 Sweetheart, listen to me from
personal experience, DUMP HIS ASS.
He is not worth your time. There is
plenty more guys out there that you
will have a chance with ok? |
 25 Aug 2007 01:28
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If i were you I would leave him
right now before he hurts you even
more. Make very sure that you don't
have any of these dvd's in your
possession, because that would put
you in a dangerous situation
legally. Then, report him to the
police. You do not have to appear
in court as a witness - if they
catch him doing it they don't need
any other evidence. Also, is he
claiming benefits ie JSA, as well?
If he is, then you could report him
to them as well, because he is
defrauding the benefit system. You
can do that by writing to them
anonymously - they then have to
investigate him, but they don't
need to know your name. The
important thing is to leave him. If
you stay with him, you could be
implicated in his crimes if and
when he gets arrested. You can do
better than him, believe me! |
14 Jul 2008 19:06
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DUMP HIS SRRY ASS, there are guys
out there and maybe you should tell
a few blaber mouths in the
community One he would start to
lose people them he would get in
trouble! He wouldn't know it was
you and then he would be begging to
come back to you by then you can
say I am happy with someone else's
sorry (not) |
25 May 2008 21:55
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Well you knew about him...... But
he has hurt u, never mind that .
Look people around the world
everyone has problems. If u are
truthful to your heart or u have a
good heart... Just please report to
him............................
In other case if u want to get rid
of him....please i beg u then just
advice him to be good ;;;; Who
knows you words (or) advice may
tomorrow may join u both , if not
that ur words will make him at
least a good man in future & in
society................... |
29 Dec 2007 08:12
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I would report him, that is, if you
still care about him. Karma will
come around and get him sooner or
later and if you say nothing and he
brings you into it when he does get
caught, you are just a guilty as he
is. You don't need that wrap by any
means. It appears he is doing you
wrong but yu still have feelings
for him or you would not be asking
the questions. Do what is right for
you and him. Cut your losses and
move on. It will be better for you
and much better for him. |
05 Dec 2007 21:21
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You really feel that you need to
rid yourself from him, so do it.
The other part about the illegal
selling of dvd's will catch up with
him, without your help. Don't be
vengeful. He'll get his just
deserve. |
02 Nov 2007 00:37
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You should report! |
11 Oct 2007 07:14
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Report his butt pronto !! And don't
worry about saying good bye just go
!! |
25 Sep 2007 05:40
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There are plenty of fishes in the
sea. And you should find a better
one than your friend. Just walk
away. And let him be. But if you do
walk away I hope that you will find
a perfect man of your dreams... |
22 Sep 2007 00:07
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Yeah dump him...he is doing
something that ilegal...why bother
what happens when he gets caught
then what...u gonna wait on him
then? |
28 Aug 2007 11:40
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He needs to be reported |
25 Aug 2007 21:51
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Time is to short for you to be
caught up in things that aren't
good for you. I'm sure you're still
young enough to start anew. Let
this go! |
25 Aug 2007 16:52
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Dump him by all means, but your
motivation for reporting him isnt
out of morality as a citizen but
out of vengence for hurting you. If
you were prepared not to report him
while things were going ok then are
you yourself not complicit in his
crime by withholding evidence. So
tread carefully. |
25 Aug 2007 02:39
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If what he is doing is illegal
,yes , report him , if he
is breaking the law.
Just remain anonymous |
24 Aug 2007 11:07
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First of all, WALK AWAY! Maintain
your dignity. You seem to have it
all together, and I don't see any
future in such a relationship,
because you'll always resent him
for what he does.
Should you report him? Consider
your motives, and as "Stephen"
said, don't do it to merely get
back at the guy. If you do it, do
it because you honestly believe
it's the right thing to do. |
23 Aug 2007 23:47
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Well to be honest, selling bootleg
Dvds annoys the hell out of me so
if I were in your shoes I'd say
yes. However, don't do it out of
revenge, do it because it's the
right thing to do.
