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Friends Are More Important Than Family.
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As I Was Observing My Surroundings, I Realize Teenagers Differ Moods Depending Who Are They With. I'm Confused Which Do They Prioritize, Their Family Or Their Friends?
by Jeremy0517 Jeremy0517
 06 Aug 2007 14:36  
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 Most of my family is also my friends.My friends are so close they are considered family too..I have people that Im not blood-related too,that I consider family more-so than some of the blood-related.I will put my family first as they are also my friends :)
 21 Oct 2007 06:40
by Ali52586 Ali52586
 YES friends are much important to our life. Because one can give u tears, laughs etc, but only a friend can give "LAUGHING TEARS", "CRYING SMILES". I doesnt say that family is not important. We can live without family but, not without friends.
 27 Aug 2007 16:30
by Sonika Sonika
 From a teenagers point of view. Friends are more important than family. When I was a teenager, I always thought my family would always be there no matter what, so I wanted to go with my friends. Until when I turned 20 and I lost my daddy. BUT, teenagers will always think their friends are more important. Do you remember ever getting upset because you couldn't do something with you friends because something was going on with you family? Same concept.
 08 Aug 2007 03:50
by Jolenew Jolenew
 Look as a teen parents always busy telling us what not to do and all dat trash and we been wit them for thirteen years so why can't we hang out with people who are our age not a bazillion years old
 21 Sep 2008 09:45
by Malcolm_x Malcolm_x
 I say both
 12 Jun 2008 06:23
by Loveyyee Loveyyee
 I'm half and half i think friends are supper important but family is forever ok they both got ur back so yesh it be hard to chose between my friend and my family
 28 Feb 2008 05:08
by Arielgun13 Arielgun13
 It depends on their background. But me myself think that friends are more important..a friend can be your family too..somehow there's some situations where u cant share to your family and from my experience i can express myself more freely to my friends rather than my family =]
 10 Jan 2008 15:46
by Vicky89 Vicky89
 I think so friends are more important than family because friends are the one who hold you up when fall.You can a lot of things with them which you can't have with a family.
 02 Jan 2008 14:24
by Atiya Atiya
 They are always there. There is a lot that u discus with friends than with parents. Trust me i know what im talking abt
 13 Oct 2007 16:05
by Mampoi Mampoi
 I wish I didn't agree, but I do. I've gotten more support from friends than I ever have from my family. I have had some wonderful friends, true friends who would do just about anything for me. Unfortunately, my family (except for my sister) hasn't been there for me when I needed them. It's only been recently that my sister and I have developed a close relationship. We've become friends.
 04 Oct 2007 18:59
by Robbier44 Robbier44
 If you ever heard that term blood is thicker than water, it is generally true. Family is usually and mostly important, more than friends. Although there are exception, such as an abusive family and the friends that help you escape from that dark reality, those are true important friends. In the end, family is usually more important.
 16 Sep 2007 03:34
by Catfish787 Catfish787
 I love my parents,I do,but growing up,my dad didn't know what to do with me(i was the only girl) my mom wasn't around,and I can tell you how many times my step-mother has said I LOVE YOU,to me.FOUR TIMES!So in my case,yes friends are more important, because in the past year and a half,they have shown me more love than my parents have in the full 15 years I've been alive.I am not over dramatizing it,I promise, up until last year,I really didn't believe love exist.
 01 Sep 2007 03:53
by Writer201 Writer201
 I once heard a quote that said, "Friends are the family you choose". I agree. You can make sure the people in your life support and really care for you. WHo needs a dysfunctional family member hanging around, putting you down all the time. Just because they are family does not mean they neee to be a part of your life.
 25 Aug 2007 09:53
by Guest Guest
 I think friends are more important than family. Then agian teenager speaking here. But i think that a friend is less likely to hurt you than a family member or take advantage of you. I get in way move fights with my family than i do with my best friend. We've been friends since 6th grade and she knows more about me than my family does. She's like my soul sister and by saying that i'm not saying that my birth sister is not but my friend gets me more.

Although at the same time if i had to save one of them i'm not sure which it would be.
 16 Aug 2007 18:16
by Pbfan4 Pbfan4
 My friends became my family. My natural family tends not to remember I exist to be frank. Are they important to me? Yes they are still of importance, but we have no common ground.
 16 Aug 2007 05:19
by Littlewren Littlewren
 Friends are more important to me because you can actually talk to them and if they are a true friend they will not judge you or ground/yell at you.
 13 Aug 2007 21:22
by Kittycat15 Kittycat15
 I'm not sure which side of the debate I'm supposed to post this on, but I'll post here and see if that works for everyone. :)

At 28, I have discovered that my friends are often part of what I call my family. We are not related, but it doesn't change the fact that I care for them very deeply. Friends for me are often like extra siblings.

