 Most of my family is also my
friends.My friends are so close
they are considered family too..I
have people that Im not
blood-related too,that I consider
family more-so than some of the
blood-related.I will put my family
first as they are also my friends
:)
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 21 Oct 2007 06:40
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 YES friends are much important to
our life. Because one can give u
tears, laughs etc, but only a
friend can give "LAUGHING TEARS",
"CRYING SMILES". I doesnt say that
family is not important. We can
live without family but, not
without friends.
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 27 Aug 2007 16:30
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 From a teenagers point of view.
Friends are more important than
family. When I was a teenager, I
always thought my family would
always be there no matter what, so
I wanted to go with my friends.
Until when I turned 20 and I lost
my daddy. BUT, teenagers will
always think their friends are more
important. Do you remember ever
getting upset because you couldn't
do something with you friends
because something was going on with
you family? Same concept.
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 08 Aug 2007 03:50
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 Look as a teen parents always busy
telling us what not to do and all
dat trash and we been wit them for
thirteen years so why can't we hang
out with people who are our age not
a bazillion years old
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 21 Sep 2008 09:45
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 I say both
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 12 Jun 2008 06:23
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 I'm half and half i think friends
are supper important but family is
forever ok they both got ur back so
yesh it be hard to chose between my
friend and my family
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 28 Feb 2008 05:08
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 It depends on their background. But
me myself think that friends are
more important..a friend can be
your family too..somehow there's
some situations where u cant share
to your family and from my
experience i can express myself
more freely to my friends rather
than my family =]
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 10 Jan 2008 15:46
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 I think so friends are more
important than family because
friends are the one who hold you up
when fall.You can a lot of things
with them which you can't have with
a family.
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 02 Jan 2008 14:24
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 They are always there. There is a
lot that u discus with friends than
with parents. Trust me i know what
im talking abt
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 13 Oct 2007 16:05
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 I wish I didn't agree, but I do.
I've gotten more support from
friends than I ever have from my
family. I have had some wonderful
friends, true friends who would do
just about anything for me.
Unfortunately, my family (except
for my sister) hasn't been there
for me when I needed them. It's
only been recently that my sister
and I have developed a close
relationship. We've become
friends.
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 04 Oct 2007 18:59
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 If you ever heard that term blood
is thicker than water, it is
generally true. Family is usually
and mostly important, more than
friends. Although there are
exception, such as an abusive
family and the friends that help
you escape from that dark reality,
those are true important friends.
In the end, family is usually more
important.
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 16 Sep 2007 03:34
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 I love my parents,I do,but growing
up,my dad didn't know what to do
with me(i was the only girl) my mom
wasn't around,and I can tell you
how many times my step-mother has
said I LOVE YOU,to me.FOUR TIMES!So
in my case,yes friends are more
important, because in the past year
and a half,they have shown me more
love than my parents have in the
full 15 years I've been alive.I am
not over dramatizing it,I promise,
up until last year,I really didn't
believe love exist.
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 01 Sep 2007 03:53
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 I once heard a quote that said,
"Friends are the family you
choose". I agree. You can make
sure the people in your life
support and really care for you.
WHo needs a dysfunctional family
member hanging around, putting you
down all the time. Just because
they are family does not mean they
neee to be a part of your life.
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 25 Aug 2007 09:53
by  Guest
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 I think friends are more important
than family. Then agian teenager
speaking here. But i think that a
friend is less likely to hurt you
than a family member or take
advantage of you. I get in way
move fights with my family than i
do with my best friend. We've been
friends since 6th grade and she
knows more about me than my family
does. She's like my soul sister
and by saying that i'm not saying
that my birth sister is not but my
friend gets me more.
Although at the same time if i had
to save one of them i'm not sure
which it would be.
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 16 Aug 2007 18:16
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 My friends became my family. My
natural family tends not to
remember I exist to be frank. Are
they important to me? Yes they are
still of importance, but we have no
common ground.
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 16 Aug 2007 05:19
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 Friends are more important to me
because you can actually talk to
them and if they are a true friend
they will not judge you or
ground/yell at you.
