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by Jamelly_ed Jamelly_ed
 21 Dec 2007 21:05  
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 ABSOLUTELY YES!! Two people who love each other should have the joy and privilege and legal right to marry. Just 60 years ago in some US states, and now in parts of the world, laws did not or do not all marriage between racists. The Catholic church and other churches had "laws and rules" against marrying someone who did not believe the same way. Christians everywhere do not believe a Christian and a non-Christian should marry. Nations, religions, groups of people, and others, still do not think that 2 people who have various differences should marry. When love exists as it does between millions of same-gender persons, and if that love leads to personal, heartfelt commitment with each other, then the laws and religions should say YES to them marrying. All things against them marrying are based on prejudice, discrimination and hate. Love is so much greater...we need more loving couples throughout the world. Who knows, if we did, maybe we would find that world peace is possible.
 13 Feb 2008 08:28
 I don't see what business it is of anyone but the parties who want to marry. I don't understand why so many are determined to deprive those who are different of any happiness they may try to find in life. Just because something isn't conventional doesn't make it wrong, and it doesn't give others the right to pass judgment on it.
 21 Dec 2007 23:18
by Robbier44 Robbier44
 Who are others to tell you how to love?? But if this happens to much.....something i realized(my view not necessarily to be critical about cuz i don't know,just throwing stuff out there) how will there be more people?population variable in there.
 12 Feb 2008 01:59
by Ramzydb823 Ramzydb823
 I'm Gay. Period. I think that men and Women Should be able to marry the same sex. I don't see how the govt can get in they way of it. Marriage is just a legal bond between two people who love each other and want to combine their incomes. Love is love, just because it's between two guys doesn't mean it's wrong.
 11 Jan 2008 00:09
by Diaflor Diaflor
 Here in the US, we have marriage as a basic human right, as is the right to love freely and consensually as an adult. Just as your neighbor has no right to walk into your home and begin correcting your way of life, what right does the neighbors of a gay couple have to deny them life choices, the liberty to choose, and to pursue personal happiness and fulfillment?

I do not intend to offend anyone, but the Bible has absolutely no standing in American law, as was made clear by the intent of the First Amendment:

"Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof."

What say does any have in the face of personal decisions made by two consenting adults?

Some claim the harm done to children, the possibility of conversion to being gay. It has been found in court that Children parented by lesbians or gays have been found to be no different from those raised in an opposite-sex household "...on measures of popularity, social adjustment, gender role behavior, gender identity, intelligence, self-concept, emotional problems, interest in marriage and parenting, locus of control, moral development, independence, ego functions, object relations, or self esteem." Also, no significant differences have been observed in regard to "teachers' and parents' evaluations of emotional and social behavior, fears, sleep disturbances, hyperactivity, and conduct differences.

Some note they cannot have children and that marriage is intended for the support of families. It is estimated by census that over 6 million children live in households headed by gay parents. Do they not deserve the financial and medical security of marriage between their parents? Are they simply floating out there, unimportant? Yes, a lesbian or a male gay couple cannot procreate. But then, neither can a man and woman where one is infertile, either for a medical reason or because of age. Some opposite-gender couples marry and decide to never have a child between them. Many infertile couples, both same-sex and opposite-sex can become pregnant if they attend a fertility clinic.

Some say society has a right to say what is right and wrong for it's members. Society must decide in the face of gradual or imminent creation of victims and harm. Pedophilia, fraud, and prostitution are all institutions that have been found to create harm for communities and societies as a whole. Society must factually designate who will be harmed by gay marriage.

Some say it will lead to immoral acts, such as marrying your dog, and that God disapproves.
When dogs have legal standing and can sign marriage licenses, we’ll worry about that. Secondly, which God? Many religions of many different systems of marriage and belief manage to recognize one another, though many claim the other does not follow the ‘correct God’. Does a Protestant insist a Hindu couple is not married? A Mormon of a Catholic couple? The goal of the groups promoting same-sex marriage is very specific and limited. They assert that a man should have the same right to marry a man that a woman already has. Likewise, a woman should have an equal right to marry a woman. This does not have to imply that any other right not expressly granted is up for grabs

If the government had recommended separate form of marriage for interracial couples, would that be fair? The Racial Integrity Act of 1924 made it a felony to marry outside of color or race, with the judge on the case Virginia vs. Loving stating that “Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, and red, and he placed them on separate continents. And, but for the interference with his arrangement, there would be no cause for such marriage. The fact that he separated the races shows that he did not intend for the races to mix.”