Also, the observation you've made about teenagers differing in their behavior, depending on who might be around, seems like a matter of stage of growth. When we are younger, we are in a period of personal growth that focuses a lot on discovering who we are and we uncover those things by venturing out in to the world and interacting with people outside of our families. After all, family has been with us our entire life and has helped to shape what we hope to further develop! :) The development of "self" at that time in a person's life is definitely a priority, so I can understand why it might seems like a teenager appreciates the value of friendships more than family for this reason. I don't necessarily think that they "replace" family in the list of priorities per se, but friendships may be the focus because of the teenager's stage of growth.

Yikes... Does that even make sense? I hope so!
 07 Aug 2007 19:59
by Compati3 Compati3
 Family! Who will really lend you money when you need it most!
 07 Aug 2007 20:51
by Phreekshow Phreekshow
 Even though you can pick your nose, and your friends , but not your family, Blood is thicker than water!
 03 Apr 2008 11:57
by Pencil Pencil
 No WAy, family is more important
 10 Nov 2008 18:37
by Ohfamily Ohfamily
 I think Family is more important than friends. Don't get me wrong, but family will always be there. I know it sounds very cheesy but its true... How many people grow up and live next to there best friend, and see them everyday? And heck... You probably wont have the same best friend in elementary to middle school to High School to College. Family will be there forever... And they are some one who you don't have to impress... Or worry if they are mad at you, or like you... THEY LOVE YOU!!
 08 Oct 2008 02:15
by Bazooka Bazooka
 Family can be family and friends,but the reverse is not tenable.So family is more important than friends.That is my opinion.

