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I Like A Girl Very Much Who Is 2 Years Older Than Me. I Will Be 16 Next Month, Am I Old Enough To Have Sex? Or Should I Wait?
by Zike Zike
 05 Sep 2007 14:08  
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 Go ahead and do what feels right
 07 Sep 2007 00:46
by Xxhama Xxhama
 Go for it, remember, it is only illegal if you get caught.
 24 Oct 2007 23:21
by Kieva Kieva
 As long as you wear your jimmy hat, go for it.
 21 Mar 2008 08:06
by Guest Guest
 You should do what feels right. You at an age to experiment, and 16 is not that young anymore. But it's not age that matters so much. It's "does it feel right"? Does it feel right to her? It's not up to anybody else but you and her. Don't hurry in to things. Take your time and do what feels right and enjoy. Enjoy life!
 04 Oct 2007 21:50
by Kiwi Kiwi
 If you feel that your emotionally mature to handle any positive or negative consequences then yes.]
but you should protect yourself and be safe your too young to suffer from anything unfortunate to happen like getting her pregnant.i still think that you should develop a relationship emotionally with your partner before having sex period.i don't believe in casual sex especially between the ages of 16 to 18 emotionally there not on a level to handle those situations.
 13 Aug 2008 23:45
by Woman1982 Woman1982
 If you're in love, then do it. That's more than enough reason to commit to something as intiment as sex.
 29 Jun 2008 14:00
by Mortician Mortician
 If your safe, you want to by the sounds of it your not so don't :) if your having to ask on this then you ain't sure really are you Hun :) so just don't rush into it into! Your regret it forever!!!
 01 Apr 2008 21:07
by E2dm2da E2dm2da
 We can listen to all the b s-it about why you should and shouldn't. But lets be honest if your 16 and got a chance with an 18 yr old. Don't blow it. Use protection because no tang is worth losing more than just your virginity. Read up on Kamasutra... Be a porn star in the bedroom and a gentleman on the street.... Don't brag to much to your friends about it. She will tell her friends about it and if you keep quiet about it her friends will see that you are discrete and didn't put it out there and they will look at this as maturity and then her HOT 18yr old friends will also want to have you
 29 Dec 2007 18:52
by Antonio43 Antonio43
 Dude, if you r 16 and got some 18 year old puntang, i give u some props and u should hit that up!! Wear some rubber though ight.
 22 Nov 2007 06:57
by Ekat91 Ekat91
 Yes if u r sure u like her go for it!!!!!!
 18 Oct 2007 01:02
by Heather2 Heather2
 Sex is for marriage. Keep yourself pure for that special one God will bring in your life to be your wife. Anybody can have sex, but not everybody can abstain. I hope you will be one of the special rare ones who stays pure for his bride.
 19 Feb 2008 08:09
by Rev_eb Rev_eb
 It seems like you are judging yourself on your age and not the maturity. You may think because you are a teenager finally you understand, having sex remember can be the biggest step you ever take, be prepare for the aftermath.
 05 Apr 2008 20:40
by Changing2 Changing2
 H***no that is not a proper thing to do.you could get pregnant, raped, and otherwise.so be smart
 18 Dec 2007 22:35
by Puckinelly Puckinelly
 No, I regret having sex at that age. When I got married I hated the fact that I was not able to share that with him. I will not lie it is fun and a great thing, if you are in love, then if you break up it is so much harder to deal with. If you do decide to go ahead with it wear a condom EVERY time. You are to young to have children. Having them at a young age steals your future. It only takes one time.
 28 Nov 2007 06:45
by Jawyatt Jawyatt
 Buddy I'm sorry to say but you NEED to wait she is way older then you
 07 Nov 2008 20:23
by Stephylee Stephylee
 Sex is for marriage. Keep yourself pure for that special one God will bring in your life to be your wife. Anybody can have sex, but not everybody can abstain. I hope you will be one of the special rare ones who stays pure for his bride.
 23 Oct 2008 18:33
by Shuba Shuba
 Take ur time....
 06 Sep 2007 19:01
by Lil_rica Lil_rica
 If you even have to ask this question then no your not ready for it. You should wait until you know for sure your ready.
 05 Sep 2007 15:32
by Jlp2004 Jlp2004
 Ew 16 year old boy thinking about having sex with a 18 year old girl. First of all i think you are too young if you guys are still together when you are 18, go for it.
 05 Oct 2008 07:47
by Wildchic Wildchic
 While many people may throw the Bible at you...I wont...even though I am a pastoral Bible graduate. I don't think your old enough to have the full meaning behind the action of "sex" Many people have sex meaningless...sure you may like her, she may like you...or even the big L word. But you should wait and keep such a thing for marriage...I know many people have not, but on your marriage day you would be happy to know you waited to give yourself to your wife. It
s certainly not popular to say these things today, but trust me it's better.

Ps the Law Side of this could be troublesome for the girl too...
