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 This is a proven fact of knowledge
to any person who is brought up in
the open world. Most person are
either left out or over smoothered,
to which they end up looking to
other place which are not good
places such as drugs, etc, and then
lead to trouble. The person who is
over receiving all the affection
will never feel what it is like to
see what unwanted ness is or learn
from a mistake. They could crash
the car and it would be okay.
Instead of finding out that ya, you
are the one responsible to get it
fixed and feel for you mistake.
This person will only be a follower
and will never know who they really
are. They are a person to and do
have to find themselves but when
they are so sheltered they will
never find themselves! BACK OFF
WITH OVER LOVE TO ALL! No matter
how old you are a kid or a adult
you will never stop learning about
who you are or can be. |
 16 Feb 2008 04:30
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True too much with some personality
types is too overbearing. Not with
me though, I love it. |
14 Oct 2008 23:02
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Yes i do agree with you, there
should always be some limit. |
14 Sep 2008 12:54
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Smothering people with too much
affection is as bad as No affection
at all. I think it is important to
love the ones you love but allow
them space. You can also use
communication in place of physical
affection. They should always know
you are available when they Need a
hug or some loving.. Or even kind
words. Kids can be like cats..
They want affection On their
terms.. |
23 Jun 2008 19:54
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Yeah , I am a hugger, my man is
not. I really get on peoples nerves
who are uncomfortable with
affection. Have been known to sweep
people off their feet, and this is
not always a good thing.LOL |
20 Jun 2008 15:50
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Yes i agree with you. Too much of
affection to children means they
become adamant.
But wife is an exception over here
loll |
31 May 2008 08:36
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Giving too much affection to
children can sometime makes them
too lazy & incompetent. So it is
necessary that kids should be
brought up in mild
rough'n'tough(not violent)
environment so that they can be
competent enough to face challenges
in their lives. |
12 May 2008 23:59
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You show love & Affection to your
loved ones only. This is not at all
a issue |
24 Apr 2008 15:15
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 I'm a bit confused by your
statement..."giving them too much
liberty can have a negative impact"
.... Are you referring to the
"control" of both your wife and
your kids?
I believe that giving children and
young teens too much freedom could
lead to issues that would have been
avoided if the parents provided the
necessary discipline and guidance
in the first place.
However, I have never believed that
a parent could love too much his or
her child. Being an affectionate
parent is an important part of
producing an emotionally healthy
and stable family.
"Pampering" on the other hand can
spoil children into becoming over
dependant people who expect
everything to be handed to them.
I would never consider "limiting"
your spouses freedom... "that
would be too lengthy to get into". |
30 Jan 2008 14:21
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I was married to someone that
rejected my affection. I divorced
her. I married a woman that
receives every kiss and hug I have
to offer. That's not being WHIPPED.
That's love. BTW I get it back. |
08 Oct 2008 06:34
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I think personally you can never
get enough love! Yay love! X |
11 Sep 2008 02:03
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Family members or wife are there to
show love and affection, there is
nothing like too much when it comes
to showing love towards them |
10 Sep 2008 07:19
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No i think the more love the
better! |
15 May 2008 18:52
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This looks silly, we give affection
to only our loved ones, but not to
other. I am right. |
02 May 2008 06:38
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All individuals require positive
affection/attention.its human
nature- unless you live secluded in
a cave. |
07 Apr 2008 17:10
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NO i disagree with your statement
because in this world there is
always someone who really deserve
it. |
03 Mar 2008 17:52
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If the other partner (wife) is very
understanding and not taking
advantage of your affection, it is
good.
With regards to children there
should be some limit |
04 Feb 2008 12:42
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I don't really understand your
question... Your duty to wife and
children is to support, nurture and
guide and direct. |
01 Feb 2008 02:41
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Love should not be limited. I can
agree that "liberty" for children
should be monitored for their
safety. Do not talk about limiting
your wife's liberty though - she is
your equal whether you like the
idea or not. |
31 Jan 2008 17:42
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You can never love or show love to
someone else too much. It will
always be a positive effect on all
involved |
30 Jan 2008 18:40
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Giving anyone, more specifically a
child too much liberty is not
healthy, neither is it scriptural.
Children, beginning at birth should
have or be given boundaries and
taught limitations. If not they
will be produced or the extreme,
reprobate. We, should at all times
be governed by rules and
regulations. This is the reason why
there are civil and spiritual laws
set up. If there were not such,
this world would be chaotic or out
of order as it was before the
beginning of creation (Gen. 1)...
Let alone our homes,
workplaces...will follow suit.
HOWEVER, there should never be a
limit on loving a child/person. |
30 Jan 2008 18:16
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No.not at all.i give my family
love.and when i give them too much
space they think something is
wrong.that has a negative
impact,you shouldn't limit your
love.i am a little confused to your
statement.but if you give your
children too much freedom,that
could spiral downward into bad
behavior. |
30 Jan 2008 17:56
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Children are not always irrational
snots with nonsense opinions. They
value their opinions, and when you
don't, they will only grow more
distant and hurt. They will less
respect other's opinions. Liberty
with understanding and firm limits.
I won't even get into limiting
spouses. Insane and inane. |
30 Jan 2008 16:35
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I believe giving your wife and
child liberty would make them
understand and love you just the
way you love them. They would be
free to tell you all their
problems, which is one of the
things parents want their children
to always do. |
30 Jan 2008 15:25
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No I have a fiance but soon to be
wife. I love her more than anyone
could love another person. I have
asked her if she needs more space,
the only thing I got from her is
"why are you acting weird?" But
then again they might think you
love them so much that you would
give them everything referring to
the word "WHIPPED" |
30 Jan 2008 14:16
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