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The Guy Should Make The First Move.
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I Believe The Guy Should Make The First Move Like In The Olden Days. Now-a-days Girls Are Making The First Move. Still Should The Guy?
by Shopqueen Shopqueen
 19 Jun 2008 17:32  
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 It's always better when the male makes the first move in my opinion! X
 11 Sep 2008 02:07
by Fluffball Fluffball
 I dun feel that i should go and ask a guy for a date!
Its better if he asked me :)
I'm for it!
 05 Jul 2008 14:09
by Charming Charming
 Yea i mean if a women came up to me and ask for a date i would feel odd (because a women did it and i didn't)
 01 Jul 2008 08:01
by Skischoow Skischoow
 If you don't let the guy make the first move, everyone else will think of you as a skank.
 29 Jun 2008 02:12
by Guest Guest
 Yes,i do believe that guys should make the first move coz i have seen girls interested in boyz n pretending as if they don't even see them.God!!!!!!!!!what are girls????phew!!.A boy normally comes to know about the true feelings of girls,when he approaches to them.
 24 Jun 2008 09:19
by Rahil008 Rahil008
 Most of the time we do, others are too nervous or afraid of rejection.
 23 Jun 2008 18:37
by Redeagle Redeagle
 I'm more being shy to wait until they do so i guess but you can go give them digits. :D
 19 Jun 2008 21:32
by Imzoe98 Imzoe98
 They should and I believe they usually do. At my school girls won't ask guys out the guys always will, and if people kiss or hug it is the guys move!
 19 Jun 2008 18:43
by Hellopeopl Hellopeopl
 I think that it is better for the girl to make the first move becuase it is the 21st century and no one says that girls cant make the first move
 12 Aug 2008 02:15
by Speedogurl Speedogurl
 It doesn't matter. If you like the guy enough, then go for it. Life is too SHORT there absolutely no time for wondering around.. Enjoy every second of it.
Altho i prefer guys going for it.. But ill go for it if hes taking to long
 09 Aug 2008 06:19
by Lilithiris Lilithiris
 Sometimes girls have to do the first move so the guy would follow after.
 11 Jul 2008 13:40
by Dude123 Dude123
 I believe a girl can have same rights as a guy when comes to whom makes the first move and any move for that matter.

Some guys are too shy to or are unsure of themselves and the female maybe more outgoing. So don't see a problem there at all.
 10 Jul 2008 08:14
by Dpeterson Dpeterson
 Part of me agrees then the other part thinks about all the women that have fought for equality and say you have an equal part of the relationship therefore are just as wanted to make the first move.
 20 Jun 2008 22:34
by Ezmunae Ezmunae
 I think it depends on the situation and where you are at. I really doesn't matter who makes the first move though.
 20 Jun 2008 16:45
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 At my age, my dear, I might say we feel lucky that either one can move at all.
I am a bit old fashioned and i would much be put about to approach a gentleman so directly, but I've seen the fairest among us make it known with the bat of an eyelash and the twinkle of her eyes, and heard neither o the two complain after!
 20 Jun 2008 09:04
by Therefore Therefore
 No it is not necessary that guys should make first move. I one feel what one feels for someone should express their feelings rather than hide them be it girl or boy .It hardly matters who makes the move today girls are equal to boys then why stay behind in this too.
 20 Jun 2008 08:24
by Stuti Stuti
 I think it should just go with the flow and who ever feels froggy, go for it!
 20 Jun 2008 06:25
by Clbraz78 Clbraz78
 If i waited for every man to make a move i`d most probably still be single,i think in this day and age we should take the first move,since we winge about getting the same wages as men and the same respect,why not take the first step.
I think it takes the pressure of the men for a change,if i want something i will go and get it,i`m not going to sit around and wait for it ,only for it to sail past me becaus the guy was to scared to do anything
 20 Jun 2008 05:51
by Ohmigosh Ohmigosh
 I believe that the traditional way is affecting both guys and girls. However, it would be nice if that were not so. I would like to see that mentality change and see both girls and guys feel free to make the first move. On the other hand, some girls can be too aggressive and turn off the guys. The do like to make the first move.
 20 Jun 2008 01:12
by Rev_eb Rev_eb
 I think it doesn't matter who makes the first move and today's world women want equal rights and that is part of their reward and duty.
 19 Jun 2008 22:06
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 No, that isn't necessarily true, who ever is ready to make the first move is going to be the first one. Guys shouldn't be pressure to make the first move just because it is stereotypical for guys to be more pushy to make moves.
 19 Jun 2008 20:46
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