 My (former) man: Tender, sexy,
ready ear, smart as a whip,
capable, great smile (you know the
whole thing--eyes smiled also!) and
laughed easily(even at himself!),
clever, ingeniously creative and
fun, passionate, spontaneous,
gentle and very loving,
compassionate, open minded yet sure
of himself/confident, humble, could
do so many different things-- and
seemed good at every single one,
adventurous/willing to try new
things! Saw lots of possibilities
in all situations and people,
sensitive to others, great cook,
loved to travel, had dreams and
goals, friendly, loved music/was a
musician, great dancer, articulate,
spiritual, trustworthy and
trusting, authentic, patient
teacher, his loving and lovemaking
was unmatched, and he was handsome
as all get out! (Although I don't
remember if I thought that the
first time I saw him or not...? I
just can''t remember). He always
smelled so nice--(not cologne). He
would just wash my car sometimes to
make it nice for me, brought me
lillies a lot (my fav). Never
forgot a special day. Good
relationship with his family. His
handholding was the best, great
kisser, turned cuddling into an art
form; I'll never forget it/him.
Oh, and I know maybe this sounds a
little weird--but he had really
beautiful, kind of unusual
handwriting--must have been the
artist in him. I thought it was so
neat/cool. |
 02 Oct 2007 22:38
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Good sense of humour and does his
share of the housework. Bigger and
stronger than me - very useful when
I can't get the top off a jar! |
02 Oct 2007 22:30
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My boyfriend tries. That's the best
thing about him. I won't go into
physical details because to me he
has no physical faults. I think my
problem is that my standards were
set way too high by my ex (but if
you knew him you'd understand
why!). My boyfriend is hypocritical
and a little insensitive (but i
don't blame him there because of
the girls he's dealt with all his
lifetime). He tends to complain a
lot about various things that he
could change himself, things that
he does himself, and things that
just need more time. IE He says
that I don't open up enough. I try
opening up but I'm not like most
people so he kind of doesn't know
how to deal with it so I keep it to
myself. Then again, he doesn't
really open up much to me either,
so it's like, "huh?" That's just
one example. And then he isn't
empathetic to my problems but when
he has problems he expects me to be
100% empathetic. Basically we have
some things to work on.... |
20 Oct 2008 20:43
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Adamantly fair in all aspects. |
18 Sep 2008 00:20
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Well honestly I've been with my bf
for 2 years we just moved in
together now for about 3 months
now
sex is good. He looks okay in
appearance.
The bad side, no personality. |
29 Aug 2008 04:31
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WELL, I'm a girl. I'm not currently
with a guy; I'm with a girl.
{{Bisexuals}}* lolz & What I love
about her is shes super sweet,
really funny, hella sexy
[especially because she doesn't
know it], She knows how to make me
smile, & cry [in a romantic way]. &
I love tt! |
12 Jun 2008 22:00
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My husband is all i could ask for.
He is a wonderful father to our
boys, a hard worker and a great
lover. There is nothing he would
not do for anybody & we've been
together for 16 years- married for
12 of them. Don't get me wrong, he
does get on my nerves once in
awhile but i do the same to him. My
life would not be complete without
him. |
07 Apr 2008 20:25
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They are caring humble! |
04 Jan 2008 11:25
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My hubby is a hard worker he is
very loving and gives me my space
when I need it he is passionate
about our marriage he always tells
me i am beautiful and is kind when
ever possible he tries to go out of
his way to make me happy at times.
I know he still loves me we have
been together for 8 years
for the bad he is a slob he can be
selfish with his tool lol he has a
tendency to use guilt to get his
way about thing little comment. And
he wont stand up for me like if
someone runs their mouth He lets me
handle it he wont say anything he
says it is because he don't want
anyone to be mad and he knows I can
take care of my self |
29 Dec 2007 07:26
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My guy is the best for me!! LOVE
HIM!! |
18 Nov 2007 21:41
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My husband is a good man but he
worries more about himself and his
finiances than he does me. |
24 Oct 2007 00:40
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For good:
My boyfriend lukas will often cheer
me up and everyone else if their
annoyed by our evil teachers.
For Bad:
He often goes about things to far
and ending up showing off too much
which is why some people dont like
him much :(
But i always will! |
23 Oct 2007 09:58
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The good always out weighs the bad
when it comes to my hubby!!! He's
very generous, kind, loyal,
trustworthy, gentle, great sense of
humor and loves me for who I am! I
mean we have our moments where we
aren't exactly getting along, but
we married each other and vowed to
be together through thick and thin.
