 Yes. Sometimes it helps, but at
last he'll know and then boom! |
 12 Sep 2008 21:15
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If the guy doesn't want his ex back
the female would just have to move
on. If she wants him back that bad
to make up that lie she should just
tell him how she feels. |
06 Sep 2008 16:48
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Yes that is very ridiculous but if
a girl tell you that you shouldn't
suspect she is just making it up
unless she is known for that |
02 May 2008 14:14
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I totally agree. Saying you are
pregnant just to get someone back
is stupid. If they don't love you
enough to want to be with you,
there not worth your time. You
don't have to make up a ridiculous
lie to get them back. |
29 Apr 2008 02:21
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I agree this is a stupid use of a
baby and a even stupider reason to
have one. There are to many
children in the world without both
parents how are you gonna explain
the fact that the father of the
baby didn't want him or her. That
is going to cause emotional
scarring on the child and if you
chose to not tell them the child
will eventually find out and resent
you for lieing or not telling them
the truth about their other parent.
A baby is not a good way to try
and keep someone. The person will
begin to feel trapped as if they
are being forced to stay with you
and that's not a very healthy
relationship for you or the baby
that you are trying to conceive it
only leads to violence and hurt. A
baby should be someone who you and
another person agree to bring into
this world not an excuse to keep
someone around because you don't
want to be alone. You have to
think about the baby and his or her
future and the impact you will put
on them and their life as they
grow. |
20 Apr 2008 08:48
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Yes, it is a stupid ploy.
Especially since you cannot remain
pregnant forever, people begin to
wonder when the baby is gonna show
up. This has led to some bizarre
cases such as the Kansas woman who
murdered a Missouri housewife and
cut the baby from her stomach.
That was not such an isolated event
as everyone thinks... It has
happened several times. It has
also led to several kidnappings. |
16 Apr 2008 09:47
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I agree. |
16 Apr 2008 00:07
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I agree, you must be really
insecure to go to thoses lengths to
keep someone that doesn't want you.
Ever heard of 'love them and let
them go, if they love you they will
return'. If you're in love with
someone and they no longer want
you, it is hard to let them go.
But not everything lasts forever.
It would be a better world if we
were all honest and kind. |
10 Apr 2008 12:46
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I believe so because some pyscho,
ridiculous chick would actually
fake themselves pregnant just to
stay in a relationship with someone
who lost feelings for them which
would make the psycho become crazy
jealous over the fact that the one
she most still love ends up with a
either better-looking girl or
someone that he commits most with |
10 Apr 2008 02:44
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It's ill-advised, like clinging to
an anchor on a sinking ship. |
10 Apr 2008 00:03
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This is the worse type of
deception. Eventually the truth
will come out, and the results will
be terrible. |
09 Apr 2008 23:48
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To me it just doesn't make sense to
use a lie to stay in a
relationship. Eventually he is
going to realize that you're not
pregnant and even if you do get
pregnant to keep him then he's
staying not to be with you but to
be with his child. Its like a pity
date. Why would anyone want to feel
like that? |
09 Apr 2008 21:43
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I agree it's wrong. The idea of
claiming or becoming pregnant for
manipulative purposes is sick and
indicates a sick mind and heart.
Games should not be played around
the conception of life. Period.
It's unconscionable.
At the same time, I understand why
people feel the need to resort to
such manipulative behavior. In
today's society, people often "use"
and "manipulate" each other. It is
"about me" society that we are
creating. When a woman feels used,
or when any person does, it
is unfortunate that the first
reaction is to react in kind.
There is no excuse for either. |
09 Apr 2008 19:45
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Its dumb to say that to anyone just
to make them want to be yours, the
truth always will come out. Then
what? |
08 Jun 2008 22:45
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 It's hard when someone leaves you
and you wonder if they ever
cared... It's hard to stick to
doing what's right when your
emotional state is lying on the
bathroom floor with all the hair
you just chopped off your head to
try and distract yourself with a
"new do"... You burst into tears,
get drunk and in a fit of Jose
Cuervo fueled insanity, you call up
the guy who just left you hanging
by a thread and tell him that you
took a pregnancy test and it was
inconclusive. Does he care enough
to offer to pay for a second one?
If so, maybe you feel better
because you see he wouldn't leave
you to face it alone but if he
hangs up on you... Well Carrie
Underwood sang it best and I'd go
for willful destruction of his
property.
I'm not suggesting you steal a
baby or TRY to get pregnant for any
other reason than you and an
informed party have collectively
decided that you're ready to be the
best parents you can be, but
sometimes when you're ready to kill
yourself and you just want one of
your MANY insane calls returned...
I'm not above using a response
provoking tactic. Just don't take
it too far. Say your goodbyes on
the same breath as letting him know
it was a false alarm and have your
closure. If the relationship didn't
work once, it probably wont
magically work after pregnancy
fake-outs. |
25 Jul 2008 19:46
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