 He may love you but may also be
cheating on you. |
 10 Sep 2008 03:30
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First off you should find out if it
was indeed true because she could
be lying to make trouble for the
two of you if it is true there's a
red flag if the ex told him to stop
calling her but he called a couple
times anyway????obviously he is
holding on to something in the past
very few people will keep close to
and ex especially if there suppose
to be madly in love with the one
there with now then why call the
ex,the only explanation on his
defense was he called her and
wanted to relate the good stuff
going on between the two of you,but
that would only be if they broke up
as good friends but if there good
friends why would she tell him to
stop calling and then emphasise
that she had someone in her
life,something a bit strange
here,he may love you but he should
have told you he was planning to
meet up to catch up as friends with
his ex |
09 Sep 2008 00:54
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Seems as if you and your man need
to get an understanding. Why did he
lie? Do you have the personality
that you would jump over him for
phoning and ex friend who has a
man? You have to make a decision
as to whether you can trust this
man right now. Perhaps you should
have known a bit more about him
before starting a family with him.
Women can get ticky when pregnant
and our bodies are going through
changes, but once your child is
here, how will you react to news
someone reveal to you about your
baby's father? Love is great, but
I have learned to love, but keep
myself in a position that if it
does not work, I can come back. Too
many people break up and become
totally different people and the
thing is, they are only hurting
themselves. The mate is usually
going on with his life. Just be
careful how you react to news about
your husband, keep a cool head, and
remember your baby is now the needy
one. I wish you well |
09 Sep 2008 01:30
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 Well just because he is cheating
doesn't necessarily mean that he
doesn't love you any more. I think
that he is trying to get the best
out of you and his ex. But since he
won't admit to doing anything wrong
if he is doing something wrong, I
suggest that you call his ex
sometime when he isn't around and
ask her what's going on. She is
most likely the only person that
will tell you if something is going
on. |
09 Sep 2008 19:15
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I think he still loves you maybe he
is just a little freaked about the
pregnancy but that is still no
excuse to cheat or call an Ex. I
think you should confront him on
this issue and ask him why he did
it and explain ti him how it has
made you feel. If for some reason
this is not what he wants its
better to find out now then after
you get married.Maybe you can
mention to him about going to
couples counseling to work through
any issues you may have before
making any big decisions. I hope
that all goes well for you and
remember to take care of yourself
and try not to get stressed because
you have the baby to worry about. |
09 Sep 2008 02:34
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He probably still loves
you...cheating does not mean he
doesn't love you anymore....but he
does seem inclined to cheat since
he called his ex not the other way
around and he lied about it....the
reason he gives for not telling the
truth doesn't matter because the
fact remains that he lied...it
still doesn't mean he doesn't love
and want you...he just needs to be
controlled a little bit more... |
09 Sep 2008 00:32
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Ummm, I'm on the against side, but
I'm not really sure what I'm
against. Anyway, I feel like maybe
he was hit with a wave of
nostalgia. It happens. And he is
young, he's about to be apart of
bringing a child into the world. He
probably was just thinking and his
ex happened to come to mind. I
would wait it out to see what
happens. He knows she is with
someone else so it's not like he
can get anything from her. Just
pray and let God handle it and show
you the way. |
08 Sep 2008 23:58
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First of all, who told you that he
called his ex? Can you trust that
person to tell you the truth or is
it something that person just
thinks might have happened?
I wouldn't go jumping to any
conclusions on hearsay.
If your boyfriend tells you
straight from his mouth, then
believe it. Otherwise, you can't
know for sure. |
08 Sep 2008 23:28
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He may love you. However, does he
respect you? I think it is OK to
talk to ex's they are people to.
However, what was his motive behind
it? Was he honest with you about
it? Why did he call he again? Does
he love you or are you trying to
convince yourself of this? The
question of, "is he cheating?"
Perhaps. Perhaps not. You need to
know the reason behind the wanted
meeting. Was it a bragging thing of
look at me and you cant have me or
was it a hey girl lets get
together. Trust is key to any
relationship and with out it your
foundation is broken and with all
broken foundations things crumbles. |
13 Sep 2008 10:13
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I think if he's cheating then she
wouldn't be so adamant about him
not contacting her.. I don't think
you need to worry...think
positive... You do not need stress
right now... |
09 Sep 2008 01:29
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Maybe he is just wanting to check
on an old friend, hopefully that is
all. Keep praying and have him sit
down for a long chat |
09 Sep 2008 00:39
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