 I think dating is the best for that
age, its good for kids to start
love at an early age, rather than
have sex at an early age.
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 06 Jan 2008 21:09
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 I think that is ok to date but not
have sex at the age i think it is
better at the age of 16
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 07 Sep 2008 19:31
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 I think it depends on what you mean
by dating. Thirteen year olds need
to start interacting with the
opposite sex and learning about
themselves in the process. I think
group functions and events are
good. I do not ,however ,think
thirteen year olds are ready for a
romantic relationship. Emotional
entanglements are difficult for
anyone of any age and a thirteen
year old just does not have the
maturity to handle it.
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 03 Sep 2008 06:17
by  Guest
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 Yes, we should be allowed to
date.
And who said all dating leads up to
sex?
Or that dating in general leads up
to sex?
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 28 Aug 2008 21:42
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 I think its fine to date but not
let their kids go out and if they
do go out the parents should go
with them...
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 30 Apr 2008 23:37
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 If they really feel like they are
ready, and remember their
relationship won't last that long
at that age.
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 17 Apr 2008 18:15
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 If they are dating for the right
reasons
if they really truly like the
person
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 11 Apr 2008 22:47
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 Yep,yep.
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 13 Feb 2008 15:05
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 Well I'm 13. I have a boyfriend.
And hes really sweet no doubt about
it. I personally dont think it
matters whether kids at a young age
have a boyfriend or girlfriend, as
a matter of fact sometimes its
cute. Anyways back to the subject.
Well my mom does know about my
boyfriend and she does monitor it.
At this age "dating" isn't all
about what adults may think its
about. At this age all we do is,
see each other at school, kiss,
hug, hold hands, go on a date at
the movies everyone in a while, and
usually its with groups. Or as you
can call it a double date. But the
point is at this age its all about
living life to the fullest and
having fun. Its not always about
sex and things like that. If your
an adult and you monitor what your
kids are doing then it should be
OK. Usually the kids that get into
things like that are the kids with
no support. So you should support
your kids with every choice they
make.
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 13 Feb 2008 04:03
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 I think 13 is the time dat we start
lykin eachuva..... And if da kid is
mature enough and is younger than
13 then why not?
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 20 Jan 2008 15:19
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 They should not be allowed to date
nor should they be having sex until
they are like 16
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 07 Jan 2008 09:08
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 I agree with longEric totally. I am
a 13 year old girl and i think that
if you trust your child enough then
it will be fine. The most that i
would ever do is kiss. AT THE MOST!
And some people say that 16 is the
right age because they are mature
enough. Well i also disagree with
that because there are a lot more
16 years old girls that are
pregnant than 13 year olds. And
when I date I'm not trying to seem
older I just wanna get out there
with the guy i like and have a good
time.
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 02 Dec 2007 14:28
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 Alright I'm a twelve year old boy
and i do have a girlfriend. Yes i
do know there are some
complications that come with dating
at a young age and sometimes even
when your an adult stuff can go
wrong. And yes because of dating
some ppl dress to wat they think
the other person likes and they
hope that they can attract them if
they wear the right cloths, but in
actuality they just degrade
themselves. I may be just a kid but
i know what its like to date. Some
of the ppl that are against kids
dating are just to protective. When
you say that our minds and bodies
are not mature enough you are
saying that you like ppl's chest or
there bottoms. And there is more to
this argument then we realize. If
you call it disgusting that kids
hold hands and kiss sometimes then
that's just your opinion and does
not state a fact. Also there does
not need to be parental supervision
to everything us kids do, parents
you have to trust us and hope we
make the right choices. And we are
not growing up to fast we are
trying new things, it also puts
some responsibility in our life
besides school and chorus and
animals. It also makes us have
affection for ppl other then our
family. If your a parent and your
kinda scared to let your little boy
or little girl go and let them see
how it feels to fall in love then
you need to take a step back and
let go because its going to happen
whether you hold on or not. And if
you think we should concentrate on
our education rather then date
some1 and have us take a risk on
getting into high school or even
collage then you really need to
think about whats best in our life
beside school. I also might make
some parents think that i am wrong
in what i say and you might find
some stuff in this that might be my
opinion. And another thing we also
should not be going and sneaking
out to see some1 when our parents
tell us not to. Yes i do respect
adults rights to have control over
what we do I'm just trying to
change your mind and give us a
chance. It does mean something when
we go out at an age like 10 11 or
12 it means we are showing
affection to one and other. I think
its wrong to get some1 pregnant at
such a young age to but that's just
something that happens sometimes.