I can't honestly picture my life or
myself without him!!! |
08 Oct 2007 17:56
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My husband is the great he is
wonderful ,but there are time he is
a pain in the rear. |
06 Oct 2007 18:50
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My husband is caring, kind, good
with our baby, tries hard to fix
his faults, calls me every night he
is away if he can, occasionally
wants to do things with me. |
05 Oct 2007 00:30
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 I forgot to say: Putting coloured
and white clothes in the washer
together so all my underwear comes
out grey! He says "well, who's
going to see it?" :) |
05 Oct 2007 18:05
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Can't admit when he's wrong and
never apologises. Tries to make me
get up in the night to investigate
if we think we've got burglars! |
02 Oct 2007 22:29
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This should be a question |
14 Sep 2008 22:49
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He is a neandrathol.. But Thats
good in a man. He is honest to a
fault has an impeccable work ethic
that means he gives more than he
ever gets.. He will move heaven and
earth for his family & friends &
sometimes for worthy strangers.
His flaw is that He is so
emotionally tied to those he loves
that when they are in pain or
trouble he gets frustrated not
being able to fix it and it comes
out as angry.. But I can't really
cite that as a fault. |
23 Jun 2008 20:16
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My man gets angry at anything small
and am the one who does the
apologizing most of the time he
claims he loves me but he is a
total pain sometimes |
10 Jun 2008 14:47
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My man is controlling, verbally
abusive, he is the poster boy for
stress, has a vicious amouth,
fights below the belt, and disses
my dead mother and everyone else
who ever knew me. He acts like he
is a king and i am the serf. Has
lousy manners, etc... But he will
warm up the car and shovel the
driveway for me, give me money when
I need it. He helps my family, and
I know that he loves me. |
27 Mar 2008 23:02
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My other half... Don't know why I
got back with him. To begin with he
was really possessive. Didn't like
me talking to other males. Now he
doesn't want me to follow my dream
career because it means I will be
moving away for a while. For quite
a few months we were together but
lived apart. Why is it so hard for
him this time? He's gross,
unhygienic. Had his teeth smashed
in years ago and still hasn't had
them fixed. Bad listener. Won't
admit when he's wrong and takes
everything to heart, gets fairly
emotional. And can be a complete
pain in the rear end. BUT. He truly
does love me and will always
provide for me and he's a hard
worker and is respected in the work
place. |
25 Jan 2008 06:23
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I truly love my significant other.
But he was coddled entirely too
much by his mother, and at 53 years
old, he still cannot break away.
His mom does not know the meaning
of "tough love", or that it can
make a person better in the long
run. She still has a 38 yo son
living with her who DOES NOT work,
and treats her terribly, using her
in any way he can.
Like i said, i truly love my man,
but the weaknesses his mother
instilled in him will NEVER improve
as long as she is still offering
him "outs" to all of his
problems.
Other than that, he is artistic,
emotionally available and
(somewhat) more caring than a lot
of men i have been with.
He also needs CONSTANT reassurance,
which gets really old really fast. |
20 Jan 2008 10:17
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He's so concerned with what
others/he thinks that he doesn't
care about what i have to say/want
to do. He doesn't think about how i
feel and gets tick when i do
something that is not to his
liking. And when he messes up and i
say something he blows up at me.
There is absolutely nothing good
about him. He is so over protective
and lazy and has no commitments in
life. He lives off his parents'
money while I'm out working hard to
get what i want.
My aunt nearly broke her back and
had severe chest fractures from
walking out on some ice one day
during a snow storm. She was
isolated from emergency help to the
point where they had to walk over a
mile to get to her house and take
her to the hospital. I told him i
was so scared for her and was
feeling down. All week he pestered
me about why i was so down, not
even thinking about what happened.
And he doesn't care about anything
other than how i look. I cant go
out with my girls wearing something
cute. He makes me change into
something else that is totally
repulsive. But when I'm out with
him he |
26 Dec 2007 21:15
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He gets upset too quickly, speaks
before he thinks, short tempered,
ill-mannered at times, does things
for the benefit of himself instead
of the family, has to be asked way
too many times to do simple tasks,
pays little attention to how what
he does makes me feel, and doesn't
listen to me when I give him useful
information (comes back to haunt
him a lot of the time).
Forgot to mention that when our
6-month-old is hungry in the middle
of the night or needs anything I am
ALWAYS the one that has to get up
to do it, even when I had spent the
whole day in the ER a couple of
weeks ago and could barely move
without hurting. |
05 Oct 2007 00:32
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Sometimes cared so much for others
it was to his own detriment. I
forgot to mention his spelling
challenge, (he wasn't all that
great at it, but managed it
mostly). It never presented too
much of a problem for him, so I
don't know if you could consider
that a fault. I guess I didn't,
but sometimes he would be
frustrated by it. [Harka you're so
funny- we never had strange noises
to investigate, so I don't know
whether or not he would have asked
me to go investigate... But that
just tickled me to read that!!:)] |
02 Oct 2007 22:38
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