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Should Fourteen Year Olds Be Allowed To Date? Personally I Think They Should!
by Taytay123 Taytay123
 08 Jul 2008 07:36  
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 I think so.. Cause they need experience for the future.. They have to know how to coup with the opposite sex and everything.
Hope this helps =)
 08 Jul 2008 12:40
by Friendly Friendly
 I'm so there! I'm 1 and I'm dating! Lol i don't see the problem
 02 Nov 2008 06:41
by Littile14 Littile14
 Well, I think "dating" is the wrong word. I'm 13 and I have a boy friend. Dating is for grown ups. But 14 year olds should be allowed to have boy friends!
 11 Sep 2008 02:09
by Fluffball Fluffball
 I think 14 year olds should i mean I'm 11 and i have a girlfriend so 14 year olds should date.
 03 Sep 2008 21:38
by Godlykid Godlykid
 14 is a really mature age, so I think that it should be allowed. Anyways I did, and it did me no harm, in fact it made me feel better and more adult being able to handle it.
 02 Sep 2008 13:17
by Fliss93 Fliss93
 I met my ex husband when i was 14 stayed with him 12 years
had 3 beautiful children with him
even though we ain't together now we are still friends
 01 Sep 2008 00:51
by Tease1981 Tease1981
 Of course they can. 14 years of age is old enough to go on a date. Relationships shouldn't be serious they should be fun and helps the individual grow up.
 31 Aug 2008 12:35
by Dilworthe Dilworthe
 Yes!! All kids should have the choice to date if they want to. I know people who r 11 who have boyfriends and girlfriends. There is no person on earth that can tell you who you can and cant date no matter the age.
 30 Jul 2008 21:45
by Saya53 Saya53
 Of course they should. Why not!
 27 Jul 2008 21:51
by Hotty35 Hotty35
 Yes.

BUT with the acceptation that they are ready and are mature enough to know that if things do go to far (Not that they will) that they understand the consequences.
 15 Jul 2008 09:25
by Kimbby11 Kimbby11
 Yes the World out there is SCARY and many young men and women have sex on their minds or worse! We need to believe in our children and the morals and ideals that they were taught when they were younger. This of course does not always work but if you have a smart and responsible child then it should not be an issue! Trust is the real issue! If you tell a child that they cannot date and forbid them from seeing a certain individual, trusr me they will rebel and the situation could end up ten times worse. Instead have faith in their decisions and ideas! Lastly remember to always keep communication open. Do know where your children will be and do not be afraid to check on them. If they are where they are supposed to be it proves their maturity and responsibility. If not then you should definitely start laying down stricter ground rules until they get it!
 09 Jul 2008 02:19
by Phreekshow Phreekshow
 Yea! It doesnt matter .. They are 14 that means high school :) and thats normal ..
 08 Jul 2008 23:05
by Charming Charming
 Wait, I'm not allowed to date? Well then what the hell have I been doing for the past year?
 08 Jul 2008 20:56
by Draaxen Draaxen
 I think if your child is trust worthy and the experience will do them good later in life. Good luck with this.
 08 Jul 2008 20:38
by Adri21 Adri21
 I think so, because that's the year 14 year old's go to high school. That transition from middle school to high school is such a big thing in life, so I think since you get more mature, and wiser that you should have more privlages. But if you arent responsible and mature, then you shouldnt be allowed to.
 08 Jul 2008 17:08
by Winter2007 Winter2007
 I thought they did already. I started dating when I was 13 - with hindsight I would say it was a complete waste of time, I would have been better off staying at home and doing homework, but I wouldn't have appreciated anyone telling me that in those days! If you are saying that parents sometimes don't allow their 14 yr old children to go on dates, well, I think that is fair enough, they are trying to do what they think is best for their child, and they are probably right.
 08 Jul 2008 16:22
by Karmabum Karmabum
 NO ! But they can spend time together in each others homes with parent supervision.
 08 Jul 2008 14:12
by Hisdimple Hisdimple
 Not at all. Children are not ready to date at 14. I think is is good for them to interact at school and church functions, but as for dating, that is a time of aging which leads to selecting a mate for life.
 15 Jul 2008 02:39
by Drrogers Drrogers
 I think that is a little to young to date alone. I think if they want to get together at the parents home are a movie with a group of friends fine but to date one on one i would not let my 14 year old that's just me!
 08 Jul 2008 18:45
by Lilmama1 Lilmama1
 What is the point? Its not like their going to get married?
 08 Jul 2008 11:17
by Aussie_gal Aussie_gal
 No I don't think they should date,
 07 Sep 2008 04:45
by Babimama Babimama
 Nope, as a mother of a 14yr old. I do not believe that she is old enough to date at this point. She can talk on the phone to boys and see them at school or even go meet them at the very local playground. That is about it. I am trusting her to be appropriate on the phone, while at school, and while she is outside playing. So that by the time she is 16 she will have progressed into being allowed to go out alone with a boy... And then that is only after he has passed inspection!
 17 Aug 2008 04:41
by Mrs-smith Mrs-smith
 I don't think they should be out together alone anywhere, and I don't think they should be at each others homes without proper supervision. Too many girls get pregnant by being allowed to do this.
 09 Jul 2008 00:13
by Tiggersmom Tiggersmom
 I wouldn't even call what little kids like that do dating. I dunno, so I guess in my opinion they shouldn't?
 08 Jul 2008 21:43
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