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Should Kids Under 13 Allowed To Date
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Should Children Under 13 Allowed To Date With Out Sex.
by Cupcake101 Cupcake101
 23 Nov 2007 22:08  
Against
 I think dating is the best for that age, its good for kids to start love at an early age, rather than have sex at an early age.
 06 Jan 2008 21:09
by Moccamolly Moccamolly
 I think that is ok to date but not have sex at the age i think it is better at the age of 16
 07 Sep 2008 19:31
by Princess35 Princess35
 I think it depends on what you mean by dating. Thirteen year olds need to start interacting with the opposite sex and learning about themselves in the process. I think group functions and events are good. I do not ,however ,think thirteen year olds are ready for a romantic relationship. Emotional entanglements are difficult for anyone of any age and a thirteen year old just does not have the maturity to handle it.
 03 Sep 2008 06:17
by Guest Guest
 Yes, we should be allowed to date.
And who said all dating leads up to sex?
Or that dating in general leads up to sex?
 28 Aug 2008 21:42
by Islanders Islanders
 I think its fine to date but not let their kids go out and if they do go out the parents should go with them...
 30 Apr 2008 23:37
by Cpalm08 Cpalm08
 If they really feel like they are ready, and remember their relationship won't last that long at that age.
 17 Apr 2008 18:15
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 If they are dating for the right reasons
if they really truly like the person
 11 Apr 2008 22:47
by Turtlegirl Turtlegirl
 Yep,yep.
 13 Feb 2008 15:05
by Bloodsport Bloodsport
 Well I'm 13. I have a boyfriend. And hes really sweet no doubt about it. I personally dont think it matters whether kids at a young age have a boyfriend or girlfriend, as a matter of fact sometimes its cute. Anyways back to the subject. Well my mom does know about my boyfriend and she does monitor it. At this age "dating" isn't all about what adults may think its about. At this age all we do is, see each other at school, kiss, hug, hold hands, go on a date at the movies everyone in a while, and usually its with groups. Or as you can call it a double date. But the point is at this age its all about living life to the fullest and having fun. Its not always about sex and things like that. If your an adult and you monitor what your kids are doing then it should be OK. Usually the kids that get into things like that are the kids with no support. So you should support your kids with every choice they make.
 13 Feb 2008 04:03
by Trinabbyx3 Trinabbyx3
 I think 13 is the time dat we start lykin eachuva..... And if da kid is mature enough and is younger than 13 then why not?
 20 Jan 2008 15:19
by Lollzzy Lollzzy
 They should not be allowed to date nor should they be having sex until they are like 16
 07 Jan 2008 09:08
by Treehuger_ Treehuger_
 I agree with longEric totally. I am a 13 year old girl and i think that if you trust your child enough then it will be fine. The most that i would ever do is kiss. AT THE MOST! And some people say that 16 is the right age because they are mature enough. Well i also disagree with that because there are a lot more 16 years old girls that are pregnant than 13 year olds. And when I date I'm not trying to seem older I just wanna get out there with the guy i like and have a good time.
 02 Dec 2007 14:28
by Devinsbabe Devinsbabe
 Alright I'm a twelve year old boy and i do have a girlfriend. Yes i do know there are some complications that come with dating at a young age and sometimes even when your an adult stuff can go wrong. And yes because of dating some ppl dress to wat they think the other person likes and they hope that they can attract them if they wear the right cloths, but in actuality they just degrade themselves. I may be just a kid but i know what its like to date. Some of the ppl that are against kids dating are just to protective. When you say that our minds and bodies are not mature enough you are saying that you like ppl's chest or there bottoms. And there is more to this argument then we realize. If you call it disgusting that kids hold hands and kiss sometimes then that's just your opinion and does not state a fact. Also there does not need to be parental supervision to everything us kids do, parents you have to trust us and hope we make the right choices. And we are not growing up to fast we are trying new things, it also puts some responsibility in our life besides school and chorus and animals. It also makes us have affection for ppl other then our family. If your a parent and your kinda scared to let your little boy or little girl go and let them see how it feels to fall in love then you need to take a step back and let go because its going to happen whether you hold on or not. And if you think we should concentrate on our education rather then date some1 and have us take a risk on getting into high school or even collage then you really need to think about whats best in our life beside school. I also might make some parents think that i am wrong in what i say and you might find some stuff in this that might be my opinion. And another thing we also should not be going and sneaking out to see some1 when our parents tell us not to. Yes i do respect adults rights to have control over what we do I'm just trying to change your mind and give us a chance. It does mean something when we go out at an age like 10 11 or 12 it means we are showing affection to one and other. I think its wrong to get some1 pregnant at such a young age to but that's just something that happens sometimes.