The North Carolina Supreme Court declared that the relationship brought before them “…is essentially different from that of man and wife joined in lawful wedlock.” They were speaking about a slave couple. Society is not always correct by 'tradition'. Time to take a leap forward rather than struggling to step back.
 29 Dec 2007 22:19
by Peach_bug Peach_bug
 Most be that are don't like it are gay themselves
 23 Dec 2007 23:10
by Smithfoxta Smithfoxta
 I say yes because if your in love with that person it doesn't matter what sex they are! Also if they desire to get married there should be nothing stopping two people who love each from getting married! They are just like anyone else two people who decided to spend their life with each other whats the harm in that?!
 19 Oct 2008 21:24
by Shaynen Shaynen
 It think you only live once and you should do what floats your boat.Don't live you life by what other people may think and whether they agree or disagree,i have no issue with it and most people that have issues with it have problems of there own
 25 Sep 2008 04:44
by Cutiee_pie Cutiee_pie
 Yes!!if that's what they want/i do not see the problem on this
 29 Jul 2008 20:50
by Panson Panson
 Any committed relationship should have the same rights re: Wills, medical care, etc.!!!!!
 28 Jul 2008 18:43
by Bg43214 Bg43214
 When it comes down to it, doesn't gay mean happy? Who doesn't want to be happy? What does it matter who you are happy with?
 28 Jul 2008 02:25
by Deek575 Deek575
 It is illegal in Gods eyes but you cant help how you feel and who you love they should be allowed to declare there commitment to each other just like the rest of us
 29 Dec 2007 06:08
by Bmarkl9 Bmarkl9
 I have seen so many homosexual couples that get along much better than the heterosexual ones!!
So thumps UP!! For those who have the respect and commitment to be together and maybe raise a beautiful family!
 22 Dec 2007 16:38
by Shakti71 Shakti71
 I don't really see the problem with same sex marriages. I maybe because my high school is known as the "coming out" school so i talk to a lot of gay people but they're exactly the same as everyone else. You can't help who you love, people need to start realizing that and that gay people are people too and not a freak show attraction.
 22 Dec 2007 15:01
by Pbfan4 Pbfan4
 Though it may be against some people's morals, it is not their right to take away others' right to marriage, whether it be same sex or opposite sex.

Especially since they don't choose to be who they are. You are who you are, and you can't really change it.

Besides, it shouldn't be such concern with everything else that is happening in the world. I say to let couples marry whether they are same sex or not.
 22 Dec 2007 07:38
by Megamaster Megamaster
 It's the way they feel and no one can judge them for it!
 22 Dec 2007 07:30
by Luvin_him Luvin_him
 I'm all for it, why should they be denied the rights that we have cause they are different
 22 Dec 2007 01:59
by Emmbri Emmbri
 I understand peoples aversion to the idea and how it flies in the face of religious dogma. However, I do not think the homosexual society is really worried necessarily about calling each other husband and wife. (which are much more definitive words then marriage) They are more interested in the legal recognition of their union. They want the right to give their spouse inheritance monies, property, mortgage rights, insurance rights, etc. It is not about the holy christian union of husband to wife that they desire. They just want what was promised as a citizen a right to pursue happiness as they see fit.
 21 Dec 2007 22:22
by Lojikal Lojikal
 Being of christian values, I think that same sex marriages are wrong. I understand that people are born with this but similar to other diseases, it seems that this is also one. God said be fruitful and multiply but you can't do that in a same sex marriage without some other means of becoming pregnant or adoption.