And the debate is: What Is More Important? Family Or Friends?
I think there is no 'For' and 'Against'.So you can change your debate like this:Is Friends More Important Than Family?
 07 Aug 2007 15:32
by Luckyjohn Luckyjohn
 Loyal friends are important. However friends often come and go throughout life. One thing remains constant your family is your family for life. Whether you live in different countries and do not see each other often or you live in the same house. Your family loves you unconditionally and you share a bond which lasts a lifetime. Think about it family members would often sacrifice their life for that of their family in an emergency without thinking. How many friends would do the same? If you are lucky enough to find friends who really care about you then they often become ''family''.
 21 Sep 2008 03:35
by Kiwigirl89 Kiwigirl89
 Family lies ahead!! So our first priority should be our parents and our small happy family tree
 17 Sep 2008 11:59
by Farwa Farwa
 Who told you that lie? Family is always more import than your friends.
 05 Sep 2008 21:08
by Redeagle Redeagle
 Family is definitely more important that friends. No matter how close you are with friends they will never be there with you all your way.
 02 Sep 2008 20:47
by Dilworthe Dilworthe
 I disagree friends no matter how close tend to fade in and out of the background where family SHOULD always be there,there for i feel there more important
 03 Aug 2008 03:20
by Woman1982 Woman1982
 NO WAY.In between of a crisis who will help you out? Or who will stick by you when your through a crisis?Plz friends can be the 2nd most important thing but not first!!!!!!!
 18 Jun 2008 14:56
by Amandat Amandat
 Family is more important but I cherish my friends.
 16 Jun 2008 08:40
by Zexion Zexion
 Wait until you've made a real bad mess of things (more than once in my case) and although you'll certainly find out who your real friends are, you'll realise that your family were there anyway!!
 13 Jun 2008 15:55
by Bri_101 Bri_101
 Nope, i think Family is more important than friends because family stay forever with you and supports you in your tough times, even friends also do but we can't say this about every friend and moreover it is very hard to know whether a person is your true friend or not.
 08 Jun 2008 21:27
by Shefali_s Shefali_s
 It is your family when you just have a bad day that totally understands. When you completely mess up everything they are the ones there saying, it could have been worse, you did a good job...lol...so true. So family is more important then friends unless your family is emotionally or physically abusive then get away.
 31 May 2008 23:27
by Jacob05 Jacob05
 Family always comes first.
 30 May 2008 00:14
by Samiamiam Samiamiam
 I will start by saying:
"doesn't matters how much others' have given you support & love but if you count your mother's love, SHE will UNDOUBETEDLY, score top for that unmatchable 9 month support & love she gave you in herself".
Family is the one who supports us enough so that we can earn for ourselves. Ok! Friends are important but then friendships dissolves over some issues or when one friend leaves that city even then contact between friends loosens up a little bit.
But in case of family a spindle day out from home brings them load'n'lots of worries.
 20 May 2008 13:15
by Life Life
 Family is more important, just think for a while who fed you when you was born, you even didn't know how to eat, you couldn't change your clothes, you couldn't keep yourself clean? When you cry in night who spoiled their sleeps? Who? It was your family not friends.
 09 May 2008 09:02
by Magicca Magicca
 Don't get me wrong, I think friends are very important in a person's life, but family is the most important thing. There's an old saying "You can pick your nose, you can pick your friends, but you can't pick your family's noses" (this is just one version of the saying). Family is there for you forever. You gain and lose friends, but your family is there for you from the time you're born to the time you die. 'blood is thicker than water'.
 07 May 2008 22:19
by Jbluvr24 Jbluvr24
 Ah. It's hard for me, because my friends have had such an impact that they're like family to me. Ah, they need an in between for this one. Because when things get hard with the family, I talk it out with my friends. But without my family, I'd be nothing.
 01 May 2008 01:51
by Fxxkrkio Fxxkrkio
 I have to say blood is thicker than water. Friends come and go and family will be there when no one else is! Friends are important don't get me wrong but in the end family is family!
 29 Apr 2008 22:34
by Lilmama1 Lilmama1
 I don't think friends are more important than family because family is the one who has given us birth and they are the one who prepares us how to tackle this world so they send us to school from where are friends meet but parents plan a more better role than friends.
 05 Mar 2008 15:09
by Gulsweet Gulsweet
 Friends are sometimes for a season and for a reason Family is for a life time. Blood never becomes water. After God, Family is most important. Then Friends. Even though some friends can become like family, they are never family.
 19 Feb 2008 08:15
by Rev_eb Rev_eb
 Well as a teenager myself
its hard to decide during certain events
sometimes i will hate my parents and the only thing i want to do is be with my friends.. But i cant always tell my friends the same things i can talk to my parents about and family.
So i realize that Family Comes First ! :-D
 07 Feb 2008 14:20
by Erhs_finch Erhs_finch
 Friends may come and go, but family will always be tied to you. In my case, family will always be there...to pick you up, to rescue you, to help you, to support you. Family is most important to me.
 07 Feb 2008 06:01
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 Family will stick by you no matter what, no matter how horrible your family predicment could be there is always some love even when not shown
friends will come and go and will just make tiny affects on you as a person but your family will depict exactly what type of person you are
 07 Feb 2008 02:53
by Pink27 Pink27
 Family is our first friends^^ and the outside are the second ones ^^
 23 Jan 2008 06:50
by Die4m3 Die4m3
 NO WAY! Family is WAY important. I love them to death, as I do with my friends, but they were there first, loved you first, knew you first, and will Always be there. Sometimes you will not stick with some friends but with family they will never go.
 21 Jan 2008 16:10
by Im4it Im4it
 Nothing can take place of a family.
 14 Jan 2008 06:20
by Bwtsrl Bwtsrl
 No matter what you family is family friends come and go family is forever
 29 Dec 2007 06:27
by Bmarkl9 Bmarkl9
 No.who has been their for u?family and friends,but family is more than friends o matter what
 15 Dec 2007 16:36
by Fameous Fameous
 Though friends are very dear to us but family is family.As there is a well known saying " charity begins at home" so my family comes first.It doesn't means friends are not important, my friends are also very dear to me but my family is always my first priority
 20 Nov 2007 11:57
by Aishawa Aishawa
 I think family is most important than friends they will always be the one to stand by you and love you no matter what you have done
 14 Nov 2007 21:23
by Aprilw Aprilw
 Family is the most important thing next to religion. I'm 15 and before anything God comes first then family. Sometimes my family may take in some of my friends in which my friends become family, other than that I love my family and put them first.
 28 Oct 2007 18:42
by Sportcrazy Sportcrazy
 No family is more important then friends .friends comes a dime a dozen ...dont get me wrong my friends are important to me but my family is more important than any thing.
 14 Oct 2007 17:53
by Grace33 Grace33
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