In the long run, if you don't
report him, he'll most likely end
up getting caught. So, it's up to
you. |
23 Aug 2007 13:19
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You should report him...any guy who
sells illegal stuff and, more
importantly, hurts their
girlfriend/wife should rot in
prison. |
23 Aug 2007 01:23
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Yes , if it's illegal report
him |
22 Aug 2007 05:22
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Yes,report him!you shouldn't take
the way he treats you! |
22 Aug 2007 02:03
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Fn' yes report his lazy butt |
22 Aug 2007 01:19
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To leave him is the easy decision,
just do that first. Secondly if you
feel that you may be in danger
reporting his illegal activity,
then make an annomonous tip to the
police and never tell anybody that
you did that. You you aren't afraid
to report it, then go right ahead
and do it. |
21 Aug 2007 23:30
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First of all LEAVE! You sound like
a sensible person and do not need
to be treated like that! Then
report him! As Americans I feel we
have a civic duty to report crimes
that we witness. Maybe it will
teach him to treat people with more
respect, but I doubt it! |
21 Aug 2007 20:04
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 You can't report him just because
you're angry. You wouldn't have a
problem with him selling them if he
was your prince charming. He'll get
caught eventually. You need to dump
him though girl! He obviously has
no outlook on the future or he
would have a real occupation. You
sure you want that to drag you
down? Find you a good man that
doesn't hurt your feelings and has
goals. Love should never hurt! |
25 Aug 2007 17:38
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NO, he's your boyfriend, if you
love him, try to make him do the
right things with your patience and
love. If you can't, just walk away,
he'll deserve the punishment sooner
or later. |
22 Aug 2007 18:19
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Walk out, cut your losses. He'll
get cut somewhere, somehow- and
this way, it won't be your fault. |
28 Nov 2007 23:28
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Even if he is a jerk .. You need to
really think about it. Don't think
bout hurting him .. Think is it
actually right and is it who you
are ? If the answers are no don't
do it lol |
17 Oct 2008 01:27
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Forget all about him, reporting him
may just cause your more heart
ache. |
22 Aug 2007 10:48
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You were all for it while together.
Turning him in now would just be
vindictive. But you definitely need
to walk away. |
17 Sep 2008 15:37
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Even though hes a jerk and should
get what is coming to him for
treating you badly,turning him in
would just be yourself getting
even,two wrongs don't make a right
its better to let him be shady and
you find someone who values you and
is willing to make an honest living |
06 Aug 2008 03:34
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Walk away and don't look back. At
some point everyone's crimes catch
up with them.. You don't want to be
there when they do. |
13 Jun 2008 19:58
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People like that make dangerous
enemies. If it did not bother you
enough to report him before now,
don't make yourself out to be a
vengeful B*. That could set You up
for some retaliation and you don't
need that! |
11 May 2008 15:52
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I was gonna say I am confused as to
what to advise here BUT just the
fact that you see he is doing
wrong, I say yes-it IS your
responsibility to report it-out of
what others have said here-YOUR
CIVIC RESPONSIBILITY! As far as him
hurting you(abuse)these kinds of
relationships NEVER GO ANYWHERE BUT
DOWN! PLEASE-PLEASE LEAVE HIS
ASS!(Before it's too late for you)!
