 If everyone is against this theory
than I'm all for it :)
(You've heard the expression if you
cant dazzle them with brilliance,
baffle them with BS? So here
goes)...
The American statesman John Adams
wrote in a letter (1814), 'The
shortest road to men's hearts is
down their throats,' (that's where
this originated By the way)
During this time period Many men
were simply looking for a wife that
would be a good helpmate & Mother &
the fact that she could cook well
was a good indication that she was
up to the takes of nurturing a
family.. In that time many a
marriage was still "arranged" so
if you could not offer romance and
love at first sight.. Then maybe
your best bet was to be able to
please his stomach and work your
way to his heart. - There Must be
something to it though.. I've had
many a flirtation from the affects
of making a man a good meal. Could
even be that it triggers memories
of being nurtured as a child by a
loving mother and a good meal makes
a man feel cared for and he assumes
Love based on his own feelings of
satisfaction.. Obviously True Love
is based on much much more.. BUT,
love starts somewhere.. And A
brilliant meal in a homey
atmosphere can get a man thinking..
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 27 May 2008 18:53
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 OK, so I'm not convinced, but it
sure does help. I have had many men
tell me that my cooking is a big
part of why they love me, but only
because of the love and attention I
give to the food I cook for them. I
know what they enjoy. If I am
cooking for someone I want every
meal I cook them to be their best.
If I am going to take the time to
cook I am going to do it well, with
care and concentration. I don't
play the "throw something together"
game in the kitchen, it has to
taste good and be good for you.
Fresh ingredients, out of my garden
if possible. It has something to
do with the amount of care you put
into it, making them feel at home,
doing something because you know
they will enjoy it, taking pride in
what you do. It's the nuturing
aspect. If that's evident in your
kitchen it's probably pretty
obvious everywhere else in your
life. The way a woman cooks says a
lot about her. There are other
things people do aside from cooking
that can probably tell the same
story, I just happen to be a little
old fashioned.
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 29 May 2008 20:31
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 It is not the whole answer, but it
is a big, huge denominator. My old
man starts worrying about supper
while he is eating breakfast.
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 27 May 2008 19:21
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 Men are dogs and everyone knows a
dog won't bite the hand that feeds
it. Hahaha, just a little joke from
a bitter girl. Anyway, I don't
really know why but I do know SO
many guys that would stick around
always as long as the girl would
keep a pot of delicious food on the
stove.
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 07 Nov 2008 22:05
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 I like this debate. I know there
are many other ways to get into a
man's heart, but food is one of the
most important ways, I guess.
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 24 Aug 2008 23:27
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 Dow here in F.L. More than
likely.Though they might be pickie
on the looks :P
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 01 Jul 2008 08:14
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 Is beer considered food? 'Cause if
it is then that covers 50% of it!
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 05 Jun 2008 10:17
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 Close.... Keep going south!
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 27 May 2008 20:26
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 It is possible that in some cases
it may cause some interest
initially, I think that the ways to
a man's heart varies by the number
of men there are in the world.
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 27 May 2008 18:17
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 While a man loves a good cook, he
really would prefer an intelligent
loving woman, who will respect and
support him and be a help mate.
There is always take-out you know.
Lol
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 11 Sep 2008 17:57
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 Although it is a good way to win a
man, there are several other
ways...
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 08 Sep 2008 06:35
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 Sounds good but there is a little
more that needs to be done for
exceptance. Trust
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 14 Jun 2008 08:14
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 No - as the great Jo Brand says
"the way to a man's heart is
through the hankie pocket with a
bread knife!"
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 28 May 2008 20:08
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 I've been married 31 years and he
still does most of the cooking. If
someone pays the bills better they
should do that.
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 28 May 2008 04:26
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 You can cook for a man but it takes
more to make him love you.
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 28 May 2008 04:03
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 Such a lie
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 28 May 2008 03:18
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 While I have to admit that my
husband LOVES my cooking, it isn't
the only thing that keeps him
"attracted" to me. There is the
fact that we are best friends, and
we have worked together for a very
long time to get what he have
TOGETHER.
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 27 May 2008 22:05
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 I do not agree. I dated a diabetic
and made sure he had his proper
meals as scheduled, etc. And served
it to him. Among other things that
I did to sustain the relationship,
it still was not good enough. Some
things, whatever they are and what
ever you do are still not good
enough for some. So don't bank on
getting to a man's heart through
his stomach.
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 27 May 2008 20:09
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 ALthough good cooking is very nice
and the food taste good, it will
not build a realtionship where the
man will love you. True love is
deeper than that.
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 27 May 2008 18:08
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 It may help but I think there's far
more to a relationship than that!
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 27 May 2008 17:39
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 I hardly think so. But if it were
true, I'd run the other way. It
would have to be a pretty shallow
relationship, and I wouldn't want
to spend all my time cooking for
someone. Besides, there's more to
love than food. It's an old wives'
tale.
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 27 May 2008 17:25
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