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You Should Share Sorrow And Happiness With Your Friends.
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Do You Agree,
by Skyadamani Skyadamani
 17 Jan 2008 12:03  
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 Yes that's true, that's why we have friends.
 11 Nov 2008 13:10
by Gita1974 Gita1974
 That's what friends are for, most people consider their friends like family. Most times, its nice to have someone outside of the immediate situation to just converse with and get an outside opinion.
 30 Sep 2008 12:50
by Damm3 Damm3
 A friend is someone who cares about you and always wants to be there for you, whether you're happy or sad. An acquaintance is someone you think twice about sharing your emotions with.
 11 Sep 2008 04:59
by Moebkr Moebkr
 Yes friends are there to share happiness and sorrow, they are next to our family members
 01 Sep 2008 07:30
by Skydalimit Skydalimit
 Friends are there to share sorrow and happiness. If it is not the case then there is no meaning of friendship
 13 Aug 2008 11:13
by Newcomer Newcomer
 True friends would care and go with you through it
 06 Jul 2008 19:10
by Sallyiswow Sallyiswow
 Yes, we should share ourselves with those who understand & care for us.
They say: "The more we share sorrrows with those who care for us, more is easy to handle those sorrows:
&
"The more we share our happiness with our friends, more their intensity becomes".
 12 Jun 2008 16:41
by Life Life
 True Friends are there for us to share happiness and sorrow with them. Friends are like gifts given by god, to whom we can share everything
 06 Jun 2008 06:24
by Wounded Wounded
 You should always be able to talk to some one about you sorrows and happiness its not good to hold feelings in.
 04 Jun 2008 01:31
by Vickyg Vickyg
 I vote yes. After this, you have to know what is meant by sharing, Sharing does not mean they join them in a crying pity party daily. Sharing is knowing a love one is hurting and you keep in contact with that person, offer a shoulder for crying, and give encouragement. In sad situations it is important that someone can be the stronghold.
Encouragement is to suggest at a proper time that living is still on for them. As many of us that spend too much time mourning, it never reverses the situation, but a good friend can help guide that persons life to living once again. When the situation happens to us, we may go through the same thing and need our own words, but we who have gone through many many sorrows and hurts know that joy came and usually will, come in the morning. The joy does not remove our thoughts of the sad situation, just that you can deal with it in a healthier way.
 21 May 2008 21:36
by Gsharon710 Gsharon710
 They're your friends supposedly they should willingly be compelled to imbed themselves in your life and feelings.
 20 May 2008 19:02
by Clouds Clouds
 Ya ..it's true..every coin has two facets...so does your life...there are many upheavals......so...your friends especially from classes 8...you have really understanding....and consoling friends...so you not share your sorrows too with them
and for the part of the happiness-the first step of friendship is sharing your joys
 13 May 2008 17:09
by Mcyrus Mcyrus
 Yes i do agree with you, friends are for sharing happiness and grief
 29 Apr 2008 12:55
by Adorer Adorer
 Yes i do agree, friends are important part of our lives. Therefore we should share sorrow and happiness with them
 14 Apr 2008 10:12
by Admirer Admirer
 Absolutely that is what friends do.
 10 Apr 2008 00:50
by Pencil Pencil
 Yes if you think your friends are the one who understand your feelings you may tell your sorrows because happiness is the thing which you can share with everyone but we can't share our sorrows to everyone.
 05 Mar 2008 16:27
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 True friends are there to share sorrow and happiness
 02 Feb 2008 13:26
by Sada Sada
 I have a best friend and a friend that sticketh closest to me than a brother. Jesus is the closest and I share "all" of my feelings with Him. Thanks for asking.
 31 Jan 2008 03:42
by Yahobahne Yahobahne
 I couldn't agree with the very first post on here MORE! One SHOULD share these things(sadness and happiness)with their friends! What are friends for? I only wish some I thought were my friends had stuck around for the long haul but...whatever. They weren't true friends to begin with. Guess we've ALL been there before at some point!
I agree with this 100%!
 18 Jan 2008 08:25
by Sohogirl Sohogirl
 I think this debate is really quite useless. Of course you should share your sorrow and happiness with your CLOSE friends, those who have won your allegiance and trust. In the medical field, repressed feelings might lead to mental illness. Repressed people also are more likely to commit suicide.
 18 Jan 2008 08:16
by Niknaknik Niknaknik
 You should share all your feelings with your friends. Those that keep things bottled up so often end up with depression, suicide or other major life/health issues.
 17 Jan 2008 19:55
by Fdjones Fdjones
 Yes, it shows that your a true friend and are happy for them, or sad for them when they suffer a difficult time and stand beside them.
 17 Jan 2008 18:28
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 Why we have someone called friends cause most of them fall under to our age and there are also a few exceptions and we have same sort of wavelength so they can or be a good guide in giving proper suggestions to our problems or they can enjoy our own feel for happiness.
 17 Jan 2008 12:42
by Kingo Kingo
 No sometimes sharing feeling too much create problems.Actually some friends should not be known all about you because you don't know when a little fight broke your friendship and then all your secrets,sorrows etc...will be in everybody's years.And sharing happiness also sometimes creates jealousy.So I believe sharing only with family.
 20 Jun 2008 15:41
by Shefali_s Shefali_s
 I think one much share it with the one he/she is truly loved by. For eg. Her husband/would be husband...
In that way even your relation strengthens !
 10 Apr 2008 07:31
by Grav8888 Grav8888
 I used to support it earlier, but after a recent and worst experience of my life, I would come to the conclusion that ONE SHOULD NOT SHARE HIS/HER SORROWS AND HAPPINESS WITH FRIENDS!! This is because it is very hard to even know whether one is your true friend or not! Sharing one's happiness may make the other jealous of him/her and sharing one's sorrow may make the other take unfair advantage of him/her! And this is how your so-called TRUE FRIENDS back-stab you without even your knowledge! One's best friend should be their parents...they never think ill of their own children! And if one doesn't have their parents, I would prefer to keep their feelings within themselves, rather lowering down their happiness or increasing their sorrows (as the case may be) by sharing it with others!
 09 Mar 2008 14:48
by Hifa726 Hifa726
 While it may seem wise to do so,there are times to be a certain way and other times when not.say if you are very happy but yet your friend is not,how can you share feelings of happiness when your friend is sad?
 17 Jan 2008 21:58
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