 This is so true noone has the right
to abuse anyone in a relationship
or not.
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 15 Oct 2008 02:43
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 No one should be abuse in a
relationship. I f you feel you have
to hit you partner that is when its
time to leave.
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 05 Sep 2008 21:19
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 Abuse is bad
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 01 Sep 2008 00:52
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 Do not put up with abuse in a
dating relationship- leave the
jerk, and do not marry him- it
will get worse over time
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 23 Aug 2008 23:21
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 I agree no one should be in a
violent relationship but sadly the
woman who is beat feels worthless
and believes no one will ever love
them.they beleive the garbage
programmed into them by the
abuser,the abuser is in love with
control,not with there partner.Most
cases of domestic violence get
worse over time it starts with
calling them a bad name then a push
then a shove then on down to being
beat daily the victim becomes numb
emotionally detach to what is going
on around them,they themselves
learn to cope by walking on
eggshells and know when an outburst
or violent attack is about to
occur.it is a cycle that no one
should endure the painful emotional
and sometimes physical scars are
always there
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 03 Aug 2008 02:55
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 I agree, abuse should never be in
any relationship, then who is
loving who, does he love you for
being someone he is in charge of
for beating, does she love him for
the bruises she has on her arm? NO.
That isn't how it works. You
probably don't want to leave
because they remember all of the
good memories that they used to
have. USED.
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 01 Aug 2008 23:13
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 Abuse is nowhere in the definition
of Love or a healthy relationship.
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 13 Jun 2008 13:07
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 When someone hits someone else,
they make the choice to do so.
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 06 Feb 2008 08:14
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 This is more of a question as
opposed to a debate.
I think that most would agree that
nobody should be abused in a
relationship, no matter if it is
they guy abusing the girl or the
girl abusing the guy.
When it comes to fault, that is a
difficult one as there are many
variables that come into play. Is
the abusee aware of this in the
abuser? Is the abuser aware that
they do this? Is it the first time
for the couple?
Granted thought that each person is
responsible for their own actions
so with this statement, it is up to
the abuser to control and get the
required help needed.
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 05 Feb 2008 21:07
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 No one should be abused in a
relationship, if its that bad you
should end the relationship and
move on.
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 05 Feb 2008 18:56
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 It depends
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 05 Feb 2008 15:10
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 Its on us only! Well I agree with
this fact too that These kind of
activities spoils
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 21 Aug 2008 17:57
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 Depends.Men cant hit weman
or"girls",and i understand it but
it the girl comes up to hi with a
threat and tries to kill or hurt
him he should be aloud to defend
himself and I've seen it were it
turns around and the woman say he
attack her and she was a "commoner"
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 01 Jul 2008 07:55
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 Abuse at any age is horrible. I
think it's worse for a child due to
the limitations they have on the
situation. Children see one side of
an altercation and process their
feelings based on that assumption.
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 24 Apr 2008 20:22
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 No one should experience abuse in
any way shape or form... I've been
there it sucks
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 17 Mar 2008 18:27
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 Listen its not fun having your lip
split or your eye blackend or worse
you butt and back with welts and
bruses. I know trust me it
embarrassing to have to explain,
and it makes you feel worthless and
weak. No one should feel that or go
through that. Its horrible. I
wouldnt wish it on no one. If they
loved you they wouldnt hurt you, it
took me along time to figure that
out. And I'm happier for relieving
so and getting out of a
relationship that was heading for
disaster.
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 27 Feb 2008 07:28
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 Nobody should get hit.
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 11 Feb 2008 14:03
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 Ok This isn't really a debate...if
it would've said do you think the
guy or girl should be abused in a
relationship or if it said do you
think its right. But I think it's
wrong 100% being abused is horrible
I've seen where A guy was dating
this girl and would lock her in the
house n make her clean the whole
house even the walls there couldn't
be one dirty spot in the house n
she could only take a shower when
he said it was ok because he
thought if she did that she would
have time to cheat and if there was
one spot then she got slapped or
worse red flag there is there no
trust to begin with and no girl
should be treated like that even if
they are scared to get out of the
relationship. Girls yall need to
grow some balls and leave him and
call the cops if you're being
abused and if your ashamed of it to
tell anyone swallow your pride and
do it because no man has a right to
treat any girl like that and same
with girls...all though its not as
common..girls do it to guys too. I
know girls that have the best guy
ever and treats him really bad but
he won't leave her because he
"loves her" No one deserves being
abused or treated wrong grow some
balls people and swallow your pride
and but them in their place rather
its you or someone else doing for
you!
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 10 Feb 2008 18:52
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 This is an unfortunate situation,
and while no one should ever be
abused, we must keep in mind that
one of the people may have an anger
management problem and needs help.
The abuser may also be on
medication(s) that can cause these
types of reactions. The abused,
therefore, must get out of the
relationship ASAP and seek help,
not only for him/herself but for
the other person as well.
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 05 Feb 2008 18:34
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 Nobody should be abused in any
relationship!
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 05 Feb 2008 15:11
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