You deserve better sweetie! |
16 Jan 2008 20:32
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Just walk away. It's not your
problem. If he finds out that u
naked, he might go after you, if he
is that kind of person that is. You
should not be with a person that
hurts you or a person that doesn't
treat you right |
16 Jan 2008 19:44
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Walk away before he drags you down
with him. |
09 Jan 2008 19:44
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This is a no brainer you already
know the answer |
30 Dec 2007 03:04
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Dump his a** if he has hurt you so
much. I had trouble doing that with
a guy I dated for 5 years who
became emotionally abusive. Get out
of it NOW before you start to
suffer tremendously. I wouldn't
report him though. Having someone
very seriously angry at you, could
be a dangerous thing. Also, you'd
have to see him again when it went
to court. You'd have to testify and
be involved. You just need to get
out of that relationship and get
away. |
16 Dec 2007 18:17
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Just walk away. If you knew what he
was doing for so long, and didn't
report it earlier, you were an
accomplice. If he finds out that
you narced, he will exact revenge
on you later. Move on and chalk it
up as a learning experience. |
25 Nov 2007 16:47
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I'd say if he has treated you
badly, leave his looser
ass! But let someone else report
him.What he does for a living is
not right at all
and you know that, but you also
knew that when you were togheter,
so why would you report him now? To
get back at him, that is not the
right reason! So leave and leave
the reporting job to smeone
else.You have things going for
you,got a full time job and deserve
better, than
that so Best of luck and don't look
back ! |
22 Oct 2007 04:47
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I think you been with him while he
was doing it and it didnt bother
you now all of sudden it bothers
you when you find out that yall
might not be an item anymore. Let
me tell you something just leave
his time is coming and he will get
caught but im telling you you dont
want to be in that mix when he does
finally gets caught. Go foward keep
going and dont look back. Youre
just trying to hurt him like he has
hurt you.just let it go. |
16 Oct 2007 09:45
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If you didn't have a problem with
him selling the
DVDs when you were together, then
why report him now? That wouldn't
solve anything. But, respect
yourself and send him on his way.
Good Luck!
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03 Oct 2007 19:37
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If he's treating u bad than leave
him. Somone out there will treat
you the way you deserve to be
treated. You might have to go
through several to get to that one
so don't waste your time with the
ones that don't. As for reporting
him it's not your place. Thats the
way he makes the little money he
does and if you do that to him
he'll make things 100 times worse
for you. He'll get caught at some
point anyway and it wont be on you.
Besides do you want more bullshit
to deal with than u already have
being with him? If you report him
and leave him your setting yourself
up to have to deal with him even if
your not with him, move on and
don't give him any reason to keep
you from doing that. It's not worth
it. |
11 Sep 2007 00:44
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You can't report him because if you
knew this information and kept it
to yourself you are already
complicit. Walk away from
this.....no RUN but keep you mouth
shut. |
01 Sep 2007 22:01
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Just remember what ever decision
you make you and only you have to
live with your self, and your
decisions. |
25 Aug 2007 00:25
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It sounds like you're o.k. With it
as long as you two are together.
So if you turn him in you would be
turning him in out of spite. If
things don't go right between you
guys, just walk away and don't say
a word. After all you don't mind
the money he's bringing in while
you're together and it's still
illegal. |
25 Aug 2007 00:00
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If you accepted it before, you cant
report him out of revenge, you were
part of the problem |
24 Aug 2007 20:44
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Don't bother reporting him, that
will only cause you a load of
trouble and bother.There are
hundreds of people who sell dodgy
ware and we'd best just have
nothing to do with them.Just walk
away and forget him and choose your
partner wisely in future.Good luck
and God bless |
24 Aug 2007 10:44
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Kick him to the curb! He will
through himself under the bus
sooner or later... Karma |
24 Aug 2007 05:57
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Just leave him,no need to report
him i think in time it will catch
up to him,but sounds like you need
to get out asap,and i worry that if
u report him he might retaliate
against you |
23 Aug 2007 20:27
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Just walk away. It wont make you
feel better so see him in trouble
with the police. Just try to put
this bad experience behind you and
get on with your life. Good luck |
23 Aug 2007 16:47
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If you didn't have a problem with
it before now then just leave him
alone. He may want to harm you if
you tell on him. |
23 Aug 2007 16:31
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I think if you report him as a
revenge then dont do it. But if you
want to be a good citizen, persude
him to quit, if not then report
even when you dont break up with
him |
23 Aug 2007 12:03
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