Mmm -This is difficult!-always thought male should make first move but, there are so many moves a female can make to encourage this -I think padraig pretty well nailed it!,I vote No.---oops-think I,m in the wrong column--

 No, asking someone out or making the first move should be done by both genders.
I don't understand why everything is always left up to us guys, I mean really we don't want to do everything ^.^

 I think it does not matter
but guys should not be
the only ones and pple
that say that they are
the only ones are sexist
pigs

 I wish they would, but thanks to the newfound freedom, women can make the first move. Some guys are so shy, like my spouse, if I had not asked him, we would not be together.

 Try watching some of the classic movies the black and white ones and check out how the women let the men know that they are interested without being too forward.
Most guys will not make the move unless there is some sign that the girl is interested in them.

 I don't think that the guy should have to make the first move. I think that whom ever love the other first should make the first love. I know that you are probably going to be shy, but just do it.

 When i was younger and in high school, i wished that certain girls would make the first move with me. I was a very shy person, but once i started dating, my inhibitions seemed to disappear. Some guys are shy and need a little knudge to get them going or a little subtle hint that you do in fact you like him.

 Sometimes a guy may be too shy.

 This all depends on the relationship and how each person feels, it could be either boy or girl and it is.

 I actually SIT ON THE FENCE. I don't think it matters WHO makes the first move. You gotta read all the signals and not be too hasty to make ANY moves. Like a game of chess. I think it would be so beautiful if the GUY and GIRL make the move at the same time, then they should hit it off. COMMENTS please

PATRICK

 A guy should make the first move, but if a girl really likes a guy she should go for it. I really liked a guy once and gave him all kinds of hints that I was feeling him. It got me nowhere with him. Maybe I should've just told him how I felt. But anyways, guys should take the lead once they know a female is interested and he feels the same way. It's a turn off to me when a guy plays hard to get or never pursues you. If he never approaches you then he is just not the guy for you.

 Be bold and do your own thing, make the first move, I never regretted making the first move ever!!!!

 Personally, I think the woman can make a move as well. If she is bold enough to come at me then, she might be worth the chase, because that's what its about the chase, who gets caught first and who goes down willingly.

 No problem with a girl making the first move but afterwards, like Joy4ever said, the guy should take the lead (at least most of it) after that. "Back in the day" a girl would be labeled if she made the first move, but I say GO FOR IT! You'll never know until you try.

 No not necessarily.A grl also could make the first move.But if the guy waits for the grl to make a move ,he shid have the patience to wait for ages cos grls dont let out what they have in their heart easily nt even to the person they lik.so it s better if the guys mke the first move

 I think that guys should make the first move. Guys like to think they are in control so let them. Now if hes acting a little different around and not saying anything hes probably shy or scared of rejection so without making the first move just kinda give him a little sign that you are diggin him too.then maybe he will get the hint and see that you like him too and make the first move. Some guys tend to think that girls that make the first move are coming on too strong and agressive. OH HELL IM IN THE WRONG COLUMN I WANTED TO BE ON THE OTHER SIDE. SORRY .

 No, i think sometimes girls should make the first move, but once the relationship starts he should lead. Males need to feel like they are needed. But somethimes they are just insecure and fear rejection so they won't make the first move fearing u will reject them, so go for it!

 You could be waiting a loooong time! Some guys are just too shy, nervous or afraid of rejection to make the first move. WAIT I submitted this wrong! Darn, I'm FOR the girl making the first move. UG! It's only my 2nd time debating.