liked by all and even you do a mistake it will be a style to others.ME myself have this personality in all my friends.

 It makes people look better for liking someone for who they are. I can't stand fake people, and I want some to be real with me all the time. So I agree.

 Yes if someone really likes you they will like you for who you are no matter what.

 I agree, to like one for what one is not is kind of going at it, backwards.

 Thank goodness we all have different ideas of what is attractive! I think it is really important to believe you are attractive. That confidence alone gets you more points on the "beauty scale". People will generally treat you as good or bad as you let them! I have really grown very attracted to people once I have gotten to know them when they did not spark me from the git go! If you are in the market, have an open mind!

 Outside beauty is only skin deep and it fades away with time. Inner beauty is what counts and makes a difference. I like inner beauty, and I would not trade it for anything.

 Yes, 100%, there should be no other reason.

 I believe for who you are and not what you are.

 I agree with you and I don't base anything on looks if they are good looking they know it and that makes them think they can get by with whatever they want because you would do anything to keep them yeah right

 Pretty may help you get in the door, but once in, you got to stand on your own two feet. Pretty only goes a little way. After you have known someone a long time and care for them, you don't notice their looks anymore, only if they might look tired or exceptionally nice for a special occasion. If one is blessed with external beauty, don't flaunt it, treat others right and there lies your true beauty.

 Why is there so much separation and divorce then if we all agree that everyone should be accepted for who they are? Granted, over time, everyone changes but that is why we take a vow when we marry.

So many people try to change who we are thinking it will work. What they do not realize is they only have control of themselves and they may think they have control of others, the other person would answer differently. You can lead a horse to water but just try to make it drink.

 Just like an old saying, don't judge a book from its cover but judge it from the content.

Or for those who mostly do the groceries, a big red apple doesn't always taste sweet. You'd not like such apple even though big and red (but rotten inside)

 Some of my most favorite friends got supper on the stove and say get you a plate ,just as soon as you walk in the door and they're ugly as homemade sin but the sweetness of their character keeps me coming back not necessarily their cooking if they make me laugh why do I need to pay money for comedy say if you happen to pass out in their yard one night at a party and they come outside to throw a blanket across you ,well that's just good people!

 Of course people should like you for who you are!!

 Definitely the most Hottest man will probably be the one with the most attitude

 Anyone watch Beauty and the Geek? Lol.
Personally, personality makes up looks. They may be the "best" looking person in the room, but if they have a horrid personality their looks whither away. Same goes oppositely, a great personality is SO much more attractive than any physical attraction.

 To judge people on their looks is very shallow.I personally think everyone should try and not judge, period.I really try hard not to judge anyone..

 Yeah It is definitely unfair ,the attitude matters a lot rather than the looks .External beauty gets faded away as years pass by and all that remains forever is the internal beauty.Many get deceived by external looks .They realize it later when it is too late.

 My husband isn't the best looking man in the world, he isn't anywhere near brad pitt or george clooney, but that is unrealistic to think everyone will have a man like them. My husbands personality is what makes him so sexy and irresistable to me! I don't even notice other men when we are out because my husbands personality demands my attention! On the other side, my husband tells me I am way more sexy than any of the other women around. I personally think I have all kinds on faults to my body, but he doesn't see those things. He loves me the way I am!

 Couldn't agree more. I am who I am, if someone loves me , he should love the one who i am, not for anything else.

 Yes, i totally agree. You can't judge a person by his acts. It may be according to the situation he is in. Actual mentality comes when the person is cool

 I totally agree, i mean there is no point in acting like someone else if the other person sooner or later would fid out who you really are...did anyone get me?

 Yeah i totally agree everyone in my school judges me on the clothes i wear (mainly black) but nobody has bothered to actually get ot know me except my 2 best friends...the people who judge by appearance ar LOSERS!