Home Debates Girls/boys Shouldn't Be Abused In A Relationship.
Girls/boys Shouldn't Be Abused In A Relationship.
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If "Jon Beats Up "Cindy" Who Fault Is It? The Abused Or Abuser?
by Bloodsport Bloodsport
 05 Feb 2008 15:00  
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 This is so true noone has the right to abuse anyone in a relationship or not.
 15 Oct 2008 02:43
by I_luv_bebo I_luv_bebo
 No one should be abuse in a relationship. I f you feel you have to hit you partner that is when its time to leave.
 05 Sep 2008 21:19
by Redeagle Redeagle
 Abuse is bad
 01 Sep 2008 00:52
by Tease1981 Tease1981
 Do not put up with abuse in a dating relationship- leave the jerk, and do not marry him- it will get worse over time
 23 Aug 2008 23:21
by Blondiemom Blondiemom
 I agree no one should be in a violent relationship but sadly the woman who is beat feels worthless and believes no one will ever love them.they beleive the garbage programmed into them by the abuser,the abuser is in love with control,not with there partner.Most cases of domestic violence get worse over time it starts with calling them a bad name then a push then a shove then on down to being beat daily the victim becomes numb emotionally detach to what is going on around them,they themselves learn to cope by walking on eggshells and know when an outburst or violent attack is about to occur.it is a cycle that no one should endure the painful emotional and sometimes physical scars are always there
 03 Aug 2008 02:55
by Woman1982 Woman1982
 I agree, abuse should never be in any relationship, then who is loving who, does he love you for being someone he is in charge of for beating, does she love him for the bruises she has on her arm? NO. That isn't how it works. You probably don't want to leave because they remember all of the good memories that they used to have. USED.
 01 Aug 2008 23:13
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 Abuse is nowhere in the definition of Love or a healthy relationship.
 13 Jun 2008 13:07
by Pencil Pencil
 When someone hits someone else, they make the choice to do so.
 06 Feb 2008 08:14
by Jawyatt Jawyatt
 This is more of a question as opposed to a debate.

I think that most would agree that nobody should be abused in a relationship, no matter if it is they guy abusing the girl or the girl abusing the guy.

When it comes to fault, that is a difficult one as there are many variables that come into play. Is the abusee aware of this in the abuser? Is the abuser aware that they do this? Is it the first time for the couple?
Granted thought that each person is responsible for their own actions so with this statement, it is up to the abuser to control and get the required help needed.
 05 Feb 2008 21:07
by Fdjones Fdjones
 No one should be abused in a relationship, if its that bad you should end the relationship and move on.
 05 Feb 2008 18:56
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 It depends
 05 Feb 2008 15:10
by Godrox7 Godrox7
 Its on us only! Well I agree with this fact too that These kind of activities spoils
 21 Aug 2008 17:57
by Farwa Farwa
 Depends.Men cant hit weman or"girls",and i understand it but it the girl comes up to hi with a threat and tries to kill or hurt him he should be aloud to defend himself and I've seen it were it turns around and the woman say he attack her and she was a "commoner"
 01 Jul 2008 07:55
by Skischoow Skischoow
 Abuse at any age is horrible. I think it's worse for a child due to the limitations they have on the situation. Children see one side of an altercation and process their feelings based on that assumption.
 24 Apr 2008 20:22
by Cmarrero Cmarrero
 No one should experience abuse in any way shape or form... I've been there it sucks
 17 Mar 2008 18:27
by Erinelisha Erinelisha
 Listen its not fun having your lip split or your eye blackend or worse you butt and back with welts and bruses. I know trust me it embarrassing to have to explain, and it makes you feel worthless and weak. No one should feel that or go through that. Its horrible. I wouldnt wish it on no one. If they loved you they wouldnt hurt you, it took me along time to figure that out. And I'm happier for relieving so and getting out of a relationship that was heading for disaster.
 27 Feb 2008 07:28
by Corkyj21 Corkyj21
 Nobody should get hit.
 11 Feb 2008 14:03
by Bloodsport Bloodsport
 Ok This isn't really a debate...if it would've said do you think the guy or girl should be abused in a relationship or if it said do you think its right. But I think it's wrong 100% being abused is horrible I've seen where A guy was dating this girl and would lock her in the house n make her clean the whole house even the walls there couldn't be one dirty spot in the house n she could only take a shower when he said it was ok because he thought if she did that she would have time to cheat and if there was one spot then she got slapped or worse red flag there is there no trust to begin with and no girl should be treated like that even if they are scared to get out of the relationship. Girls yall need to grow some balls and leave him and call the cops if you're being abused and if your ashamed of it to tell anyone swallow your pride and do it because no man has a right to treat any girl like that and same with girls...all though its not as common..girls do it to guys too. I know girls that have the best guy ever and treats him really bad but he won't leave her because he "loves her" No one deserves being abused or treated wrong grow some balls people and swallow your pride and but them in their place rather its you or someone else doing for you!
 10 Feb 2008 18:52
by Bamagirl08 Bamagirl08
 This is an unfortunate situation, and while no one should ever be abused, we must keep in mind that one of the people may have an anger management problem and needs help. The abuser may also be on medication(s) that can cause these types of reactions. The abused, therefore, must get out of the relationship ASAP and seek help, not only for him/herself but for the other person as well.
 05 Feb 2008 18:34
by Jojoblu Jojoblu
 Nobody should be abused in any relationship!
 05 Feb 2008 15:11
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