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 13 Aug 2007 21:22
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 I'm not sure which side of the
debate I'm supposed to post this
on, but I'll post here and see if
that works for everyone. :)
At 28, I have discovered that my
friends are often part of what I
call my family. We are not
related, but it doesn't change the
fact that I care for them very
deeply. Friends for me are often
like extra siblings.
Also, the observation you've made
about teenagers differing in their
behavior, depending on who might be
around, seems like a matter of
stage of growth. When we are
younger, we are in a period of
personal growth that focuses a lot
on discovering who we are and we
uncover those things by venturing
out in to the world and interacting
with people outside of our
families. After all, family has
been with us our entire life and
has helped to shape what we hope to
further develop! :) The
development of "self" at that time
in a person's life is definitely a
priority, so I can understand why
it might seems like a teenager
appreciates the value of
friendships more than family for
this reason. I don't necessarily
think that they "replace" family in
the list of priorities per se, but
friendships may be the focus
because of the teenager's stage of
growth.
Yikes... Does that even make sense?
I hope so!
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 07 Aug 2007 19:59
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 Family! Who will really lend you
money when you need it most!
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 07 Aug 2007 20:51
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 Even though you can pick your nose,
and your friends , but not your
family, Blood is thicker than
water!
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 03 Apr 2008 11:57
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 No WAy, family is more important
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 10 Nov 2008 18:37
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 I think Family is more important
than friends. Don't get me wrong,
but family will always be there. I
know it sounds very cheesy but its
true... How many people grow up and
live next to there best friend, and
see them everyday? And heck...
You probably wont have the same
best friend in elementary to middle
school to High School to College.
Family will be there forever... And
they are some one who you don't
have to impress... Or worry if they
are mad at you, or like you... THEY
LOVE YOU!!
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 08 Oct 2008 02:15
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 Family can be family and
friends,but the reverse is not
tenable.So family is more important
than friends.That is my opinion.
And the debate is: What Is More
Important? Family Or Friends?
I think there is no 'For' and
'Against'.So you can change your
debate like this:Is Friends More
Important Than Family?
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 07 Aug 2007 15:32
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 Loyal friends are important.
However friends often come and go
throughout life. One thing remains
constant your family is your family
for life. Whether you live in
different countries and do not see
each other often or you live in the
same house. Your family loves you
unconditionally and you share a
bond which lasts a lifetime. Think
about it family members would often
sacrifice their life for that of
their family in an emergency
without thinking. How many friends
would do the same? If you are lucky
enough to find friends who really
care about you then they often
become ''family''.
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 21 Sep 2008 03:35
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 Family lies ahead!! So our first
priority should be our parents and
our small happy family tree
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 17 Sep 2008 11:59
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 Who told you that lie? Family is
always more import than your
friends.
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 05 Sep 2008 21:08
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 Family is definitely more important
that friends. No matter how close
you are with friends they will
never be there with you all your
way.
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 02 Sep 2008 20:47
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 I disagree friends no matter how
close tend to fade in and out of
the background where family SHOULD
always be there,there for i feel
there more important
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 03 Aug 2008 03:20
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 NO WAY.In between of a crisis who
will help you out? Or who will
stick by you when your through a
crisis?Plz friends can be the 2nd
most important thing but not
first!!!!!!!
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 18 Jun 2008 14:56
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 Family is more important but I
cherish my friends.
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 16 Jun 2008 08:40
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 Wait until you've made a real bad
mess of things (more than once in
my case) and although you'll
certainly find out who your real
friends are, you'll realise that
your family were there anyway!!
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 13 Jun 2008 15:55
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 Nope, i think Family is more
important than friends because
family stay forever with you and
supports you in your tough times,
even friends also do but we can't
say this about every friend and
moreover it is very hard to know
whether a person is your true
friend or not.
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 08 Jun 2008 21:27
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 It is your family when you just
have a bad day that totally
understands. When you completely
mess up everything they are the
ones there saying, it could have
been worse, you did a good
job...lol...so true. So family is
more important then friends unless
your family is emotionally or
physically abusive then get away.
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 31 May 2008 23:27
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 Family always comes first.