I know that many people have other views that are different than mine and that I do not dislike people with alternate lifestyles but at the same time, it goes against what I have been raised and lead to believe growing up and to marry and raise a family should fall in line with getting a tax incentive but there is minimal ways to have children, as I said before.
 21 Dec 2007 22:54
by Fdjones Fdjones
 It's Weird.
 21 Dec 2007 21:53
by Moneygirl Moneygirl
 No cause that is straight up nasty
 30 Jan 2008 21:15
by Kailia21 Kailia21
 Not cool
 21 Dec 2007 21:06
by Jamelly_ed Jamelly_ed
 Same sex marriage? Only people with brain problems...
 24 Sep 2008 22:25
by Arauzxa Arauzxa
 No I think it's kind of weird. Different sex should be married. Male and female, husband and a wife. Then if the same sex married they'll be fighting for who'll be the wife and who'll be the husband. LOL
 01 Aug 2008 16:12
by Charming Charming
 I guess if the bible means nothing to you homosexuality is "normal".
To me that is what it boils down to, to believe in God or not. It's your choice of course. I don't look down on anyone for their beliefs. I know what i believe and that's what counts.
 29 Jul 2008 10:27
by Trallen Trallen
 I belive God didn't make maraige to be that way. I do not hate the people who do, I do not turn my back on them, and I don't call them names. God put the desires inside you, to be with the oposite sex. Either they were treated wrong byt he other sex, or want to try something new, or had their heart recently broken, but I beleive that's not your true passion.
 21 Jul 2008 18:50
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 The act of marriage is the act of taking something before God and finding this acceptable before Him. I don't see this as acceptable in the scriptures. So why would I be asking God to honor something that I know in His Word is not honored. Now before those who oppose this view get upset if you want your civil unions go ahead. If you are going to keep what your doing then why are you even asking us? If you have to keep asking yourself is this wrong? Then more in likely it probably is! So I am sharing one man's opinion in line with others.
 31 May 2008 08:27
by Jacob05 Jacob05
 Marriage is for the purpose of starting families, and same-sex couples can't procreate.
 30 May 2008 20:19
by Guest Guest
 I do not see anything wrong if to people of the same sex fall in love and what they do is not my business. But i have to say when it comes to getting married i do not agree with it .It has always been that way so i do not think we should change it.
 07 May 2008 22:26
by Lilmama1 Lilmama1
 No. Since when is it that a legal recognition of a union is needed for people to be "happy" or to be able to leave inheritance or properties and as far as insurance coverage goes our insurance already gives the ability to cover same sex partners through lowes but what about two people living together and not married yet that are heterosexual- are we not now discriminating against them? There is always someone that is discriminated against every time you try to "include" the groups no matter what/who they may be and where. When military began don't ask don't tell didn't bother to think about women/men in mass shower area that were potentially being "molested" by the prying eyes of an individual who may find them sexually appealing when they don't ask or tell does that mean that the person being viewed this way's privacy was not invaded, how would this be different than if there were hidden cameras where people of the opposite sex could witness the showering if the individuals did not know they were being watched- isn't everyone already "afraid that between big brother and any other idiots out there" that at any time their privacy is already being invaded? But back to same sex marriages. No i am not interested in political correctness or making everyone feel happy and loved only finding a balance in our society where everyone doesn't have something to feel "entitled" to because they are different. How about just playing by the rules the way they are set and finding your "own" happiness as you can and being responsible for your own "choices and happiness" and whatever costs that come with those- violence and rudeness not included but for instance insurance premiums, lack of marital tax breaks i mean come on......
 06 Apr 2008 05:17
by Tinniemae Tinniemae
 I am a firm Christian and it is considered wrong in my religion (I hope I am not offending any homosexuals...I am so sorry if i am, this is just my opinion).
 02 Apr 2008 06:07
by Nadene Nadene
 No way, this just isn't right. Marriage is husband, MAN and wife, WOMAN, how can it be right if both are the same sex? Live together and do your own thing but to wed is wrong.
 17 Jan 2008 23:28
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 No. It was Adam and Eve. Not Adam and Steve. It was meant for A Man and a Women. Not Women on Women or Man on Man.
 09 Jan 2008 23:56
by Loveya Loveya
 Refer to the Bible. Please.

How can you really call it a marriage? God ordained marriages of a male and a female. Period.

How can a "real" priest or man of God submit to performing these ceremonies when the moral doctrine he or she is using clearly "denies and rebukes" these actions?

There needs to be a spiritual healing in this country that many are afraid to stand up for.
 09 Jan 2008 18:21
by Methodinc Methodinc
 Men bring the best out in women, and women bring the best out in men. Marriage between a man and woman give us a more balanced world.
 22 Dec 2007 19:07
by L1tlelady L1tlelady
 Growing up, I was brought up seeing that men were in relationships with women. Now that I am able to see what actually goes on in the world, I can say that I do not agree with homosexual relationships. A marriage is to be between a man and a woman. I have nothing against homosexuals and I will continue to respect these people because they are people just like you and me. I believe they can have a civil union instead of a marriage, for the sake of legal issues, because as much as I do not agree with the relationship, these people still love each other and they should be able to control their legal situations.
 22 Dec 2007 18:44
by Shakeit100 Shakeit100
 It has been around for many many years. It is about time people can be together.
 22 Dec 2007 17:25
by Enuff86 Enuff86
 That is against any religion we should have to through out this kind of habit from our society
 22 Dec 2007 17:17
by Ferozghour Ferozghour
 The purpose of marriage is for procreation. It's not possible to do that with the same sex.
 22 Dec 2007 09:42
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