 01 Dec 2007 00:29
by Longeric Longeric
 No they shouldn't be allowed they hv the age of making friends but not dating.
 23 Sep 2008 15:40
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 No way!!!!!!!unless shaperoned ,if my daughter asked to go on a date at 13 I would look at her like she was crazy
 12 Sep 2008 22:21
by Woman1982 Woman1982
 13 is too young. At this age they should concentrate on school work and building their self confidence and self-esteem. Dating at this age leaves nothing to look forward to.
 28 Jul 2008 01:16
by Cookster Cookster
 KIDS shouldn't start dating at the age. BUT it's normal to have crushes. Kids at the age should be paying attention to their school work & having fun & fulfilling their childhood memories.
 26 Jul 2008 00:05
by Lilithiris Lilithiris
 I have to take a hard line here. Absolutely NOT !!!!!!
If kids are dating at 13.. They become way to comfortable with the opposite sex.. By 15 dating for 2 yrs has made it way to easy to slip into a sexual relationship if they haven't already.. And where does it go from there. You can argue all you want that some kids can be more mature than others.. It depends on their upbringing.. But the truth is.. And we all know it.. Sex isn't always something planned... And in the heat of it.. After making out,, and making the rounds of the bases.. We are not always rational.. Even adults have done things they did not INTEND to do. Hell is paved with good intent.. And the Hospitals are full of pregnant teens who just got carried away..
 13 Jun 2008 19:53
by Anonymouse Anonymouse
 No your 13 enjoy your years and fun. They have there whole lives in front of them. 16 is a good age to start. Trust me if only i knew now what i didn't know then. I would probably be in a lot better place and my heart would be fresh and whole. If parents are allowing this, they shouldn't be parents.
 10 Jun 2008 18:25
by Carebear79 Carebear79
 13?yes.11?Not really.
 28 May 2008 06:58
by Skischoow Skischoow
 I don't believe a 13 year old should be allowed to date. I am all for boy/girl friendships, but keeping it plutonic. A youngster needs to find out who they are inside without getting involved or attached to someone of the opposite sex.
 14 Feb 2008 03:47
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 No. The questions says it all. KIDS.
You can only be as emotionally old as you are and 13, 14 and sometimes 15 are emotional roller coasters
 01 Feb 2008 05:10
by Live4law Live4law
 NO, 13 is much too young to start dating.
 17 Jan 2008 20:48
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 Thirteen year olds do not have the maturity level needed to handle this sort of relationship.
 09 Jan 2008 23:02
by Paulajo Paulajo
 I am mixed on this question because I think that judgement ultimately comes from the close observation of the parent and the individual child. Some kids will be able to handle childhood friendships better than others. It's the parents call because their guidance is what makes the most difference.
 28 Dec 2007 18:54
by Methodinc Methodinc
 I agree I'm a 13 year old girl . I don't have a boyfriend at the moment .I've noticed that parents let boys date a lot younger then girls . I have a friend whose parents don't let her date but her 10 year old brother can date .that's not right yeah all they do is hold hands but her parents are allowing him to have a girlfriend .and my friend is a straight A student and everything parents should know its not the gender that tells whether we might do something stupid like getting pregnant its the person themselves
 23 Dec 2007 08:55
by Normalgirl Normalgirl
 Most children under 13 haven't even hit puberty yet.

They are probably just wanting to seem older than they really are by dating.

For the safety of the child, i think they shouldn't be allowed until 15 or so... It's the parent's responsibility
 02 Dec 2007 06:46
by Megamaster Megamaster
 No - leave dating to older teenagers and adults. You only get one childhood, don't be too hasty to throw it away, enjoy it while you can.
 27 Nov 2007 14:15
by Harka Harka
 I think children should be allowed to date after they are 16 yrs old.Cuz by this time they will be mature enough to handle a relationship.Children under 13 are too young and immature to date.
 26 Nov 2007 15:49
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