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Everybody Should Have The Chance To Be Loved By Someone They Love
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Why Is It That People Still Don't Like Blacks Going With Whites
by Babygirl18 Babygirl18
 05 Mar 2008 18:06  
Against
 Everyone deserves the right to be loved by who ever loves them without the discrimination of race,religion or social status.If we as a human race would quit dividing ourselves into catergorys of races with grudges of someone else's lifetime and accept our own self for who we are not what we are in this so called racial standard.Who's buisness is it anyway?As long as you are loved and are happy.
 07 Mar 2008 10:37
by B4mental B4mental
 I am sorry for this statement I am going to put on, but I also have a black hubby who I have been married to for 32Yrs.
God bless him and our 3 adult children and 2 grand-daughters,
I am over this kind of bull that how people look at you, and yes they still do. Yes it did bother me in the beginning I am not going to lie about that, But look at us know A Strong Family, I say to the others who disagree so what) Its not you're spouse.? If you dont like it, Keep your comments to yourself, and to Babygirl , you follow your Heart. :) :) Also their are always going to be others that our Racist, We cant change that ! On every ethnic group, so really their is no one race to blame.
Love yourself and live life. Yes and Kids can be cruel at times but you teach you're children well, hold their head high and make sure they know both of their ethic backgrounds. Their is NOTHING to be ashamed of .
Ok now to everyone Have a wonderful weekend I just looked at my statement, No I am not sorry for my statement. I was just stating some facts of my own.
 08 Mar 2008 00:29
by Walteria Walteria
 Everyone has the right to love and be loved, no matter is we agree with it or not, its their own life, not ours.
 06 Mar 2008 22:45
by Cabrunet Cabrunet
 I don't think color should make a difference no matter what the circumstances. Theories that the black race is black because of where they originated have been created, and proven. As long as you're with someone you love, it shouldn't matter what your race is.
 06 Mar 2008 22:09
by Hockey4eva Hockey4eva
 Love with your heart, not with your eyes , love has no color boundaries , if you both love each other close your eyes to negativity and love, with all your heart
 06 Mar 2008 20:20
by Pinkrain65 Pinkrain65
 Some people are ignorant or fanatics. White supremacists and neo-Nazis still believe that all races are inferior to theirs. They teach the same thing to their kids. They isolate themselves and their families from the mainstream so the prejudice and hate gets perpetuated from one generation to the next. I'm sure they would agree that everyone should have the chance to be loved as long as they stay within their race.
 06 Mar 2008 05:11
by Robbier44 Robbier44
 Of course I'm for it!
It is not fair that people judge who you love you should decide for yourself. Just like what Pinkrain65 said. I think that it is bad that people decide who you marry or love. It is not their colour that you like them right? It is because of the person itself.:-)
 02 Oct 2008 01:16
by Lazycow Lazycow
 Of course we all do!//no matter what race, color,etc./we all have feelings
 29 Jul 2008 20:36
by Panson Panson
 In a perfect world the people we love would return that love in kind. Unfortunately it doesn't always happen that way. More often than not, one partner in a relationship loves much more than the other partner.
 13 Jul 2008 07:43
by Guest Guest
 I don't like mixed country's much less mixed race. (no offense) but god splitted us apart for a reason ^^
 28 May 2008 07:33
by Skischoow Skischoow
 Yes! But at the right directions at the right time Gods time this way there will be Love and marriage.
 20 May 2008 18:55
by Clouds Clouds
 Sorry to say, there will always be bigots regarding colour , creed , or even social standing. Moreover, these bigots will come also from your own communities. I.e black on black social bigotry. Even in india they have a caste system that breeds bigotry. So , i am afraid its in mans basic genetic makeup to be different. Each will believe he is right in his or her thinking and will not be open to persuasion. Some of it is learned behaviours but i think its a part of humanity which will ebb and flow with time. The trick i think is to accept them for what they are ie, bigots, then get on with living your own life and leading by your example. Remember, its hard to hate someone when they don't engage you. :)
 06 May 2008 20:44
by Padraig Padraig
 Yes, I agree. Unfortunately, it doesn't always work that way :[
 05 Apr 2008 09:31
by Xoxoxoxo Xoxoxoxo
 I definitely for this. I wish that a friend of mine and i would get together. I love him and i know that he would love me, except i don't think that he is gay. Oh well...sigh.
 16 Mar 2008 00:57
by Diaflor Diaflor
 As concerns interracial relationships, I would say yes, we should all have opportunity to be loved by the persons we love --assuming we're talking normal healthy adults who can make a decision as to their love.

That said, I know there are parents who are concerned about the welfare of their older dependent children (teens) because of all of the hatred and insanely ignorant people of the world that seem so hellbent on perpetuating race hatred and intolerance. In those cases, I think parents are obligated to protect their children from that hatred as best they can, working with their young adult children and community to help ensure their teen's well being and the well being of the other person.
 11 Mar 2008 10:15
by Amore01 Amore01
 I am for it 100% because it is just natural to be able to love who you want to love.
 07 Mar 2008 15:46
by Winter2007 Winter2007
 I'm for that 100%
 06 Mar 2008 19:52
by Meeeee Meeeee
 I would have to say that not everyone out there is against it, in fact i think that the majority of our population has accepted it (depending on where you live.) It just seems like more people are against it because the people that are against it tend to show their feelings more than the ones that aren't bothered by it. So just think to yourself that for every one that doesn't accept the idea, there are probably 2-3 that do accept it. Besides, it shouldn't matter what everyone else thinks, only what you think and what makes you happy.
 06 Mar 2008 22:17
by Juliamarie Juliamarie
 If everyone had the chance to be loved, then live would be too easy. Better everybody should have the chance to be used and abused; that's where life's lessons begin.
 26 Mar 2008 15:06
by Guest Guest
 I agree with juliamarie. I am in a 22 year mixed marriage, have a son from that same mixed marriage. The static he was subjected to as he grew up, angered and frustrated me, no end. People should not be seeing a color, but a person.
 07 Mar 2008 21:42
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