 03 Oct 2008 22:54
by Jacob05 Jacob05
 I think if you have to ask if you should then your not ready. When your ready you will know it and won't need any reassurance from other people. Let it be yours and your partners choice...
 10 Sep 2008 22:26
by Kymm1969 Kymm1969
 Dude I wish i could go back in time and get my v card back. I really think you should wait until you are married trust me.
 29 Aug 2008 21:45
by Redeagle Redeagle
 Sex is for marriage and if she's 18+ then it's illegal.
 20 Jul 2008 23:53
by Jessmw_jmw Jessmw_jmw
 You should wait sex before marriage is wrong and better be safe now.
 16 Jun 2008 09:37
by Lucyscar Lucyscar
 Don't have sex until marriage. I agree with Clouds and Rev_eb.
 03 Jun 2008 18:21
by Rungirlrun Rungirlrun
 I just don't think you are ready, think about what your parents would say then make your decision.
 23 May 2008 21:16
by Gaseater78 Gaseater78
 No! No sex til your married.
Read 1Corinthians 7
 20 May 2008 19:01
by Clouds Clouds
 Too young & sound a bit immature for sex. Just because you like a someone doesn't makes you eligible for sex-you need to love that person. & if you love that girl than first go for marriage & then sex. & if you think you aren't ready for marriage at this very early age than means you should wait till that for sex with her. Till that time know her as much as you can because this will strengthen your relationship with her & focus on your career too till that time as this is your career building age.
 12 May 2008 21:10
by Life Life
 It depends if your partner wants to have sex as well..
 25 Apr 2008 08:02
by Sprkles Sprkles
 I think that if you have to create a debate on whether or not you are ready to have sex is a red flag showing that you're not. Chill out and relax, you have your entire life to lose it. Why rush it?
 09 Apr 2008 22:44
by Pbfan4 Pbfan4
 Exactly my thoughts April545......if you have to ask the question, you are definitely not ready!!!
 12 Feb 2008 20:47
by Mims Mims
 If you have sex with her and she is 18, she is breaking the law and can go to jail. Better just leave it alone and keep her out of trouble.
 30 Jan 2008 18:45
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 I would have to say that you should wait. Basically, in life if you ever have any doubts about a major decision.. Then you aren't ready to make the leap. You have your whole life ahead of you, whats the rush?
 29 Jan 2008 16:33
by Juliamarie Juliamarie
 textNot yet Zike,don't sow yer oats until you get the field ready.And like what several people have said:"If ya gotta ask,ya not ready."Sex,my friend will impact your life in many ways and is the most enjoyable pleasures I PERSONALLY have ever known.So don't ruin it by not being mentally ready,physically ready,emotionally ready and responsible to handle any situation that can come along with your sexual quest.As well as your partners.But if ya,and when ya do decide,THINK,BE SMART,BE CAREFUL AND BE GOOD.
 27 Jan 2008 07:55
by B4mental B4mental
 U must wait man. LISTEN TO LOVELYME
 21 Jan 2008 09:54
by Ajinkya Ajinkya
 Wait till you grow up and become a legally correct at least.
 18 Jan 2008 08:34
by Kingo Kingo
 Dude... If she is worth it. Wait till your legal.
 17 Jan 2008 19:57
by Loveya Loveya
 Do not be dumb man. All we need is another young couple roaming the earth and possibly living on low funds and using govt. Money. Do not mess up your life because you are way to young man. Wait at least until you get much older or get married.
 09 Dec 2007 00:22
by Catfish787 Catfish787
 If you have to ask that question you aren't ready when the time is right you'll know
 08 Dec 2007 06:40
by April545 April545
 What you should be asking yourself is "Am I ready for the responsibility if she gets pregnant." That is one thing you seriously need to think about. If the answer is No, then you definitely are not ready. Don't try to grow up too fast. Enjoy your youth, you will know deep down when you are ready.
 25 Oct 2007 00:27
by Kitana Kitana
 Since you are asking this question,it seems that you are not ready.When you are ready,you will know.If you think you are,however,and she is for it.Have fun & use protection..
 21 Oct 2007 06:36
by Ali52586 Ali52586
 Never mind whether it's morally right or not, you don't say what country you're in, so I don't know if it would be illegal... My suggestion is to wait until you're legal, then do it safely. In the meantime, go and pleasure yourself!
 19 Oct 2007 15:04
by Steveuk82 Steveuk82
 This is just my opinon..but I think it would be better off waiting till you get married to have sex.. Why rush into something that could hurt you in the long run ..keep the promise to God and I'll bet you find the woman who will give it to u.
 02 Oct 2007 23:03
by Shamyrals1 Shamyrals1
 Masturbate instead.
 21 Sep 2007 22:23
by Jonni Jonni
 Ask your parents! Our opinion doesn't matter!

(Personaly I think you shouldn't.)
 12 Sep 2007 14:38
by Moon111 Moon111
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