Home Debates The Way To A Man's Heart Is Through His Stomach!
The Way To A Man's Heart Is Through His Stomach!
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Some Believe That If You Cook A Man A Meal He Is Yours! Is There More To It Than That? Or Is Food The Answer To Love?
by Phreekshow Phreekshow
 27 May 2008 14:36  
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 If everyone is against this theory than I'm all for it :)
(You've heard the expression if you cant dazzle them with brilliance, baffle them with BS? So here goes)...

The American statesman John Adams wrote in a letter (1814), 'The shortest road to men's hearts is down their throats,' (that's where this originated By the way)

During this time period Many men were simply looking for a wife that would be a good helpmate & Mother & the fact that she could cook well was a good indication that she was up to the takes of nurturing a family.. In that time many a marriage was still "arranged" so if you could not offer romance and love at first sight.. Then maybe your best bet was to be able to please his stomach and work your way to his heart. - There Must be something to it though.. I've had many a flirtation from the affects of making a man a good meal. Could even be that it triggers memories of being nurtured as a child by a loving mother and a good meal makes a man feel cared for and he assumes Love based on his own feelings of satisfaction.. Obviously True Love is based on much much more.. BUT, love starts somewhere.. And A brilliant meal in a homey atmosphere can get a man thinking..
 27 May 2008 18:53
by Anonymouse Anonymouse
 OK, so I'm not convinced, but it sure does help. I have had many men tell me that my cooking is a big part of why they love me, but only because of the love and attention I give to the food I cook for them. I know what they enjoy. If I am cooking for someone I want every meal I cook them to be their best. If I am going to take the time to cook I am going to do it well, with care and concentration. I don't play the "throw something together" game in the kitchen, it has to taste good and be good for you. Fresh ingredients, out of my garden if possible. It has something to do with the amount of care you put into it, making them feel at home, doing something because you know they will enjoy it, taking pride in what you do. It's the nuturing aspect. If that's evident in your kitchen it's probably pretty obvious everywhere else in your life. The way a woman cooks says a lot about her. There are other things people do aside from cooking that can probably tell the same story, I just happen to be a little old fashioned.
 29 May 2008 20:31
by Mamacass Mamacass
 It is not the whole answer, but it is a big, huge denominator. My old man starts worrying about supper while he is eating breakfast.
 27 May 2008 19:21
by Pencil Pencil
 Men are dogs and everyone knows a dog won't bite the hand that feeds it. Hahaha, just a little joke from a bitter girl. Anyway, I don't really know why but I do know SO many guys that would stick around always as long as the girl would keep a pot of delicious food on the stove.
 07 Nov 2008 22:05
by Ladylena Ladylena
 I like this debate. I know there are many other ways to get into a man's heart, but food is one of the most important ways, I guess.
 24 Aug 2008 23:27
by Charming Charming
 Dow here in F.L. More than likely.Though they might be pickie on the looks :P
 01 Jul 2008 08:14
by Skischoow Skischoow
 Is beer considered food? 'Cause if it is then that covers 50% of it!
 05 Jun 2008 10:17
by Thisismyac Thisismyac
 Close.... Keep going south!
 27 May 2008 20:26
by Kmo Kmo
 It is possible that in some cases it may cause some interest initially, I think that the ways to a man's heart varies by the number of men there are in the world.
 27 May 2008 18:17
by Graghost Graghost
 While a man loves a good cook, he really would prefer an intelligent loving woman, who will respect and support him and be a help mate. There is always take-out you know. Lol
 11 Sep 2008 17:57
by Blondiemom Blondiemom
 Although it is a good way to win a man, there are several other ways...
 08 Sep 2008 06:35
by Kymm1969 Kymm1969
 Sounds good but there is a little more that needs to be done for exceptance. Trust
 14 Jun 2008 08:14
by Zexion Zexion
 No - as the great Jo Brand says "the way to a man's heart is through the hankie pocket with a bread knife!"
 28 May 2008 20:08
by Harka Harka
 I've been married 31 years and he still does most of the cooking. If someone pays the bills better they should do that.
 28 May 2008 04:26
by Peace Peace
 You can cook for a man but it takes more to make him love you.
 28 May 2008 04:03
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 Such a lie
 28 May 2008 03:18
by Ianfernape Ianfernape
 While I have to admit that my husband LOVES my cooking, it isn't the only thing that keeps him "attracted" to me. There is the fact that we are best friends, and we have worked together for a very long time to get what he have TOGETHER.
 27 May 2008 22:05
by Tiggersmom Tiggersmom
 I do not agree. I dated a diabetic and made sure he had his proper meals as scheduled, etc. And served it to him. Among other things that I did to sustain the relationship, it still was not good enough. Some things, whatever they are and what ever you do are still not good enough for some. So don't bank on getting to a man's heart through his stomach.
 27 May 2008 20:09
by Alva Alva
 ALthough good cooking is very nice and the food taste good, it will not build a realtionship where the man will love you. True love is deeper than that.
 27 May 2008 18:08
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 It may help but I think there's far more to a relationship than that!
 27 May 2008 17:39
by Rusty08 Rusty08
 I hardly think so. But if it were true, I'd run the other way. It would have to be a pretty shallow relationship, and I wouldn't want to spend all my time cooking for someone. Besides, there's more to love than food. It's an old wives' tale.
 27 May 2008 17:25
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