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 01 Dec 2007 00:29
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 No they shouldn't be allowed they
hv the age of making friends but
not dating.
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 23 Sep 2008 15:40
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 No way!!!!!!!unless shaperoned
,if my daughter asked to go on a
date at 13 I would look at her like
she was crazy
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 12 Sep 2008 22:21
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 13 is too young. At this age they
should concentrate on school work
and building their self confidence
and self-esteem. Dating at this
age leaves nothing to look forward
to.
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 28 Jul 2008 01:16
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 KIDS shouldn't start dating at the
age. BUT it's normal to have
crushes. Kids at the age should be
paying attention to their school
work & having fun & fulfilling
their childhood memories.
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 26 Jul 2008 00:05
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 I have to take a hard line here.
Absolutely NOT !!!!!!
If kids are dating at 13.. They
become way to comfortable with the
opposite sex.. By 15 dating for 2
yrs has made it way to easy to slip
into a sexual relationship if they
haven't already.. And where does it
go from there. You can argue all
you want that some kids can be more
mature than others.. It depends on
their upbringing.. But the truth
is.. And we all know it.. Sex isn't
always something planned... And in
the heat of it.. After making out,,
and making the rounds of the
bases.. We are not always
rational.. Even adults have done
things they did not INTEND to do.
Hell is paved with good intent..
And the Hospitals are full of
pregnant teens who just got carried
away..
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 13 Jun 2008 19:53
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 No your 13 enjoy your years and
fun. They have there whole lives in
front of them. 16 is a good age to
start. Trust me if only i knew now
what i didn't know then. I would
probably be in a lot better place
and my heart would be fresh and
whole. If parents are allowing
this, they shouldn't be parents.
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 10 Jun 2008 18:25
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 13?yes.11?Not really.
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 28 May 2008 06:58
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 I don't believe a 13 year old
should be allowed to date. I am
all for boy/girl friendships, but
keeping it plutonic. A youngster
needs to find out who they are
inside without getting involved or
attached to someone of the opposite
sex.
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 14 Feb 2008 03:47
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 No. The questions says it all.
KIDS.
You can only be as emotionally old
as you are and 13, 14 and sometimes
15 are emotional roller coasters
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 01 Feb 2008 05:10
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 NO, 13 is much too young to start
dating.
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 17 Jan 2008 20:48
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 Thirteen year olds do not have the
maturity level needed to handle
this sort of relationship.
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 09 Jan 2008 23:02
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 I am mixed on this question because
I think that judgement ultimately
comes from the close observation of
the parent and the individual
child. Some kids will be able to
handle childhood friendships better
than others. It's the parents call
because their guidance is what
makes the most difference.
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 28 Dec 2007 18:54
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 I agree I'm a 13 year old girl . I
don't have a boyfriend at the
moment .I've noticed that parents
let boys date a lot younger then
girls . I have a friend whose
parents don't let her date but her
10 year old brother can date
.that's not right yeah all they do
is hold hands but her parents are
allowing him to have a girlfriend
.and my friend is a straight A
student and everything parents
should know its not the gender that
tells whether we might do something
stupid like getting pregnant its
the person themselves
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 23 Dec 2007 08:55
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 Most children under 13 haven't even
hit puberty yet.
They are probably just wanting to
seem older than they really are by
dating.
For the safety of the child, i
think they shouldn't be allowed
until 15 or so... It's the parent's
responsibility
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 02 Dec 2007 06:46
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 No - leave dating to older
teenagers and adults. You only get
one childhood, don't be too hasty
to throw it away, enjoy it while
you can.
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 27 Nov 2007 14:15
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 I think children should be allowed
to date after they are 16 yrs
old.Cuz by this time they will be
mature enough to handle a
relationship.Children under 13 are
too young and immature to date.
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 26 Nov 2007 15:49
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