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 30 May 2008 00:14
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 I will start by saying:
"doesn't matters how much others'
have given you support & love but
if you count your mother's love,
SHE will UNDOUBETEDLY, score top
for that unmatchable 9 month
support & love she gave you in
herself".
Family is the one who supports us
enough so that we can earn for
ourselves. Ok! Friends are
important but then friendships
dissolves over some issues or when
one friend leaves that city even
then contact between friends
loosens up a little bit.
But in case of family a spindle day
out from home brings them
load'n'lots of worries.
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 20 May 2008 13:15
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 Family is more important, just
think for a while who fed you when
you was born, you even didn't know
how to eat, you couldn't change
your clothes, you couldn't keep
yourself clean? When you cry in
night who spoiled their sleeps?
Who? It was your family not
friends.
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 09 May 2008 09:02
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 Don't get me wrong, I think friends
are very important in a person's
life, but family is the most
important thing. There's an old
saying "You can pick your nose, you
can pick your friends, but you
can't pick your family's noses"
(this is just one version of the
saying). Family is there for you
forever. You gain and lose
friends, but your family is there
for you from the time you're born
to the time you die. 'blood is
thicker than water'.
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 07 May 2008 22:19
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 Ah. It's hard for me, because my
friends have had such an impact
that they're like family to me. Ah,
they need an in between for this
one. Because when things get hard
with the family, I talk it out with
my friends. But without my family,
I'd be nothing.
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 01 May 2008 01:51
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 I have to say blood is thicker than
water. Friends come and go and
family will be there when no one
else is! Friends are important
don't get me wrong but in the end
family is family!
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 29 Apr 2008 22:34
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 I don't think friends are more
important than family because
family is the one who has given us
birth and they are the one who
prepares us how to tackle this
world so they send us to school
from where are friends meet but
parents plan a more better role
than friends.
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 05 Mar 2008 15:09
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 Friends are sometimes for a season
and for a reason Family is for a
life time. Blood never becomes
water. After God, Family is most
important. Then Friends. Even
though some friends can become like
family, they are never family.
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 19 Feb 2008 08:15
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 Well as a teenager myself
its hard to decide during certain
events
sometimes i will hate my parents
and the only thing i want to do is
be with my friends.. But i cant
always tell my friends the same
things i can talk to my parents
about and family.
So i realize that Family Comes
First ! :-D
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 07 Feb 2008 14:20
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 Friends may come and go, but family
will always be tied to you. In my
case, family will always be
there...to pick you up, to rescue
you, to help you, to support you.
Family is most important to me.
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 07 Feb 2008 06:01
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 Family will stick by you no matter
what, no matter how horrible your
family predicment could be there is
always some love even when not
shown
friends will come and go and will
just make tiny affects on you as a
person but your family will depict
exactly what type of person you are
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 07 Feb 2008 02:53
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 Family is our first friends^^ and
the outside are the second ones ^^
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 23 Jan 2008 06:50
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 NO WAY! Family is WAY important. I
love them to death, as I do with my
friends, but they were there first,
loved you first, knew you first,
and will Always be there. Sometimes
you will not stick with some
friends but with family they will
never go.
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 21 Jan 2008 16:10
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 Nothing can take place of a family.
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 14 Jan 2008 06:20
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 No matter what you family is family
friends come and go family is
forever
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 29 Dec 2007 06:27
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 No.who has been their for u?family
and friends,but family is more than
friends o matter what
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 15 Dec 2007 16:36
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 Though friends are very dear to us
but family is family.As there is a
well known saying " charity begins
at home" so my family comes
first.It doesn't means friends are
not important, my friends are also
very dear to me but my family is
always my first priority
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 20 Nov 2007 11:57
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 I think family is most important
than friends they will always be
the one to stand by you and love
you no matter what you have done
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 14 Nov 2007 21:23
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 Family is the most important thing
next to religion. I'm 15 and before
anything God comes first then
family. Sometimes my family may
take in some of my friends in which
my friends become family, other
than that I love my family and put
them first.
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 28 Oct 2007 18:42
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 No family is more important then
friends .friends comes a dime a
dozen ...dont get me wrong my
friends are important to me but my
family is more important than any
thing.
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 14 Oct 2007 17:53
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